Romantic Personality Profile

Sun in Gemini

A fun, flirty lover

In love, you're looking for a good time. Now, that's not to say that you can't get serious; it's that you'll only get serious about someone who makes you laugh, someone who knows how to let loose and have fun. Oh, and someone who's witty and intelligent, who can stimulate your mind first and -- if they're lucky! -- your body later. You really respond to keen intelligence and a sharp sense of humor; for you, those qualities are more important than, say, a great face or figure. You get restless easily, and you not only need someone who can keep up with you -- or, better yet, who can lead the way from one adventure to the next -- you also need someone who can keep you interested long enough to get intimate! Speaking of which, emotional intimacy can be a dicey proposition for you. You tend to push people away, lightly, of course; it's all in fun, after all! People who try to get too serious too fast scare you, though you'd never show it. Instead, you just laugh, get up and walk away. The person who nabs your attention and holds it for the long term will be someone as fun-loving and whip-smart as you are, who challenges your mind.

Sun sextile Juno

Seamless integration

You rarely have trouble in romantic relationships with feeling that your individuality is threatened by your intimate bond with another person. You know how to protect yourself and your own personality even while connecting at a deep level with your sweetie, and that's a real feat -- plenty of people are commitment-phobes purely because they're scared that the other person, or the romance itself, will swallow them up! You're not afraid of this happening. You have a good grasp of yourself and who you are, but also of what you have to give to a relationship, and what you want to get out of it. Your goals in life don't become submerged when you enter a new romance with someone special; you're able to integrate the two and make them work together harmoniously. In part, this is true because one of your life's goals is to find a wonderful romance that can become a long-term, stable connection; but that's certainly not your only aim in life. You're naturally attracted to lovers who respect your choices and interests, and who will give you the space you need to push forward in life and achieve everything you want to achieve.

Mercury in Taurus

A realistic point of view

You're a practical thinker, more attuned to common sense than flights of fancy. Your down-to-earth nature also influences your decision-making, and in love, that may mean you're more realistic than romantic. Your sweetie might declare their undying devotion to you, but you'll still want to know how they plan to make a living before you're willing to pledge your own devotion in return. Money is a primary concern of yours. It's not so much that you want to have it simply to have it, but more that you're concerned with security, and financial security is right at the top of your list. You don't like to have to worry about where your next bag of groceries is going to come from, so your best life partner will be someone who has a steady, reliable income -- and who won't take advantage of your hardworking nature. You're also attracted to people who think as patiently and practically as you do. People who run off at the mouth, their ideas zinging around and bouncing off each other in a mad mess of vivid chaos, just give you a headache! You'd gladly trade in a bit of excitement for intellectual stability and reliability. You like a lover who can focus on the topic at hand, the way you do.

Mercury trine Pluto

Processing subtext

Your natural grasp of human psychology really helps in your romantic relationships, because usually, you know just where your sweetie is coming from -- no matter what they're telling you, or how distanced they might be from their own feelings or motivations. Even during an argument, you're able to keep a clear and intuitive grasp on what's really going on. You know that what's going on on the surface isn't necessarily the whole story; there's a whole world of emotion underneath that bears exploring. When you get deeply involved with someone special, they'll really appreciate this quality of yours, even if at times it overwhelms them. They might have the feeling that they can't keep anything hidden from you! On the other hand, they'll feel truly understood, thoroughly known -- sometimes uncomfortably, but usually refreshingly so. You also speak as powerfully as your mind works, so you're able to present your case well when the occasion demands it. You have a serious, sharp mind that serves you well in most areas of your life -- your work, your studies, your relationships, and your knowledge of yourself and your own mind.

Mercury conjunct Saturn

Sober-minded

You might not be the most chit-chatty date in the world. You tend toward serious thought rather than light, fun, frivolous musings. You don't tend to speak unless you have something worthy to say, and when you're getting to know someone new, that can be something of a hindrance. After all, dates are supposed to be fun! You're supposed to grin at each other and giggle, make each other laugh and blush, and have lightweight conversation that's suggestive of deeper and more decadent things. On the other hand, if you meet someone special who knows how to draw you out of your shell, then that could spell the beginning of something wonderful! Because you really are quite reserved in how you express yourself and the things you like to talk about. A part of you believes that all conversations must have a purpose; that chatting up someone cute isn't a good use of your time and energy. But dating and mating are really what make the world go 'round, when you think about it. Why not have a little fun, and unwind with someone special? No one will think less of you for cracking a smile or making a funny little joke.

