An astrological report prepared for

Person 1, born December 12, 1973 and person 2, Born July 25, 1983:

Romantic Compatibility Guide

Uncovering the Truth About You and Your Relationship

You may have been coupled for decades or you might be in a brand new relationship.

While your relationship might be pretty solid, you probably want to make it even better!

It could take months, even years, of deep discussions, intimate moments, and occasional arguments to learn the true nature of your relationship to help you improve things...

Or you can turn to astrology to get the answers now. After all, the beauty of astrology is in highlighting probabilities.
The location of the planets on the days that you and your partner were born and how they relate to each other can illuminate all kinds of details about
  • how well you communicate
  • how deeply you connect
  • and most importantly if there's a chance for everlasting love to grow between you.
This powerful information reveals the strengths in your relationship and how you can best leverage them to make your relationship even stronger

It also reveals what you can do to overcome any weak areas in your relationship. 

As you know, every relationship is unique. Where one person leaves you cold, another can light your fire in a major way! 

You will connect deeply with some people the very moment your eyes first meet, feeling like you've known each other for years (or even lifetimes). 

But with other people, it can take a LOT of time and effort to make the connection flow… and it still might not ever happen. 

If you are wondering whether you should take that next step to deepen your current relationship or keep looking for someone else with better compatibility, the Romantic Compatibility Guide will help you make the right decision by exploring your relationship potential with your current partner. 

You’ll discover the answer to important questions like…
  • Does your conversation flow easily, or do awkward silences prevail?
  • Is there a spark of chemistry or a sense that things between you just don’t click?
  • If things are going well and you develop a deeper bond, what can you expect from the relationship long-term?
Remember, knowledge is power! So read on to find out if your romantic partner is The One... or if you're better off looking for love somewhere else.
Hi, I’m Kelli Fox, a professional accredited astrologer and creator of this personalized Romantic Compatibility Guide report.

And I want to help you discover the compatibility in your relationship so you can make it even BETTER!

I’ve prepared this powerful tool for you that will help you do exactly that!

Wouldn’t you love to discover how you can leverage the strengths in your relationship so each day just gets more wonderful with your partner?
And how to overcome the specific challenges in your relationship so they don’t hold you back from having the amazing and beautiful relationship with your partner that you both deserve?

Your Connection Bar Graphs

Wondering how the two of you match up? Now you can find out, at a glance!

This two-way bar graph reveals the chemistry between you and your partner - how you affect them, and how they affect you. It will give you a quick overview of the strength of your connection in six very important categories that can make or break your relationship such as...

  • how your core personalities mesh
  • how the two of you communicate
  • and the levels of love and attraction you feel for each other

Ready to know if your relationship has what it takes for you to feel happy and fulfilled?

The Romantic Compatibility Guide will give you the answers!

But remember... even if you both rate high in all six categories, the relationship still might not work out. And even if you rate low, your bond can still grow to create a solid and satisfying relationship.

The most promising indicator is when a graph shows that two people are about equal in their attraction and connection to each other. That way, no one feels left out!

The bar graph only gives you a quick peek at the chemistry of your relationship - the rest is up to you. Look to your compatibility report for a more in-depth reading of the strengths and challenges of your relationship.

Your Soul Connection

Your Soul Connection with another person is based on how your Sun connects with their personality, including their values, their outlook and what matters to them, and how their Sun connects with you. Just as the sun is the center of the orbit of all the planets in our solar system, it's also the center of you -- your inner fire, the vital energy that will run through you your whole life. It represents your basic, core personality, separate from all the other influences that... Read more

Your connection to them
Their connection to you

Your Communicative Bond

In this bar graph, your Communicative Bond is based on how your Mercury connects with your crush's world view, their attitude toward relationships and how they express themselves, and on how their Mercury connects with you. Often called the planet of communication, Mercury rules your thought processes, your sense of logic, your intellectual ideas and the way you get those ideas across to the world. If the lines of the graph -- your top line and your sweetie's... Read more

Your connection to them
Their connection to you

Your Passionate Attraction

Your Passionate Attraction with your honey is based on how your Mars connects with their sense of who they are, what they go after and how they express themselves, and on how their Mars connects with you in the same way. Mars rules passion, so your sex drive, your propensity for irritation, your urge to compete and succeed -- all of these fall within this powerful planet's realm. Mars affects your attitude toward dating, and it also determines how you argue with... Read more

