The Romance and Passion Meters read the placement of planets on the day of your birth and reveal the levels of romance and passion you have been gifted with in this lifetime. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing or an uphill battle when it comes to matters of the heart.
Before you jump in... there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff with the Romance meter, but what you really want is balance.
Just imagine... with ONLY good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And TOO much passion can also ruin a relationship.
Without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you'd tire your lover out fast! A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then.
One more word of caution before you get started…
Remember, no relationship or person is perfect. Even with what seems like the ideal balance of romance and passion, an affair could turn out to be a total flop. It all truly boils down to our free will.
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
Your standards are high when it comes to love, and you won't fall for just anyone's charms. In fact, usually, it takes a lot to win your heart. You're rather discriminating, holding back until you're sure about whom, exactly, you're getting involved with. And again, you've got high standards. If a potential sweetie fails to live up to them, you'd rather let the relationship go than settle for less than you desire or deserve. You're attracted to refined types; someone crass or tactless would really put you on edge. You tend to be clean, punctual and loyal, and you expect those qualities in a lover. But while this may win you the reputation of being a bit exacting and critical, even rigid, once you fall in love, you give everything to the relationship and then some. Yes, you still might be a bit critical of your lover, but you hold yourself to the same standards -- and it's all in the name of seeking the perfection that means so much to you. Your challenge in love is to realize that perfection is impossible. At some point, you're going to have to settle for good enough. But you're a loyal and selfless lover, and when you're comfortable with an intimate partner, you can really relax.
You're very tactful in the way that you speak and deal with other people. In an argument with your sweetie, in fact, you operate so subtly and diplomatically that they might not even realize you're arguing! You have real skill when it comes to making other people feel heard and understood, and for this reason, you're wonderful at heading off major crises in your relationship. But sometimes, this happens at a price. You want everyone to get along so much that you're often willing to overlook or deny your own needs or opinion in favor of harmony with your honey. But you've got to draw the line somewhere, don't you? When truly important issues come up in your relationship, make sure that you speak your mind openly and firmly. After all, you're graceful enough to soften the blow, and some issues are too important to back down on. This may be a difficult lesson for you -- learning to speak your mind, even when you know your sweetie isn't going to like what you have to say, and isn't going to respond well at all -- but it's an important lesson, one that will serve you in all your relationships, not just your romantic one.
You are a dreamer and a teacher; a learner and an enthusiastic participant in the game of life. Your admirers are drawn to your openness, to the way that you talk big and think even bigger. Of course, this can also be something of a turnoff to some; you may go out on a date with someone new and catch them covertly rolling their eyes at you as you rhapsodize about something new in your life that you're excited about -- some big theory you've recently come up with, or something you're just beginning to learn about. And it's true: You do have a tendency to overstate things, to exaggerate and to speak with a certain level of bravado about your own brilliant ideas. But the world is such an interesting, multifaceted place! There are so many ideas to be explored and discussed, and if you can do so with someone special and attractive, then so much the better. Just make sure that you're not talking purely to impress your date, or yourself. A conversation is so much more satisfying and interesting, after all, if it can go two ways instead of just one. If you're talking just to hear your own voice and to put your great ideas out into the world, why bother?
You might not be the most chit-chatty date in the world. You tend toward serious thought rather than light, fun, frivolous musings. You don't tend to speak unless you have something worthy to say, and when you're getting to know someone new, that can be something of a hindrance. After all, dates are supposed to be fun! You're supposed to grin at each other and giggle, make each other laugh and blush, and have lightweight conversation that's suggestive of deeper and more decadent things. On the other hand, if you meet someone special who knows how to draw you out of your shell, then that could spell the beginning of something wonderful! Because you really are quite reserved in how you express yourself and the things you like to talk about. A part of you believes that all conversations must have a purpose; that chatting up someone cute isn't a good use of your time and energy. But dating and mating are really what make the world go 'round, when you think about it. Why not have a little fun, and unwind with someone special? No one will think less of you for cracking a smile or making a funny little joke.
