Romantic Compatibility Guide

Mars trine Uranus

A taste for adventure

An adventuresome bent is the focus between you two. The energy you create when you're together excites you both, and keeps you both tuned in to each other, wanting more. For some couples, this kind of influence could just be unsettling, but you two thrive on it, and you're able to create a comfortable, yet exciting stability between you. This could be a relationship that lasts forever, and yet you still feel the excitement as though it were a short fling. Your partner loves trying to turn you on in new and unexpected ways, and vice versa. That experimental flair isn't just confined to your sexual expression, either; any project you work on together is touched by creative magic. Your partner is the idea person and you're the one to take them and run with them, making them become real. If you feel like taking it to another level, this could be a really great partnership in business, sports, sex, creative projects and more, so take advantage. Take on any project you can dream up, because you're almost assured of success and originality in any combined undertaking.

Sun trine Uranus

Room to be yourself

In this relationship, you two can focus on being yourselves, fully and completely. What a refreshing change from so many of the other, more repressive relationships in your life! This partnership really encourages you to be who you are -- to be your own person and realize yourself as a dynamic, independent human being. This relationship is highly creative for you and a lot of fun; there is a sense of discovery and excitement that drives you to reach further into your own consciousness than ever before. You can talk about all your cutting edge ideas and your lover gives form to your ways of thinking. Individuality is highlighted here, in the best way. You're certainly able to form a close and intimate bond, if you want to; but neither of you would ever do it at the expense of the other. You both have plenty in common, but you also recognize and -- most importantly -- appreciate the differences between you. Your life is creatively enhanced in some way by this relationship, whether on a personal or a professional level. It may be through networking -- you two are probably be quite social together, going out to see and be seen -- or it could simply be through bringing your ideas to your partner and allowing them to help you brainstorm, to make them even better and more unique. Either way, expect to be enlightened.

Saturn sextile Venus

Loving responsibility

This aspect helps forge a strong bond between you that could easily translate to the long-term. Your blend of creativity and practicality makes this relationship a supportive haven for both of you. You both know that you can bring your problems to the table, whether they're personal problems or issues related to work or anything else, and together, you figure out how to solve them. Clear communication and practical innovations are your forte as a couple. You communicate well with each other and you treat each other with generosity. There is a feeling of 'what's mine is yours' between you. You're down to earth together, but your partner also encourages you to run with your best, most creative ideas. You blend your traditional values with their unique thoughts, and the results are amazing! This aspect also helps your partner to budget their time and resources well, because you have a good grasp of what's of value to you both, as individuals and as a couple. If you end up working together on a project or business enterprise, you help your lover focus on what needs to happen to get the job done well. You expect a lot of each other and of yourselves, and you strive to meet those expectations. In many areas of your lives, you encourage each other to be the best people and partners you can be.

Jupiter sextile Mercury

An inspired team

You have a stimulating, inspiring influence on each other. You have a wonderful, mind-expanding effect on your lover, who delights in the great ideas and perspectives you bring to the relationship. You have lively, engaging conversations during which you discuss everything either of you can dream up, but your values, beliefs and ideas are a favorite focus. You don't feel the need to merge your opinions in order to get along; you each feel perfectly comfortable in being the individual that you are, because you recognize that each of you brings something unique and important to the relationship. Your lover, for example, has a lot of life experience, while you have the vision to put that experience to some kind of good use. So don't be afraid to dream big together, especially if your relationship is a long-term connection, because together, you make things happen. You look out together onto a world that seems full of promise and possibility, and you step out hand-in-hand to make all those possibilities turn into real-life. Needless to say, this aspect supports a long-term relationship as well as a shorter affair. Just make sure that you make the most of this wonderful energy!