Your connection to them
Their connection to you

Your Shared Values

In this bar graph, your Shared Values are based on how your Jupiter connects with your honey's sense of what life is all about, and how their Jupiter connects with you in the same way. Jupiter is referred to as the planet of luck because it brings opportunities and advantages into your life that can seem like a stroke of luck, but are really life lessons meant to test and teach you about your own value system. This planet is also about learning, intellectual pursuits and spirituality -- in short, the expansion of the soul. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top line and your sweetie's the bottom one -- are very different in length, then one of you is going... Read more

Your connection to them:
Their connection to you:

Your Long-Term Potential

Your Long-Term Potential with that special someone is based on how your Saturn connects with their needs, their romantic nature and their sense of duty in life, and on how their Saturn connects with you in the same way. Saturn's influence in your chart is like that of your conscience. This planet keeps you in check, reminding you of your responsibilities -- including your commitment to your sweetie. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top line and theirs the bpttom one -- are very different in length, then one of you is going to get deeply involved fast, while the other just won't share that sense of commitment -- not right... Read more

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Their connection to you:

Your Harmony and Excitement Ratings

The Harmony and Excitement Meters: love can be complex, but The Astrologer can break it down! The Harmony and Excitement Meters reads the compatibility chart between you and your sweetie, and reveals the levels of harmony and excitement in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between the two!

Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you'd tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket. A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good... Read more


Harmony = 9

9-10: So easy its dull

7-8: sweet as candy

4-6: a real affinity

0-3: A nice rapport!

Excitement = 8

9-10: War Zone

7-8: Over the edge

4-6: Hot,hot,hot

0-3: Healthy

Person 1, here is your Romantic Compatibility Guide report

This Romantic Compatibility Guide can tell a lot about your relationship including how the relationship functions and where there’s dysfunction...


illustrates your basic commonalities
tells your basic differences
indicates how well you get along with one another
shows what each of you brings to the relationship


shows how you communicate with each other
reveals who is the thinker & who is the feeler
helps you understand each other’s communication style


reveals your connection to each other
indicates how each other prefers to receive love
highlights how both of you express love


represents the physical bond you share
reveals each other’s desires and impulses
shows how each person expresses frustration


highlights the non-negotiable values held by each of you
shows what is important to each person
indicates whether the relationship will grow


challenges the relationship
unveils each other's shortcomings
demonstrates where extra effort is needed in the relationship


uncovers each other’s rebellious side
points out the unique qualities each person brings to the relationship
shows how the two of you have fun


rules the psychic connection you have to each other
reveals how you help each other grow
indicates if a relationship is a spiritual one


reveals each person’s greatest fears
indicates opportunities for change
demonstrates the self-transformation the relationship brings to both of you
Keep reading to discover how each of your natal planets connects to your partner’s planets.

Strengths of Your Relationship

Sun trine Mercury

A deeply communicative bond

Wow -- you two are really mentally in tune! You likely found from the very start that you share a subtle, elevated kind of communication that exists on an almost intuitive level. You wonder to yourself -- and aloud -- how this person can know so much about you when you haven't even put most of it into words. They're highly observant of you, able to tune right in to your subtle cues and to draw an accurate picture of your individual nature from comparatively little information. This is a wonderful gift for you to enjoy -- but it shouldn't be taken for granted. You may come to expect your lover to understand you so well that you don't think it's important to verbalize your thoughts, needs and feelings anymore. The trouble here lies in the possibility that you take that rapport and understanding for granted, and then feel needlessly hurt when misunderstandings inevitably occur. In general, though, there's not much of a downside to this kind of communicative bond. You feel heard and understood, for the most part, which translates naturally to support and acceptance. And if you make a bit of extra effort to put things into words when misunderstandings crop up, you two can sail through the rough spots and get back on even ground again.

