Romantic Compatibility Guide

Sun trine Neptune

Idealistically romantic

The emotional connection between you was powerful and deep, right from the get-go. You may not even be aware of it as such; you simply feel connected, and that was true even when you didn't know one another well. There is a sense that your souls recognize one another, that you're bonded on a spiritual level. You also have a lot in common on a basic level -- your fundamental spiritual ideals are in tandem. You have plenty of wonderful discussions and heart-to-heart talks about your innermost feelings, hopes and dreams, but you have just as many moments of wonderful nonverbal communication. Your lover, especially, is able to tune right in to you. They are highly sensitive to your moods, and they have great respect for your feelings. They may finish your sentences or even intuit exactly how you're feeling even when you're not physically in the same space. It probably didn't take long to fall in love with this aspect in place! There is a sense of willing sacrifice between you -- your lover gets so much out of the relationship that they want to give back by honoring your bond and sacrificing time and tenderness for the good of their lover. They probably view you in an idealized light, but who cares? The devotion between you is real, as is the sweetness.

Mercury sextile Venus

Gentle harmony

If there are other, less harmonious aspects between you, don't worry -- this one really helps to smooth over the harsh effects of those, because as a couple, your focus is on getting along well and working together as a loving, communicative team. Neither of you wants to argue, so you both find much more constructive ways to get your own point across and find a solution to any problem that might come up. You're also very open and verbal about expressing your tender feelings for this person! This isn't be the type of relationship where you have to wonder where you stand with the other person. No, you delight in leaving love notes for your lover in their briefcase or purse, describing all the wonderful ways that your life changed when you two got together; you write songs or poems for them, give them sweet cards every chance you get... You really let them know just how special you think your sweet partner is. And they do the same for you. Your friends -- of which there are many -- look up to you as the couple who has everything they want -- a loving, supportive connection that could lead to something really special. If you end up working together on a creative project or even an entrepreneurial one, this aspect greatly helps your communication, because you always take special care to deal with one another kindly and gently.

Venus sextile Mercury

Gentle harmony

If there are other, less harmonious aspects between you, don't worry -- this one really helps to smooth over the harsh effects of those, because as a couple, your focus is on getting along well and working together as a loving, communicative team. Neither of you wants to argue, so you both find much more constructive ways to get your own point across and find a solution to any problem that might come up. Your lover is also very open and verbal about expressing their tender feelings for you! This isn't the type of relationship where either of you has to wonder where you stand with the other person. No, your lover delights in leaving love notes for you in your briefcase or purse, describing all the wonderful ways that their life changed when you two got together; they write songs or poems for you, give you sweet cards every chance they get. They really let you know just how special they think their sweet partner is. Your friends -- of which there are many -- look up to you as the couple who has everything they want -- a loving, supportive connection that could lead to something really special. If you end up working together on a creative project or even an entrepreneurial one, this aspect greatly helps your communication, because you always take special care to deal with one another kindly and gently.

Mars sextile Sun

A dynamic duo

This isn't any ordinary, sweet, retiring connection! A relationship between you is characterized by making plans and carrying them out as a team. There is lots of natural energy between you; in fact, together you create an energy that doesn't exist for either of you alone. Your focus is to put that energy to use. Instead of just a sweet, romantic couple, you're a powerhouse duo with big ideas for improving the world and your station in it! This comes from the fact that when you're together, you're truly able to shine as individuals. Your lover's confidence and enthusiasm increases exponentially when they're in your company, because you give them such a high level of support and encouragement. If the relationship between you becomes a long-term bond, you might decide to begin some sort of business or other enterprise together, because you're so creative and impassioned as a team. Alternatively, the enterprise between you could turn out to be, simply, a new life -- buying a house and renovating it together, perhaps, or starting a family. After all, the sexual charge between you is strong and hot! Being creative together can have more than one meaning. However you do it, this is a dynamic influence that enables both of you to accomplish most anything you put your minds to, as long as you work on it together, with clear communication and optimism.