Mercury sextile Saturn

A studious approach

Your lover has a serious effect on you, literally. When you two get together, you focus on serious matters. You're thorough in your thought processes together; if you have an issue to talk out, you do so with serious intentions to get past the obstacle and never let it happen again. This makes for a lot of pressure for a romance, but it's ideal for the long-term relationship, because it helps to ensure that you two always communicate well and carefully, and that you're considerate of each other whenever problems arise. You don't just help each other with problems in your relationship, either; your partner also helps you deal with outside issues in your own life, offering advice on anything from your career to your friendships to your relationships with your family. Other more difficult aspects to your relationship are aided by this generally positive one, because of the good communication it fosters. Any issues that arise find real solutions; any ideas either of you has are either grounded in a stable reality, or discarded quickly as unusable. You work well together; this aspect would support a business or creative relationship as well as a romantic one. Practical experience, knowledge and advice should be a focus between you, and you should both try hard to put your best effort forward in this relationship.

Jupiter sextile Neptune

An idealistic bond

Spiritually, your partner lifts you up into the clouds. They stimulate the most idealistic parts of your nature, and you can easily just step off the edge of the mundane world and into the stratosphere with them! If your sexual bond is a strong one, this makes it even more so, because the feelings you experience during lovemaking are quite overwhelming. Of course, this can make it hard to get your normal, day-to-day duties done -- after all, who wants to pay bills, clean house or go to work when you could spend time with such an amazing person in your life who makes you feel as if your very soul is expanding? What a wonderful effect this can be! You could even share a psychic bond, one that helps your partner tune right in to your feelings and emotions without you having to open your mouth to speak. This strong tie increases the sense that you're a wonderfully connected unit that has a deeper bond than either of you has ever experienced before. But this influence can also be a troublesome one, especially for you, if you don't take yourself firmly in hand. At least one of you has to be the practical one, the one who injects a dose of reality or discipline when it's needed.

Sun conjunct Venus

A strong attraction

You feel a lot of love for each other, and have right from the start! You may even have experienced love at first sight. There's a naturally high level of attraction between you, a current of romantic energy and awareness that fosters a fun, exciting involvement for both of you. This aspect lends your relationship long-term potential, and it helps to warm up any other aspects between you that might be less romantic or closely attached. Your romantic feelings for each other have been strong from the beginning, heightened by what feels like a magnetic pull between you. You feel drawn to each other, and even when you're together, neither of you feels as though you can get enough of the other. You touch a lot. You two embrace, stare into one another's eyes and share your deepest, most tender feelings, and still you want to be closer! These feelings are heightened by a general sense of goodwill and mutual pleasuring. You get along well, you both consider the other to be your good friend and you admire each other's wonderful qualities. You are devoted to one another, a feeling that strengthens your bond and your commitment. That strong feeling of attachment and intimacy can help you get through any disagreements or misunderstandings that may crop up.

Jupiter conjunct Mars

Luck and timing

There is a lot of energy between you, and you love being active together. Whether this takes the form of playing sports together, going hiking, building or renovating something or any other enterprise is up to you -- but you stay active, and whatever projects you undertake are a success! If one of you is normally a more reticent type, this relationship helps to draw you out of your shell and bring out the courageous, even competitive side of your nature. You work together as a team, and you know that you can rely on each other as teammates -- and that frees you up to take on almost any challenge that could arise! You have a positive, optimistic effect on each other. You help each other meet life head-on, with both eyes open. It could be that you get more accomplished through the course of this relationship than you would have on your own, because of the teamwork effect of your bond. Sexually, you have a very arousing effect on each other. Your intimate connection is passionate indeed, and you learn a lot through being physical together. In fact, learning is a focus due to this aspect. Encouraging each other to take on any activity that involves education is great for both of you. Taking a class together or teaching one is a wonderful use of this energy, which could become excessive if you don't find a proper outlet for it.