Mercury trine Sun

A deeply communicative bond

Wow -- you two are really mentally in tune! You found from the very start that you share a subtle, elevated kind of communication that exists on an almost intuitive level. Your partner wonders to themselves -- and aloud -- how you can know so much about them when they haven't even put most of it into words yet. You are highly observant of this person from the start, able to tune right in to their subtle cues and to draw an accurate picture of their individual nature from comparatively little information. This is a wonderful gift for them to enjoy -- but it shouldn't be taken for granted. They may come to expect you to understand them so well that they won't think it's important to verbalize their thoughts, needs and feelings anymore. The trouble here lies in the possibility that they take that rapport and understanding for granted, and will then needlessly hurt when misunderstandings inevitably occur. In general, though, there's not much of a downside to this kind of communicative bond. Your partner feels heard and understood, for the most part, which translates naturally to support and acceptance. If you can help them to make a bit of extra effort to put things into words when misunderstandings crop up, together you're able to sail through the rough spots and get back on even ground again.

Mars trine Neptune

Potential for confusion

Your partner is completely able to understand your creativity, which is no small thing -- you might not let out your most creative ideas with most people, because you're not sure how they'll be received. But with this pairing, neither of you should worry about that. You give form to your lover's more abstract ideas, and they stimulate yours. With this kind of influence between you, you could accomplish a lot together because it pairs your practical drive with your partner's creative ideas. You, especially, are inspired by your partner to move to a whole new level in your thinking -- perhaps an emotional or spiritual transformation. If you desire, you can just keep getting more and more in tune with yourself, your intuitions and your deeper motivations. And in return, you offer your partner all your energy, enthusiasm and support. Just be sure to stay communicative with each other, even when things get murky. You could simply be confused together about your aims in life and in the relationship; a feeling of confusion could mark the relationship. So take care to be very, very clear with each other and encourage each other in your self-expression. You'll find that through your diligence, you two can gain a new perspective on life and the world you live in. You can open each other's minds to all kinds of new horizons! So talk, express yourselves, listen to each other and keep moving forward together into the creative unknown.

Saturn trine Pluto

Change and challenges

This aspect really helps to lend purpose and stability to your relationship, as long as you stay motivated about grabbing hold of the opportunities this influence presents you. This relationship supports a lot of growth and transformation within each of you. You support each other's journeys, and you trust and understand each other. Any issues that come up, whether they're in your own life or in your relationship as a couple, are dealt with as a team, because you're such a strong, motivated pair. You tend to be practical and hardworking, and your lover has a deeply rooted power that can be used not only to transform themselves, but to help you change your own life for the better. Just avoid the tendency to begin dealing with each new situation in the same, tried-and-true ways. You want to use the methods that have been proven to work, but doing so can discount the fact that new challenges will always arise that are unique from previous ones. The point is to keep growing, right? Not to calcify, even if it's comfortable. So stay creative in your approaches to problems, and you can continue to have an amazing effect on each other's lives!

Venus sextile Jupiter

Lucky in love

You didn't just fall for your partner; you learned from them and look up to them as a mentor who can teach you about the kind of person you want to become. You're able to talk openly with them about anything and everything that comes up, and they understand you really well. Through this openness, you can grow to understand yourself better, which can aid in your career, your personal relationships and all other areas of your life. Your lover has a wonderful effect on you, and you do the same for them. Socially, you encourage them to make the most of their contacts. You both have fun when you go out together, and you also point it out when there's a social opportunity that could develop into something more. You make each other feel strong, motivated and even lucky. And your lover makes you feel smart, as if you're more able to put things together in terms of what your social experiences mean in the larger sense. Their grasp of philosophy is welcome, interesting and helpful to you. This aspect greatly increases your chances of continuing this long-term bond, because it fosters such warmth and affection between you.

Saturn sextile Venus

Loving responsibility

This aspect helps forge a strong bond between you that could easily translate to the long-term. Your blend of creativity and practicality makes this relationship a supportive haven for both of you. You both know that you can bring your problems to the table, whether they're personal problems or issues related to work or anything else, and together, you figure out how to solve them. Clear communication and practical innovations are your forte as a couple. You communicate well with each other and you treat each other with generosity. There is a feeling of 'what's mine is yours' between you. You're down to earth together, but your partner also encourages you to run with your best, most creative ideas. You blend your traditional values with their unique thoughts, and the results are amazing! This aspect also helps your partner to budget their time and resources well, because you have a good grasp of what's of value to you both, as individuals and as a couple. If you end up working together on a project or business enterprise, you help your lover focus on what needs to happen to get the job done well. You expect a lot of each other and of yourselves, and you strive to meet those expectations. In many areas of your lives, you encourage each other to be the best people and partners you can be.