Mercury sextile Mars

An enthusiastic exchange

The conversation began at your first introduction, and it hasn't stopped since! You talk about everything under the sun -- your lives, your pasts, your likes and dislikes... You leave no stone unturned when it comes to sitting down for a chat. Talking and trading ideas is such a big focus between you that there isn't a huge amount of quiet time in your relationship -- there's just be so much to talk about! You stimulate each other creatively to a high degree; you inspire new and unique ways of thinking, and you come up with ideas together that you'd never have thought of on your own, even if you're usually rather quiet or reserved. Your partner has a unique ability to draw you out to explore all the good feelings that you create together. Even your arguments aren't usually a big deal; you don't fight so much as debate and inspect issues together from all sides, and you come together to the best conclusion. This aspect promotes a foundation of interest and friendship between you that will continue to serve your relationship until the end. And, as you've likely noticed by now, your sexual connection is quite stimulated by this aspect, as well. After all, the largest sex organ is the brain!

Venus sextile Saturn

Loving responsibility

This aspect has helped forge a strong bond between you that has easily translated to the long-term. Your blend of creativity and practicality make this relationship a supportive haven for both of you. You each know that you can bring your problems to the table, whether they're personal problems or issues related to work or anything else, and together, you can figure out how to solve them. Clear communication and practical innovations are your forte as a couple. You communicate well with each other and you treat each other with generosity. There is a feeling of 'what's mine is yours' between you. You two are down to earth together, but you also encourage each other to run with your best, most creative ideas. You blend traditional values with unique thought, and the results can be amazing! This aspect can also help you budget your time and resources well, because you both have a good grasp of what's of value to you, as individuals and as a couple. If you end up working together on a project or business enterprise, you can help each other focus on what needs to happen to get the job done well. You expect a lot of each other and of yourselves, and you strive to meet those expectations. In many areas of your lives, you encourage each other to be the best people and partners you can be.

Sun sextile Pluto

Growth through unity

The bond between you two is powerful and transformative. On a physical level, you respond to each other with a deep and compelling passion, one that is enhanced by a strong emotional sensuality. They're able to provide you with a lot of support, and they encourage you to pursue your ambitions. Not just career-related ambitions, either. You are on a personal growth trajectory that is heightened by your involvement with your partner. What's more, the support that they offer you can actually have the effect of increasing your growth spurt -- in other words, though it may be counterintuitive, you've been able to grow more as an individual through the relationship than you would have on your own. Unconsciously, your partner is able to identify your needs and respond to them in a powerful, usually positive way. The communication between you should be good -- both verbal and nonverbal. You're able to talk things out effectively, but you don't always need to verbalize your thoughts and feelings to your lover. Somehow, they just know what you're thinking and feeling. They should take care to be open to your ideas, though. They have such a powerful effect on you that if they allow their responses to be negative or overly critical, this could actually hinder your growth. This aspect gives your relationship the opportunity to keep growing, as long as you can keep it positive.

Mars sextile Neptune

A spiritual uplift

Your lines of communication are strengthened by this aspect, and the energy that each of you possesses as an individual is brought into the relationship for the greater good. Whereas with other people, you might not understand their deeper feelings or their creative, emotional motivations, with your partner, you're able to give form to their weirder, more abstract ideas. You support each other to a huge degree, emotionally and creatively. If you believe your relationship is fated in the sense that you two were originally brought together for a specific purpose, you might be right! There's a lot you could both accomplish with this aspect in place. This aspect's influence could lead to a spiritual transformation in you, especially, a move to higher emotional or creative ground -- if you're careful to stay open with your partner. You're able to offer them a lot of energy, enthusiasm and support, but you still have to be careful about keeping the lines of communication open. If you get nervous when you move into uncharted territory together -- when, for example, they present an idea or want to pursue a dream that's very much outside the box -- the newness of it could scare you. But don't be scared! This is a positive influence as long as you trust it. Moving forward together into the creative unknown is likely a positive thing.