Mercury sextile Venus

Naturally balanced

You're a natural at diplomacy, and in a romantic relationship, that's a real gift. You probably shy away from relationships with overly aggressive types; brash displays of temper offend you, as do qualities like selfishness and irrationality. You prefer things to be in balance -- which isn't always possible. People are imperfect beings; we lose our tempers, we flail around, trying to impress and intimidate with our loud, reckless displays. But if anyone comes close to being in balance most of the time, it's you. And you're attracted to people who are similar to you; who appreciate art and beauty and refinement as much as you do. A great date for you might be visiting an art gallery or a museum, or going for a walk around the river on a gorgeous day in spring. Anything that's beautiful and that sparks conversation or the free flow of creative thought compels you, and the same goes for romantic partners. You want someone both sweet and inspiring; someone sophisticated and eloquent. You want to be wooed with poetry and flowers. And in return, you'll bring your own romantic nature to the relationship, and your gift at creative negotiation when times get tough.

Venus in Cancer

Love: an all-or-nothing affair

In love, you're a real softie. You'll bend over backwards for your sweetie, if that's what you think they want or need. You tend to put your lover's needs and feelings first, which can mean that yours get a bit trampled on from time to time...but you figure it's all worth it in the end, because the act of loving someone, for you, is a selfless, nurturing act. Of course, when you get your feelings truly hurt by a tactless or untrustworthy lover, you won't stick around for further abuse. Emotional security is your biggest need in relationships, and if it's not being met, you'll withdraw into your little shell and nurse your wounds for as long as it takes to start feeling better. This can make others think of you as a bit moody and oversensitive, but what do they know? The only reason you get hurt so easily is that you wear your heart on your sleeve. All you ask in return for your loyalty and devotion is a little bit of the same -- a lover that you can count on, and one that you can trust. And when you find that special someone who deserves your trust, you'll throw yourself into the relationship heart and soul. For you, love is an all-or-nothing affair, and once you're in it, there's no turning back.

Venus sextile Saturn

Capable of tremendous devotion

You're capable of intense and long-lasting devotion to a lover, but you're not one to stick around when it becomes clear that a relationship just isn't going anywhere. You're serious about love, but you also know how to have fun with it -- how to let your hair down with someone cute and exciting, how to be affectionate, how to have a good time even while you're looking for the person who will be your partner through all of life's ups and downs. You're not terribly romantic about love, which is a good thing in the long run. You don't have many illusions about it; you have a firm idea of what's possible in love and what's unrealistic. As a result, to some, you may seem a little formal or reserved, especially when you're out with someone new. And you do tend to hold back a bit, at least until you get to know someone better. Trust is definitely a prerequisite for you when it comes to love and vulnerability. But once you get to know and trust someone, you'll give them your heart. You have a creative soul; make sure that, when you do settle down with someone for the long term, they appreciate and respect your creativity, and don't try to stifle it.

Venus square Juno

Retraining your experience of love

Your love affairs tend to start off well enough, but then they gradually or swiftly decline into something that's no fun for either you or your lover. Maybe the love and attraction start out strong but quickly wane into nothing or, worse, into disgust. Part of the problem is that you tend to be attracted to charmers -- people who put on a flirtatious, intriguing face when you're first getting to know them, but once they drop the facade, you find that they're much less sweet or noble or loyal than you dreamed they might be. You have real needs and yearnings in love, which only makes it more heartbreaking that you haven't found the love you crave; that every time you think you've finally found it, it changes into something that falls short of your expectations. It's likely, though, that these changes happen inside you. You associate love with difficulty, or even pain; every time you get close to real intimacy, you start to focus on everything you think you're lacking instead of on all the wonderful things you're gaining from the experience. In order to have a more fulfilling love life, you may need to retrain yourself in terms of how you experience love.

Mars in Cancer

Driven by emotion

Emotions drive you, including your actions and your physical self. You need to feel an emotional connection with someone if sex is going to enter the picture; otherwise, the experience is just too empty to make it worthwhile. When you're in a stable, committed love affair, lovemaking takes on a powerful, tender and emotional flavor. It becomes a way for you to really connect with your sweetie at a deep, intuitive level. In fact, connecting intuitively is one of your strengths. You intuit your honey's needs and desires and respond as well as you can -- sometimes, to your own detriment. There's such a thing as being a little too selfless in love, and there's also such a thing as self-martyrdom. Make sure that your protective, nurturing urges aren't just a play for someone's sympathy or dependency. But generally, this isn't your aim. You truly want to help the people you love, and as long as they're loyal in return, you'll do just about anything for them. Your sex drive may fluctuate according to your emotions, since you're so unable to separate the two; when your relationship takes a dip in this department, just trust that your passion will return as soon as your positive feelings do.

