Romantic Personality Profile

Sun in Pisces

An intuitive lover

You have the soul of a poet; you're a dreamer, and you give new meaning to the concept of romance. You're a feeler much more than a thinker, and in love, you bond at a deep, emotional level with your sweetie. You're incredibly idealistic about love, human nature and the world in general, which can get you into trouble from time to time, whenever reality intrudes through your sweet, rose-colored haze and dispels your pretty dreams and illusions! Clearly, this can be a bit disillusioning or even heartbreaking at times; good thing, then, that you're so good at conjuring your fantasies and living at length in that world. You tend to nurture your lovers emotionally; in fact, you might even have a bit of a savior complex. You're continually drawn to 'broken wing' types, people with wounded souls that call out to you and play on your nurturing instincts. Watch out that you don't get romantically involved with a lover purely out of an urge to nurture and heal them. The deeper the hurt goes, the less likely it is that you can have a positive, lasting effect on your psyche, and you have to guard against letting your own emotional resources be drained completely.

Sun trine Saturn

Applying yourself

Commitment comes naturally to you. You're not the type of person who thinks that true love is something mystical and magical that just happens to you in a moment of blind luck, and never needs any maintenance or upkeep thereafter. You recognize that partnership, even with a lover, is a serious business, one that takes work and effort and consideration. You don't enter into a commitment lightly, and once you do enter one, you take it seriously. For this reason, you're made for a long-term relationship. In fact, you may go through a series of long-term love affairs before you find the one that stands the true test of time. Just as you don't enter a relationship lightly, you don't break up lightly; you'll put in the effort necessary to make things work out with your sweetie. But you're practical and levelheaded enough to know not to force it if things just aren't working out. Because you're so stable and levelheaded, you serve as the rock in your love affairs. You probably don't suffer from a 'savior fantasy,' but you do like the feeling of being there for your lover, helping them out in any way that they need and making sure that your bond is strong.

Sun square Mars

Try to be patient

You've been a bundle of energy all your life, a motivated person who goes after what they want with drive and intensity. Those qualities can be really useful when it comes to winning a game or getting ahead in your career, but in love, a softer touch is needed. Even though you want to make a solid love connection with someone, your dates might tend to find you rather selfish, aggressive or argumentative -- qualities that can turn someone off before they take the time to get to know you better and learn about your more attractive traits. The problem is, without even realizing it, you tend to have a me-first attitude; put together with a rather thin skin, that can spell dating disaster. You tend to take things personally, and your natural response is to lash out -- a common response to having your feelings hurt, but not the most constructive one possible. It's frustrating to feel like someone or something is standing in the way of getting what you want, but a 'when in doubt, shove' approach to love just doesn't work. Don't try to force a connection; instead, try to be patient and see what develops naturally with that special someone.

Sun square Neptune

Addicted to love

All your life, you've yearned for something outside the bounds of normal life; you've wanted to see, do and feel extraordinary things. That's a worthy pursuit, but it can get you into trouble sometimes. You're attracted to people who make you feel like you're living close to the edge. You might hook up with a lover who isn't good for you, because the mystery of being involved with them is so exciting. Ups and downs in romance hurt you as much as anyone else, and possibly more -- you're very sensitive -- but in some ways, you crave that roller coaster ride, because it gets your blood moving. At base, this is an escapist urge -- wanting to escape the humdrum reality of everyday life with some drama, some mystery, even some uncertainty. But if you're always involved with unstable people and elusive affairs, you won't have much of a sense of stability. You may delude yourself for a long time before finally accepting that your relationship isn't good for you. On the other hand, this influence might ultimately be a good thing, because it forces you to develop a sense of strength and identity within yourself, one that won't be altered or damaged by a wild love affair or confusion about where you should go next in your life.

Mercury in Pisces

An emotional thinker

You're highly intuitive, and when things are off with your sweetie, you know it -- you can just feel it, down in your bones, even if things appear normal on the surface. But that same intuitive perception can lead to difficulty in intense discussions or arguments with your sweetie, because you're a very emotional thinker. Your perceptions of what's really going on are highly colored by your feelings in the moment, and adding to that, you have a hard time with conflict. You're rather idealistic in the way that you look at love and relationships; you just wish you and your honey could live in a sweetly romantic fantasy land, where arguments never happen. But that's not possible, of course, and discussions between you can devolve quickly into chaotic messes that seem to cut at your very soul. Everything your lover says gets blown up in your imagination into something bigger, scarier and completely different from what they actually said. For this reason, you need a lover whom you can trust, who is able to explain things to you in a firm but gentle way that can bring you back down to earth. If you pick a person as emotional as you are, things could get really confusing for both of you, and fast.

