Romantic Compatibility Guide

Mars trine Sun

Creative passion

Your bond is a passionate, positive and enthusiastic one for both of you! When you're together, you feel confident and excited, and you sense that your individual energies are heightened and focused by the relationship between you. You have had a strong physical bond from the start -- you're highly attracted, even hungry for each other -- but this high energy may not stay within the bonds of a traditional romantic connection. Big ideas abound between you, and together you have a highly increased level of problem-solving ability. Because your combined energies are so creative and directed, you actually make great partners in business as well as in love. You find that you're even better suited as business partners than as lovers, because you motivate and inspire one another to such new heights. Alternatively, you find projects to work on as a team within the romantic relationship -- like raising kids or pets, refinishing furniture for your house or planning out and planting a garden together. However the relationship turns out, you can both expect to be wowed by the projects you and your lover tackle together. Anything physical and active is the name of the game! Playing sports together or traveling -- especially active vacations, like hiking through the mountains or camping out -- are also great ways to focus the abundance of energy that exists between you. Just don't sell yourselves short -- your connection is meant for creative action. In a relationship together, you should find a project and begin it.

Mars trine Mercury

Passionate conversations

Getting to know each other was easy. Your conversations flowed from the beginning. The connection between you and your lover is witty and flirtatious, and spurs you to discuss subjects that you had never dared to broach before! You encourage your lover to be adventurous in their thinking and their self-expression. You egg them on, urging for more. If you end up working together or launching a creative project, this aspect helps tremendously in the spontaneous production of great ideas! It also helps you resolve any disagreements that may come up quickly and easily. Your creativity is stimulated when you're together, and you come up with all kinds of great ideas when you get together. If your lover is normally a quiet type, they can expect to be drawn out through their interaction with you. You share plenty of interests in common, and even the things you disagree on are interesting to both of you -- if only to have a friendly debate about them! This aspect also stimulates your sexual connection, making a strong bridge between the mental and the physical. You could get into some pretty amazing stuff together...so have fun!

Saturn trine Venus

A sense of values

With this aspect, you aren't necessarily the most affectionate couple around, at least not openly so -- but a strong bond has been forged between you that lends itself to the long-term. Though you certainly have a social life that you enjoy together, you also influence each other both on a personal level and in your work and daily lives. Your blend of seriousness, creativity and practicality makes problem-solving one of your fortes as a couple. Any issue that comes up between you, whether it's a personal matter or something that exists outside your relationship, is dealt with in an innovative and yet practical way. You're down to earth together, but you also encourage each other to run with your best, most creative ideas. You budget your time and resources well, because you both have a good grasp of what's of value to you, as individuals and as a couple. If you end up working together on a project or business enterprise, you help each other focus on what needs to happen to get the job done well. You focus on your responsibilities, both those that come with the relationship -- your commitment, for example -- and those that arise outside your union. You expect a lot of each other and of yourselves, and you strive to meet those expectations. In many areas of your lives, you encourage each other to be the best people and partners you can be.

Jupiter trine Mars

Complementary strengths

You love being together, no matter what you're doing -- whether you're talking and laughing, taking a walk, seeing a movie or whatnot, you have a great time. However you spend your time as a couple, you both enjoy yourselves immensely. You tend toward activity together more than being sedentary; instead of spending a lazy Saturday morning in bed, you more likely go out on a hike or work in the garden together, and talk about everything under the sun while you're at it. Whatever you do, you do it as a team. This aspect encourages feelings of togetherness, of being on the same side. If one of you is feeling down or pessimistic, you only have to be around your partner for a few minutes before you start to perk up again. You reveal the pleasurable, positive, optimistic side of life to your partner, and you blend your individual talents to become a formidable team. Whenever a challenge comes up, your lover provides the energy and enthusiasm for meeting it head-on, and you come up with the strategy -- and you're off! This aspect really affects all areas of your relationship and your lives, because it stimulates your sexual connection, your good times and good feelings, and your ambitions as related to career, schooling and everything else you want to do or accomplish.