Mars trine Jupiter

A strong mind and body

Regardless of your past experiences in love -- setbacks, heartbreaks and so on -- you have everything you need to make your dreams in love come true. You have a gift that not a lot of people have: a sense of confidence that's boosted by strong personal principles. All you have to do to find the love you're looking for is realize your gift and use it in your favor. Your setbacks in love may have really set you back, in terms of inhibitions and insecurities that may hold you back from approaching that special someone. If this is the case, try to focus on the fact that you have everything you need to make wonderful things happen in your own life. Your confidence is one of your most attractive qualities, and the sooner you realize that, the sooner you can play it up with your potential honey. People like you because you're good-humored, you work hard, you have a strong mind -- and a strong physical presence, as well. Your admirers are attracted to your sensuality, which is yet another gift and strength of yours when it comes to the game of love. Your best connection will be with someone as mentally and physically vigorous as you are.

Mars square Pluto

Gaining control of your urges

Intimate relationships can be problematic for you, because love is such a fickle business, full of potential frustrations; and when you're frustrated, you can be very hard to deal with. On the plus side, you're sexually compelling to your lovers. When you see what you want, you go after it, and that kind of forceful pursuit can be very sexy. But on the minus side, when you get mad at your sweetie, you tend to resort to argumentative tactics like intimidation to get your way. Suddenly, your central concern is overpowering them -- not listening to their side of things, or trying to understand where they're coming from. Deep, competitive, angry urges well up within you from time to time, urges that you might not understand. You may slip into destructive tendencies in relationships, and not be able to stop yourself before the whole love affair is ruined beyond repair, because you feel as if you're prey to your emotions, with no control over their strength. Learning to control your more aggressive urges is one of your main challenges in life, because if you keep treating your loved ones with such anger and power plays, you'll end up pushing them away.

Mars square Uranus

Hotheaded and exciting

You're not matched by many in your passion for life and love. You're a real go-getter, and when you see something -- or someone -- that you want, you go after it with a single-minded intensity. And you get mad when you don't get what you want, whether it's a winning score, a promotion at work or that hottie you've been eyeing. Your love life is probably a string of major ups and downs, because you don't know the meaning of moderation. When you're in love, you're overflowing with it. When you're sexually attracted to someone, you don't hold back in letting them know all about it. And when your sweetie makes you angry, you don't hold back there either. If you want a relationship to last long-term and develop some stability, you'll have to teach yourself to calm down a bit, because your high energy and hotheadedness can burn out an affair prematurely. When you're out with someone new and special, rather than playing devil's advocate on every possible point and pushing your own personality on them, try listening to them calmly to get to know them for who they are. That would be a good place to start, and a good, solid foundation to build on.

Jupiter in Libra

Harmony over truth

Your romantic past may be quite long indeed, because you really don't like to be alone. You're happiest in a romantic relationship, and even more than that, you're always working at getting it just right. You have some very high ideals when it comes to love affairs; you want harmony, affection and tenderness in spades, and you'll do what it takes to create this atmosphere with your sweetie. You're a born diplomat, and you bring this skill to your personal partnerships as well as your relationships with colleagues, clients and others. But your tendency is to be conciliatory when sometimes you should really put your foot down and fight for what you believe in. But this is hard for you to do, because you really abhor conflict -- even over an important and worthy issue. You might back down in an argument with your sweetie in order to keep the peace, or always let them choose the movie you see or where to go to dinner just to give them a sense of control. As you can see, this can go overboard sometimes, especially if you're involved with someone who's difficult or domineering. You have to learn to stand up for yourself, at least on the important issues that arise.

Saturn in Taurus

Commitment is your middle name

When it comes to love, you're either serious about it or you're not in the game. Casual affairs don't come naturally to you; you're much more about steady affection and quiet, rock-solid commitment. In relationships, you serve as that rock -- you provide support for your sweetie, sometimes financial, other times just emotional. You really want them to know that you're there for them no matter what happens. And that's both your strength in love and your occasional downfall, because your natural urge to commit, to stick grimly with it through thick and thin, can mean that you stay in a relationship long past when you should have just cut and run. Furthermore, while you're so steady and committed in your heart, you often forget to reassure your sweetie of that fact, or to back it up with simple affection. For you, love is a serious matter, not a playful one -- and because of this, you could inadvertently starve your honey of the adoration that they crave. You also open yourself up to heartbreak by being so serious about things. Not everyone has the steadfastness that you do, so choose carefully when you're seeking a long-term lover.