Mercury conjunct Sun

Flowing conversation

From your first contact, the conversation flowed! You share a positive and enthusiastic connection that you both want to explore. You are naturally well-matched when it comes to joking around, expressing yourselves and communicating in general. You could even share an incredible connection on an intuitive level -- you may find yourself finishing your partner's sentences or they might pick up the phone to call you, only to find that you're already on the line, having just dialed their number. Your partner finds that your communicative bond pushes them to be more creative as well as more self-aware. You encourage and inspire your lover to express themselves more truly, to know themselves more deeply, through getting to know you. As your relationship deepens and grows more intimate, you begin to appreciate just how deep and subtle this connection is. Your understanding of your lover exists on a heart level as well as a mental one. On the surface, you share plenty of interests: You find the same jokes funny and you gravitate toward the same music, films, sports and so on. On a deeper level, your lover feels understood by you as a unique individual. This is a rare connection, so enjoy it -- and don't take it for granted!

Jupiter conjunct Pluto

Growth spurts

Don't get caught up only in the romance together -- if you do, you could neglect the opportunities this relationship offers you! You can both really accomplish something big through your connection with each other, if you put your minds to it. You create a certain, wonderful energy together -- an active desire to move forward in your lives, to make those changes you've always thought about but maybe haven't gotten around to yet. You, especially, help and encourage your partner to make those changes and more -- to elevate themselves as a human being, whatever that means for them personally. Does your partner feel like they need a better job, more education, a stronger grip on their spiritual path? They find ways to achieve those goals in this relationship, due in part to your influence. Best of all, you help them to understand their own process of change. You both talk about your feelings and your growth spurts; you tell each other what it looks like from the outside. And you support each other. Your own growth process inspires your lover's search for meaning in life, and vice versa. If this sounds heavy, it is -- in a positive way! This aspect helps deepen your connection. Since the energy it creates is so strong, things aren't always easy between you -- your partner probably has flare-ups of jealousy and possessiveness, for example. But keeping your chins above water really isn't too hard, and the returns are great.

Jupiter conjunct Jupiter

Discussing your futures

Your ideals and beliefs are aligned, and with this aspect, you focus as a couple on these areas. Luck and belief are big between you; together, you search for meaning in your lives, and you understand and support this search in each other. You feel as if you've come together for a purpose -- to figure out something big about your lives and your futures -- and you could be right! This is not to say that the relationship itself is your sole purpose; instead, something in the way you relate with each other reveals where you should go next. You both want to expand your minds and your horizons when you're together, and that's something you're able to do as a couple. You're inspired by each other, and you find that your paths are revealed in the simple act of loving each other. You help each other to find yourselves, so to speak; through loving each other, you learn to love and know yourselves. Your individual purposes in life could become more clear through the course of this relationship than they've ever been to you before, and you support each other in finding your way along your paths. Learning and education are highlighted for you, and the optimism you bring to each other's lives inspires self-confidence in both of you. So take a class together! Or read to each other, or rent documentaries that teach you something about the rest of the world. You're definitely better off for it.

Jupiter conjunct Saturn

Joint efforts

What are your goals as a couple? This is a question you two must face together, because the particular blend of your energies lends itself to problem-solving and goal achievement. You are naturally the more enthusiastic, creative partner, while your lover tends more toward seriousness. This difference shouldn't be a problem; in fact, you help to balance each other out, providing energetic bursts or reality checks when needed. Your problem-solving strengths as a couple is as useful in resolving an argument as they are in taking on a huge project together -- renovating a house, starting a business, you name it! Whatever you decide to do, you likely have a natural gift at it together. You can come to each other for advice, trusting that the advice you receive is always sound. Just make sure that you haven't let your differences create a gulf between you -- and that you continue to maintain your closeness. Your more serious-minded partner might have the tendency to drag you and your optimistic energy down; but allowing that creative, high-flying spirit to be stifled should be avoided, as it's the magic behind the hard work. Similarly, you should take care not to pooh-pooh the soberness of your lover's thinking, because that sobriety provides a much-needed grounding influence. You have a lot to learn from each other, and together you make two halves of a very strong team.

