The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
On the one hand, you'll want to share life goals and pursue your ambitions together, but you'll probably find that your partnership isn't exactly conducive to this kind of sharing. The basic energy of your combined personalities is probably completely opposite to what you're each looking for in a partnership, which will create struggles for you both. For example, you might both seek a balanced, romantic and affectionate union with your partner, but you'll find that your actual, real-life connection is much more fiery and independent than that. This could cause disappointment or even resentment, and good communication as well as a mutual feeling of affection and togetherness, indicated by other paragraphs in this report, will be necessary to work this out. You may always feel as if your relationship doesn't offer you all that you want from it, but you can gain a lot of perspective from trying to straddle that line rather than allowing yourselves to fall on either one side of it or the other.
There will be a very comforting sense of stability to your connection. You'll know where you stand with each other, and that counts for a lot. To your friends, you may seem a bit on the serious or predictable side, or outwardly unaffectionate as a couple, but you'll both appreciate the feeling of steady trustworthiness that permeates your bond, and you'll both feel confident that this could last a long time if you want it to. Even if life seems hectic or chaotic when you're apart, you'll feel safe and grounded when you're together. You can have a very positive effect on each other, in fact, especially if one or both of you tends to be overly impulsive in any way -- emotionally, materialistically or otherwise. You'll learn a lot from each other and become much more mature and restrained through the course of this relationship. The only problem is, you might become too comfortable within the limits this connection describes -- in other words, you could easily get stuck in a rut together. Try to challenge yourselves on a regular basis to experience new things together and think outside the box, even if it's something as simple as trying a new restaurant. Don't forget about growth and flexibility, which are every bit as important in a relationship as stability and durability.
You'll both have high expectations of yourselves and each other in terms of your mutual development in this relationship. Your hopes will be high for what this connection can be, and you'll have a hard time accepting it if the relationship turns out to be less than what you've imagined. It will be possible to channel this idealism carefully and use it to create a relationship that's based on mutual growth and understanding, but it will be all too easy to let things veer in the direction of impossible expectations. Whatever happens, when you're together you'll feel the need to make things happen -- to learn, grow and gain understanding -- which can easily turn into something bigger than it really is. You might never feel satisfied with the way things are; you'll always want to change and improve, which in itself isn't a bad thing. It will become a real issue, though, if you can't ever accept each other as you are, or the relationship. Be sure, too, that you're giving as much to the relationship as you're demanding from it. Developing patience and tolerance as a couple will be key for the success of this connection.
This could turn out to be a very tricky relationship. Deceit and disillusionment are strong possibilities here, because you'll start out with your heads in the clouds, avoiding the reality of this connection. You might idealize it to a high degree, or you might just ignore the truth of how you two really get along and what's possible between you. And when reality rears its head, as it inevitably will, one or both of you will feel disappointed, even bitter, as if you've been completely misled. It's possible that deliberate deception will happen here -- one of you will lie to the other about something important, and when the lie is finally uncovered, it will be very hurtful to your bond. But it's more likely that whatever 'deceit' occurs in this relationship will rest on both your shoulders, because you'll both be so ready and willing to ignore reality and believe whatever you want to believe about your connection. But when the truth comes out, it will be hard not to feel like a victim -- as if you've been duped. It's also possible that if neither one of you is certain where you're supposed to be heading in life, this relationship won't be much help in figuring things out, because you'll only increase each other's confusion and lack of direction.
Even if you're both ordinarily pretty relaxed, easygoing, even retiring people, when you get together, you'll spark up each other's energy and elicit some impassioned responses from one another. You'll be hard-pressed not to express your feelings to each other, in fact -- and when you're feeling upset about something, you can be sure your thoughts and impressions will come bubbling out at double-speed, which could easily start an argument. With such lively back-and-forth interactions, in fact, arguments and disagreements could become commonplace, especially if other influences in your composite chart point to friction between you. On the other hand, you might both really enjoy your verbal sparring. Other people -- such as your friends and family who have to sit there while you two verbally duke it out -- might think you're just bickering, but really, you two could be having the time of your lives as you debate what you'll consider important issues and work together through all your feelings. This influence has another benefit: It will be rare that you bottle up any hurt feelings or irritations and allow them to fester. Do try not to let that happen; especially in this pairing, bottled-up feelings could hurt or even destroy the whole relationship.