Saturn trine Saturn

Security in your bond

The strong sense of trust and responsibility that grows between you goes a long way toward creating a secure foundation for your relationship, and it also strengthens your bond over time -- meaning, this aspect lends itself to a long-term relationship! You work well as a team, bringing complementary strengths to the table, and you help each other accomplish whatever you set your minds to. Better yet, you help each other keep from becoming complacent in the natural security that characterizes your bond. You're hardworking together, focused on meeting your goals. You keep your eyes on the prize, and best of all, you get to enjoy the fruits of all that honest labor together. After all, the couple that works hard as a team gets to reap the benefits as a team as well, right? Whether it's on an emotional or financial level, you both want the same level of security and you have the same idea about how to make it happen. You have complementary ideas of how to be a disciplined and responsible human being, and you cooperate with each other very well -- which makes you wonderful business partners as well as romantic ones! Together you work hard and you bring some very positive influences into the life you share.

Venus sextile Uranus

An inspired romance

No red roses or chocolates for you two; an impromptu rooftop picnic is much more your style, and your partner can amaze and excite you with the events they take you to. You two are attracted to each other in the extreme and you probably jumped into this relationship fast -- and then you hit the ground running. You felt as if you'd never met anyone like this person before, or maybe you'd just never been attracted to anyone like this. This is a highly creative and social relationship; you two have a lot of fun exploring the mischief you dream up together, and you inspire all kinds of creative ideas in each other. The relationship itself is an interesting and artistic project to work on together. You talk a lot about all your best ideas; in fact, you should capitalize on this creative bent together by working on a creative project as a team. You probably go out a lot -- no staying home, cuddling on the couch together for you two. It's all about doing something new, something exciting, every time. Of course, that's a lot of pressure for a relationship that's already gone through so much. Will you be able to continue to keep up with this person? And does your relationship have enough stability to just keep going forever, or will it eventually fizzle into a wonderful memory? That depends on the other aspects between you. But with just a little effort you two could have a lifetime of fun.

Jupiter sextile Uranus

A lively exchange

With this aspect between you, you have a strong friendship that's based in intellectual freedom -- and that's a wonderful complement for a romantic relationship. You identify closely with your partner on an 'idea level.' You talk about everything under the sun, and they often spark you off -- they come up with something exciting and new and you both run with it. Whether you just have fun with this influence or actually use it in your work or your creative projects is up to you! Either way, it's a lot of fun, and creates a feeling of friendship and exciting openness between you. You two discuss your futures, create them, and then discuss new futures. And yet your paths are different enough to create both space and movement for both of you. You encourage each other to follow your dreams, you support each other with optimism and great ideas, but you don't get in each other's way because you're too busy following your own bliss! You probably get up to some pretty strange and interesting projects together. You can sometimes go too far under the influence of someone as radical as this, so make sure you always remember to stay within the bounds of reality. But since freedom and self-expression are the focus of this influence, you shouldn't try to rein yourself in too much; have fun with this aspect -- and your lover!

Strengths of Your Relationship

Sun conjunct Neptune

The power of the heart

This relationship carries its own subtle power. You felt connected to each other from the beginning, as if you'd known each other for a long time, even when you had only just met. There is a very real and deep understanding and acceptance that flows between you, because somehow, your lover's soul seems to recognize yours. Because of this depth of recognition between you, you likely fell in love quickly -- or what felt like love. At best, a deep sense of devotion has only increased over time. At worst, you may feel absorbed or swept away by each other. You could both see the other in a highly unrealistic light, and even be deceived. Initially there was a dreamy quality to your connection that stimulated romantic and erotic feelings in both of you. Your lover, especially, feels that the relationship, or the love between you, is bigger than either of you, and they feel awed by the power of the heart. You likely idealize them, as well. You're both highly sensitive to each of your needs, moods and feelings. In fact, the two of you might have a psychic connection that keeps you in tune with each other even when you're not physically in the same space. When you are in the same space, you finish each other's sentences and you both feel merged as one. As time goes on, you either wake up from your dreamlike fantasy, or the spiritual nature of your connection will enable you to transcend earthly concerns.