Your love affairs probably begin and end in conversation. You've got a really sharp mind, and the tongue to match; you love a good debate with someone as intelligent as you are, who can serve it up as good as they get it from you. On the other hand, you do have a sense of tact, and of boundaries. When you're out on a date with someone new, you're probably not going to call them out on all the inconsistencies in their logic or other mental flaws. You'll save that for at least the third or fourth date, when you've already reeled them in with your sharp intelligence! For you, a mental connection with a lover is a requirement; without good conversation and the occasional debate, you'd grow bored really quickly. And you know how to use your own intelligence and communicative powers to get what you want with that special someone. You're very persuasive, and your admirers find themselves drawn into your influence almost without meaning to be! When you're in love, you can be a very important influence in your sweetie's life. You encourage and motivate your loved ones to live as large and as brightly as possible.
You're at your happiest and most blissful in a loving, harmonious relationship, and you're one of the world's sappiest romantics. You shower your sweetie with affection, gifts, flowers, chocolates, poems that you wrote with them in mind -- whatever they love, whatever makes them feel cherished and adored, you want to give it to them. You can actually go a bit overboard on this front, but find the right person who loves being treated like royalty, and they'll revel in your tender, thrilling care. Sometimes you may go overboard in a financial sense, because you so love treating your sweetie in the manner you believe they deserve; so it's a good thing you're all about balance and harmony, and you understand the ins and outs of credit card debt! You have a gentle manner of loving and your artistic tastes are quite refined. You can introduce your sweetie to the finer things in life, if they aren't already accustomed to them. You have a very charming, agreeable and affectionate way about you, so you'll rarely be without a lover or at least a crush. Good thing, too, because you greatly prefer being romantically involved to being alone.
You experience the heights and the depths of love and passion, and as intense as it gets -- which can include intensely uncomfortable or even heartbreaking -- you love it all. For you, love is a transformative experience. Through connecting with another soul, your own soul is changed; love brings you closer to that universal truth that you've been striving to grasp for as long as you can remember. Sex is also an incredible rush for you; you have a hard time being cavalier about physical intimacy, because it's too important to you to treat it casually. Even your flings take on significance in your life, because everything you experience in love contains a lesson for you, or opens up some new, previously undiscovered realm of human experience. Because you take love and sex so seriously and experience them so intensely, you make both the physical and the emotional experience equally intense and compelling for your sweetie. They find you as compelling as you find them. Obsession, in fact, can be a problem for you; you tend to fixate on the object of your desires, and it's hard for you to give them the space that they might require.
You're a true romantic. You have an enormous heart, and you see no reason to hold back from enthusiastically heaping love and adoration on anyone you deem deserving -- which can include your friends, your family, your date, your dog, the stray kitty down the street... You have a heart that's brimming and even overflowing with love and generosity, and your main challenge in life is figuring out what to do with it all! You're an incurable optimist as well, and you infect everyone around you with your sense of the world as a benevolent place. You're very popular and well-loved; everyone likes to be around someone as positive and generous as you are. When you're out on a date with someone special, you're likely to treat them to an excellent, lavish meal and anything else they want -- all on your tab -- because you so want them to enjoy themselves, and your company. Just remember, you don't have to buy anyone's affection. Some restraint is often in order, especially if you're lavishing your generosity on someone you don't know well, who may turn out later not to be worthy. But telling you to hold back is like telling the sun not to shine -- impossible!
You make a really sweet, accepting and forgiving partner in love. You tend to look for the good in people instead of focusing on their flaws. Sometimes you can mislead yourself as to the reality of a love affair, but in general, your emphasis on the positive is a benefit to your life and your relationships. You make your honey feel comfortable and relaxed; you really let them know that they don't have to pretend to be perfect. They know you'll still love them even if they're flawed -- which they are, of course, since everyone is. You're very sympathetic to their insecurities and other issues, and your compassion puts them at ease. You're also very creative, and you have a wonderful way of incorporating fantasy and romance into your love life. Candles and flowers enhance the romantic mood for you, as do murmured sweet nothings and soft caresses shared with your sweetie. There is a word of caution in order, however: Make sure that your honey deserves the TLC you heap all over them. You have no problem with adjusting to make room for someone else in your life, so just be sure that you're not letting yourself get walked all over.
