Romantic Compatibility Guide

Jupiter trine Venus

Your best selves

You bring out each other's best qualities and inspire each other to be your kindest, most generous selves! You are the couple that all your friends both love and envy -- the center of the party, popular and sociable, and with a visibly strong bond between you. Your connection only deepens with time because there is a natural affinity and receptivity between you. You are able to talk openly with each other about anything and everything that comes up, and you understand each other really well. Through this openness, you grow to understand yourself better, which aids in your career, your personal relationships and all other areas of your life. The only danger is that you are so comfortable with each other that you grow complacent -- and you could even become self-absorbed. Who wouldn't, with such a wonderful bond to rely on? Strive to stay attuned with the world, which could use your help from time to time. Generally, this aspect is very positive for both of you. You get to know yourselves better as you rely on each other's support and sympathy. You both feel empowered, as if you can accomplish anything. Most of all, you make each other feel wonderful.

Sun trine Pluto

Emotional vitality

Your sexual attraction to one another has only been strengthened by this aspect, because it also intensifies the emotional bond between you, which runs quite deep. You have both experienced this depth of feeling from the beginning as a sensation of being very well understood. Your bond probably even felt effortless from the start, as did communicating in a physical way. Old emotions from your lover's past -- even ones that may not have served them well for some time -- have found positive expression in this relationship. Basically, the two of you together can be quite creative on a mental or emotional level, and you help each other grow as individuals. Even your less admirable qualities can be transformed into loftier ones through this relationship. Issues of egotism or vanity are expressed in a more positive way, and vulnerabilities are faced and strengthened. These powerful changes haven't been confined simply to an individual or ego level, either; your lover could help you to achieve your highest ambitions in a career or artistic sphere. This aspect has given your relationship incredible staying power, especially in combination with other stabilizing aspects. The positive effects of this influence can lead to a long-term relationship if you let them.

Jupiter trine Mars

Complementary strengths

You love being together, no matter what you're doing -- whether you're talking and laughing, taking a walk, seeing a movie or whatnot, you have a great time. However you spend your time as a couple, you both enjoy yourselves immensely. You tend toward activity together more than being sedentary; instead of spending a lazy Saturday morning in bed, you more likely go out on a hike or work in the garden together, and talk about everything under the sun while you're at it. Whatever you do, you do it as a team. This aspect encourages feelings of togetherness, of being on the same side. If one of you is feeling down or pessimistic, you only have to be around your partner for a few minutes before you start to perk up again. You reveal the pleasurable, positive, optimistic side of life to your partner, and you blend your individual talents to become a formidable team. Whenever a challenge comes up, your lover provides the energy and enthusiasm for meeting it head-on, and you come up with the strategy -- and you're off! This aspect really affects all areas of your relationship and your lives, because it stimulates your sexual connection, your good times and good feelings, and your ambitions as related to career, schooling and everything else you want to do or accomplish.

Jupiter trine Sun

Big plans for success

You both have an instinctive idea of what's good for each of you and the relationship, from the very start! Even if there are other, more troublesome aspects between you, this one helps warm things up and stabilizes your bond. This relationship is characterized by growth and success. You both go through some changes as individuals that can only be brought about through your connection with each other. These changes could be internal -- perhaps your partner, for example, has been struggling with some aspect of their personality or their past for some time -- or they could exist outside the normal scope of your romantic connection. For example, during the course of the relationship, you might choose to go back to school to advance your education, or your partner might change jobs in order to move onto a career path that is more closely aligned with the type of person they really are. These kinds of major life changes are supported by this relationship, as you're each able to offer one another a type of unconditional support and encouragement that makes both of you feel optimistic, even lucky, as if you can't go wrong. You discuss all the changes you're undergoing with each other, and listen with an open heart and an avid ear. This aspect lends a foundation of friendship to your romantic relationship that could help you make it last long-term.