Mercury conjunct Venus

Natural charm

Your ideal date probably includes excellent food and drink, luxurious surroundings and wonderful, flowing conversation with someone very special and attractive. You're attuned to the beautiful side of life -- the harmonious, the grand, the enchanting. You know how to charm your admirers naturally, just by being yourself. You can carry almost any conversation, even an awkward one with someone who's a lot more inhibited than you are; in fact, you're great at drawing people out of their shell. For all these reasons, you're a natural when it comes to hosting dinner or cocktail parties, gallery events, weddings -- anything that's designed to bring people together, to get them talking and eating and drinking and generally making merry. You probably have a lot of admirers, because your charms are so immediately apparent; maybe your only issue in the game of love is there are too many contestants to choose from! For you, the ideal partner is someone who appreciates beauty and art as much as you do, and who is as kind and charming as you are. You don't like confrontations, or rude, brash people. Your true love will be sweet, calm and refined.

Mercury trine Mars

Silver-tongued

You're not one to let a lover walk all over you. You do have a sense of tact, and of the importance of each person having their say. But you also know how to speak up and stand your ground when you need to. A mental connection with your sweetie is practically a requirement for you in the game of love; you have to feel heard and understood by that special someone, or the bloom of romance just won't seem as sweet. In an argument, you won't come across as abrasive or aggressive unless you mean to. After all, aggression has its time and place; but you're more likely to use your crafty intelligence to talk your opponent -- oops, that is, your lover! -- into a corner. You know that words can be the most powerful weapon there is, and you've honed yours to perfection. You also know how to use those words to great effect in tender moments: telling your sweetie just how you feel about them, and how they make you feel; murmuring sweet somethings in their ear as you let them know just how much they mean to you. Remember to put as much energy in the sweeter side of communication as you do into your debates and posing your opinions to the world.

Mercury trine Uranus

Pioneer in love

Pay attention to your intuitions when getting to know someone new, because your unusual powers of insight will help you figure out whether that special someone is really all that special after all. That intuition is just one part of a unique mind, one that wows all your admirers. You really don't think about life or view the world in the same way that other people do; you go about things in your own way, and you like it like that. Anyone you fall in love with is going to be at least somewhat independent and freethinking themselves, because you can't stand spending too much time with a stick in the mud who can't break out of the bounds of what society has dictated as being 'normal' or 'acceptable.' For that reason, your love life will probably take some odd and interesting twists and turns before settling into any kind of groove, and once you do settle down, it will certainly be on your own terms. A great date for you won't just stop at cocktails, dinner and light getting-to-know-you chitchat; even if it's in conversation only, you'll roam far and wide with your potential sweetie, touching on strange and wonderful subjects that excite you both and make you look forward to more.

Mercury opposite Juno

Learning to communicate

You have a hard time listening to your lover, especially during an argument. It becomes much more important for you to get out whatever it is that you're trying to say (or yell), and as a result, listening to your honey's side of things just flies out the window. You tend to get very irrational during arguments with people you love, because of a deep-rooted, overwhelming fear of not being heard or understood. But the ironic thing is, you end up failing to hear and understand your lover, because you're so busy trying to get your own point across. You may even have trouble getting your message out because your tongue gets all tied up when you're worked up; you have a hard time expressing your thoughts and feelings, and your frustration only makes it worse. As a result, you may go through relationships that you wish could be more intimate, but you don't know how to verbalize your needs and communicate them to your partner. And since you're not great at hearing their needs and responding to them, the relationship may be doomed unless you can learn how to listen as well as how to express yourself.

Mercury sextile Jupiter

A good dinner date

Communication is one of your greatest strengths. You know how to talk to strangers as well as the people you know and love best, which makes those awkward first dates at least a little less tense! A mental connection with a potential sweetie is something of a prerequisite of yours when it comes to romance, but you're not one to talk down to someone or ridicule them if you think they're not as smart or well-informed as you are. And, hey -- being as well-informed as you are is a tall order! You're highly philosophical, and you back your ideas up with learning. You're constantly pushing outward with your mind and taking in anything and everything that you can. You may be attracted to people from another culture or who speak a different language than you, because those barriers are more interesting than inhibitive to you. You have less trouble than most in communicating with someone about subjects that are completely unfamiliar to you. Your future sweetie will really appreciate this quality of yours, because you have a rare and unique ability to make another person feel not only heard, but understood.