You're a dramatic and passionate lover. You like to set the tone in the bedroom, and that tone is always hot, hot, hot! You're something of a dominant lover, but you're also incredibly generous and demonstrative. You'll cherish your sweetie for hours, as long as they give you your well-deserved props. You work really well with a somewhat naive or submissive lover, because you just adore taking the lead and showing them how it should be done. And boy, do you know how it should be done! You're passionate and yet gentle; you're ardent and yet you take your time, lingering over each sweet moment. You're very much into setting and sensual pleasures, and you like to take the time to make sure everything is in its place: the sheets are clean and sweet-smelling, the candles are lit, the music is softly playing... You're into pampering your sweetheart, and you won't say no to a little pampering yourself. Your sensuality is vital and warm, and you make a wonderful partner in the bedroom. Even a shy or insecure lover feels safe and adored under your ministrations. And when they sigh in satisfaction, this makes you feel fulfilled!
You're a very exciting lover. Your innovative mind is always dreaming up new places to go and things to do on dates, new ways to turn your sweetie on and make them feel all the thrills and shivers your own passionate soul craves. You're a true adventurer, and the more you can bring that maverick spirit into your love life, so much the better. You can't stand routine, so a relationship that falls into a steady rhythm -- dinner, movie, chitchat, cuddling, etc., etc., night after night after night -- will really get your rebellious streak going. You need things to feel new and spontaneous, and just a little bit dangerous! You might not stick with relationships for long, as many stable affairs tend to slip into a bit of a routine; and that's one of your challenges in love: to learn to ride out moments of dullness to the next bright patch of daring enthusiasm. After all, sooner or later, someone is going to be worth slogging through the mundane reality of day-to-day life to get to those high points of the relationship. And while it's great that you're so adventurous and spontaneous, at some point you may want to strike out into another type of uncharted territory -- a steady relationship.
Independence is of extreme importance to you, and you might even pride yourself on your ability to be alone. You may prefer not to be in steady relationships, because you think of them as restrictive, more trouble than they're worth, and you need your freedom. You might think that you can get everything you need out of a love affair with no strings attached -- a passionate sexual connection, occasional companionship and excitement; the rest, you believe you can provide for yourself. But if you think this way, there's a whole world that you're missing out on. Love and stability don't have to be restrictive, but it's difficult for you to experience them as comfortable, much less freeing. You might be attracted to strength, but you tend to get involved either with rigid, controlling types who react badly to your own controlling behavior, or with pushover types who let you bully them. Perhaps you've been bullied in the past, and you refuse to let that ever happen again; but whatever the reason, when you're involved with someone in a stable relationship, you start to feel itchy and react by lashing out, provoking arguments and so on. Love is rarely a smooth, comfortable experience for you.
Your romantic past may be quite long indeed, because you really don't like to be alone. You're happiest in a romantic relationship, and even more than that, you're always working at getting it just right. You have some very high ideals when it comes to love affairs; you want harmony, affection and tenderness in spades, and you'll do what it takes to create this atmosphere with your sweetie. You're a born diplomat, and you bring this skill to your personal partnerships as well as your relationships with colleagues, clients and others. But your tendency is to be conciliatory when sometimes you should really put your foot down and fight for what you believe in. But this is hard for you to do, because you really abhor conflict -- even over an important and worthy issue. You might back down in an argument with your sweetie in order to keep the peace, or always let them choose the movie you see or where to go to dinner just to give them a sense of control. As you can see, this can go overboard sometimes, especially if you're involved with someone who's difficult or domineering. You have to learn to stand up for yourself, at least on the important issues that arise.
You're serious about how you organize and lead your life, and that includes love. Sometimes it may feel like you don't have enough time for anything so frivolous as a relationship, because you're such a hard worker. But when it's time for you to bring love into your life, you'll work just as hard at that, and find just as satisfying results. You're quite knowledgeable, a natural leader, and you prize learning and the expansion of both your mind and your soul. You work best in a relationship with someone as serious and as hungry as you are; someone who will appreciate your stores of knowledge and your talents, and who can add their own good ideas to the table. You have a lot of responsibilities -- work, family and so on -- that are important to you, so it's essential, when you're looking for long-term love, that you find a partner who respects your time and your duties. But then, you know yourself pretty well by now, and you know what you want in life. You probably wouldn't get involved with someone whose frivolous outlook didn't match up with your more serious one; and if you did, you're pragmatic enough to leave a relationship when it isn't working anymore.
