The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Relationship Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Sun in Sagittarius
You know the old saying: When the going gets tough, the Sadge gets going. Gee, maybe that's why you've got a whole string of former relationships on your resume; the minute any problems cropped up, you bailed, often running off with your latest foreign flame or to some far-flung country. Your intense need for freedom has severe commitment-phobic ramifications, and there's nothing like a little disagreement or misunderstanding to bring them to the fore. Even when you stick around for the argument, you say such shocking things that your partner bails on you. 'There,' you say to yourself, 'it's on them now.'Don't shoot your arrow just yet. You've got yourself convinced that you can't have both a lover and the freedom you crave, but you're not seeing all the possibilities. You're not the only one who needs room to move, you know. The key for you is to find someone not unlike yourself. Your ideal partner will have similar freedom needs, and together, you'll be able to weave a relationship that provides both love and companionship, and the liberty to come and go at will.
Mercury in Sagittarius
There's a conveyer belt between your brain and your mouth, and unfortunately it lacks a filter. Consequently, any thought that enters your mind immediately ushers forth from your lips, much to the shock and dismay of those around you. You certainly didn't mean to offend anyone; you were simply stating the obvious truth -- well, obvious to you, anyway. While it's true that honesty is the best policy, it's not necessary to blow others out of the water with it. And thus spoke many of your past lovers, no?There's so much hope for you. You're awfully curious and eager to explore all sorts of subjects, which makes you a delight to talk to. You're well-informed on so many subjects and make weird and wonderful connections between them. This is not the area where your relational communications problems lie. You're so used to checking out the big picture that little details often escape you, and you don't always listen very well, either. Your ideal partner will command your attention, and you'll learn to preview your comments to see in advance how they might go over. This little step will provide big rewards in your love life.
Venus in Scorpio
It's not hard to see why you've had problems in past relationships. Many have felt the pull of your charisma and animal attraction. Some lovers, you scare away with your intense gaze and fervent passion. Some are alarmed by your focused attention on them. Others like the intensity and passion, but can't handle your possessiveness or complex emotions. Only the bravest are willing to commit forever to you, though that's what you truly want in your heart of hearts. Will you get it? There's no reason why not. All you need is to find someone who can match your intensity, and who is willing to meet you halfway in the realms of commitment and desire. Won't they be the lucky one! For it is in these profound, we're-in-this-for-the-long-haul connections that your deepest passion truly blossoms. Together, you'll be determined to make it last, and will ignite the most potent thrills that either of you has ever known. This will be well worth the wait.
Mars in Scorpio
You're kind of scary sometimes. That look in your eye, your drive, your intensity and your determination have all frightened away more than one lover in your past. They found you a little too much to handle. Come to think of it, your anger issues might have played a part, too. Not that you're easy to anger; not at all. It takes a lot to piss you off, but once you're there, your rages are towering! It's hugely important that you express that anger, because keeping it all inside will make you sick in the long run. Besides, your posture suffers when you've got such a big chip on your shoulder. So, what about your love life? Your sex drive is so strong that you're usually not between relationships for long. In fact, you've probably found sex to be the perfect vehicle for your control issues; you withhold it when you're upset and insist on it when you're not. You offer extreme fidelity and insist on it in your partner. If you can overcome those control issues and come to view your relationship as a safe haven, it will provide a wonderful place to escape from the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune. And that's something we all need.
Jupiter in Capricorn
In your drive for material security and wealth you have no doubt left some crying hearts out in the cold. By dint of your hard work and effort, you are very likely to achieve your worldly ambitions. But with whom will you share the proceeds of your success? The whole subject of relationships puts you in quite a pickle. Hook up with someone early on and they'll complain that you're an absentee lover. Hook up after your achieve success, and you'll always wonder if they just want you for your money.What to do?If there is one thing you lack in your life, it is balance. You can counteract the negative effects of too much time at the office with a warm and cuddly relationship at home; but to maintain that relationship, you'll have to work a little less and -- gasp -- take the occasional day (or week) off in order to make time for your honey. It's not all about money, fortune and fame. Think seriously about your priorities and you'll realize: Loved ones come first. When you're old and gray and sitting in your rocker, you won't be remembering all those hours spent at the office. Instead, you'll think back on the love you've had -- and let's hope not the love you lost to workaholism.
Saturn in Gemini
Think back on your most recent relationships. How often did you utter the words 'I love you'? If you can count the number of times on the fingers of one hand, you have a big clue as to a major part of your relationship problems. You don't like to express emotions. Your thought processes are geared toward evidence, logic and what can be tangibly perceived with the senses. Feelings frustrate you, because they cannot be measured, calculated or based in historical fact. They are ephemeral, inconstant and by their very nature, impossible to confirm by facts or figures.Not everyone is in the same mental boat as you. Most people like to have the liberty to express their feelings at any given time. After you've required them to quantify their emotions, they don't stick around to tell you how they feel anymore; they move on to greener pastures. You're smarter than you realize; give yourself some credit, and stop expecting all forms of communication to be factual or cerebral. Create a pathway from your heart to your mind and articulate your feelings. You, and your partner, will be glad you did.