Mercury conjunct Jupiter


You continue to feel hopeful and optimistic for your future. Your partner has a really positive influence on you; they help you expand your mind by bringing brand-new ideas to the table and exploring them with you. You have lively, engaging conversations together, during which you can discuss everything under the sun -- but your values and beliefs are a favorite focus, as is your future. By now, you've noticed that you each bring something unique and important to the relationship -- you have a lot of life experience, for example, while your partner has the knowledge and wherewithal to put that experience into words, or even to some kind of use. With this kind of positive aspect between you, you could go into business together or launch a creative project, because together, you can dream big! You're also able to ground your dreams in reality, giving them a firm foundation to stand on. Your similar senses of humor helps you both really appreciate all the similarities and complementary differences between you. You fill each other with such a sense of optimism and hope for the future, and when you tackle day-to-day life together, it seems fun, interesting and like a wonderful step toward an even better future together.

Mercury conjunct Uranus

A lively connection

You two love talking about anything and everything that comes up, but the topics that are of most interest to you are anything unusual, unique or unexpected. Basically, this special person can inspire incredibly creative thought in you. You both enjoy the open and lively communication that centers on brilliant ideas and new ways of looking at the world. Regardless of whatever else brought you together, you're now attracted to them for their mind, and you've probably noticed that they bring form and function to your other's weirdest, wildest and most wonderful ideas. And you each bring unique gifts to the relationship: They're the more freethinking partner, the one who dreams up most of the possibilities and the long shots. They serve as stimulation and inspiration to you, while you are the anchor and architect, the one to ground those abstract ideas and put them to form and function. They have imagination and vision, and you have experience and know-how. Science and spirituality may have become a large focus for your explorations, even if you weren't interested in such things before you two met. Starting a creative project together is a great idea, as you'll work together so well.

Strengths of Your Relationship

Venus opposite Sun

Complex but compelling

Wow -- the attraction between you is compelling, magnetic, even overwhelming! There is a naturally strong energy that exists between you from the start, and you should both expect to experience the highest highs and the lowest lows through the course of this relationship. Your physical connection is very strong, and sexuality could be a major focus between you. Though that sounds like a good thing -- who wouldn't want such a strong sensual bond? -- you have to take care that your physical intimacy doesn't overshadow the other areas of your relationship that are equally important, such as a loving, trusting emotional bond. Possessiveness is probably an issue between you -- which could actually work, if you feel mutually possessive of each other, both holding strongly to the connection you share. There are things to watch out for, however, in a connection such as this. There is a high likelihood that you don't see your lover clearly, as the individual that they truly are. Instead, you view them through a lens of attraction, need and sexuality, and you tend to project your own needs and ideas onto them, obscuring their true personality. Remember those low lows mentioned earlier? Those result from this type of projection -- when you ascribe to your lover all kinds of feelings, strengths and abilities ... and then reality comes crashing in. You realize that they're just another human being, not a hero of superhuman strength.

Mars opposite Pluto

Struggling for power

This aspect is a difficult one to handle, as it tends to bring up a lot of anger, resistance, rebellion and aggression between you. Even if you're usually very even-tempered, you will be provoked constantly by your partner. You just aren't able to stay calm around them, and at times you get the feeling that they're actually provoking you on purpose -- which could be correct. The ways that you express your anger at them tends to be overly extreme, because they really push your buttons and bring up deep feelings of anger and resentment. There is a feeling that your partner is trying to challenge you -- and even when that's not happening, you respond as if it is, and that just start the train rolling again. Basically, with this aspect influencing your relationship, power struggles are almost impossible to avoid. So how do you deal with it? The best way to do so would be to stop struggling -- to realize that you have no power over each other, not really, and nor should you. Of course, that would try the patience of a saint! There are lessons to be learned here -- about not allowing your buttons to be pushed; about finding out where all that deep-rooted anger is really coming from -- but they're difficult lessons, and the positive effects are hard-won.