Love and commitment are important to you in romance, and cooperation is a central theme of your life and your relationships -- whether that's in a good way or a not-so-good way. Ideally, you'll work hard to keep the peace with your sweetie. Working side-by-side on projects at the office or at home as a harmonious team would be your ideal setup in love, because partnership and dedication are so central to your happiness in a relationship. You love it when you're involved with someone who can understand you well enough to help you bounce ideas around and find direction in your pursuits. But it's possible that you keep getting involved with people who don't understand you well, or at least, you feel like they don't. It may be more accurate to say that you find it hard to cooperate, which brings us to the not-so-good possibilities for this placement. Compromise and patience are skills to be learned and implemented in any relationship, not just romantic ones, and while you're naturally quite tactful, you can have trouble with loosening up. You tend to be a bit competitive, and with your sweetie, you just don't need to be.
As odd or counterintuitive as it may sound, your intense sexuality could be the undoing of your relationship. But you have deep, strong desires, and you're not one to repress them. When they take hold of you, you want to act on them -- even if you have to do so in a secretive way. And sometimes, acting on your desires, especially secretively, may not be in the best interest of your blossoming or committed love affair. On the other hand, you're very sexually compelling to your lover. You have an innovative mind about new positions to try and new feelings to explore; you like nothing more than to get down and dirty with another person, and find out what it truly is to be human! But this urge to explore 'the dark side' and plumb the depths of your psyche via sexual encounters that lay your soul bare...well, it can get a little too intense at times, for your sweetheart and even for you. On the other hand, intensity, even the disturbing kind, is what you live for, and your strong will can get you through even the darkest moments. And you'll almost certainly come out on the other side with greater self-knowledge of your own truth.
You have a strongly intuitive side, but you often misread your inner compass, and if you act according to your instincts, you might find yourself moving in the entirely wrong direction. When it comes to your instincts, you tend to miss the trees in favor of the forest. That means your 'inner eye' isn't attuned to the important little details, or the subtle variations of whatever feeling you're getting. In a romance, for example, you could get a strong sense that things are off with your partner -- but you'll ignore the specifics about your feeling and end up drawing the totally wrong conclusion about what's going on with your sweetie and why. You're seeking the truth, though, and that's the very reason why you so often misread your own signals -- because the truth is such a broadly varied and changeable concept. And it's wonderful that you shoot for the stars in your quest for the truth. But you should always incorporate all your senses, not just your sixth one. Rely on the combination of your inner feelings plus the facts as you can see and understand them, and you'll steer yourself along a straighter track.
While you may get involved in a few flings, you're more able than some to transcend your bodily needs for a higher ideal. Sex just for its own sake may not hold a lot of appeal for you unless other aspects indicate it; you'd much rather connect on a physical level with someone with whom you're emotionally bonded with, because that way, the experience is so much more transcendent and important. Sex without love is basically empty, but sex can be an important growth experience when paired up with true intimacy and emotional attachment. You've always understood that, so you tend to look for relationships that really mean something to you rather than pursuing someone who just appeals to you on a physical level. Love, also, is a spiritual experience for you, one that helps you grow hugely as a human being. If you look back over your life, you'll find that your romantic affairs corresponded with periods of intense personal growth and transformation, and it will always be this way for you. So when you're getting involved with someone new, use this truth about yourself as a barometer for whether the relationship is worth pursuing. If there's more there than simple attraction, it probably is.
Love affairs have always been intense for you, because that is one arena that really lets you progress and transform yourself as a person. While other people might do their best internal work on their own, you're all about relationships and the lessons you can glean through being intimately involved with someone. Of course, 'relationship' can also mean the one you share with your therapist; that would be another wonderful way for you to connect more deeply with yourself and grow to understand and nurture yourself. But love affairs for you tend to be intense and symbiotic, and you rarely come out of them unchanged. A harmonious balance between you and your sweetie is one of your highest ideals, and you're willing to go to great lengths to bring that ideal into reality. You'll work hard on a relationship that's important to you, and you can be very introspective in your quest to make the bond the best that it can be. Just remember not to be too hard on yourself -- you're allowed at least a few flaws and idiosyncrasies! -- and not to subvert your own needs and desires in favor of maintaining harmony. With some effort, you should be able to have both.
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