Romantic Compatibility Guide

Jupiter trine Sun

Big plans for success

You both have an instinctive idea of what's good for each of you and the relationship, from the very start! Even if there are other, more troublesome aspects between you, this one helps warm things up and stabilizes your bond. This relationship is characterized by growth and success. You both go through some changes as individuals that can only be brought about through your connection with each other. These changes could be internal -- perhaps your partner, for example, has been struggling with some aspect of their personality or their past for some time -- or they could exist outside the normal scope of your romantic connection. For example, during the course of the relationship, you might choose to go back to school to advance your education, or your partner might change jobs in order to move onto a career path that is more closely aligned with the type of person they really are. These kinds of major life changes are supported by this relationship, as you're each able to offer one another a type of unconditional support and encouragement that makes both of you feel optimistic, even lucky, as if you can't go wrong. You discuss all the changes you're undergoing with each other, and listen with an open heart and an avid ear. This aspect lends a foundation of friendship to your romantic relationship that could help you make it last long-term.

Sun sextile Mars

A dynamic duo

This isn't any ordinary, sweet, retiring connection! The relationship between you two is characterized by making plans and carrying them out as a team. There is lots of natural energy between you; in fact, together, you create an energy that doesn't exist for either of you alone. Your focus is on putting that energy to use. Instead of just a sweet, romantic couple, you are a powerhouse duo with big ideas for improving the world and your station in it! When you're together, you're truly able to shine as individuals. Your confidence and enthusiasm increases exponentially when you're in each other's company, because you give one another such a high level of support and encouragement. You might want to try to start some sort of business or other enterprise together, as well as being a romantic couple, because you're so creative and impassioned as a team. Alternatively, the enterprise between you could turn out to be, simply, a new life -- buying a house and renovating it together, perhaps, or starting a family. After all, the sexual charge between you is strong and hot! And being creative together can have more than one meaning. However you do it, this is a dynamic influence that enables both of you to accomplish most anything you put your minds to, as long as you work on it together, with clear communication and optimism.

Mars sextile Jupiter

Realizing your potential

Your partner encourages you to be the person you want to be -- to pursue your goals, achieve your ambitions and become the success that you have the potential for within you! This encouraging energy is an active part of your day-to-day interactions, but it also comes through as a sort of effortless good-luck vibe. The support and enthusiasm your partner offers you actually creates a very positive energy that pushes you to dream big and act fearlessly. And sexually, you two are very much in tune! Your passions are aroused whenever you're around this person; they excite you, and your physical intimacy also furthers the good feelings and sense of fortune that characterizes your relationship. You encourage bravery in your lover and they inspire you to take good risks, so even if either of you is ordinarily more held back, this interaction pushes you out into the world, to act with fearlessness and courage. Basically, there is a lot of energy between you, and you love being active together. Playing sports together, going hiking, building or renovating houses or furniture -- whatever projects you undertake as a team are a success because you know that you can rely on each other as teammates. Your partner has a positive, optimistic effect on you, and you can help each other meet life head-on, with both eyes open.

Venus sextile Uranus

An inspired romance

No red roses or chocolates for you two; an impromptu rooftop picnic is much more your style, and your partner can amaze and excite you with the events they take you to. You two are attracted to each other in the extreme and you probably jumped into this relationship fast -- and then you hit the ground running. You felt as if you'd never met anyone like this person before, or maybe you'd just never been attracted to anyone like this. This is a highly creative and social relationship; you two have a lot of fun exploring the mischief you dream up together, and you inspire all kinds of creative ideas in each other. The relationship itself is an interesting and artistic project to work on together. You talk a lot about all your best ideas; in fact, you should capitalize on this creative bent together by working on a creative project as a team. You probably go out a lot -- no staying home, cuddling on the couch together for you two. It's all about doing something new, something exciting, every time. Of course, that's a lot of pressure for a relationship that's already gone through so much. Will you be able to continue to keep up with this person? And does your relationship have enough stability to just keep going forever, or will it eventually fizzle into a wonderful memory? That depends on the other aspects between you. But with just a little effort you two could have a lifetime of fun.

