The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Relationship Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Your ears are turned toward one person but your eyes are following another. How many relationships have you lost this way, Gemini? Then there are all the good ones that you let get away, because, who knew? You were on a roll -- someone else even better could show up soon, and you wanted to be available. Oh yes, and then there's your legendary lack of commitment, not to mention your need for variety. Wow. No wonder there's such a string of broken hearts in your charming wake.What you need is a little taste of your own medicine, or, as Mother used to say, 'May you find someone just like yourself.' Hooking up with someone just as flirtatious and fun-loving as you are is likely to open your eyes a little bit. When you call them, they're out. And, you're not the only one they're dating. You connect well on the mental plane with this ideal lover of yours, and claim that their busy schedule isn't a problem for you. It's good to be on the other side of the fence for once, because suddenly you're more ready to commit than you've ever been before. Don't dilly-dally. Don't let this one get away.
You talk a lot, but are you really saying anything? You think fast and speak faster, anxious to get your many thoughts out before any of them slip away. A glutton for information, you read everything you can get your hands on, with no discrimination whatsoever. It's information for information's sake. Your restless mind and undisciplined tongue have gotten you in trouble in your past relationships, and no wonder. When you don't listen, others get annoyed. People become irritated with your short little span of attention, and partners tire of tripping over all the books you've started but not finished. In conversation, your wandering eye reveals your boredom.There's not much you can do to change your energetic, active mind, but you can certainly divert it. Exercise a lot and you'll be less nervous. Take up a craft like knitting or woodworking to keep your fingers busy. Fortunately, you're good at meeting people, and social interaction is another way to entertain your mind, if you develop a few simple social skills. Your ideal partner will be as intelligent as you are. You'll be friends before you're lovers -- and maybe afterwards, too.
You may be emotionally cautious when first entering a relationship, but once a person is in your heart, it's for keeps. You feel deeply committed to them, and herein lies your vulnerability, for, you fear, what if they aren't so committed to you? Your natural reaction is to start taking care of them, not only out of your own natural inclination to do so, but also in order to keep them around. Quickly, an energy imbalance develops. Once again, you give more than you get -- much more. Extricate yourself from such relationships immediately. Resolve to restrain your love until you find someone deserving of it. Your ideal mate will have a heart as tender as yours and will not wander from your protective gaze. You've earned a love like this, one that will provide you comfort instead of worry, a person who will take care of you as well as you take care of them. You've got caretaking energy to spare, so spend it on a pet, or in your garden, tenderly nurturing living things.
You're one hot tamale. Or maybe more like a roman candle, which sparks and sizzles and glows until it suddenly goes out. When you've got your eye on someone you're virtually unstoppable. You'll pursue, chase, follow. You're bold enough to ask someone for a date who's way out of your league, and you don't get discouraged when they slap you upside the head. If you get knocked down, you get up again, brush yourself off and get right back on that horse.How does all this affect your love life? For better and for worse, as it turns out. For better because, well, bold is beautiful. Your very directness often gets you what you want, because such chutzpah is hard to resist. For worse, because you've blown plenty of people right out of the water with your head-on approach. Not only did you sizzle, you burned. Not everyone is wired to handle that kind of passion! The good thing about you is, you don't let that affect your game. Carry on undaunted till you find the perfect match for your fiery passion.
You're not afraid to go where others fear to tread. You're a pioneer, a groundbreaker, a trendsetter. You're happiest when you're the center of attention. The trouble with your pesky past relationships is that you've had to share the limelight, which doesn't come easily for you. Oh, you've tried to work with it. You tried to choose someone who needed an equal amount of attention, but you got resentful. You tried someone else who disappeared into the background, and you got bored. This presents quite the dilemma for you, does it not?Pride prevents you from giving up, and why should you, anyway? You've got a lot to offer your ideal partner. You've got the self-confidence to attract someone wonderful, as long as that confidence does not develop into hubris, which would prevent you from recognizing a potential Perfect Partner to begin with. You know what you want, and you recognize it when you see it; you're not willing to compromise on the qualities you're looking for in a lover. You're most likely to meet this lover in your day-to-day activities and business affairs, so the search isn't limited to evenings and weekends. Keep your eyes peeled for that special someone. You'll have the initiative and gumption to get things going.
If you're one of the rare people who received unconditional love from both parents at an early age, your relationships are probably in fairly good shape, despite your reticence at expressing your true feelings. But if you're like most of us and suffered through an imperfect childhood, it's those experiences that have affected your relationships thus far in your life. Your feelings are wounded very easily, but rather than confront the person who has hurt you, you nurse your wounds in private and add the experience as the latest in a long line of examples of the reality of the cold, cruel world. You trust few, or maybe even no one. Your fear of connection is palpable, not because you're afraid of love, but because you're afraid of losing it. At this rate, sooner or later, you might get out of touch with your feelings altogether.You may always hunger for the emotional stability you lacked as a child, but that doesn't mean you can't find it as an adult. The big news is, there's more than one person out there in the world who can provide it for you. But to find them, you've got to believe it's possible. Let this be your mantra: 'I deserve love.' Cast out the disbelief inside you, and have faith that you'll find what you seek.
You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents. You may decline to participate in long-term relationships altogether, or you may completely rewrite the rules of marriage, factoring in the need for freedom within a relationship. Open marriages, having multiple partners at a time or having different partners for different personal needs are all ways of revolutionizing the world of partnership and romance. Your own relationship history will reflect the changes in the world around you. You and those born around the same time as you will leave a mark on the world that will last for many decades.