Mars square Mars

Two raw nerves

Without plenty of harmonizing aspects to stabilize your connection and promote good feelings between you, this aspect could be the downfall of this relationship because of the hostile energy it creates. You notice that whenever you're around each other, you feel excited and touchy, ready to react to anything your partner does or says -- and even to imagined slights. Though you might start off with a strong sexual bond, that could be burning out fast in the face of the hard feelings that spring up between you. After a while, you find that you want it at different times and in different ways, and the differences offend you! The problem is that your basic approach to life, to how you get things done on a day by day basis, is at odds. You aren't able not to take things personally; in a sense, you have the effect of poison ivy on each other -- a spreading irritation that only seems to get worse. When arguments arise, you both get hostile and defensive fast, even if that's not your normal nature. You feel the tension in your bodies when you're together: a low-grade headache, hunched shoulders, furrowed brow ... It's hard to relax when you're together, and if you let yourselves indulge in petty arguing, it only gets harder. Exercising extreme patience is the only way to get through this difficult influence, but this aspect makes patience almost unattainable.

Sun square Mars

A turbulent connection

This relationship between you two might be something of a challenge. Your love probably erupted in a blaze of passion -- but only a very careful balance can prevent it from dying out along with the fires of your emotions. The problem between you is one of mismatched temperaments. You started out disagreeing on many subjects, and the better you've gotten to know each other, the higher your lover's irritation, especially, has likely climbed. Instead of being calm and honest about the situation -- looking clearly at each other and admitting that this is a relationship that takes extra work -- you're both tempted to just jump into the fray. Arguments are frequent, and are often based on the fact that both of you feel unseen or insufficiently supported by the other. Annoyance is almost unavoidable for your lover who is more aggressive and impatient than you; if you two aren't open with each other, they'll start to see you as slow, or lacking initiative. Okay, this is all sounding rather dire -- so remember that it doesn't have to be this way. If you can both access your most patient, forgiving selves when you're together, you'll be able to find a compromise for any problems that arise. But most people aren't that saintly all the time! We're all driven to some extent by our egos, and our own needs are most important to us. Thus, it's difficult to set our egos aside when confronted with an aggressive energy such as the one that's been created by this relationship. Much compromise is needed on both sides.

Mars square Pluto

A power struggle

There is a strong sexual pull between you, which can be quite compelling -- and it could make you think there's more between you that's worth holding on to than there really is. This aspect is a really difficult one for either of you to handle, as it brings up so much anger, resistance, rebellion and aggression between you. Even if you're ordinarily quite placid, you know you're provoked more than you would have ever thought possible in this relationship! Unless other aspects between you help create a feeling of understanding and commonality, you two just have a really hard time getting along together -- except when you're being physically intimate, of course, and even that could take on a dimension of control and aggression that you should try to avoid. It's not that feeling angry or expressing it is wrong; that's natural. There's an element of aggression that can be exciting and appropriate in our sex lives. But the ways that you express your anger at your partner can be extreme; somehow, they bring up the deepest, strongest feelings of rage and resentment that you have hidden in the depths of your soul. You have to work hard to learn the lesson that this influence offers -- how to calm yourself in the face of rage; how to love someone right and treat them well, even when you're feeling as if you can't stand them. To a certain extent, you two just have to expect and accept that there will always be major battles and intense power struggles.

Sun square Pluto

A difficult bond

It's difficult for both of you to fully be yourselves in this relationship, because there is so much deep-rooted conflict between you two. Even when you had only just met, you felt the effects of old, unconscious wounds rearing their heads. You may feel as if you've come to this relationship for a reason -- that there must be some meaning in why you're going through such pain together. You both have some painful deep-past issues that have come to the fore through your interaction. Transformation is needed. But your partner's evolution as an individual is in direct conflict with your own individuality, or your idea of who you are. Resentments can build up as criticisms lead to tiffs, tiffs erupt into arguments and then intensify into full-on, angry disagreements. You're two different people; that's unavoidable. But this particular relationship can't serve either of you as individuals unless you make the necessary changes. You may find that over time, you've begun to grate on one another's nerves; the smallest disappointments seem huge, the most minor infractions suddenly enormous. Everything is loaded with emotional baggage. Your lover, especially, makes demands on you regarding your behavior, even your feelings -- which can't and shouldn't be controlled by another person. This a very difficult aspect to work with, and it requires much patience and compromise on both your parts.