Mercury trine Pluto

Mental transformation

You two have an intensely creative connection, one that encourages you to express yourselves in the deepest and most honest way possible. You, especially, might be used to more superficial relationships, but your sweetheart won't allow your bond to exist on anything but a deep, intense and focused level. Your conversations cover huge subjects that boggle both your minds: the nature of the universe and your place in it, the difference between good and evil -- big, theoretical subjects that you stay up all night debating! Your partner definitely encourages you to think more deeply and more honestly, and the thoughts you come up with might surprise you. You have a really strong pull on them as well, though, don't worry. They see you as the light at the end of the tunnel, because they've always been so focused on the depths that they might not know how to come up for air. You've helped them to translate their more abstract, heavy theories or impressions, and perhaps more importantly, you can encourage them to lighten up from time to time. But don't try to keep things too light; that would be letting a great opportunity slip by. Instead, you should really try to keep each other motivated in pursuing all those deep, dark and interesting ideas, and bringing them to light.

Sun sextile Mars

A dynamic duo

This isn't any ordinary, sweet, retiring connection! The relationship between you two is characterized by making plans and carrying them out as a team. There is lots of natural energy between you; in fact, together, you create an energy that doesn't exist for either of you alone. Your focus is on putting that energy to use. Instead of just a sweet, romantic couple, you are a powerhouse duo with big ideas for improving the world and your station in it! When you're together, you're truly able to shine as individuals. Your confidence and enthusiasm increases exponentially when you're in each other's company, because you give one another such a high level of support and encouragement. You might want to try to start some sort of business or other enterprise together, as well as being a romantic couple, because you're so creative and impassioned as a team. Alternatively, the enterprise between you could turn out to be, simply, a new life -- buying a house and renovating it together, perhaps, or starting a family. After all, the sexual charge between you is strong and hot! And being creative together can have more than one meaning. However you do it, this is a dynamic influence that enables both of you to accomplish most anything you put your minds to, as long as you work on it together, with clear communication and optimism.

Mars sextile Mercury

An enthusiastic exchange

The conversation began when you two first hooked up, and it hasn't stopped! You talk about everything under the sun -- your lives, your pasts, your likes and dislikes... You leave no stone unturned in getting to know each other. Talking and trading ideas is such a big focus between you that there isn't a huge amount of quiet time in your relationship -- there is just be so much to talk about! You stimulate your lover creatively to a high degree; you inspire new and unique ways of thinking in them, and you come up with ideas together that your lover, especially, might never have thought of on their own, especially if they're usually rather quiet or reserved. When you're together, you just draw your partner out to explore all the good feelings that you create together. Even your arguments aren't usually a big deal; you don't fight so much as debate and inspect issues together from all sides, and you come together to the best conclusion. This aspect promotes a foundation of interest and friendship between you that serves your relationship, whether it's short-term or longer. Your sexual connection is stimulated by this aspect, as well. You could get really into blending the physical with the mental (phone sex, perhaps?).

Jupiter trine Uranus

Creating magic

With this aspect between you, you two have a strong friendship that's based in honesty -- and that's a wonderful thing for a love relationship. You identify closely with each other intellectually; your ideals about the future, about the directions you each want to move in in your lives, work together very well. It's not that you have the same idea about where you feel you should be; in fact, your paths are different enough to create space and movement for both of you. You encourage each other to follow your dreams, but you don't get in each other's way because you're too busy following your own! Just being together makes you both focus more on getting wherever it is that you're going. There is a flavor of originality between you that encourages you both to do things your own way. And you have a lot of insight into each other's lives; you're able to offer each other sound advice when it's needed, and then step back to let the magic happen. You always know that you can trust and count on each other, because of this aspect's emphasis on honesty. You put it to each other straight, and you never have to worry about duplicity or underhanded dealings. As you've noticed the only thing you can expect is the unexpected with this influence working between you. Your relationship isn't conventional, and you both grow tremendously through your involvement with each other.

Jupiter sextile Jupiter

Supportive growth

You aren't necessarily overtly similar. Instead, your strength as a couple is an innate sense of balance and timing that forges a wonderful bond between you. You help each other find yourselves, so to speak; through loving each other, you learn to love and know yourselves. Your individual purposes in life could become more clear through the course of this relationship than they've ever been to you before, and you support each other as best friends would in finding your way along your paths. You feel calm and open when you're together, ready to take what comes and deal with it as a team. A wonderful effect of this influence is that you treat each other with respect at times when other couples -- or even you yourself, involved with someone else -- would fly off the handle. When problems come up between you, you are really good at staying calm and choosing the right moment to talk things out and deal with them together. So do something great with this influence! You both want to expand your minds and your horizons when you're together, and that's something you're able to do as a couple. Learning is highlighted for you, and the optimism you bring to each other's lives inspires self-confidence in both of you. You're protective and supportive of each other, and you really help each other grow as individuals.

