Romantic Compatibility Guide

Mars sextile Venus

Sensual support

The attraction between you runs sweet and strong! Your natural ability to communicate with each other and to access each other's best selves only increases your appetite for each other. This bond is based on mutual support, but also on your complementary qualities: you bring the energy and enthusiasm to the bedroom, while your partner adds a practical viewpoint to the mix. That practicality isn't dull, however; on the contrary, your intimate, sensual moments are highly charged and your desire for each other both passionate and vivid. Though your physical, sensual connection is a wonderful bond between you, there is a lot more that draws you together. You have a highly emotional and affectionate bond as well; you find emotional sustenance through your physical connection. This could be the most sexually satisfying relationship that your partner has ever had, and it could be the most emotionally satisfying you've ever experienced. You support each other like friends, you desire each other like lovers and you work together like a real team. The easy paths of communication that run between you should pave the way toward understanding each other and yourselves better and better over time. This aspect supports a long-term relationship, and helps warm up any cooler or more difficult influences between you.

Jupiter trine Sun

Big plans for success

You both have an instinctive idea of what's good for each of you and the relationship, from the very start! Even if there are other, more troublesome aspects between you, this one helps warm things up and stabilizes your bond. This relationship is characterized by growth and success. You both go through some changes as individuals that can only be brought about through your connection with each other. These changes could be internal -- perhaps your partner, for example, has been struggling with some aspect of their personality or their past for some time -- or they could exist outside the normal scope of your romantic connection. For example, during the course of the relationship, you might choose to go back to school to advance your education, or your partner might change jobs in order to move onto a career path that is more closely aligned with the type of person they really are. These kinds of major life changes are supported by this relationship, as you're each able to offer one another a type of unconditional support and encouragement that makes both of you feel optimistic, even lucky, as if you can't go wrong. You discuss all the changes you're undergoing with each other, and listen with an open heart and an avid ear. This aspect lends a foundation of friendship to your romantic relationship that could help you make it last long-term.

Mars trine Neptune

Potential for confusion

Your partner is completely able to understand your creativity, which is no small thing -- you might not let out your most creative ideas with most people, because you're not sure how they'll be received. But with this pairing, neither of you should worry about that. You give form to your lover's more abstract ideas, and they stimulate yours. With this kind of influence between you, you could accomplish a lot together because it pairs your practical drive with your partner's creative ideas. You, especially, are inspired by your partner to move to a whole new level in your thinking -- perhaps an emotional or spiritual transformation. If you desire, you can just keep getting more and more in tune with yourself, your intuitions and your deeper motivations. And in return, you offer your partner all your energy, enthusiasm and support. Just be sure to stay communicative with each other, even when things get murky. You could simply be confused together about your aims in life and in the relationship; a feeling of confusion could mark the relationship. So take care to be very, very clear with each other and encourage each other in your self-expression. You'll find that through your diligence, you two can gain a new perspective on life and the world you live in. You can open each other's minds to all kinds of new horizons! So talk, express yourselves, listen to each other and keep moving forward together into the creative unknown.

Jupiter trine Jupiter

A sense of purpose

Your relationship creates a supportive energy that gives you both room to be the people that you are. You're similar on an idealistic level, and you find that your ideas about life -- what you want to do, what you believe in -- are comfortingly similar. The sense of purpose you feel when you're together is inspiring; you want to get big things done, launch creative projects, move forward in your lives as individuals and as a couple. It could even feel as if your purpose is revealed simply by forging a relationship together! This is not to say that the relationship itself is your sole purpose; instead, something in the way you relate with each other reveals where you should go next. You both want to expand your minds and your horizons when you're together, and that's something you're able to do as a couple. Learning and education is a focus for you, and the optimism you bring to each other's lives inspires self-confidence in both of you. You're protective and supportive of each other, and you really help each other grow as individuals. Just be careful not to take each other or this positive effect for granted. You could come to depend on each other's strengths as individuals so thoroughly that you simply expect them -- not remembering that they're gifts to be appreciated. As long as you don't become complacent about these strengths, you're able to put them to good use, and grow together.

Jupiter trine Saturn

Working as a team

You two are able to work together and achieve some major goals under the influence of this aspect, but this process is hardly simple and effortless. It's true that you have a naturally attuned gift as a couple as your expansive ideas pair up with your lover's strong sense of responsibility; and putting these gifts together has great results. But you have to be open to the benefits of this combination. As a couple, you have the strengths needed for hard and focused work -- a vision for the future, a sense of discipline -- but you don't get anywhere except when you make sure to treat each other with respect. You should respect and appreciate each other's individual strengths. Allow each other to do what you're best at. You're probably more creative when it comes to dreaming up ways of working toward a goal, so you should be the idea person -- the cheerleader for your team. And your lover probably has more real-life experience or more of a sense of how to work hard, so they should function as the engine of the team, keeping you both moving forward at a steady pace. Lack of faith in those creative ideas or a self-indulgent urge to slow down whenever you feel like it can kill those high-flying ideas and bring that momentum grinding to a halt. But supporting each other's strengths leads to success for both of you every time!