Venus square Pluto

Overwhelming needs

Jealousy, emotional manipulation, possessiveness and control are likely major components of this relationship if you both weren't careful to sort out your feelings from the start. You've been stirring up intense feelings in your partner from the very beginning. Your sexual attraction to them may also be overwhelming, and you feel transformed by your intimate experiences together. Your emotional lives are closely linked, almost without your having noticed when they merged. And that's when the trouble started. Any separations could leave you feeling intensely insecure, even abandoned, but if that happens, it might have more to do with the kind of dependency your lover has worked hard to create than with anything really to do with you. In fact, they might be the one that really feels insecure and bereft when you display your independence. This kind of emotional extreme can lead the best of us toward urges of possession and manipulation, although dominating each other never brings real satisfaction for either partner. But your partner likely tries it anyway, because your relationship feels so vital to their well-being. Your individual needs for connection and love could be keeping you locked into this pattern, unless you can find a way to examine your emotional life and figure out why you've made the choices you have in your love life. It could be that you feel an overwhelming need for companionship, and that has led you into this controlling, emotionally twisted situation. You both have to learn to stand on your own two feet if you don't want to wear each other out completely.

Mercury square Venus

Missed cues

Small misunderstandings between you are common, and though they usually are not a huge deal in themselves, their cumulative effect could add up to a certain level of tension in your relationship. You just don't read each other right; you misread the cues that come your way and end up feeling unappreciated. If there are other challenging aspects between you, this one could make those even more troublesome. Somehow, a pattern is established in the beginning of your relationship that causes you to hear each other wrong. Picture this: If your lover thinks you never say thanks for gifts or favors, they develop the perception that you take them for granted -- when, all along, you've been thanking them for what they bring to the table, and they just can't seem to hear it. So you're doing what you can to be grateful and appreciative, but your lover can't take in the gratitude, and they end up feeling unappreciated. This is just the kind of situation that happens between you two. What to do? You don't find much common ground to stand on, and whenever one of you makes a move to bridge the gap between you, the other misinterprets the move and the sentiment is lost. Any overall positive bond might just have to rely on other more beneficial aspects that exist between you.

Mars square Sun

A turbulent connection

Any relationship between you might not last long. Instead, it might erupt in a blaze of passion -- and then die out along with the fires of your emotions. The problem between you is one of mismatched temperaments. You start out disagreeing on many subjects, and the better you get to know each other, the higher your irritation, especially, climbs. And instead of being calm and honest about the situation -- looking clearly at your lover and at yourself and admitting that this may not be the best relationship for you -- you just jump into the fray, and your partner follows suit. Arguments are frequent, and often are based on the fact that your lover doesn't feel seen or supported by you. Annoyance is almost unavoidable for you; you start to see this person as thoughtless or inconsiderate, and you store up resentment as a result. Okay, this is all sounding rather dire -- so remember that it doesn't have to be this way. If you can both access your most patient, forgiving selves when you're together, you'll be able to find a compromise for any problems that arise. But most people aren't that saintly! We're all driven to some extent by our egos, and our own needs are most important to us. Thus, it's difficult to set our egos aside when confronted with an aggressive energy such as the one that is created by this relationship. Much compromise is needed to make this last.

Mars opposite Saturn

Sexual disconnect

You two have a hard time getting matched up in terms of your energies and your emotions. When you're feeling tuned in and affectionate, wanting to connect on an intimate level, your partner is cool and aloof, emotionally unavailable. Your sexual rhythms are off, and your timing isn't the best when it comes to finding times when you're both revved up and ready to go. As a result, you may frequently end up feeling rejected and unloved. So why the disconnect? It isn't for lack of interest or wanting to make it work between you. Something just stands in the way of making that happen. Your own shortcomings are projected onto each other; you get mad at each other for possessing the qualities that you like least in yourselves. You both probably represent something to each other that you won't like or respect. If your lover sees you behaving irresponsibly, for example, it upsets them, because they want so much to be responsible. At times, they even go so far as to try to force you to behave how they want you to -- but that doesn't work. You just rebel against the attempts to control you, which leads to indiscriminate behavior in the name of pure rebellion. But that just doesn't solve anything, does it? At base, your partner is afraid of being rejected, no matter how long you've been together, and you're scared of being repressed -- both of which feel terrible. You two have to learn to let each other be the people you are.