Venus in Aquarius

Friendship first

For you, friendship comes before love, and often it lasts long after the romance fades. A meeting of the minds is also important for you to have with a lover; someone whose outlook didn't excite and challenge you probably wouldn't claim your heart. Your own outlook regarding love tends to be progressive and nontraditional, so much that you're more open than other people to unusual relationship structures: Long-distance affairs don't bother you, and you might even be amenable to an open relationship, or a relationship that was on-again, off-again for an extended period of months or years. Part of the reason why you're open to these unusual structures, however, is that you tend to be a bit on the cool side, emotionally. Dramatic emotional displays might scare or annoy you, even intense declarations of devotion. You're just not that comfortable with intense intimacy. On the other hand, you're not flighty; when you're involved and committed, you're as loyal as the day is long. You might confuse your lovers from time to time with your unique blend of friendliness and detachment, commitment and independence; but that's just the unusual way that you are!

Venus trine Mars

Warm, social and popular

You're a warm and social person, popular and well-liked, and relationships generally come easily to you. You know how to treat people well, how to make them feel special and well cared for. Your social skills are smooth and romantic; you can meet someone at a crowded party and make them feel like they're the only other person in the room! You're a master at the art of relationship, and of love. You're rarely single, purely because you have so many admirers who are constantly calling you up, sending you emails, asking you out... You get along well with your lovers and rarely hit a bump in the relationship, since you tend to see their good qualities and ignore their flaws. Your lovers are able to relax and unwind with you, because they don't feel negatively judged; they know you'll accept them with warm and open arms. The only thing to watch out for with this aspect is that you don't just fall into relationships by default. You're so easygoing and friendly that everyone wants to get to know you, and your most aggressive admirer may be the lucky one who ends up with you -- even if you might have preferred someone else.

Venus sextile Jupiter

A favorite among your friends and admirers

You're outgoing, generous and sympathetic, a favorite among your friends and admirers. You always seem to know just what to say, and when; you have an innate sense of how to make someone feel better just when they need a little boost. Your optimism and generosity are infectious, and you know how to brighten the day of almost anyone you come into contact with. For you, a love affair is an opportunity to grow, to learn, to change in a positive way. Even your relationships that have ended were a welcome learning experience for you. You understand that the more you love, the more love comes into your life; that's an important equation, and one that many people seem to miss out on. But you're never miserly with your emotions. You're able to give your friends great advice and support when their relationships end, too, because you have such a philosophical and optimistic view of the human heart. You know that the experience of love enriches you, even if it changes, fizzles or ends badly. When you find a love that lasts, you'll do a lot to keep the relationship running smoothly and happily, and always forward.

Mars in Gemini

Creative fun in the bedroom

Your energy comes and goes, and that includes your sex drive. In the game of love, if you set your sights on someone special, you'll pursue them in a big way -- at least, until your interests suddenly wane, or shift over to someone new. It's not exactly that you can't make up your mind; it's that you don't have a great deal of persistence, and you're attracted to so many different types of people that if it doesn't happen with one person, you'd just as soon move on to someone else. When you're in a long-term relationship, it might be up to your partner to keep your sex life grounded and steady. If it were left up to you, you'd make lots of love for a week or two, but then forget all about it for a while as you diverted your energies elsewhere. On the other hand, a creative and innovative lover can definitely hold your attention long-term. You like a good dose of playful fun in the bedroom, including kinky little games -- especially ones that involve talking dirty! The same old thing over and over again tends to lose interest for you, and you're not much for slow, sensuous, emotional lovemaking. You prefer it when it's fast, fun and on the surprising side.