Jupiter sextile Saturn

Creative hard work

This influence is wonderful for a strong and steady relationship, because it really highlights two people's ability to work together toward a common goal. What is your goal as a couple? This could shift a great deal from one phase of your lives and relationship to the next. As a couple, your problem-solving strengths are as useful in resolving an argument as they are in taking on a huge project together, which is what makes this such an excellent long-term influence. You could end up launching a major project together -- a business, a home renovation, even raising children or pets -- and whatever it is that you decide to do, you two just have a natural gift for it. You combine your creative ideas with your partner's practical knowledge; their ability to work long and hard with your intellectual ideas and vision of the future to make that hard work mean something. You come to each other for great advice and support. This aspect supports a deep and abiding feeling of friendship and trust between you that helps you work together well and communicate on a deep level. It makes you serious together, but in a positive, practical way; a way that you both want. After all, the best relationships are a blend of work and play, and this aspect helps you find that balance. As you two have focused together on your goals, and blending your best qualities -- and as you continue to do so -- you're sure to find success in whatever you might undertake.

No Relationship Glue

Conjunctions between two people create a feeling of togetherness. Think of this planetary aspect as a powerful point of connection: For better or worse, the couple who has at least one or two conjunctions between them feels bonded, as if they've found a kindred spirit -- even if that bond is through a personality quirk that they don't even like about themselves! But you two don't have any conjunctions between you at all, positive or negative ones. In real terms, while you might get along like a house afire, at the end of the day, there's not a whole lot that's pulling you together. Sometimes you might even question why you're together at all; it's easy for both of you to forget the source of your attraction or the importance of your bond. That means you'll both have to work a little harder at reaffirming your connection, regularly reminding each other and yourselves why you're a couple. On a more positive note, having no conjunctions can mean that you won't hold each other back from taking the paths you want to take in life. You can let each other be who you are, without placing unreasonable demands on each other out of a sense of need or obligation.

Venus opposite Uranus

Unpredictable love

You're highly attracted to this person, but it's likely that's purely because they excite you and represent a certain unpredictable quality that you find attractive -- or did at first. Once you got to know each other better, you might have found that your relationship wasn't quite what you expected. You've felt from the start that things between you were exciting, new, unexpected and unique. Your time together can be a fun, spontaneous roller coaster rides that leave you laughing and panting for more. That's all just fine, except you need a grounding influence if you want to keep things at all normal between you over the long stretch! At best, this aspect can keep things interesting, but you may have quickly grown uncomfortable with all the spontaneity and unpredictability. You've probably also noticed that your partner's feelings toward you change, fast and often. You've likely idealized them from the start, which makes it even more difficult to deal with the fact that they blow hot and cold. And forget about knowing each other for who you really are. This particular aspect can't support a feeling of love between you; instead, its influence is more mental or social. Your partner provokes a certain restlessness in you, an urge for freedom, that could make the relationship feel restrictive.

Sun opposite Neptune

Rose-colored glasses

You might have felt like soul mates early on in your relationship, but don't allow this powerful feeling to confuse you. The bond between you is certainly be strong, but it is complicated by projections you both make on each other. Somehow, your individuality is at stake. Your lover looks at you and, on an unconscious level, they see everything they want for themselves -- a strong sense of self, a sense of direction in life, a well-defined goal or path. It's a wonderful thing to inspire your partner, but not if it leads to intense disappointment when reality comes crashing in -- you're actually just a human being, like they are, with similar insecurities and weaknesses. Furthermore, there could be a deep and confusing conflict in your relationship that involves your independence as individuals pitted against the sway of the relationship itself -- in other words, your need to maintain your independence versus your mutual need to unite as a team. Because there is such a deep and intense emotional bond between you, you must take steps to protect yourselves. One way is to make sure you never move to the next stage of the relationship too quickly; be sure you know exactly what the stakes are. With eyes wide open, and good communication, this relationship could become stronger over time with an even more positive bond.