Saturn sextile Jupiter

Creative hard work

This influence is wonderful for a long-term relationship, because it really highlights two people's ability to work together toward a common goal. What is your goal as a couple? This could shift a great deal from one phase of your lives and relationship to the next. As a couple, your problem-solving strengths are as useful in resolving an argument as they are in taking on a huge project together, which is what makes this such an excellent long-term influence. You could end up launching a major project together -- a business, a home renovation, even raising children or pets -- and whatever it is that you decide to do, you have a natural gift for it. You combine your partner's creative ideas with your practical knowledge; your ability to work long and hard with their intellectual ideas and vision of the future to make that hard work mean something. You come to each other for great advice and support. This aspect supports a deep and abiding feeling of friendship and trust between you that helps you work together well and communicate on a deep level. It makes you serious together, but in a good way -- a way that you both want. After all, the best relationships are a blend of work and play, and this aspect helps you find that balance. You focus together on your goals, and blending your best qualities, you're sure to find success in whatever you might undertake.

Jupiter sextile Uranus

A lively exchange

With this aspect between you, you have a strong friendship that's based in intellectual freedom -- and that's a wonderful complement for a romantic relationship. You identify closely with your partner on an 'idea level.' You talk about everything under the sun, and they often spark you off -- they come up with something exciting and new and you both run with it. Whether you just have fun with this influence or actually use it in your work or your creative projects is up to you! Either way, it's a lot of fun, and creates a feeling of friendship and exciting openness between you. You two discuss your futures, create them, and then discuss new futures. And yet your paths are different enough to create both space and movement for both of you. You encourage each other to follow your dreams, you support each other with optimism and great ideas, but you don't get in each other's way because you're too busy following your own bliss! You probably get up to some pretty strange and interesting projects together. You can sometimes go too far under the influence of someone as radical as this, so make sure you always remember to stay within the bounds of reality. But since freedom and self-expression are the focus of this influence, you shouldn't try to rein yourself in too much; have fun with this aspect -- and your lover!

Sun conjunct Sun

Double-strength twin energies

You are naturally similar in energy and temperament, because your birthdays are very close together, even if you were born in different years. Think of the potential between you as your own natural energy, magnified to double strength. This can work in one of two ways. Either your connection flows really well -- you understand one another as no one else does, and feel as if you possess twin souls; or all the more trying personality traits that you both share come to the fore, creating problems for both of you. It may be like looking into a mirror -- a very honest one. The truth can hurt sometimes! Especially when it means looking at traits in your own character that are less than stellar. For example, two dreamy and indecisive people might never get anything done! Or two fiery, opinionated types who are quick to debate any issue may find that all they ever do is argue. The good news is, your needs for closeness and independence range on similar scales, which means your rhythms stand a good chance of being in sync. However, again, there lies potential for trouble, and it depends on other factors in your charts, not just your Sun signs. Any tendency toward aloofness and independence could mean that the passion that exists between you may not be enough to keep the connection strong. But if you both possess natures that ordinarily strive for harmony and intimacy, you're likely able to build a strong and devoted connection.

Mars conjunct Pluto

A powerful force

How this aspect affects your relationship is entirely up to the two of you, and depends on various factors -- how you each normally deal with strong emotions, since this aspect intensifies them; how you each handle power, because this aspect brings control issues to the surface; how well you're able to work together, because with this aspect you could accomplish a great deal; and so on. Basically, this influence is one very potent force! And how you use the power is up to you. For a lot of couples, this turns out to be a difficult aspect to deal with. It's likely led to battles of will, with your partner taking the authoritarian and power side, allowing themselves to be completely overtaken by all the unconscious and overwhelming feelings they experience within the relationship, and you relying on the strength of your own will to withstand the emotional storm visited upon you by your lover. This kind of pairing of irrationality and stubbornness is obviously not the best use of the power generated by this aspect, nor is it the most fun. Your sexual connection is charged up by this influence -- okay, getting more fun by the minute. But why not take it even a step further? You could work as a team, and divert all that intense energy into a project that you two work on together. After all, with this influence on your side, together you could move mountains! If you can focus on a big project or goal together, you'll achieve more than you could dream of on your own.