Mars square Jupiter

Creating energy

This aspect lends you an element of competition and extreme behavior that sparks all your interactions; good or bad, it's all up to you. Whether you're on the same team or opposing ones; whether you're playing a game, having an argument, discussing a movie you just saw -- you push each other to say what you really mean, to focus your energies and efforts and get more done than you would have on your own. Hopefully you weren't taken by surprise -- this is a difficult aspect to deal with, especially at first. You kid with each other, making jokes at each other's expense, riding each other -- and you, especially, could take offense before you realize that you're both just playing around. You two need to remember to convince yourselves to be patient with each other, so you can understand that you're just poking fun at each other. But then there's your partner's opinionated nature to contend with -- they have plenty of opinions and they stand right by them, often at the expense of listening to you or weighing whether they're really correct in their own position. But over time, as you grow to trust and like each other more and more, you allow that helpful influence to start seeping in. You challenge each other on your beliefs, which help you better define them. If you work together as a team, you can find that the slightly challenging energy between you sparks creative action.

Sun square Jupiter

More than you can handle

The relationship the two of you have is an experience that has resulted from two rather different personalities trying to create an intimate bond in the only way they know how. That means that each of you has your own ideals in life -- what's important to you, what your needs are in a romantic relationship, what a relationship should entail and so forth. In this case, those ideals may not coincide perfectly, and you can both feel slightly frustrated by that conflict. The better you've gotten to know one another, the more those issues have likely increased, but instead of talking things out and striving to understand the differences that exist between you, you're both more likely to just let the issue drop in a temporary truce. However, there is a bond between you that you both want to preserve. The benefits of your union far outweigh the difficulties, and confronting your differences isn't something either of you want to do. Instead, your lover, especially, tends to take an unrealistically optimistic stance -- we don't have to worry, they tell themselves; everything will work itself out in the end! And it often does, for essentially you both feel generous and tolerant of each other. Facing the issues you share and communicating about them openly and honestly will help overcome any problems with excessive behavior that you two may encounter.

Saturn square Mercury

Prejudiced ideas

Though you might have gotten along well at first, after a while you find it increasingly difficult to communicate with each other. Your criticisms of your partner stack up and create resentments within them, and could deplete their self-esteem. As you know each other better and better, they could start to think that you're more prejudiced or conservative than they originally realized, and they want to challenge those limited ways of thinking. You're hard on their ideas, and as time goes on, you establish a pattern of challenging their intellect more and more. You could think within yourself that this person is smart and knowledgeable, but you project the feeling that you don't think they're very smart at all, or capable of making good decisions in life. What a limiting influence this could end up being! However, it doesn't have to be limiting. In fact, your lover may use it as a chance to become more thorough in their thinking, more dedicated to their own path in life and their own ideas. The kind of challenges you present to them requires them to state their case and defend it. While this is likely tiresome and even annoying, it could prove an important part of their personal mental development. If, through this experience, they end up being a more effective communicator, then they have gotten something useful out of the tension that exists between you.

Saturn opposite Uranus

Different ideas

You two may have started out on even ground, but over time it's become apparent that you're polarized in how you live your lives. You need a lot of security within a romantic relationship, much more than your partner needs. In fact, they need the opposite -- a lot of independence, freedom and space. You have a hard time giving that to them; you might actually cling tighter the more they demand space, which can create a big rift between you. You seem controlling and rigid to them and they seem unreliable and unstable to you. It's not that these are fair or correct characterizations; it's just that that's the effect you have on each other, and those are the qualities that are exacerbated within each of you when you're together. When it starts to seem like either of you is not getting what you want, you naturally respond by insisting on it, instead of taking a softer approach. The interesting thing is, you stand to learn a lot from each other -- you know that's been the truth so far, and it could become even more real with just a little effort. There are aspects to each of your approaches that would be valuable if combined with the strengths of your partner, and it's up to you to figure out, together, what those aspects are. Once you do, you'll stand a much better chance of blending your strengths and presenting a united front to the world.

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