The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Relationship Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
You know the old saying: When the going gets tough, the Sadge gets going. Gee, maybe that's why you've got a whole string of former relationships on your resume; the minute any problems cropped up, you bailed, often running off with your latest foreign flame or to some far-flung country. Your intense need for freedom has severe commitment-phobic ramifications, and there's nothing like a little disagreement or misunderstanding to bring them to the fore. Even when you stick around for the argument, you say such shocking things that your partner bails on you. 'There,' you say to yourself, 'it's on them now.'Don't shoot your arrow just yet. You've got yourself convinced that you can't have both a lover and the freedom you crave, but you're not seeing all the possibilities. You're not the only one who needs room to move, you know. The key for you is to find someone not unlike yourself. Your ideal partner will have similar freedom needs, and together, you'll be able to weave a relationship that provides both love and companionship, and the liberty to come and go at will.
There's a conveyer belt between your brain and your mouth, and unfortunately it lacks a filter. Consequently, any thought that enters your mind immediately ushers forth from your lips, much to the shock and dismay of those around you. You certainly didn't mean to offend anyone; you were simply stating the obvious truth -- well, obvious to you, anyway. While it's true that honesty is the best policy, it's not necessary to blow others out of the water with it. And thus spoke many of your past lovers, no?There's so much hope for you. You're awfully curious and eager to explore all sorts of subjects, which makes you a delight to talk to. You're well-informed on so many subjects and make weird and wonderful connections between them. This is not the area where your relational communications problems lie. You're so used to checking out the big picture that little details often escape you, and you don't always listen very well, either. Your ideal partner will command your attention, and you'll learn to preview your comments to see in advance how they might go over. This little step will provide big rewards in your love life.
Remember the type of people that your mother warned you against? Well, that's exactly the type of person you're attracted to, not least because your mom said not to! You've got a rebellious streak a mile wide, and your attraction for the unusual and unique is even wider. Consequently, your previous lovers make the most interesting motley crew. It's all perfectly OK with you, though, because you're nothing if not tolerant of people's differences. And the things that attract you -- a bright mind, a friendly personality, an original outlook -- come in all shapes and sizes.You prefer to be friends before you're lovers, and often your exes remain your friends long after the fire of your passion has died out. Actually this works out well for you, because your need for freedom is pretty much off the charts, and there's far more freedom in friendship than there is in romance. In fact, you may keep interested lovers at arm's length because of this fact. Your ideal lover will be as eclectic and unconventional as you are, and equally unattached to romantic liaisons.
You're one hot tamale. Or maybe more like a roman candle, which sparks and sizzles and glows until it suddenly goes out. When you've got your eye on someone you're virtually unstoppable. You'll pursue, chase, follow. You're bold enough to ask someone for a date who's way out of your league, and you don't get discouraged when they slap you upside the head. If you get knocked down, you get up again, brush yourself off and get right back on that horse.How does all this affect your love life? For better and for worse, as it turns out. For better because, well, bold is beautiful. Your very directness often gets you what you want, because such chutzpah is hard to resist. For worse, because you've blown plenty of people right out of the water with your head-on approach. Not only did you sizzle, you burned. Not everyone is wired to handle that kind of passion! The good thing about you is, you don't let that affect your game. Carry on undaunted till you find the perfect match for your fiery passion.
You eyes are focused far into the future, which means that you miss certain things in the here and now, such as the ways in which your relationships may suffer due to lack of attention on your part. Humanity's greater good is a wonderful cause to devote your energies toward, but there are problems in the present that need your attention, too, such as your lover groveling at your feet for some of your attention. To everything there is a season, and there comes a point when it's appropriate to lay down your mission and be attentive to your immediate environment. This requires more than simply putting down the latest tome you've been reading. You must switch gears completely and get out of your head, the cerebral my-space in which you're lost so much of the time. True relations require heart and body as well as the mind. Your ideal partner will share your passion for humanity, but will also seek balance by insisting that you spend time doing more mundane and exciting tasks as well. Take care of today properly, and tomorrow will take care of itself.
If you're one of the rare people who received unconditional love from both parents at an early age, your relationships are probably in fairly good shape, despite your reticence at expressing your true feelings. But if you're like most of us and suffered through an imperfect childhood, it's those experiences that have affected your relationships thus far in your life. Your feelings are wounded very easily, but rather than confront the person who has hurt you, you nurse your wounds in private and add the experience as the latest in a long line of examples of the reality of the cold, cruel world. You trust few, or maybe even no one. Your fear of connection is palpable, not because you're afraid of love, but because you're afraid of losing it. At this rate, sooner or later, you might get out of touch with your feelings altogether.You may always hunger for the emotional stability you lacked as a child, but that doesn't mean you can't find it as an adult. The big news is, there's more than one person out there in the world who can provide it for you. But to find them, you've got to believe it's possible. Let this be your mantra: 'I deserve love.' Cast out the disbelief inside you, and have faith that you'll find what you seek.