Saturn trine Neptune

Helping each other

You two have come together for a bigger purpose, a spiritual ideal -- which, granted, isn't the most romantic thing two lovers can do together! But you focus together willingly on ascending to greater spiritual heights. If you tend to be a cynical, pessimistic type (though you might call yourself realistic!), this relationship can help you open up your soul a little bit and soften that hardened shell you've developed as a response to what can seem like an unstable world. After all, your cynicism is just a defense mechanism you've developed as a response to various experiences that life has served up for you; it's not necessarily an accurate representation of the way the world really works. This relationship helps to open you back up to the intangible side of life, the mystical, ethereal, lyrical pleasures of love and human possibility. Your lover helps you to believe in magic, and you, in return, help them to stay grounded in reality. You might simply enrich each other's lives with your complementary perspectives, but you might also get into something more specific and directed in terms of spirituality -- going to church together or reading books about Zen Buddhism, for example. Even just gardening together can help to raise your sense of the mystery and magic of life while keeping your feet literally on the ground!

Jupiter sextile Jupiter

Supportive growth

You aren't necessarily overtly similar. Instead, your strength as a couple is an innate sense of balance and timing that forges a wonderful bond between you. You help each other find yourselves, so to speak; through loving each other, you learn to love and know yourselves. Your individual purposes in life could become more clear through the course of this relationship than they've ever been to you before, and you support each other as best friends would in finding your way along your paths. You feel calm and open when you're together, ready to take what comes and deal with it as a team. A wonderful effect of this influence is that you treat each other with respect at times when other couples -- or even you yourself, involved with someone else -- would fly off the handle. When problems come up between you, you are really good at staying calm and choosing the right moment to talk things out and deal with them together. So do something great with this influence! You both want to expand your minds and your horizons when you're together, and that's something you're able to do as a couple. Learning is highlighted for you, and the optimism you bring to each other's lives inspires self-confidence in both of you. You're protective and supportive of each other, and you really help each other grow as individuals.

Venus conjunct Sun

A strong attraction

You feel a lot of love for each other, right from the start! This is not to say that you necessarily experienced love at first sight, though that's not out of the question. It's that there is a naturally high level of attraction between you, a current of romantic energy and awareness that fosters a fun, exciting involvement for both of you. This aspect lends your relationship long-term potential, and helps to warm up any other aspects between you that might be less romantic or closely attached. Your romantic feelings for your lover are strong from the beginning, heightened by what feels like a magnetic pull between you. You feel drawn to them, and even when you're together, you still might not feel as if you can get enough of them -- and they feel the same way. You embrace, stare into one another's eyes and share your deepest, most tender feelings, and still you want to be closer! These feelings are heightened by a general sense of goodwill. You get along well, you consider one another to be your good friend and you admire each other's wonderful qualities. You're devoted to one another, a feeling that strengthens your bond and your commitment, if you make one. That strong feeling of attachment and intimacy helps you get through any disagreements or misunderstandings that may crop up.

Venus conjunct Mercury

Keeping the love alive

What a creative, positive, romantic bond you two share! Each of you brings certain gifts to the relationship, and your gifts complement one another well -- you have panache, and your lover has the vitality to give it form; you're intuitive, while their sense of logic underscores your intuitive ideas. Your romantic attraction for each other starts out strong and only increase. You're the couple that all your friends envy, and you have plenty of friends. You love an active social life, as it only feeds the exciting, romantic energy that runs like a current between you. This aspect helps you smooth over any rough patches that may occur in your relationship, because you instinctively know when to make a compromise in order to keep things harmonious. Harmony is a focus between you, an ideal that you work hard to attain together. You don't want to argue with each other much, and if you have other more aggressive aspects between you, this one greatly tones down that energy. You strive to be gentle with each other, and to show each other how much you care. And you do so in a variety of ways -- with a special glance or touch, a letter or email that speaks of your love... You are very creative in your expression of your feelings, and you both work hard to keep the love alive.

Mars conjunct Sun

A vital attraction

The attraction between you was strong and vital from the start. Regardless of what you're like as individuals, when you're together, your energies are on high. You push your lover to new limits and encourage them to test boundaries; you do this both as a team and as rivals. Yes, that means there is some friendly competition between you. In fact, your aggressive tendencies are brought forward in this relationship, so take care that you keep them in check! Remember, it's just a game -- whether that means a game of cards or pool, or the game of love. In general, however, you both know just how to have a good time together. Your physical attraction is strong; you're highly creative and ambitious together, both inside the bedroom and out of it. Physicality is likely a key way that you interact in this relationship; you might play on a softball team together or take weekend hiking or rafting trips. In many ways and on many levels, you egg each other on and increase one another's passion for life. There is a feeling of zest that is created between you -- excitement and anticipation for all the doors that your relationship opens for you. As long as you, especially, take care not to go overboard with your competitive or aggressive urges, this is a lot of fun for both of you.