Uranus in Libra
You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents. You may decline to participate in long-term relationships altogether, or you may completely rewrite the rules of marriage, factoring in the need for freedom within a relationship. Open marriages, having multiple partners at a time or having different partners for different personal needs are all ways of revolutionizing the world of partnership and romance. Your own relationship history will reflect the changes in the world around you. You and those born around the same time as you will leave a mark on the world that will last for many decades.
Neptune in Sagittarius
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
Pluto in Libra
You and your peers will revolutionize the arena of relationships and romances. As a child, you watched partnerships crumble all around you, if not your own parents', then the relationships of your friends' parents; and you decided early on that you wouldn't repeat the same pattern. You take relationships very, very seriously, and for this reason may wait to start dating or getting serious about anyone. You're not in any hurry, which provides you with enough time to understand yourself and your relationship needs. Don't delay too long, though! Fear of relationship can be just as harmful as hooking up too early. Your challenge will be in finding the right balance of independence and partnership, and in knowing how much of your personal energy to expend toward each.
No Squares
You've always much preferred the easy route, haven't you? And while that gives you a laid-back personality and helps you get along with lots of different types of people, you're not much for standing up for yourself or your needs, and you may have stayed in relationships long past their expiration date. After all, you'd much rather avoid confrontation and put up with the discomfort of whatever it is that's bothering you than face it head-on, because conflict scares you -- and you're just not that motivated when it comes to making positive but difficult changes in your life, like breaking up and moving on. The problem is, in love relationships, both people need to have their needs met and their true feelings known. If you're always saying, 'No problem, honey, it's fine, we can do it your way,' how's your honey supposed to know that you're withering away on the inside due to neglect? Your partners in the past may even have lost respect for you over time, because you so rarely took a stand. You might have let them walk all over you just to avoid having to admit that there was a problem and do something about it. So start focusing on your own needs, and speaking your own truth. Becoming self-centered and demanding would create a whole new set of problems, but finding that happy medium -- being your easy-going self while being willing to speak up and confront a problem -- will lead to much greater equality between you and your future lover. They'll respect you a lot more, too.
Sun opposite Saturn
In your heart of hearts, what you really want is a relationship that will last. You want to grow with someone, to have the freedom to keep changing across the continuum of your life and be assured that you have a partner who will roll with the punches. Yet you keep choosing those who wear you down with constant criticism and demoralizing authority. You'd like your sweetie to be the strong, solid type, a person who can make lasting connections and be loyal for life. Instead you pick distancers, and then blame them for your inability to connect.You don't fight with your lovers: You engage in cold wars. Yet if asked for an explanation of the problems you've had with past partners, you would lay responsibility at their door. Your lovers intentionally prick your sore spots, kicking you when you're down, right? Wrong! Oh, so wrong. The real story is that they won't let you rest on your laurels. The very best, and nothing less, is demanded of you. If you learn how to start delivering instead of whining, you'll find that you and your future special someone will have an easier path.
Mars quincunx Saturn
It's not that you haven't loved your past sweeties, it's just that you found them all to be big ol' pains in the butt. While you are courageous and fearless, wanting only to go and do and strive, your lovers were like a big bucket of cold water on your hot impatience. You were reminded of unpleasant realities, and not diplomatically, either. You were often made to feel like a silly child rather than a competent adult. And inside you felt like a rebellious teenager, wanting to stand up to the strictures your lovers placed on you, and break out of the box you were enclosed within.If you're really determined to find success in this business of love, you must be willing to pay the price. You must cool off a bit, become more of a listener and thinker and less of an impulsive doer. Your ideal lover, on the other hand, should be supportive and loving, not someone who squelches your ideas wholesale. Together you could create a great big beautiful grown-up relationship, but you must stop wasting your energy on strife and start channeling it into positive directions.
Jupiter quincunx Saturn
You stumbled into the family den of relationships: Your previous partners were solid, dependable, salt-of-the-earth types, and probably not a whole lot of fun. The problem was in your mismatched aims. Though you're ambitious in your own way, driven to travel, study and communicate with others, you didn't have the same 9-to-5 mentality that your sweeties did. You bagged yourself some hard workers, and while that's great for mundane stuff like paying the bills, it didn't leave a whole lot of room to throw everything up in the air and trot off to Paris for the weekend. You craved more excitement. You wanted more fun. You complained to your friends that your lovers were so sweet, but such a drag.But there were sides to the situation you forgot to consider. What you had was stable and real, something that could have lasted -- and you can find this again. You want the type of relationship that can be a wonderful foundation to build a family upon. Whoever said one person should meet all of your needs? Keep your fun friends and look for another serious sweetie; there are many facets to you, and your ideal lover will help you polish one of the most important ones.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
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