Saturn conjunct Venus

A sober romance

When you get together with this person, you are driven by a sense that you have some important work to do together. What this work entails is up to you -- it could be of a personal nature, such as building a good, solid relationship that leads to a long-term commitment and establishing a family; or it could be a business venture that requires both partners' careful forethought, planning and hard work. You work on a project together, and you encourage your partner to work harder and better than they would have on their own. This aspect lends a grounding effect to your relationship. There is a sober feeling to your bond, and though this doesn't have to be a restrictive influence, your partner might feel dissatisfied under its influence. For a business relationship, sober energy, focus and hard work are fine, even desirable. In a romantic relationship, though, they want a little bit of lightheartedness, of freedom and spontaneity, even foolishness. They don't want everything always to have a purpose or a goal; sometimes they just want to lie back with you and enjoy the bliss of the moment. This is probably hard for you to do with them. You just naturally focus on the more serious side of life, and your responsibilities and your commitment take center stage. You're likely to be in it for the security above all else, which can make your combined social life seem superfluous or stilted to your lover.

Saturn conjunct Mars

Difficult differences

You either complement each other well or antagonize each other for your differences -- and the latter is the more likely of the two possibilities, at least until you can learn to get along. In the beginning, when the relationship was new and immature, you probably worked well together; your lover supplied energy and excitement and you acted as a grounding influence. They were able to encourage you to be more spontaneous and carefree, looser in making plans and so on, while you had good lessons to teach them about responsibility, planning and hard work. Problems now arise when your partner's passion starts to get dampened by too much focus on responsibility. Your sexual connection could be doused like a flame under water if your energies are mismatched too often, or when you find that you want some very different things in the bedroom. You're actually likely to be made uncomfortable by your lover's carefree, adventurous spirit. It could make you feel nervous and unstable to be faced with such an unpredictable appetite, and your natural response might be to try to exert control over it and hold it down. But that doesn't work for long, and it only creates rebellion and even more unpredictability within your partner. Instead, why not try to get to know each other as the people that you truly are, even if it scares you (or bores you)? You'll probably find that your differences aren't so frightening or annoying after all, and in fact, they could be complementary, if you both give each other plenty of space.

Mercury conjunct Jupiter

Mind-expanding

You continue to feel hopeful and optimistic for your future. Your partner has a really positive influence on you; they help you expand your mind by bringing brand-new ideas to the table and exploring them with you. You have lively, engaging conversations together, during which you can discuss everything under the sun -- but your values and beliefs are a favorite focus, as is your future. By now, you've noticed that you each bring something unique and important to the relationship -- you have a lot of life experience, for example, while your partner has the knowledge and wherewithal to put that experience into words, or even to some kind of use. With this kind of positive aspect between you, you could go into business together or launch a creative project, because together, you can dream big! You're also able to ground your dreams in reality, giving them a firm foundation to stand on. Your similar senses of humor helps you both really appreciate all the similarities and complementary differences between you. You fill each other with such a sense of optimism and hope for the future, and when you tackle day-to-day life together, it seems fun, interesting and like a wonderful step toward an even better future together.

Jupiter conjunct Mercury

Mind-expanding

Your lover, especially, feels so hopeful and optimistic for the future when you're together! You have a really positive influence on them; you help them expand their mind by bringing brand-new ideas to the table and exploring them together. You have lively, engaging conversations during which you discuss everything under the sun -- but your individual values and beliefs are a favorite focus, and so is the future. You find that you each bring something unique and important to the relationship -- your lover has had a lot of life experience, for example, while you have the knowledge and wherewithal to put that experience into words, or even to some kind of use. With this kind of positive aspect between you, you could go into business together or launch a creative project, because together, you dream big! You're also able to ground your dreams in reality, giving them a firm foundation to stand on. Your similar senses of humor helps you to really appreciate all the similarities and complementary differences between you. You fill your lover with such a sense of optimism and hope for the future, and when you tackle day-to-day life together, it seems fun, interesting and like a wonderful step toward an even better shared future.