Venus trine Uranus

Art is love, love is art

This aspect fosters a feeling of uniqueness and originality in your relationship. You don't want to be like everyone else; you want to be your own, brand-new kind of couple, and you two can make that happen by following wherever your moods take you! This is a highly creative and social relationship; you have a lot of fun exploring the world together. You feel like you've never known anyone like this before, but it would be more accurate to say no one has ever made you feel this way before. The relationship you create together is highly original, a work of art in itself. No cliched trappings of romance for you two; instead of roses, your partner might give you birds of paradise. Instead of chocolates, they could send you tickets to see a troupe of Chinese acrobats perform -- or they might take you to a class where you can learn to perform the contortions and balancing acts yourself. Every time you go out together, it's something different, something unusual that you may have never done before. You also go out a lot in groups, and you two can get up to a lot of mischief and fun that way. Strange and great things happen when you're together, things you don't expect that will make great stories for years to come. Your presence in each other's lives has no doubt sparked things up for both of you, and your romance will maintain a feeling of freshness until the end.

Saturn trine Uranus

A creative approach

Two such opposite people shouldn't get along as well as you two do! But you do get along. In fact, each of you derives a lot of benefits from the other's way of doing things. If there's any tension generated by your differences, it's most likely a creative tension that actually furthers your purposes. Your partner brings their spontaneous, high-flying creativity to the table and you bring your sensible, levelheaded approach to any problem, and then you two blend your strengths into one. Your partner is actually a really good influence on you in this regard; you tend to get a little too worked up at times about security and making plans, but they're able to jostle you out of this rigidity with their spontaneity and enthusiasm for life. They show you that it's okay to take risks from time to time. In return, you ground their sometimes off-the-wall ideas. You help them to see what's a good, calculated risk and what's just way too risky.

Saturn sextile Jupiter

Creative hard work

This influence is wonderful for a long-term relationship, because it really highlights two people's ability to work together toward a common goal. What is your goal as a couple? This could shift a great deal from one phase of your lives and relationship to the next. As a couple, your problem-solving strengths are as useful in resolving an argument as they are in taking on a huge project together, which is what makes this such an excellent long-term influence. You could end up launching a major project together -- a business, a home renovation, even raising children or pets -- and whatever it is that you decide to do, you have a natural gift for it. You combine your partner's creative ideas with your practical knowledge; your ability to work long and hard with their intellectual ideas and vision of the future to make that hard work mean something. You come to each other for great advice and support. This aspect supports a deep and abiding feeling of friendship and trust between you that helps you work together well and communicate on a deep level. It makes you serious together, but in a good way -- a way that you both want. After all, the best relationships are a blend of work and play, and this aspect helps you find that balance. You focus together on your goals, and blending your best qualities, you're sure to find success in whatever you might undertake.

Saturn sextile Saturn

Eyes on the prize

You're a highly goal-oriented couple. You work well as a team, and you help each other accomplish whatever you set your minds to, as individuals or as a couple. Whether it's on an emotional or financial level, you both want the same level of security and you have the same idea about how to make it happen. You have very similar ideas of how to be a disciplined and responsible human being, and you cooperate with each other very well -- which makes you wonderful business partners as well as romantic ones! The level of open communication between you helps you to stay informed and mutually supportive. So, you work hard together, keeping your eyes on the prize, and best of all, you get to enjoy the fruits of all that honest labor together. This aspect shouldn't make you overly goal-oriented; it should just add the right amount of energy to allow you to work well and hard, and make real progress in your lives. If your relationship is a long-term bond it's greatly enhanced by this aspect. If either of you is feeling insecure or anxious at any point, you're able to rely on your communicative bond to move through any problems together. This is a very durable influence that makes your bond similarly strong.