Mars sextile Jupiter

Seeking a mind-body connection

Your natural self-confidence is one of your greatest assets in the game of love. You have the feeling that whatever you desire, you can make it happen; and most of the time, you're exactly right. You're appealing to your admirers because of your energy, your good humor and your exuberance. You're compelling to them, like a bright light is to a moth; they want to go bask in your glow! You'll make the best love connection with someone whom you're both physically and intellectually attracted to. If both of those components aren't in place, the relationship will probably fizzle fast, because you have both a strong sex drive and perhaps an even stronger mind. You need to exercise both regularly, and the best way to do that is to let your mind lead your body. In other words, don't get physically involved until you know you've got something to talk about when your pulse rate slows down again! If you can find this kind of partner and settle in for the long haul, you'll find that your love affair is an incredible growth experience. Any life experience that requires you to learn, to expand your mind, to stretch your boundaries, will be a positive one for you.

Jupiter in Aries

Overflowing with energy

You talk about your opinions as freely and impulsively as you give out gifts and favors -- and these qualities both endear you to your honey and, on occasion, annoy them. For one thing, you often dominate the conversation. On a date, even with someone brand-new, you talk a mile a minute and might not notice that your potential sweetie is sitting there, growing annoyed with the fact that they can't get a word in edgewise. Furthermore, you're pretty darn sure of yourself and your opinions, aren't you? Often you stick to your ideas like glue, even if you have no concrete evidence to found them upon. On the more positive side, you're incredibly generous with people. No sooner does the idea of a gift or treat for someone you love come into your head than you're already showering them with it. You're really indulgent, and can sometimes smother the one you love. But this impulsive effusiveness is just part of who you are, and when you find your true match in love, they'll put up with the downside and appreciate the upside. And you will find your match, because you're nothing if not great at recognizing opportunities in the game of love and jumping on them!

Jupiter square Saturn

Sabotaging yourself in love

You have a hard time with commitment, whether it's to yourself, to your goals or to a lover. Somewhere inside you, pretty close to the surface, you have the feeling that rules are made to be broken, and you do so any chance you get. You have a devil-may-care attitude about seriousness, authority and living up to anyone's standards but your own. But deeper beneath that attitude, at its source, lies fear -- fear of commitment, of applying yourself to a relationship or devoting yourself even to someone you love. What if it all falls through? What if you put forth your best effort, and you still fail? That's a pretty scary thought, so you generally try to avoid thinking about it at all -- and you avoid serious commitments and responsibilities. In a love affair, when your honey sets the bar high, you purposely fall short of it, just to flaunt the fact that you don't care; but deep down, you really do. This kind of behavior and outlook is stunting your growth as a human being, as long as you refuse to grow up and mature. In relationships, you're inconsistent at best; learning to settle down and treat your sweetie with respect will be a long and probably difficult process.

Saturn in Cancer

Break down that wall

You are highly protective of your home and everyone in it, so when you're in a long-term, committed relationship, you feel as if you'd do anything for your sweetie, especially if you live together. Though you're deeply committed to and invested in the relationship, however, you may have a hard time showing your truest, most tender feelings of love, because just as you protect your loved ones fiercely, you also protect your own emotions in the same way. You've been hurt in the past, and that has caused you to build a wall around your heart, one that you let crumble only around the people you know and love best. This can be frustrating at times for your lover; if you refuse to let them in, does that mean you don't love or trust them enough? It has a lot more to do with you than with them, but that's still an issue that could come between you from time to time. You don't like taking unnecessary risks, but when it comes down to the wire, you will -- for the sake of something truly important, like your relationship. One thing to work on in the meantime, though, is loosening up about your feelings. Your sweetie wants to know that they delight and amaze you.

Uranus in Scorpio

Intensely sexual

As odd or counterintuitive as it may sound, your intense sexuality could be the undoing of your relationship. But you have deep, strong desires, and you're not one to repress them. When they take hold of you, you want to act on them -- even if you have to do so in a secretive way. And sometimes, acting on your desires, especially secretively, may not be in the best interest of your blossoming or committed love affair. On the other hand, you're very sexually compelling to your lover. You have an innovative mind about new positions to try and new feelings to explore; you like nothing more than to get down and dirty with another person, and find out what it truly is to be human! But this urge to explore 'the dark side' and plumb the depths of your psyche via sexual encounters that lay your soul bare...well, it can get a little too intense at times, for your sweetheart and even for you. On the other hand, intensity, even the disturbing kind, is what you live for, and your strong will can get you through even the darkest moments. And you'll almost certainly come out on the other side with greater self-knowledge of your own truth.