Venus conjunct Saturn

A sober romance

Responsibility is a key ingredient of this relationship. You're both driven by a sense that you have some important work to do together. What this work is, is up to you -- it could be of a personal nature, such as building a good, solid relationship that leads -- or has led -- to a long-term commitment and establishing a family; or it could be a business venture that requires both of your careful forethought, planning and hard work. But you work on a project together, and your partner encourages you to work harder and better than you would have on your own. This aspect lends a grounding effect to your relationship. There is a sober feeling to your bond, and though this doesn't have to be a restrictive influence, you might feel dissatisfied under its influence. For a business relationship, sober energy, focus and hard work are fine, even desirable. But in a romantic relationship, you want a little bit of lightheartedness, of freedom and spontaneity, even foolishness. You don't want everything always to have a purpose or a goal; sometimes you just want to lie back with your lover and enjoy the bliss of the moment. This is probably hard for them to do with you. They just naturally focus on the more serious side of life, and their responsibilities and commitments take center stage. They're likely to be in it for the security above all else, which can make your combined social life seem superfluous or stilted to you.

Mercury conjunct Sun

Flowing conversation

From your first contact, the conversation flowed! You share a positive and enthusiastic connection that you both want to explore. You are naturally well-matched when it comes to joking around, expressing yourselves and communicating in general. You could even share an incredible connection on an intuitive level -- you may find yourself finishing your partner's sentences or they might pick up the phone to call you, only to find that you're already on the line, having just dialed their number. Your partner finds that your communicative bond pushes them to be more creative as well as more self-aware. You encourage and inspire your lover to express themselves more truly, to know themselves more deeply, through getting to know you. As your relationship deepens and grows more intimate, you begin to appreciate just how deep and subtle this connection is. Your understanding of your lover exists on a heart level as well as a mental one. On the surface, you share plenty of interests: You find the same jokes funny and you gravitate toward the same music, films, sports and so on. On a deeper level, your lover feels understood by you as a unique individual. This is a rare connection, so enjoy it -- and don't take it for granted!

Sun conjunct Saturn

It's a commitment thing

Yours was probably a serious relationship right from the start. Somehow, when they met you, your lover felt instinctively that this could easily be a long-term connection, and they set right out in making that commitment and doing what they could to get you two settling down together -- you two may have even bypassed some of the fun stages! Even if you're just dating, your partner likely has a sobering effect on you. If you're in a less stable position in life than they are -- younger, for example, or still in school or with a smaller income -- they can't resist offering you plenty of comments and suggestions about how to get on the right track. The problem is, this can come across as criticism, especially since they're already naturally the more authoritative partner. Each of us needs to find our own path in life, and if we're trying to do so while under the scrutiny of someone whose opinion really matters to us, it can make the process that much more difficult. Duty and responsibility weigh heavily in this relationship, which can sometimes be difficult to bear. On the other hand, it probably comes as a great relief to you to bond with someone whom you know instinctively that you can trust. You can choose to be open to the advice they give you, and to offer your own valuable perspective in exchange. It all depends on how you to look at it.

Saturn conjunct Jupiter

Joint efforts

What are your goals as a couple? This is a question you face together, because the particular blend of your energies lends itself to problem-solving and goal achievement. Your partner is naturally more enthusiastic and creative than you are, while you tend more toward seriousness. This difference shouldn't be a problem; in fact, you help to balance each other out, providing energetic bursts or reality checks just when they are needed. Your problem-solving strengths as a couple are as useful in resolving an argument as they are in taking on a huge project together -- renovating a house, starting a business, you name it! Whatever you decide to do, you're likely have a natural gift at it together. Your lover comes to you for advice, trusting that the advice they receive is sound. Just make sure that your differences don't create a gulf between you over time. You might have the tendency to drag your partner and their optimistic energy down; but allowing that creative, high-flying spirit to be stifled should be avoided, as it's the magic behind the hard work. Similarly, your lover should take care not to pooh-pooh the soberness of your thinking, because that sobriety provides a much-needed grounding influence. You have a lot to learn from each other, and together you make two halves of a very strong team.