Venus square Venus

A different language

You might take a long time to get to know each other, because in some way, you are not each other's usual types. This doesn't have as much to do with some physical type than with innate qualities that each of you share, which may be in direct conflict with each other. You find that you don't match up well. Your values are not in tandem, and you could even annoy each other with the things that each of you finds important. You might disagree on money, for example; one of you might love to go out on dates and don't mind spending the money for a nice meal, while the other is more frugal and is very uncomfortable with that kind of extravagance. This kind of difficult interaction leads to arguments that are hard to resolve, because you just don't know where the other is coming from. In some sense, you don't speak the same language of love. You have completely different ways of expressing love and affection, and the ways in which you do so could easily just fly over the other's head, not registering on their radar of love. You both might end up feeling unappreciated, unloved and generally neglected. In order to avoid this, you both have to talk openly about your own experiences with love -- translate your language for each other, so to speak. If you can cue each other in on how you're showing affection, your partner has a better chance of picking up on the signals.

Venus square Mars

A big reaction

The attraction between you runs hot and strong, or at least it did in the beginning. It may be mutual, but it could be somewhat one-sided, with your partner running hot while you tend to run cooler. This kind of mismatch in your energies creates friction between you -- and friction can be very provocative! Your passions are aroused easily when you're together, but it isn't just your sensual passions being kicked into high gear. Your lover also irritates you, and a different kind of tension may mar your connection. In fact, you're likely to find them to be rather offensive -- noisy or crass in public, or just tactless whether it's in front of other people or behind closed doors. There might be cultural differences between you, or differences in the way you were each brought up, that will cause problems as well. You're more social than your lover, and your urge to go out all the time might make them jealous. In some way, you inspire a big reaction in each other -- and it isn't always pretty. A smooth, trouble-free relationship just isn't possible with this aspect firing things up between you. At least the making up after an argument is fun for both of you ... But the pattern of fighting, then kissing and making up may be wearing you both out if other aspects between you aren't intervening to cool down all that heat and energy.

Sun square Uranus

Unpredictable at best

One word describes your relationship: conflict. At first it was probably infrequent or mild, but as your involvement deepened, you probably found yourselves going head to head more and more often. You two have some basic and important differences when it comes to how life should be lived, and these differences take center stage every time you try to take your relationship to the next level. You take on the image of being overly traditional, even boring, and your lover takes on the image of being unstable and irresponsible -- and possibly even crazy. You likely fight over issues of responsibility, ethics, intimacy and everything else that's important to you. If you're lucky, these arguments take on a humorous cast, and you're able to laugh at yourselves and each other. But it's much more likely that they're painful disagreements that cut into both your souls. Part of the problem is that you truly live by your code of ethics, while your partner's morals are more abstract and changeable. You can see how this can be threatening to both of you, and how it can lead to disappointments on both sides. The further problem is that, through arguing your own point of view, each of you is subtly trying to dominate the other -- and that leads to some major clashes. This is a very unstable and difficult aspect to deal with in a relationship, and it will take plenty of patience on both your parts to get through it.

Jupiter square Neptune

The truth obscured

Your partner stimulates the most idealistic parts of your nature, which sounds nice -- except that they could encourage you to step off the edge of the mundane world and into the stratosphere with them. While this is fun and pleasurable, and makes you feel closely bonded as a couple, it does present some problems. You're so idealistic when you're with your partner that you could become quite irresponsible. After all, if all your focus and interest goes toward the uplifting feeling of being together, you can't get much done in the way of tedious, day-to-day responsibilities. You tend to be indulgent and enthusiastic, while your partner is rather gullible and impressionable, and that can be a bad combination. Your partner misleads you -- unintentionally, of course -- and could actually deceive you about good risks or investments. You talk each other up and it could be hard to come down again and face reality when it intrudes, which it has a nasty habit of doing. And over time, you've likely realized that you've overlooked the fact that you're not all that spiritually or philosophically attuned; all this time, you've been convincing each other to get involved with ideas or activities that don't even match up with your true values. This confusing effect has to be faced and dealt with; otherwise you just mislead each other without even meaning to.

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