Romantic Compatibility Guide

Sun trine Pluto

Emotional vitality

Your sexual attraction to one another has only been strengthened by this aspect, because it also intensifies the emotional bond between you, which runs quite deep. You have both experienced this depth of feeling from the beginning as a sensation of being very well understood. Your bond probably even felt effortless from the start, as did communicating in a physical way. Old emotions from your lover's past -- even ones that may not have served them well for some time -- have found positive expression in this relationship. Basically, the two of you together can be quite creative on a mental or emotional level, and you help each other grow as individuals. Even your less admirable qualities can be transformed into loftier ones through this relationship. Issues of egotism or vanity are expressed in a more positive way, and vulnerabilities are faced and strengthened. These powerful changes haven't been confined simply to an individual or ego level, either; your lover could help you to achieve your highest ambitions in a career or artistic sphere. This aspect has given your relationship incredible staying power, especially in combination with other stabilizing aspects. The positive effects of this influence can lead to a long-term relationship if you let them.

Saturn trine Mars

Working together effectively

You're not very similar in the ways that you meet the world, but your differences are complementary, and if you can learn to appreciate them as such, you could really have a dynamic and mutually satisfying relationship. Each of you brings a unique gift to the relationship that helps you both to achieve your goals. Your partner is the idea person -- the energetic one who's not afraid to take risks, get competitive and get out there to get something done. You're more into calculated moves that ensures success. So why not blend the two styles? This applies to the bedroom, as well -- your exuberant lover wants to try every position in the book (and even some that aren't in there), and you bring your steady hand and calm, studied approach to really take you both to a new level of intimacy. Your lover's energy and optimism helps to boost your spirits, as you occasionally tend toward depression or pessimism. If you can appreciate your differences, which is likely, you make a great, dynamic team.

Mercury trine Saturn

Practical function

Your lover can actually inspire you to express yourself more clearly and honestly. Especially when compared to so many relationships in which the merging of two personalities means the submerging of parts of both, this is a true gift, and one to be properly appreciated. Whatever high-flying, abstract or generally not well-founded ideas you may have, your lover can find a way to give expression and function to those ideas. They have a sobering effect on you, in a way that helps you to stabilize your thought processes. If you normally have trouble being decisive or mapping out a path for yourself, this relationship could be just the thing you need to get serious and find direction in your life. Any troublesome aspects that may exist between you, ones that would otherwise negatively affect your relationship, are greatly helped by this influence, because your communication is strong and beneficial to you both. You're able to talk honestly about any problems or issues that might come up between you. More than that, you make a great working team. There is a serious sort of creativity that happens when you're together; you bring up an idea and your lover can figure out how to make it solid and workable. They help you concentrate and separate your better ideas from your not-so-solid ones.

Jupiter sextile Venus

Lucky in love

This person didn't just fall for you; they learn from you and look up to you as a mentor who can teach them about the kind of person they want to become. They're able to talk openly with you about anything and everything that comes up, and you understand them really well. Through this openness, they grow to understand themselves better, which aids in their career, their personal relationships and all other areas of their life. You have a wonderful effect on this person, and they do the same for you. Socially, they encourage you to make the most of their contacts. You both have fun when you go out together and your partner also points it out when there's a social opportunity that could turn out to be more than that. You make each other feel strong, motivated and even lucky. Your lover also makes you feel smart, as if you're more able to put things together in terms of what your social experiences mean in the larger scheme of things. Your grasp of philosophy is welcome, interesting and helpful to them. This aspect is great for being in a long-term bond, because it fosters such warmth and affection between you.