Sun square Mercury

Miscommunication and misunderstandings

You two likely find your communication to be challenging, your interactions tricky at best. You both came to the relationship with the best of intentions, but you probably find yourself irritating your lover or offending their sensibilities. Neither of you is directly at fault for the flare-ups that are almost unavoidable between you; the problem lies more in a very basic difference in natures or temperaments. You are highly attached to your own, individual character and your own view of the world. Whenever you two try to communicate, you've found that your experiences of life in general are at odds with your partner's -- and the likelihood is high that both of you feel threatened by these differences. The problem is that you, especially, attach your ego directly to your opinions, which means you're unable to step outside your own point of view to see your partner's side of the argument. In a romantic relationship, this kind of challenging interaction can breed mistrust, and trust is essential to a healthy connection. Of course, if you're both hardy, adventurous sorts, you could look at this as a personal challenge: You both stand to learn a lot from each other, as you're required to let go of your own egos and strive to put yourselves in the other's shoes. But without a concerted effort to expand your own mental horizons, it's much more likely that you could just end up feeling challenged and misunderstood.

Saturn opposite Mercury

Criticism of ideas

Somehow, your relationship leads to an imbalance in the ways that you view each other. Your lover starts to view you as an authority figure or an expert on how to approach life in general, and that misperception leads to an unhealthy dependence on your ideas. The ways that they think and communicate are limited if they place undue importance on your intellect. Though it's wonderful to look up to each other and respect each other for your minds, that can go overboard. You must both remember that you're equals, and that each of you has valuable insights, ideas and goals to bring to the relationship. Your fears and needs for security are highlighted in this relationship; it may be that your partner's idolizing is based on an unconscious desire not to lose you -- if they build you up, surely you'll want to stick around for more adulation, right? Except that just creates an imbalance in the way you two communicate and get along. You might start to criticize and even control and look down on them, trying too hard to influence their thinking by pointing out all the weaknesses in their ideas. This, in turn, could lead to arguments and hurt feelings. Their self-confidence could wither under this kind of influence. Self-expression and honesty, with yourself and each other, are of utmost importance, and they could be very difficult to achieve in this relationship.

Mercury opposite Neptune

Strive for honesty

This aspect can muddy your communication; it influences both of you, but especially your partner, to project a lot of potentially incorrect images onto each other, which can only lead to disappointment. This sweetheart of yours has idealized you from the start, which is actually a positive influence in itself. But the ideals they've concerned themselves with probably had to do with your relationship; their expectations still run high, and they could lose sight of the fact that it's impossible to have the ideal relationship or perfect communication with someone. And as a result, the communication between the two of you is very far from perfect! At some level, they probably aren't entirely honest with you about themselves or their intentions. This probably isn't out-and-out lying, but more a failure to really tell you who they are, what they're thinking and feeling, and so on, because they might really not know! Their mind doesn't work in the same clear, logical, straightforward way that yours does. They feel their way through life based on impressions, and they can delude themselves pretty easily as to the nature of your relationship and so on. This influence might not be very pronounced, but you can still at least sense its influence. Though you could both think that your communication is wonderful due to that idealistic slant you put on everything, the truth may be more complicated than that.

Saturn square Uranus

A widening gulf

Even if you didn't start out being overly traditional in your values regarding commitment, duty and so on, you became more so in this relationship, in part because of your lover's rebellious insistence on independence. Over time it's become apparent that you need a lot more security within the relationship than your partner does. The bad news is, your natural response might be to cling tighter and tighter, which only causes your freedom-seeking partner to run even more determinedly in the opposite direction. The gulf between you became wider as your perceptions of each other solidify -- you take on the role as the controlling, overly needy or demanding partner, while they're the rebellious and unreliable one who can't be counted on. Neither of these characterizations is exactly fair; it's just that you bring out these qualities in each other, because you're both naturally looking out for yourselves and your own interests in the relationship. When it starts to seem like you're not getting what you want, you naturally respond by insisting on it, instead of taking a softer approach. The blending of your strengths and seemingly opposing qualities have a much better effect. It might be that all your struggles over this subject leads to a forced compromise. It's up to you to make the compromise come true.

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