Sun sextile Jupiter

The sky is the limit

You derive a feeling of expansiveness and optimism from this relationship. As individuals, you might both be very positive, forward-thinking people, but when you're together, that influence grows exponentially! You each feel as if the sky's the limit -- as if there's an endless horizon of new experiences and lessons to be learned. Happily, this isn't be all about the drudgery and tedium of learning; far from it. Rather, it's about the joy of inner growth, of becoming the person you truly are -- the person you always suspected you could be. You each offer the other unconditional support and encouragement that fosters some highly positive energy. They encourage you to be your truest, kindest, most honest self, and they admire these qualities in you. You might move the relationship outside the bounds of a simple romantic connection by taking classes together to learn a new skill, or even by starting a business together or undertaking some other enterprise. At the very least, you can read to one another in bed or on long trips; you can share funny stories you heard, or heartbreaking ones you read in the paper; you can go to movies that make you laugh, cry and stay up late into the night, discussing the boundless possibilities that the universe has to offer.

Sun sextile Saturn

A practical pair

Your partner naturally takes on the role of guide or mentor in this relationship -- being, perhaps, older or more financially stable, or having had more education or general life experience. This should be a comfortable dynamic for both of you. You have a lot to learn from your lover, and you actually want to learn these lessons. Your relationship is grounded in practicality. You've both known, almost from the start, what your limitations are as a couple -- meaning, what works and what doesn't. You both understand and accept the type of communication style you share, and don't expect dramatic declarations of devotion or swells of emotion. This is because you both understand that the bond between you runs deep and true, and doesn't need qualification or even reiteration. Similarly, you both also know and respect the physical connection between you, and even if you're not exactly in sync sexually, you don't push one another to be a different kind of lover than the one that you are. Precisely because you don't push one another to be someone you're not, you're able to grow as individuals in a natural way through the course of the relationship, regardless of how long it continues to last. After all, you both have something to offer the other -- your lover can offer that life experience and knowledge that you lack, and you can offer them a sense of freshness and vitality that keeps the relationship new and exciting.

Saturn conjunct Venus

A sober romance

When you get together with this person, you are driven by a sense that you have some important work to do together. What this work entails is up to you -- it could be of a personal nature, such as building a good, solid relationship that leads to a long-term commitment and establishing a family; or it could be a business venture that requires both partners' careful forethought, planning and hard work. You work on a project together, and you encourage your partner to work harder and better than they would have on their own. This aspect lends a grounding effect to your relationship. There is a sober feeling to your bond, and though this doesn't have to be a restrictive influence, your partner might feel dissatisfied under its influence. For a business relationship, sober energy, focus and hard work are fine, even desirable. In a romantic relationship, though, they want a little bit of lightheartedness, of freedom and spontaneity, even foolishness. They don't want everything always to have a purpose or a goal; sometimes they just want to lie back with you and enjoy the bliss of the moment. This is probably hard for you to do with them. You just naturally focus on the more serious side of life, and your responsibilities and your commitment take center stage. You're likely to be in it for the security above all else, which can make your combined social life seem superfluous or stilted to your lover.

Saturn conjunct Mercury

A sobering effect

Don't expect this to be a fun, frivolous affair, because you, especially, get serious fast. If you have a problem to solve or a project to work on, together you give it a much more concentrated effort than you might on your own. Your lover probably comes to depend on your point of view if you are in a long-term relationship, because you give them such solid, practical advice. This aspect could have a bit of a difficult side to it, as well; if they aren't used to being thorough in their thinking, they're challenged to think things through in a much more careful way. You point out the weak spots in their logic and require every idea they present to you to be solid, with ample proof backing it up. Does this get tiresome at times? Yes. But it could help them to develop mental skills that they use for the rest of their life. On the other hand, it's possible that this relationship ends up having a stifling effect on their more high-flying, unique and creative ideas. There is a general sense between you that you shouldn't spend time on anything that's not perfectly practical. Don't expect many flights of fancy in your conversations. Whether this aspect turns out to have an overall positive or negative effect is influenced by the other aspects between you, and how you handle this one.

Sun opposite Mars

A volatile connection

Unless there are many other strong, positive aspects to your relationship that will strengthen a feeling of support and understanding between you, this aspect could eventually be the deal-breaker. The problem is a certain level of natural irritation that occurs when you're together: You just get under each other's skin on a variety of levels. The energy that is created when you're in one another's company can run hot and high; it can stimulate quite a powerful physical attraction between you, and make you each downright hungry for the other. The likelihood is also that you're a couple who argues passionately and then kisses and makes up even more passionately. This can be quite exciting, but it's not a great influence for a long-term bond. It's hard to sustain a feeling of trust and support with someone who seems to challenge you at every turn, and this is likely how your partner seems to you -- regardless of good intentions. Both of you feel that your own individuality and ego are at war here; any disagreement will feel like a personal attack. You each fight to defend yourselves, and you may not even stop to consider whether this is a battle that really needs to be fought. In order to avoid the pointless flare-ups that could become commonplace between you, you'll both need a highly positive attitude -- or simple acceptance that you have a hard time staying calm when you're together.