Saturn trine Jupiter

Working as a team

You're able to work together and achieve some major goals under the influence of this aspect, but don't expect the process to be simple and effortless. It's true that you have a naturally attuned gift as a couple due to your lover's expansive ideas paired up with your strong sense of responsibility; and putting these gifts together has great results. But you have to be open to the benefits of this combination. As a couple, you have the strengths needed for hard and focused work -- a vision for the future, a sense of discipline -- but it doesn't get you anywhere unless you make sure to treat each other with respect. You should respect and appreciate each other's individual strengths. Allow each other to do what you're best at. Your lover is probably more creative when it comes to dreaming up ways of working toward a goal, so they should be the 'idea man' (or woman) -- the cheerleader for your team. You probably have more real-life experience or more of a sense of how to work hard, so you should function as the engine of the team, keeping you both moving forward at a steady pace. Lack of faith in those creative ideas or a self-indulgent urge to slow down whenever you feel like it kills those high-flying ideas and brings that momentum grinding to a halt. But supporting each other's strengths leads to success for both of you!

Sun sextile Mercury

An easy flow of ideas

From the get-go, you've shared an easy understanding and a communicative rapport. It's not that you have such similar personalities that you don't ever experience misunderstandings or disagreements -- of course, you do. It is just easier than usual to hash it out and express yourself without hurting your lover's feelings too deeply. This is because they have an instinctive understanding for just how to get through to you, and how to respect your individuality. In fact, just by relating with your partner, you may feel a sense of power and vitality, as if your individuality is better defined than ever before. This is because you feel respected by your lover as a unique person with original, valid ideas and perspectives. You've changed and grown during this relationship, and truly become more of an individual than ever before, as this might be the first time you've experienced such respect, support and acceptance. Either way, you're very talkative with your lover, and love discussing your past experiences and relationships, your present activities and your goals for the future. You could even enjoy getting into the occasional, fun debate, since neither of you is threatened by the other's opinions! You two are also highly creative together; whether this takes the form of some really fun, unique dates or actually launching a creative or entrepreneurial project together is up to you!

Sun sextile Neptune

A spiritual bond

Your bond was really romantic, right from the start! Your lover's soul somehow instinctively recognized yours, and you still bond on an emotional and spiritual level that brings a sense of dreamy connectedness to your relationship. With an aspect like this one working in your favor, falling in love probably happened quickly! Your communication is enhanced, because you connect on a nonverbal level. You have wonderful conversations, of course, but you also share companionable silences during which your lover knows exactly what you're thinking. They're able to intuit your moods and they treat you with a great deal of sensitivity. This relationship is very inspiring to you, both spiritually and creatively. You both feel spiritually elevated by the bond you share with one another. You're able to use this inspiration in a private way, as well, learning from one another about how to grow as individuals. Because your lover, especially, gets so much out of this relationship, they're willing to put a lot in. They make plenty of sacrifices for you, but not at the expense of any resource they can't afford or that they regret giving up. Quite the opposite, in fact -- they want to make those sacrifices, offering them in honor of the bond you share.

Mercury sextile Uranus

A creative team

Your conversations have never followed the usual tracks. Instead of talking about your likes and dislikes, your jobs and your families and yada, yada, yada, you went off on some wild and crazy tangents that had both of you amazed, amused, and really appreciating this new, interesting person's company! And the better you got to know each other, the more this became true. You two are an idea couple, but with just a little extra planning, you could really put your ideas to work. You make a great team, since you each have your own unique gifts to add to the mix. You put form and function to your partner's more abstract ideas, combining your practicality with their vision to create a whole that's larger than the sum of its parts. So use this influence for something big: a creative project, a scientific discovery, an invention -- something that will change the world as you know it. You can fan the flames of each other's fire, breathe life into each other's unconscious minds... What a wonderful, creative influence! The possibilities are limited only by your imaginations, so make the most of this wonderful influence.