No Relationship Glue

Conjunctions between two people create a feeling of togetherness. Think of this planetary aspect as a powerful point of connection: For better or worse, the couple who has at least one or two conjunctions between them feels bonded, as if they've found a kindred spirit -- even if that bond is through a personality quirk that they don't even like about themselves! But you two don't have any conjunctions between you at all, positive or negative ones. In real terms, while you might get along like a house afire, at the end of the day, there's not a whole lot that's pulling you together. Sometimes you might even question why you're together at all; it's easy for both of you to forget the source of your attraction or the importance of your bond. That means you'll both have to work a little harder at reaffirming your connection, regularly reminding each other and yourselves why you're a couple. On a more positive note, having no conjunctions can mean that you won't hold each other back from taking the paths you want to take in life. You can let each other be who you are, without placing unreasonable demands on each other out of a sense of need or obligation.

Venus opposite Mars

Sexual understanding

For both of you, this relationship is an important experience in terms of your sexuality, your sexual needs and your perception of what it means to be in a sexual relationship. You both have something to learn about yourselves, your attitudes and your rhythms. You haven't always been completely comfortable with your sexuality, and this relationship presented you with the opportunity to learn about yourself in that area and grow as a human being. This is likely a strongly passionate relationship that revolves around your sexual connection. In any case, you're strongly physically attracted to each other, and your partner encourages you to be your wildest, most forward sensual self! You can really learn to express yourself and your desires through this connection, and you likely try things you've never tried before. You've probably found that each of you take on a role in your intimate moments -- you are the more emotional partner, the one who reminds you both to take it slow and revel in the feelings that overwhelm both of you; and your lover is the exciting, impulsive partner who reminds you both to follow where the mood takes you. What a combination! You have a lot to learn from each other, and though opposite in style, you complement each other well. And playing around with role reversals helps you both break out of your shell and be a more fully vital sexual being.

Sun opposite Mars

A volatile connection

Unless there are many other strong, positive aspects to your relationship that will strengthen a feeling of support and understanding between you, this aspect could eventually be the deal-breaker. The problem is a certain level of natural irritation that occurs when you're together: You just get under each other's skin on a variety of levels. The energy that is created when you're in one another's company can run hot and high; it can stimulate quite a powerful physical attraction between you, and make you each downright hungry for the other. The likelihood is also that you're a couple who argues passionately and then kisses and makes up even more passionately. This can be quite exciting, but it's not a great influence for a long-term bond. It's hard to sustain a feeling of trust and support with someone who seems to challenge you at every turn, and this is likely how your partner seems to you -- regardless of good intentions. Both of you feel that your own individuality and ego are at war here; any disagreement will feel like a personal attack. You each fight to defend yourselves, and you may not even stop to consider whether this is a battle that really needs to be fought. In order to avoid the pointless flare-ups that could become commonplace between you, you'll both need a highly positive attitude -- or simple acceptance that you have a hard time staying calm when you're together.

Mars square Venus

A big reaction

The attraction between you runs hot and strong, at least in the beginning. It may be mutual, but it could be somewhat one-sided, with you running hot while your partner tends to run cooler. This kind of mismatch in your energies creates friction between you -- and friction can be very provocative! Your passions are aroused easily when you're together, but it isn't just your sensual passions being kicked into high gear. You also irritate this person, and a different kind of tension could mar your connection. In fact, they're likely to find you to be rather offensive -- noisy or crass in public, or just tactless whether it's in front of other people or behind closed doors. There might be cultural differences between you, or differences in the way you were each brought up, that cause problems as well. You're not as sociable as your lover, meaning you're less focused on getting along with everyone. You're not afraid of a public argument or tense situations, and you might annoy your lover with your willingness to get into it with their friends. Furthermore, their urge to go out all the time could make you jealous. In some way, you inspire a big reaction in each other -- and it isn't always pretty. A smooth, trouble-free relationship just isn't possible with this aspect firing things up between you. At least the making up after an argument is fun for both of you... But the pattern of fighting, then kissing and making up may wear you both out if other aspects between you don't intervene to cool down all that heat and energy.