You two will find it difficult to talk about your relationship problems in a calm, open way. A good communicative bond will help with this issue, but you'll find that you're both quite sensitive to anything that seems unfair or imbalanced in your connection or your communication. You could both get really worked up when you're trying to discuss a problem, or you might become tongue-tied, not knowing what to say or how to say it without jeopardizing the relationship itself. You could also swing back and forth between the two, which will make it hard to find that all-important middle ground. One minute you might suffer together through a chilly, wounded silence; the next, a blazing argument in which neither of you feels heard or understood. You'll need to work together on building your connection and finding ways to discuss difficult subjects in a calm, open and accepting way, even when your feelings are hurt. These are important lessons for any relationship, not just a love affair, and you'll both benefit from putting effort into learning them.
This influence has some benefits and some challenges. On the positive side, you'll have a broadening effect on each other's minds. You won't always agree on everything, not by any means; but you'll be more able than many couples to keep your arguments and disagreements to the truly important things. And when you do disagree, you'll both be patient with each other and tolerant of one another's viewpoints. Needless to say, this will keep things a lot more harmonious between you, because you'll avoid the typical pettiness that can make disagreements so unpleasant. But on the more challenging side of things, you may end up having an overly broadening effect on each other, in the sense that together, you lose your focus, and think big. Really big. If you end up living together, this could become a real problem if it encourages you to invest in grand schemes that never pan out. But if you're careful with your money, your energy and your expectations, you can avoid the pitfalls of this influence, and simply enjoy its mind-expanding benefits.
Together you'll establish both love and friendship, and you'll give each other a lot of freedom to move around and be yourselves. There will be a real openness in the ways you express your affection for and attraction to each other. Jealousy and possessiveness aren't likely to affect your bond, because neither of you will want to engage in petty, controlling behaviors with your lover. You'll both understand that your lover isn't 'yours'; you don't own each other, and you can't dictate your partner's feelings or behavior. If you're in one another's lives, it will only be to bring each other pleasure and happiness. This relationship may or may not last long-term, and this influence in itself won't add to the stability of your connection. But one thing is certain: If you can allow this affair to follow its own course without trying to control it too much, it will lead you places you never expected to go -- and the ride will be a lot of fun. Don't let yourselves be bound too closely by tradition, convention or others' expectations. It's up to you to define the boundaries of your relationship and determine how this bond plays out in your lives.
The two of you enjoy doing things together but as a couple, you don't necessarily want to be with other people. Somehow your schedules and rhythms don't quite match up. The two of you wake up early to get some exercise together, but everyone else is still sleeping. You're ready for your breakfast and they're still sleeping! And so it goes. You'd rather just be together, doing things as a pair, than adjusting to anyone else. Also, you're quite ambitious as a couple. There seem to be very few limits or restrictions to your drive, desires and motivations, so you can come across as a very strong unit. Be careful not to take on too much, burning the candle at both ends and therefore fizzling out before you've achieved any of your goals. Your intensity may drive others away and prevent them from offering the help that you need to get where you're going. Avoid the 'good-cop, bad-cop' dynamic when dealing with family, neighbors and business associates. You may find your passionate nature disconnected from the rest of your life.
Your mutual partnership needs will be a very good match with your shared interest in philosophy, learning, travel and other forms of expanding your minds. You'll both feel as if, on that level of intellectual and philosophical interests, you've found just the type of partnership you're looking for, and this point of connection will be an important one for the development of your relationship. Therefore, you should be conscious in honoring that connection in whatever ways are appropriate. If you're both interested in traveling to other countries, then work together to save up money for the plane tickets. If you're both interested in educating yourselves in new subjects, then look through a course catalog from your local community college and find a new subject to explore together. If you're both seeking spiritual enlightenment, then take couples' yoga classes together or research temples or churches in your area that might appeal to you both. Your best bet with this particular energy is to be mindful in how you use and express it. That way, you'll build your connection with each other as you enhance your own minds and lives.
This influence will bring two seemingly opposed energies at work within your relationship -- expansion and restriction -- into harmony with one another. Instead of being pitted against each other, these energies will work together to balance each other out. They can serve to keep each other in check, allowing you to have adventures together and push toward new, exciting experiences, but without going too far or extending yourselves beyond your real means. It can also help with seeing each other realistically and setting your expectations for the relationship accordingly. Thus, you won't often put unnecessary demands upon each other, and you'll make a good team when it comes to setting long-term goals and working toward them at a steady pace. You'll treat each other with patience and calm acceptance, which will really help when you hit those rough patches. In short, you'll help each other to move forward in life in a practical way, feeling supported but not limited by your partner.