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
You and your peers will revolutionize the arena of relationships and romances. As a child, you watched partnerships crumble all around you, if not your own parents', then the relationships of your friends' parents; and you decided early on that you wouldn't repeat the same pattern. You take relationships very, very seriously, and for this reason may wait to start dating or getting serious about anyone. You're not in any hurry, which provides you with enough time to understand yourself and your relationship needs. Don't delay too long, though! Fear of relationship can be just as harmful as hooking up too early. Your challenge will be in finding the right balance of independence and partnership, and in knowing how much of your personal energy to expend toward each.
Yours are the kind of romances that make for great stories later -- in other words, they haven't always been easy. You and your lovers were drawn to each other right from the start. It always happened so fast. One minute you were on your first date, and the next you were on the phone to your best friend, saying, 'This is the ONE!' You kept falling into love so quickly that you didn't look where you were headed, and therein lies the problem. You keep choosing such darned tricky, unstable sweeties. They are full of electric excitement, of drama and blistering, little-hairs-standing-up-on-the-back-of-your-neck passion. But as you've no doubt found out, they also signify upheaval, disruption, a heaping helping of the wrong kind of excitement.Well, if nothing else, you've had yourself one heck of a ride so far. And if you're willing to hang on, accepting all the bumps and jolts that are sure to come your way, more thrills will be yours. One thing you can say for your relationships -- they're absolutely never boring. For best results, learn to enjoy the wild ride.
First things first: Who's been holding out in the love department? Signs point to your past partners, who've been stingy with affection at the best of times. But certain developments have practically shut the store down, and whether you're with a partner or not, you're starving for physical contact. You'll go far trying woo any sweetie within reaching distance, but it's to no avail: They're better than you at playing mind games. You're outmatched. You're going to have to iron out your problems if you'd like to move along through this field of broken dreams. One thing you should know: Much of the reason why you're off your game is that you're enacting old dramas from your past. Just who can you think of who withheld love from you in your childhood? And how did you behave, given your high hopes of evening the score? Now do you recognize why you've become what you are? You've got to start unloading your baggage, one piece a time, before you can unwind the Gordian knot of your woes. If you change your behavior, you'll change your relationships, too. But first you have some deep thinking to do.
You've certainly admired your past loves. There's been such a studiousness about them, a certain drive and appreciation for hard work that lit up your inner scholar. But you longed for more lightness, more fun. Everything was a slog. Each little detail had to be nailed down and planned. Nothing was spontaneous and romantic and breathless; it was all work and no play, and that made you a dull sweetie. It's not that you didn't appreciate finding a solid, stable love mate, not after all the losers you'd been through before. Just that you would've appreciated a little more levity. There may also have been family problems that threw more bad energy in the mix. Activity is the key to smoothing the path for your future relationships. They will stagnate if you don't put real work into them. Arrange for more productive time with your ideal partner -- take a class! Get involved with a sport. With less time spent in serious discussions and more time spent just enjoying each other's company, you can start some good habits. But it's up to you to get the ball rolling. After all, you're the one who wants change.
Your love life really has you on a seesaw, huh? Up and down, back and forth, you think you know where you're going with someone and then you look around and realize you're the only one on the path. You pick lovers who are tough to pin down, and since you're a person who claims to value stability and commitment, it bugs you more than it should. Never mind that you can be as elusive and slippery as any fish. You wonder darkly what your latest lover is doing when they're not with you, and it shows. Suspicion is so terribly unbecoming! Particularly when you're dealing with anyone who's as evasive and difficult to read as you are. The key to rolling with the ups and downs of romance is to stop choosing partners who are weaker than you are. If you've been the one in charge in most of your relationships, let's face it: This ultimately makes you feel contemptuous of lovers who so easily permit you to roll over them like a juggernaut. Look for someone who won't march in lockstep with you -- a person who's got some backbone and ideas of their own. You won't always know what to expect from this future lover, and that will keep things interesting, which is exactly what you need.
Hey, jealous lover! You've assumed the role of a punitive first-grade teacher: standing over your lovers, shaking your finger at their naughty behavior, hectoring and blustering. Unfortunately, in order to avoid your lectures, your lovers turned down their hearing aids. So why did you bother to express yourself so forcefully and frequently when no one was listening? You bickered over small things to avoid talking about the Great Big Thing neither of you wanted to face. But hiding your head in the sand got you exactly nowhere. It's time facts were faced, and obstacles looked at more truthfully.You may have picked lovers who weren't particularly well-matched for you. While you are all speed and action and energy, you're attracted to lovers who are dark, secretive, maybe even a bit cruel. But something in you craves the abuse and invites the ill treatment. What you need to find is balance. You need to be getting as much as you give -- so if you find you're not receiving enough affection and attention from someone, resolve to put your energies elsewhere. It's not game-playing -- it's just that you need to dial down your emotions a bit to achieve a more balanced love life.
You've never been much for compromise, have you? In past relationships, when issues came up between you and your lover, you used whatever tools you had -- sweetly cajoling, arguing, turning a cold shoulder -- to get your own way. But why was having your own way so important? After all, other people have feelings, needs and agendas, too, just like yours. Who decides which person's need is the most important one in any given moment? That's a perennial question for all relationships, and except in the one between an infant and its caretaker, the answer isn't as simple as 'I decide, and my needs always come first.' Relationships, after all, should be about give and take. Sometimes you get your way; sometimes your lover does. Insisting on always getting your way not only makes you look uncomfortably similar to that aforementioned infant, it could actually lead to loneliness. After all, if it's a choice between getting your way or bailing out of the relationship, well, you'll end up either with a partner who's a pushover or sleeping alone. If you want a well-functioning, long-term relationship, you'll have to learn to choose your battles. The art of compromise is the perfect place to start your lessons, because if you give your lover a little, they'll probably want to give back a lot. You'll feel a lot better once you learn to step back and let someone else take reins from time to time.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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