Venus conjunct Sun

A strong attraction

You feel a lot of love for each other, right from the start! This is not to say that you necessarily experienced love at first sight, though that's not out of the question. It's that there is a naturally high level of attraction between you, a current of romantic energy and awareness that fosters a fun, exciting involvement for both of you. This aspect lends your relationship long-term potential, and helps to warm up any other aspects between you that might be less romantic or closely attached. Your romantic feelings for your lover are strong from the beginning, heightened by what feels like a magnetic pull between you. You feel drawn to them, and even when you're together, you still might not feel as if you can get enough of them -- and they feel the same way. You embrace, stare into one another's eyes and share your deepest, most tender feelings, and still you want to be closer! These feelings are heightened by a general sense of goodwill. You get along well, you consider one another to be your good friend and you admire each other's wonderful qualities. You're devoted to one another, a feeling that strengthens your bond and your commitment, if you make one. That strong feeling of attachment and intimacy helps you get through any disagreements or misunderstandings that may crop up.

Mercury conjunct Venus

Keeping the love alive

What a creative, positive, romantic bond you two share! Each of you brings certain gifts to the relationship, and your gifts complement one another well -- your lover has panache, and you have the vitality to give it form; they're intuitive, while your sense of logic will underscore their creative ideas. Your romantic attraction for each other started out strong and then only increased. You're the couple that all your friends envy, and you have plenty of friends. You both love an active social life, as it only feeds the exciting, romantic energy that runs like a current between you. This aspect helps you smooth over any rough patches that may occur in your relationship, because you instinctively know when to make a compromise in order to keep things harmonious. Harmony is a focus between you, an ideal that you work hard to attain together. You don't want to argue with each other much, and if you have other more aggressive aspects between you, this one greatly tones down that energy. You strive to be gentle with each other, and to show each other how much you care. And you do so in a variety of ways -- with a special glance or touch, a letter or email that speaks of your love... You are both very creative in the expression of your feelings, and you'll both continue to work hard to keep the love alive.

Mars conjunct Mercury

Friendly debates

There is a lot of stimulation in your mental connection! You have great conversations, but they could get heated -- you constantly try to best your partner, interrupting them in order to show off your cleverness and sharp wits. If they can handle that kind of energy, this influence should be a lot of fun! Friendly debates should prove exciting, unless you allow them to verge into more aggressive territory, which is a real possibility with this influence. If your partner grew up in a household that encouraged this kind of lively communication, they should be able to handle it just fine; but if they're used to more respectful or sedate conversations, they could be taken by surprise -- especially if you rely on aggressive argument to make your point. That kind of energy could make the best of us shrink back! It definitely takes two strong backbones to make this aspect work, because otherwise, it could become a constant irritation -- and for what? If either of you doesn't find it fun to debate every issue, your partner, especially, might not like the way your conversations go. Happily, this sort of energy definitely lends itself well to your sexual connection. You're strongly attracted to your lover based in large part on your mental bond. Translation? You could get really into phone sex! Don't forget, you heard it here first.

Venus conjunct Neptune

Enchanted love

The mystery of this relationship eludes you -- it simply exists on its own, seemingly without input or nurturing from either of you. What a gift! You have such a strong foundation of sympathy and affection to draw from. You both feel as if you just can't get enough of being close -- you may even feel bewitched by each other, fascinated in a way that neither of you understands. The powerful currents of your romantic attraction sweep you along, and your love feels like a fantasy, a fairy tale, a wondrous story without end, full of possibility and nuance. But you have to try hard not to let the romance sweep you into the deep end! Things could get confusing if you linger too long in Never Never Land. The effect of this aspect is to intensify whatever other aspects there might be between you. For example, if there are other grounding influences in your relationship, then this aspect simply adds a powerful shot of love and romance to the mix. But if there are other aspects between you that might muddy your communication or alter your perception of each other, those effects can also be heightened. Though your imagination is stimulated by this influence, which is generally a good thing, it is also beneficial to ground yourself in reality from time to time. Remind yourself -- and your partner -- to balance the poetry of your love affair with a healthy dose of nonfiction.