Jupiter opposite Sun

Opposite Directions

This relationship is intense, at least sometimes! Your bond might have been very strong from the start, which could give you a sense of fatedness -- as if you're somehow supposed to be in this relationship, as if it's larger than either of you as individuals could possibly be. That feeling arises not from any actual karmic destiny, however, but from some basic differences between you that create separation on a variety of levels. You are focused on your personal growth during the course of this relationship, and may pursue that growth to the detriment of your bond as a couple. Your partner may end up feeling ignored or overlooked as a result, as if their individuality isn't as important as your quest for soul-growth. The truth might be that in that moment, each partner's individual growth is more important than your bond as a couple. Though this doesn't have to be a negative thing, it is likely that your lover, especially, feels threatened by its influence; and you each respond in one of a few ways. You might try to assert your own vision of where the relationship should go, which results in ego clashes. Or you might identify this urge to grow in yourself and your partner, and end up having overly high expectations of one another. The best response, of course, is to try your hardest to support one another mutually in your personal growth arcs, and honor your relationship as well as your individuality.

Venus square Saturn

Rejected affection

The simple fact that you two are in a relationship is a strong indicator that there are plenty of other positive aspects between you, because this one makes things pretty difficult when it comes to relating naturally as a couple. Your partner likely attempts to control you in a way that makes it hard to get along. You feel restricted in your affection and romantic expression toward your lover, and it could come out cold or just stilted. Your lover tries to restrain your natural way of being in a relationship. You could feel as if any affectionate advance you make toward them is rebuffed as inappropriate in some way. Needless to say, this makes it hard during moments when losing yourselves would be appropriate -- when you're being intimate, for example, or just out and supposedly having a good time. At times, you may have even felt as if your romantic overtures were made fun of or just flat-out denied. Where does this come from? Look at the experiences you've had in your lives with all kinds of love -- relationships you've each had with your fathers, for example, or with past lovers. You may have experienced this kind of coldness and lack of affection before, and somehow, when you two got together, those old feelings from past relationships were stimulated. To keep this relationship strong, it's important that you face your problems head-on, and then get over them.

Jupiter opposite Mercury

Overly idealistic

You have to be careful about how you communicate, because you set up a pattern of projection and idealism in the early stages of your relationship that lead to confused interactions later on. Your lover's image of you is positive, but it's larger than life -- inaccurate, and with a set of built-in standards that are hard to live up to. Needless to say, this idealized image of you could lead to disappointments down the line, when they wake up to the uncomfortable truth that you are, in fact, only human, flawed and incomplete like everyone else. Idealizing each other comes from a good, well-intentioned place in the beginning, of course. You recognize each other's mental strengths, you feel energized and optimistic when you're together and your lover, especially, starts to look up to you as a sort of mentor -- someone whom they think can teach them all about life and how to live it best. In this process, they might lose sight of their own values or goals, because they're so busy looking to you for yours. You both need to show yourselves respect as well as each other; you must promote your own mental growth instead of looking to someone else to stimulate it. Strive to see each other as the human beings that you truly are, rather than the images you project onto each other -- as your true salvation.

Saturn opposite Neptune


Your naturally different ways of viewing the world don't mesh together well at all. You challenge each other on your ideas of reality, and you could end up actually hurting each other's self-esteem through the process -- inadvertently, of course! You might have entered the relationship thinking you had a lot in common, but it's become clear that that's not the case on a subtle but fundamental level. You are naturally more practical and grounded than your partner. You work hard and you're responsible, and anything less can come across to you as flakiness. But your partner is much more freeform than that. They're in touch with their intuitions on a deep level, and from the outside, it could look to you like they're just acting at random when really they're operating based on some deep, inner cues that are telling them what move to make next. This method might actually be threatening to you, because you're used to operating based on facts and figures. Calculated risks are your forte, whereas your partner is good at leading with their gut and finding their way by feel. How to meld the two viewpoints, instead of falling into patterns of challenging and rejecting each other's way of doing things? Instead of trying to control your partner's sense of reality, which can be the tendency with this aspect, you both have to try hard to accept your differences. Convincing each other of your own point of view is nothing more than a frustrating and ultimately futile process.

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