Uranus in Libra

Commitment and independence

You can have a hard time with committed relationships. In your heart, you're singing, 'I just gotta be free' even as you're professing your love to your sweetheart. Now, your love is true; it's just the commitment thing that alarms you, and makes you want to run in the opposite direction. You're quite independent, and you might feel, deep down in your soul, that no one could ever understand or accept this about you. Finding that long-term relationship in which you can be comfortable might just be a matter of giving that special someone a chance, because freedom within a relationship probably isn't as difficult to attain as you might think. But knowing that logically is different from believing it down in your soul, so you may find yourself faced with the prospect of a committed relationship with a wonderful person that you love...and instead of feeling happy at the prospect, you're breaking out in hives at the idea that your freedom is about to be cut off like the split ends in your hair. Your best bet? Talk openly with your sweetie about your concerns. You'll probably find that they're a lot more amenable to your freedom and independence than you think they'll be.

Uranus sextile Neptune

Look out for eccentric types

When you're looking for love, keep an eye out for eccentric types with brilliant, inspiring minds -- because these are the people you'll make the best, most electric and exciting connections with. You're too bright and your dreams too big to settle for someone who doesn't understand you, or who tries to restrict your imaginative wanderings! You might need a partner in love and life who can act as a grounding influence, and someone who can give concrete expression to all your great, abstract ideas would be even better. But someone who's a stick in the mud, who acts as if you're just being silly when you're off on a fascinating tangent, isn't for you. Your best love connection will be made with someone who shares your wide-eyed enthusiasm for exploring the meaning and the inner workings of the universe; someone who appreciates the way your mind works and who encourages you to think further, deeper, weirder. Someone who draws out your inner philosopher and helps you hoist your freak flag to fly free -- now, that's the lover for you! When you find that person, the boundaries of your combined imagination and creativity will be limitless.

Neptune in Scorpio

Seeking the light

You feel things at a powerfully intense level -- your physical desires as well as your emotional or internal ones -- and you should make sure that you don't get too in touch with the dark side of love and your own psyche. You're drawn to darkness, after all, to an extent. You see the difficult parts of love, such as possessiveness, jealousy and manipulative behavior, as avenues toward learning and enlightenment, and you're right. If you travel through the darkness, you'll come out on the other side in the light...eventually. But sometimes it's easy to get stuck in the darkness. If you find yourself in an obsessive relationship that exhibits any of the above themes of darkness, you may have a really hard time ever bringing things out into the light, because you're so drawn to that sort of intensity. De-intensifying a relationship can be difficult, if not impossible! A lover with whom you shared this depth of intensity would probably be very sexually compelling, as well, because it's easy to merge sex with emotions and possessiveness and all the rest of it -- and that blend can be utterly compelling. So do yourself a favor and keep things a bit on the lighter side of life!

Neptune sextile Pluto

The transcendent experience of love

While you may get involved in a few flings, you're more able than some to transcend your bodily needs for a higher ideal. Sex just for its own sake may not hold a lot of appeal for you unless other aspects indicate it; you'd much rather connect on a physical level with someone with whom you're emotionally bonded with, because that way, the experience is so much more transcendent and important. Sex without love is basically empty, but sex can be an important growth experience when paired up with true intimacy and emotional attachment. You've always understood that, so you tend to look for relationships that really mean something to you rather than pursuing someone who just appeals to you on a physical level. Love, also, is a spiritual experience for you, one that helps you grow hugely as a human being. If you look back over your life, you'll find that your romantic affairs corresponded with periods of intense personal growth and transformation, and it will always be this way for you. So when you're getting involved with someone new, use this truth about yourself as a barometer for whether the relationship is worth pursuing. If there's more there than simple attraction, it probably is.

Pluto in Virgo

Go easy on yourself

You're quite strict with yourself when it comes to physical and mental health -- or, if you're not, deep down you wish that you were. You firmly believe in self-analysis and you hold your mind and body to strict standards of functionality. In a love affair, you can't stand it when your lover fails to exercise on a regular basis, eats too much fast food or isn't as hygienic as you'd like. These things turn you off in a big way, because they represent something that you abhor: general slothfulness and the gradual decline of the body and mind. You know that these can be avoided with constant and rigorous upkeep, but do remember that not everyone has your discipline -- including, perhaps, you. You might hold everyone to strict standards but fail to live up to them yourself. Don't be so hard on everyone all the time! Let your lover be the person they are, whatever that may be; and give yourself a break from time to time, too. It's okay to skip a workout, indulge in a high-calorie treat from time to time, or lie around in front of the TV every now and again. And if you stop subjecting your every emotional response to intense scrutiny, you can actually build the authenticity of your emotions.

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