Jupiter conjunct Mercury

Mind-expanding

Your lover, especially, feels so hopeful and optimistic for the future when you're together! You have a really positive influence on them; you help them expand their mind by bringing brand-new ideas to the table and exploring them together. You have lively, engaging conversations during which you discuss everything under the sun -- but your individual values and beliefs are a favorite focus, and so is the future. You find that you each bring something unique and important to the relationship -- your lover has had a lot of life experience, for example, while you have the knowledge and wherewithal to put that experience into words, or even to some kind of use. With this kind of positive aspect between you, you could go into business together or launch a creative project, because together, you dream big! You're also able to ground your dreams in reality, giving them a firm foundation to stand on. Your similar senses of humor helps you to really appreciate all the similarities and complementary differences between you. You fill your lover with such a sense of optimism and hope for the future, and when you tackle day-to-day life together, it seems fun, interesting and like a wonderful step toward an even better shared future.

Jupiter conjunct Uranus

Exploring your horizons

You were attracted to your partner from the very beginning for the mile-wide independent streak that runs through them. You took one look at them and knew instinctively -- here's someone who won't hold me back. The influence of this aspect supports that sense of freedom, individuality and originality. And by now you've discovered just how well you two match up intellectually; you both love tossing around ideas, the bigger and more abstract the better. But you aren't all talk; you're all about action as well. You probably get up to some pretty strange antics together! Your partner has a tendency to egg you on, so be careful about going too far when you're together. You might get into things that would give you definite pause if you were on your own. But since this aspect is all about discovery of the unknown, cautioning you to exercise restraint might be futile anyway. You want to expand your horizons in a big way; you want to gobble up the world with your partner. And again, they'd never hold you back. This relationship might not be the most clingy, dependent relationship around, but that should suit both of you just fine. You don't want to sit around at home, cuddling on the couch -- unless it's to watch a documentary film about a little-known African community, or some similar glimpse into the unknown. But knowing you two, watching the video isn't enough; you want to be out there, experiencing it for yourselves.

Mars square Mars

Two raw nerves

Without plenty of harmonizing aspects to stabilize your connection and promote good feelings between you, this aspect could be the downfall of this relationship because of the hostile energy it creates. You notice that whenever you're around each other, you feel excited and touchy, ready to react to anything your partner does or says -- and even to imagined slights. Though you might start off with a strong sexual bond, that could be burning out fast in the face of the hard feelings that spring up between you. After a while, you find that you want it at different times and in different ways, and the differences offend you! The problem is that your basic approach to life, to how you get things done on a day by day basis, is at odds. You aren't able not to take things personally; in a sense, you have the effect of poison ivy on each other -- a spreading irritation that only seems to get worse. When arguments arise, you both get hostile and defensive fast, even if that's not your normal nature. You feel the tension in your bodies when you're together: a low-grade headache, hunched shoulders, furrowed brow ... It's hard to relax when you're together, and if you let yourselves indulge in petty arguing, it only gets harder. Exercising extreme patience is the only way to get through this difficult influence, but this aspect makes patience almost unattainable.

Venus square Saturn

Rejected affection

The simple fact that you two are in a relationship is a strong indicator that there are plenty of other positive aspects between you, because this one makes things pretty difficult when it comes to relating naturally as a couple. Your partner likely attempts to control you in a way that makes it hard to get along. You feel restricted in your affection and romantic expression toward your lover, and it could come out cold or just stilted. Your lover tries to restrain your natural way of being in a relationship. You could feel as if any affectionate advance you make toward them is rebuffed as inappropriate in some way. Needless to say, this makes it hard during moments when losing yourselves would be appropriate -- when you're being intimate, for example, or just out and supposedly having a good time. At times, you may have even felt as if your romantic overtures were made fun of or just flat-out denied. Where does this come from? Look at the experiences you've had in your lives with all kinds of love -- relationships you've each had with your fathers, for example, or with past lovers. You may have experienced this kind of coldness and lack of affection before, and somehow, when you two got together, those old feelings from past relationships were stimulated. To keep this relationship strong, it's important that you face your problems head-on, and then get over them.