Saturn square Venus

Rejected affection

If you're attracted to each other, that fact alone indicates that there are plenty of positive aspects between you, because this one makes things pretty difficult when it comes to relating naturally as a couple. There is an element of control coming from you to your partner that makes it hard to get along. When you're together, they feel restricted in their romantic expression toward you, and it could come out cold or just stilted. You try to restrain their natural way of being in a relationship. They could start to feel as if any affectionate advance they make toward you is rebuffed as inappropriate in some way. Needless to say, this makes it hard during moments when losing yourselves would be appropriate -- when you're being intimate, for example, or just out and supposedly having a good time. Your lover could even begin to feel as if any romantic overtures are made fun of or just flat-out denied. Where does this come from? You should both look at the experiences you've had in your lives with all kinds of love -- relationships you've each had with your fathers, for example, or with past lovers. You may have experienced this kind of coldness and lack of affection before, and somehow, when you two get together, those old feelings from past relationships are stimulated. If this relationship is long-term, facing this problem and getting through it is important.

Venus square Neptune

A muddy connection

You two are completely immersed in each other's emotional lives, constantly trying to figure out what the other is feeling. While it's wonderful to try to meet your lover's needs, it's unrealistic to do it all the time -- and you run the risk of overlooking your own, because you're so caught up in your partner. They might just not know what they want out of the relationship or out of life in general -- or they just can't tell you, which is very confusing for you. You may feel unfulfilled, as if things aren't quite right, but you don't know what you need or how to get back on an even keel. And while you try to be everything your lover is looking for, that isn't always possible. Your visions of each other are so muddy and changeable that it is hard to maintain a clear grasp on the relationship in general, and on each other's hearts and minds in particular. Your lover may have even fallen into the habit of misrepresenting things -- not necessarily out-and-out lying, but not sticking strictly to the truth, since the truth is so difficult to pinpoint when you're together. Honesty and understanding are hard to come by, and sooner or later, you may wake up from the dream of your relationship -- if you haven't already -- feeling disappointed by the fact that you don't really know this person very well at all; that your bond isn't as true or intuitive as you thought.

Jupiter square Saturn

An inhibitive influence

Though individually you might focus on your dreams and ideals for the future, when you're together, you may have a restrictive, inhibitive effect on each other's ability to attain those ideals. Whenever you have a bright, creative, high-flying idea about a goal that you want to meet, your partner tends to bring it down with an overly sober explanation of everything that might go wrong. And whenever they're trying to be serious about working hard toward one of their goals, you're off somewhere, refusing to focus or get serious with them. Your partner probably takes on the role of the overly serious nay-sayer more often, while you adopt the role of the careless, unfocused, freewheeling one. And after a while, you both might come to believe that you haven't achieved anything of significance since you got together, and the whole time you've been burdened by a feeling of limitation and responsibility, or of fighting off the chaos that lurks only a step away! Neither of you deserves to have your sense of responsibility challenged or your joie de vivre stripped away. So your task in this relationship is to learn how to move forward and achieve your goals, even in the face of opposition. It might not be a fun process, but it could be a very important step in developing your own strength and determination.

Saturn square Uranus

A widening gulf

Even if you didn't start out being overly traditional in your values regarding commitment, duty and so on, you became more so in this relationship, in part because of your lover's rebellious insistence on independence. Over time it's become apparent that you need a lot more security within the relationship than your partner does. The bad news is, your natural response might be to cling tighter and tighter, which only causes your freedom-seeking partner to run even more determinedly in the opposite direction. The gulf between you became wider as your perceptions of each other solidify -- you take on the role as the controlling, overly needy or demanding partner, while they're the rebellious and unreliable one who can't be counted on. Neither of these characterizations is exactly fair; it's just that you bring out these qualities in each other, because you're both naturally looking out for yourselves and your own interests in the relationship. When it starts to seem like you're not getting what you want, you naturally respond by insisting on it, instead of taking a softer approach. The blending of your strengths and seemingly opposing qualities have a much better effect. It might be that all your struggles over this subject leads to a forced compromise. It's up to you to make the compromise come true.

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