You could find it difficult to stay grounded in this relationship, even if you're both ordinarily very practical. Something will happen when you're together that stimulates your idealistic sides, or perhaps your escapist tendencies, and you'll both find it hard to get back to reality. Together you'll buy wholeheartedly into the illusion of perfect love -- of spiritual communion, emotional intimacy and ever-expanding enlightenment. And while you may certainly experience moments of bliss in this pairing, it won't be perfect -- no relationship is -- and the comedown could be quite a disappointment once reality intrudes. You don't have to choose, however, between deluding yourselves and bitter pessimism. Just make it a point to accept the truth of your connection. If things aren't as wonderful as you might wish, don't waste time pretending they're idyllic; instead, put your energy into either working to fix them or accepting them as they are. Trust in your moments of happiness and communion, but try not to allow problems to conceal themselves beneath the surface of your relationship.
Your mutual needs for partnership and security within the relationship will be very well matched, which will make it easier for you both to build the kind of connection and commitment you're looking for. There will be constraints that come along with this, of course; you might both feel obligated to stay in this relationship, even if you're a mismatch in other important ways. But in some important ways, this will be a help. Even if you don't communicate well or you lack a passionate connection, you'll still feel closely bonded together, and staying together and working on your relationship will seem worth it to both of you. This relationship will bring both of you a very real sense of security, albeit one that is bound up with responsibilities and other limitations. It's possible that you'll find each other's careers or families to be restrictive of your own life and time. Still, overall, the sense of stability you'll get from this relationship will be right in line with what you're seeking from this partnership, which should please you both.
No matter how sweet, harmonious or supportive the rest of your relationship may seem, there will be a sense of restriction between you, as if one or both of you isn't getting what you want at an important level. As these feelings return repeatedly, frustration could build, and blame will be a natural, if unfortunate, result. You might feel as if the relationship inhibits your freedom or your happiness in some fundamental way, or it could be your partner who feels that way. Alternatively, you could both feel as if in this relationship, you can never have quite enough money, commitment, trust or any of the other elements that make it easy to relax and just float awhile. You may feel as if your friends or your families don't support the relationship, which makes it harder to have a carefree time together. It's possible that, even if this relationship starts out with the warmest of feelings and the best of intentions, things will really cool off emotionally between you. However, if you can remember that this is a growth opportunity, a chance to work through your mutual issues of resources, trust or commitment, then as a couple you can burn through these issues and gain the rewards of a deep and intimate connection.
You're a unique couple: everyone agrees on that. But you might never be appreciated for the things that make you truly special, since you reserve these things for each other. Besides that, you don't really care what others think of you, which gives you a lot of independence and freedom to be who you want to be as a pair. You'll rebel in one form or another or take the cutting edge on every subject you discuss. It's your unusual perspective and point of view that brings you together and makes your union different from the rest of the world. You may vividly express your wild side or it may be completely invisible from the rest of your life. Mostly, you just want to be free.
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
You'll both want to build an emotionally intimate bond that will feed your needs for union and togetherness, but these elements will be at odds within your relationship. At times you'll feel as though you share a spiritual connection, as if your souls are uniting as one, but mostly you'll feel a disappointing disconnect. You'll both need to be careful about over-idealizing one another. There's a strong tendency here to deceive yourselves as to the true nature of your partner or your relationship, leading to disappointment later when you're finally faced with the reality of the situation and you find that it measures less than you thought. This tricky energy does offer you an important growth opportunity -- learning to accept reality instead of pretending things are ideal -- but you'll need to be perfectly honest with each other about your feelings, needs and worries, and your levels of commitment to the relationship.
There is an intensity about you as a couple, and a certain mystery and charisma, accompanied by an aura of quiet power. This pairing has an internal force, a hidden treasure, and untapped depths. These are important qualities, but with nothing else to restrain or contain them, so they could be either untapped or over-tapped in this relationship. This connection is all about personal transformation and regeneration, and these processes could be turned into something that you feel is beyond your control. It is up to you to direct this powerful energy to accomplish deeds that benefit others besides yourselves.
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