Mars square Jupiter

Creating energy

This aspect lends you an element of competition and extreme behavior that sparks all your interactions; good or bad, it's all up to you. Whether you're on the same team or opposing ones; whether you're playing a game, having an argument, discussing a movie you just saw -- you push each other to say what you really mean, to focus your energies and efforts and get more done than you would have on your own. Hopefully you weren't taken by surprise -- this is a difficult aspect to deal with, especially at first. You kid with each other, making jokes at each other's expense, riding each other -- and you, especially, could take offense before you realize that you're both just playing around. You two need to remember to convince yourselves to be patient with each other, so you can understand that you're just poking fun at each other. But then there's your partner's opinionated nature to contend with -- they have plenty of opinions and they stand right by them, often at the expense of listening to you or weighing whether they're really correct in their own position. But over time, as you grow to trust and like each other more and more, you allow that helpful influence to start seeping in. You challenge each other on your beliefs, which help you better define them. If you work together as a team, you can find that the slightly challenging energy between you sparks creative action.

Mercury square Pluto

Twin obsessions

The mental effect you two have on each other is strong, but not necessarily pleasant. There is an air of intensity when you're together, and your partner pushes you to confront the deepest, most complex and potentially frightening issues in your life -- your past, for example, or your attitudes about death, sex and spirituality. The way that they try to force you to face these issues down and ferret out your deepest, most buried emotions is probably pretty uncomfortable for both of you. You likely have arguments over your differing viewpoints -- or you fight when you don't feel like obsessing about such issues all the time. But you feel compelled to do it, as if your time together would be wasted on mere small talk or superficial communication. This aspect could have a positive effect, as well; it encourages transformation to a higher mental plane, or a higher level of self-awareness. But the likelihood is more that you'll mentally torture yourself due to your partner's effect on you. You argue and obsess about things that never bothered you before you two met, and you probably experience bad dreams or a suppressed mood when you're awake. They might try hard to have control over your emotions and thoughts, which would really push this influence to its limits. Try to give each other, and yourselves, a break from time to time, because this kind of influence will wear you both out if you're not careful.

Jupiter square Jupiter

Respect your differences

Your morals don't match up, and the differences probably offend both of you. You have a hard time taking a live-and-let-live attitude about this, because they're such basic and important beliefs that are at odds. Your spiritual views are likely to be completely different, and instead of respecting each other's beliefs, you both probably cling even more fiercely to your own as if they're the only acceptable beliefs there are. So who's right and who's wrong? That's just the problem -- neither one of you! These are your opinions, formed after a lifetime of experience and learning. To argue over them could be interesting, to a point, until things get ugly and you both throw up walls to avoid facing the fact that your own way of viewing things isn't the only one -- and it's not necessarily even the most well-founded, either. Education could also become a big issue between you, especially if you've reached different levels of it. And if you travel together, get ready for some major disagreements! Everything from which type of hotel you should stay in to where you should eat sparks discussions, at least, and more likely arguments. This aspect's intensity is determined by other aspects between you. If you communicate well and treat each other with respect, this isn't too hard to deal with, but if your communication is already afflicted, you have battles.

Saturn opposite Uranus

Different ideas

You two may have started out on even ground, but over time it's become apparent that you're polarized in how you live your lives. You need a lot of security within a romantic relationship, much more than your partner needs. In fact, they need the opposite -- a lot of independence, freedom and space. You have a hard time giving that to them; you might actually cling tighter the more they demand space, which can create a big rift between you. You seem controlling and rigid to them and they seem unreliable and unstable to you. It's not that these are fair or correct characterizations; it's just that that's the effect you have on each other, and those are the qualities that are exacerbated within each of you when you're together. When it starts to seem like either of you is not getting what you want, you naturally respond by insisting on it, instead of taking a softer approach. The interesting thing is, you stand to learn a lot from each other -- you know that's been the truth so far, and it could become even more real with just a little effort. There are aspects to each of your approaches that would be valuable if combined with the strengths of your partner, and it's up to you to figure out, together, what those aspects are. Once you do, you'll stand a much better chance of blending your strengths and presenting a united front to the world.

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