Uranus sextile Juno

Your very own drummer

You're all about freedom in your relationships, including your intimate, long-term love affairs -- in a wonderful way. You're not the type that suffers from grass-is-greener syndrome, jumping up and running off anytime a relationship starts to seem stable and committed. That's basic commitment-phobia, and probably isn't one of your issues. Quite to the contrary, you're able to make that commitment, but you make it on your own terms instead of according to what you think you 'should' do. You're not scared of falling for someone who's unusual, or of forming a unique kind of bond or living a unique lifestyle with your honey. In fact, you prefer it! When it comes to love and partnership, you're a real original. If you end up getting married, having kids and 'settling down,' it will definitely be because you want to, and not because your parents, your culture or anything or anyone else pushes you into it. For this reason, your long-term love affairs will be one-of-a-kind, and you'll be drawn your whole life to interesting and unusual types that dance to the beat of their own drummer -- just the way that you do.

Neptune in Sagittarius

Strong intuitions

You have a strongly intuitive side, but you often misread your inner compass, and if you act according to your instincts, you might find yourself moving in the entirely wrong direction. When it comes to your instincts, you tend to miss the trees in favor of the forest. That means your 'inner eye' isn't attuned to the important little details, or the subtle variations of whatever feeling you're getting. In a romance, for example, you could get a strong sense that things are off with your partner -- but you'll ignore the specifics about your feeling and end up drawing the totally wrong conclusion about what's going on with your sweetie and why. You're seeking the truth, though, and that's the very reason why you so often misread your own signals -- because the truth is such a broadly varied and changeable concept. And it's wonderful that you shoot for the stars in your quest for the truth. But you should always incorporate all your senses, not just your sixth one. Rely on the combination of your inner feelings plus the facts as you can see and understand them, and you'll steer yourself along a straighter track.

Neptune sextile Pluto

The transcendent experience of love

While you may get involved in a few flings, you're more able than some to transcend your bodily needs for a higher ideal. Sex just for its own sake may not hold a lot of appeal for you unless other aspects indicate it; you'd much rather connect on a physical level with someone with whom you're emotionally bonded with, because that way, the experience is so much more transcendent and important. Sex without love is basically empty, but sex can be an important growth experience when paired up with true intimacy and emotional attachment. You've always understood that, so you tend to look for relationships that really mean something to you rather than pursuing someone who just appeals to you on a physical level. Love, also, is a spiritual experience for you, one that helps you grow hugely as a human being. If you look back over your life, you'll find that your romantic affairs corresponded with periods of intense personal growth and transformation, and it will always be this way for you. So when you're getting involved with someone new, use this truth about yourself as a barometer for whether the relationship is worth pursuing. If there's more there than simple attraction, it probably is.

Neptune square Juno

Time to wake up

You're a spiritual and compassionate person, but you may take those qualities a bit too far in your romantic attachments. For you, simple compassion or empathy can turn into a savior fantasy; you might enmesh your life with that of someone who doesn't deserve your time and energy, but you'll throw yourself into trying to save them anyway, convincing yourself that it's worth it -- all the pain and emotional starvation you go through are worth it in the end. This is a form of self-martyrdom, you know. Is that really what you want -- to be a martyr in love? It's wonderful to be selfless, but you should give that gift only to people who deserve it. A good rule of thumb is to put into a relationship only what you get out of it, and no more. If your sweetie can't be as selfless and nurturing for you as you are for them, then perhaps they're not the right partner for you. After all, your tender and loving soul deserves some compassion, too. They're not the only one that needs saving; we all do from time to time. It's time to stop deluding yourself about the state of your love life, and start seeking a partner who can give back as much as they get out of being intimate with you.

Pluto in Libra

Personal growth through relationship

Love affairs have always been intense for you, because that is one arena that really lets you progress and transform yourself as a person. While other people might do their best internal work on their own, you're all about relationships and the lessons you can glean through being intimately involved with someone. Of course, 'relationship' can also mean the one you share with your therapist; that would be another wonderful way for you to connect more deeply with yourself and grow to understand and nurture yourself. But love affairs for you tend to be intense and symbiotic, and you rarely come out of them unchanged. A harmonious balance between you and your sweetie is one of your highest ideals, and you're willing to go to great lengths to bring that ideal into reality. You'll work hard on a relationship that's important to you, and you can be very introspective in your quest to make the bond the best that it can be. Just remember not to be too hard on yourself -- you're allowed at least a few flaws and idiosyncrasies! -- and not to subvert your own needs and desires in favor of maintaining harmony. With some effort, you should be able to have both.

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