Venus square Pluto

Overwhelming needs

Jealousy, emotional manipulation, possessiveness and control are likely major components of this relationship if you both weren't careful to sort out your feelings from the start. You've been stirring up intense feelings in your partner from the very beginning. Your sexual attraction to them may also be overwhelming, and you feel transformed by your intimate experiences together. Your emotional lives are closely linked, almost without your having noticed when they merged. And that's when the trouble started. Any separations could leave you feeling intensely insecure, even abandoned, but if that happens, it might have more to do with the kind of dependency your lover has worked hard to create than with anything really to do with you. In fact, they might be the one that really feels insecure and bereft when you display your independence. This kind of emotional extreme can lead the best of us toward urges of possession and manipulation, although dominating each other never brings real satisfaction for either partner. But your partner likely tries it anyway, because your relationship feels so vital to their well-being. Your individual needs for connection and love could be keeping you locked into this pattern, unless you can find a way to examine your emotional life and figure out why you've made the choices you have in your love life. It could be that you feel an overwhelming need for companionship, and that has led you into this controlling, emotionally twisted situation. You both have to learn to stand on your own two feet if you don't want to wear each other out completely.

Mercury opposite Sun

Opposing viewpoints

You have very different ways of thinking, which could lead to some basic misunderstandings of who you both truly are. Although you each enter the relationship with the best of intentions and expectations, you find that your ideas about life in general -- what's interesting, what's important -- are pretty different. This could lead to misinterpreting one another's basic natures, as it's easier to project your own ideas onto the other person than it is to step outside your own point of view to try to see things from their unique perspective. You don't necessarily argue over your opposing viewpoints; it's more likely that you just overlook the other's true feelings or opinions, because your own are so different that you simply don't have a frame of reference to appreciate the other's point of view. You two also find that you communicate very differently; you may be much more talkative while your lover is more introverted, for example. These differences could become a major problem between you, but it doesn't have to be that way. If you both make a conscious effort to be positive, accepting and encouraging of one another's individuality, rather than rejecting the differences between you, you'll both feel much more willing and able to express yourselves in the way that is most natural to you. Acceptance is key here, in order to make this relationship work.

Saturn opposite Mars

Sexual disconnect

You two have a hard time getting matched up in terms of your energies and your emotions. When your lover is feeling tuned in and affectionate, wanting to connect on an intimate level, you're cool and aloof, emotionally unavailable. Your sexual rhythms are off, and your timing isn't the best in terms of finding times to do it when you're both revved up and ready to go. As a result, your partner, especially, could end up feeling rejected and unloved. So why the disconnect? It isn't for lack of interest or wanting to make it work between you. Something just stands in the way of making that happen. Your own shortcomings are projected onto each other; you get mad at each other for possessing the qualities that you like least in yourselves. You may even start to represent something to each other that you don't like or respect. If you see your lover behaving irresponsibly, for example, it upsets you, because you want so much to be responsible. You could even go so far as to try to force them to behave how you want them to -- but that doesn't work. They just rebel against the attempts to control them, which could lead to indiscriminate behavior in the name of pure rebellion, which, of course, doesn't solve anything. At base, you're afraid of being rejected and your partner is scared of being repressed -- both of which feel terrible. You have to struggle to learn to let each other be the people you are.

Sun square Pluto

A difficult bond

It's difficult for both of you to fully be yourselves in this relationship, because there is so much deep-rooted conflict between you two. Even when you had only just met, you felt the effects of old, unconscious wounds rearing their heads. You may feel as if you've come to this relationship for a reason -- that there must be some meaning in why you're going through such pain together. You both have some painful deep-past issues that have come to the fore through your interaction. Transformation is needed. But your partner's evolution as an individual is in direct conflict with your own individuality, or your idea of who you are. Resentments can build up as criticisms lead to tiffs, tiffs erupt into arguments and then intensify into full-on, angry disagreements. You're two different people; that's unavoidable. But this particular relationship can't serve either of you as individuals unless you make the necessary changes. You may find that over time, you've begun to grate on one another's nerves; the smallest disappointments seem huge, the most minor infractions suddenly enormous. Everything is loaded with emotional baggage. Your lover, especially, makes demands on you regarding your behavior, even your feelings -- which can't and shouldn't be controlled by another person. This a very difficult aspect to work with, and it requires much patience and compromise on both your parts.