Mars opposite Pluto

Struggling for power

This aspect is a difficult one to handle, as it tends to bring up a lot of anger, resistance, rebellion and aggression between you. Even if you're usually very even-tempered, you will be provoked constantly by your partner. You just aren't able to stay calm around them, and at times you get the feeling that they're actually provoking you on purpose -- which could be correct. The ways that you express your anger at them tends to be overly extreme, because they really push your buttons and bring up deep feelings of anger and resentment. There is a feeling that your partner is trying to challenge you -- and even when that's not happening, you respond as if it is, and that just start the train rolling again. Basically, with this aspect influencing your relationship, power struggles are almost impossible to avoid. So how do you deal with it? The best way to do so would be to stop struggling -- to realize that you have no power over each other, not really, and nor should you. Of course, that would try the patience of a saint! There are lessons to be learned here -- about not allowing your buttons to be pushed; about finding out where all that deep-rooted anger is really coming from -- but they're difficult lessons, and the positive effects are hard-won.

Venus square Pluto

Overwhelming needs

Jealousy, emotional manipulation, possessiveness and control are likely major components of this relationship if you both weren't careful to sort out your feelings from the start. You've been stirring up intense feelings in your partner from the very beginning. Your sexual attraction to them may also be overwhelming, and you feel transformed by your intimate experiences together. Your emotional lives are closely linked, almost without your having noticed when they merged. And that's when the trouble started. Any separations could leave you feeling intensely insecure, even abandoned, but if that happens, it might have more to do with the kind of dependency your lover has worked hard to create than with anything really to do with you. In fact, they might be the one that really feels insecure and bereft when you display your independence. This kind of emotional extreme can lead the best of us toward urges of possession and manipulation, although dominating each other never brings real satisfaction for either partner. But your partner likely tries it anyway, because your relationship feels so vital to their well-being. Your individual needs for connection and love could be keeping you locked into this pattern, unless you can find a way to examine your emotional life and figure out why you've made the choices you have in your love life. It could be that you feel an overwhelming need for companionship, and that has led you into this controlling, emotionally twisted situation. You both have to learn to stand on your own two feet if you don't want to wear each other out completely.

Saturn opposite Neptune

Mind-control

Your naturally different ways of viewing the world don't mesh together well at all. You challenge each other on your ideas of reality, and you could end up actually hurting each other's self-esteem through the process -- inadvertently, of course! You might have entered the relationship thinking you had a lot in common, but it's become clear that that's not the case on a subtle but fundamental level. You are naturally more practical and grounded than your partner. You work hard and you're responsible, and anything less can come across to you as flakiness. But your partner is much more freeform than that. They're in touch with their intuitions on a deep level, and from the outside, it could look to you like they're just acting at random when really they're operating based on some deep, inner cues that are telling them what move to make next. This method might actually be threatening to you, because you're used to operating based on facts and figures. Calculated risks are your forte, whereas your partner is good at leading with their gut and finding their way by feel. How to meld the two viewpoints, instead of falling into patterns of challenging and rejecting each other's way of doing things? Instead of trying to control your partner's sense of reality, which can be the tendency with this aspect, you both have to try hard to accept your differences. Convincing each other of your own point of view is nothing more than a frustrating and ultimately futile process.

Saturn square Jupiter

An inhibitive influence

Though individually you might focus on your dreams and ideals for the future, when you're together, you, especially, have a restrictive, inhibitive effect on your lover's ability to attain their ideals. Whenever they have a bright, creative, high-flying idea about a goal that they want to meet, you tend to bring it down with an overly sober interpretation of everything that might go wrong. Whenever you're trying to be serious about working hard toward one of your goals, your partner is off somewhere, refusing to focus or get serious with you. You probably take on the role of the overly serious nay-sayer more often, while your partner adopts the role of the careless, unfocused, freewheeling one. After a while, you both might realize that you haven't achieved anything of significance since you got together, and the whole time you've been burdened by a feeling of limitation and responsibility, or of fighting off the chaos that lurks only a step away! Neither of you deserves to have your sense of responsibility challenged or your joie de vivre stripped away. So your task in this relationship is to learn how to move forward and achieve your goals, even in the face of opposition. It might not be a fun process, but it could be a very important step in developing your own strength and determination.

Saturn square Saturn

Tension will mount

You don't see eye to eye when it comes to duties and responsibility in general. This is frustrating enough in realms that exist outside your relationship; if you have very different work ethics, for example, or senses of familial duty, or convictions about money and how much to save, how much to spend and on what, you find yourselves arguing your points again and again. Within the realm of your romance, any disagreement in this area is a real and immediate problem. If you have very different ideas about how much emotional security you need, how much work should go into the relationship and so on, you both start to feel angry and even depressed, fast. What if one of you wants a serious commitment and the other doesn't? What if one of you wants to go to couples counseling and the other thinks that's the worst idea in the world? You come to a major standoff, at the very least. Arguments and bad feelings only increase if you can't find common ground in these areas, because the stakes are so high -- or at least, they feel extremely high. This doesn't have to mean the end of the relationship, but it does mean lots of communication and compromise are necessary. But who knows? Through your struggles with each other, you might just push each other and yourselves to come to an agreement or a commitment.

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