You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents. You may decline to participate in long-term relationships altogether, or you may completely rewrite the rules of marriage, factoring in the need for freedom within a relationship. Open marriages, having multiple partners at a time or having different partners for different personal needs are all ways of revolutionizing the world of partnership and romance. Your own relationship history will reflect the changes in the world around you. You and those born around the same time as you will leave a mark on the world that will last for many decades.
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
You and your peers will revolutionize the arena of relationships and romances. As a child, you watched partnerships crumble all around you, if not your own parents', then the relationships of your friends' parents; and you decided early on that you wouldn't repeat the same pattern. You take relationships very, very seriously, and for this reason may wait to start dating or getting serious about anyone. You're not in any hurry, which provides you with enough time to understand yourself and your relationship needs. Don't delay too long, though! Fear of relationship can be just as harmful as hooking up too early. Your challenge will be in finding the right balance of independence and partnership, and in knowing how much of your personal energy to expend toward each.
Mmm, everyone wants some of what you've had with your lovers: sweaty, sticky, lovely lust. Your connections have tended to get physical fast, simply because when you're really feelin' it, you can't keep your hands to yourself. Internally, you've got the receptive female energy meeting the masculine force with explosive and heady results. Lust tends to intervene in your relationships before love can develop, resulting in a series of hookups based on sex when there could have been true partnerships based on something deeper. It could be that one of you was using the other merely to slake a physical urge -- not a problem if both of you were on the same page, but nasty and painful if one of you was looking for love and the other just lust.The solution lies in extending your search for compatibility beyond the bedroom. Look for someone whose heart and mind appeal to you as much as their body. Talk about your values, your hopes, your dreams. Being close on the physical level does not an emotional connection make; you need to spend more time bonding and less time smooching. When you approach your relationships this way, good sex gets even better.
Yours are the kind of romances that make for great stories later -- in other words, they haven't always been easy. You and your lovers were drawn to each other right from the start. It always happened so fast. One minute you were on your first date, and the next you were on the phone to your best friend, saying, 'This is the ONE!' You kept falling into love so quickly that you didn't look where you were headed, and therein lies the problem. You keep choosing such darned tricky, unstable sweeties. They are full of electric excitement, of drama and blistering, little-hairs-standing-up-on-the-back-of-your-neck passion. But as you've no doubt found out, they also signify upheaval, disruption, a heaping helping of the wrong kind of excitement.Well, if nothing else, you've had yourself one heck of a ride so far. And if you're willing to hang on, accepting all the bumps and jolts that are sure to come your way, more thrills will be yours. One thing you can say for your relationships -- they're absolutely never boring. For best results, learn to enjoy the wild ride.
When your past relationships were on, they were so on. You felt passionate and intense, attracted to your lovers beyond all reason -- which is probably why you acted like one possessed. On the other hand, when your pairings went south, things got very, very nasty. Arguments erupted over things large and small: paying the bills, where to go to dinner, where your relationship was headed. You whined and sulked; your partner regarded you with unsympathetic distaste. You're not one to carry on emotionally, but something about those relationships brought out your weak, cringing, easily wounded side. It felt as if your lovers had all the power, and all you could do was cause irritation like a small stinging insect.If your partnerships are going to last, you simply must learn to give yourself the same respect you give your partner. Stop seeing yourself as unimportant and useless. Demand equal time and equal rights. You may think you're throwing everything away by standing up to your ideal lover, but paradoxically you'll win the love and respect you crave, which you never could and never will win by begging.
Your lovers always said you were paranoid. You were imagining things. You were irrational, crazy, overreacting. But when the plain truth came out, everything you feared was actually true. Your lovers weren't as trustworthy as you thought. Clandestine flirtations, or worse, outright infidelities, occurred right under your nose. You knew it in your heart, but tried to deny it, and the result was a war between your heart and mind that had you quite perplexed and upset. But, is it possible you set this up right from the very start? You got involved too quickly, and you certainly got physical without thinking first. Frequently you'd get into a situation where you and your lover were quibbling nonstop, both of you unwilling to compromise and cooperate. The answer lies within you. The lovers you choose might never be those cozy, sit-by-the-fire-and-purr types. You may never get a calm, content connection. But who wants calm when you can have fire and excitement? Embrace the tumult. Let go of your desires to control. And you just may find that the excitement of your ideal love relationship is enough to tide you over during the rough times.
The problems in your past relationships might not have been a problem for everyone, but given your makeup, they were for you. You've had a hard time connecting with anyone on the physical level. You lacked heat with your lovers. When you kissed you didn't feel butterflies; in fact, you had to work to feel anything at all. Worse, you chose lovers who tended to be somewhat cold, withholding the easy affection and cuddling that might have make up for a lack of ardor elsewhere. The answer lies, surprisingly, in your distant past. Why are you so intent on showing your love physically? What would it mean to you to have a lover who yearns for an erotic connection with you? What insecurities of yours are tweaked by a lover who can resist your wiles -- and just who in your past does this attraction/repulsion, push/pull scenario remind you of? Once you rid yourself of your emotional baggage, your ideal relationship could be blessed with lasting stability. The power is within you, so get to work!
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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