Mars square Uranus

A basic hostility

You two know almost instinctively how to get under each other's skin. You probably try to control this person -- what they do and when, what they say and don't say -- even if that's not normally in your nature. Something about their insistence on independence makes you try to pin them down by force. But they rebel against any controlling efforts on your part. They willfully demonstrate to you again and again that they're an individual -- which, of course, obscures the fact that as a couple, you're supposed to be on the same team. But arguing as much as you two are likely to do makes it hard to feel like anything other than adversaries! This unpredictable energy spills over into your sexual connection, as well. When it comes to sensuality, most of us are very vulnerable to criticism and rejection. You two are no different, and as you reject each other's advances again and again, the damage becomes worse and worse. You, especially, feel that your natural passion is dampened in this relationship, and your partner feels that their independence is threatened. This relationship is difficult under the pressure of your mutual inability to cooperate with each other; you both need to realize you have to take a step back from those buttons you each like to push.

Mercury square Jupiter

Demonstrate your respect

The differences of opinion between the two of you have become more and more apparent and tricky to deal with over time. There has been some struggle, silent or stated, over how serious or superficial you two really are. How firm are your values, your morals, your political or spiritual or philosophical beliefs? All those questions and more are put to the test in this relationship. You might end up feeling like your lover challenges you on a deep level, and you could respond by overdoing it -- overstating your beliefs, for example, or how serious a subject is to you. You just can't take the same position as your lover on a lot of the bigger issues, and instead of appreciating your differences as complementary, you both view them as a threat to your own point of view. This, in turn, leads you to try to prove your point in an overblown or just unnecessary way. You could learn from this person, if you try to show them that you respect your differences; but this is easier said than done. This relationship holds possibilities of expanding your mental horizons through exposure to all the new ideas and unique philosophies that your lover brings to the table, but don't expect it to be easy for either of you to accept your differences. This aspect could also work in tandem with other troublesome aspects between you, making it even harder to figure out how to get along. Agreeing to disagree will be crucial, and striving to demonstrate your respect for each other will help.

Jupiter opposite Uranus

Stirring it up

You've got some strongly defined ideals when it comes to how this relationship should work, but you've probably come up against some opposition with your partner. All those good, well-founded ideas of yours just don't match up with their spontaneous approach to love. They really shake things up for you, on an intellectual level! This interaction encourages you to be highly progressive in your thinking -- except that when you started to realize that your partner, especially, prizes independence and freedom within a relationship, you found that your divergent ideas actually began leading you away from each other. This felt threatening -- and might still -- if you haven't been able to give your partner plenty of space to be themselves. Translation? Don't be possessive of your lover! This relationship requires lots of room to think, experience and grow on your own as well as within the boundaries of the relationship itself. They push you to newer heights of unusual thinking, and you might not realize when your ideas are just too high-flying and unrealistic. In order to grow, as a couple or as individuals, you have to find some common ground to build on. And that common ground might not be even close to what you expected. So be open to new ideas and trying out new methods of being together; you might surprise yourselves.

Mercury square Saturn

Prejudiced ideas

Though you might have gotten along well at first, after a while you probably found it increasingly difficult to communicate with each other. Criticisms from your partner continue to stack up and create resentments, and could be depleting your self-esteem. As you've gotten to know each other better, you may have started to think that your partner is more prejudiced or conservative than you originally realized, and you want to challenge those limited ways of thinking. They're equally hard on your ideas, and as time's gone on, they've establish a pattern of challenging your intellect more and more. They could think within themselves that you're smart and knowledgeable, but they project the feeling that they don't think you're very smart at all, or capable of making good decisions in life. What a limiting influence this could end up being! But it doesn't have to be limiting. In fact, you could use it as a chance to become more thorough in your thinking, more dedicated to your own path in life and your own ideas. The kind of challenges your lover presents to you require you to state your case and defend it. While this is likely tiresome and even annoying, it could prove an important part of your personal mental development. If, through this experience, you end up being a more effective communicator, then you'll have gotten something useful out of the tension that exists between you.

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