The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
There will be a lot of wonderful energy, creativity and dynamism in your relationship. When you're together, you'll feel revved up, energetic and ready to move mountains -- or whatever other projects you dream up together. Staying active together will be an excellent way to use and express this energy; joining a sports team or the gym together, or just going hiking or jogging, will bring you closer together and feed this wonderful can-do feeling between you. Better still, you shouldn't have trouble making room for both your egos in this relationship. Unless there are a lot of other aspects in your composite chart that indicate power struggles, you should be able to treat each other as the equals that you are. Competition also shouldn't be an issue here; instead, you'll work side by side, or at least cheer each other on from the sidelines. Cooperation will be one of your strengths as a couple, which will help both during disagreements and when you're working on a project together -- whether that's cleaning the house, assembling a piece of furniture, playing some team sports or whatever other adventures you get involved in together.
Don't expect this relationship to follow a preset, traditional path. It's far more likely to blaze its own trail, teaching you both a lot about yourselves in the process. You'll be very open and free together, and you'll rarely place artificial restrictions on each other. Possessiveness will have no place here; you might even agree to date other people as well as each other. But honesty will always be essential to your connection, as will open, free and spontaneous self-expression. Even if you do commit only to each other, you'll always value your alone time, and you'll almost certainly maintain your friendships outside the relationship -- meaning, you aren't likely to be one of those couples that cut off the rest of the world and hole up together at home! Your bond will thrive on lots of outside stimulation. New ideas and fresh experiences will always be a priority between you, so be sure to nurture these to stave off restlessness and boredom. Put in the effort to actively seek out new experiences: Try out new restaurants, see challenging films, visit art galleries and museums, travel to new places together... Anything that puts an emphasis on creativity or challenging your minds and intellects will be an excellent use of your time as a couple.
Talking about your feelings will be easy for you two. There will be a lot of affection between you, and expressing it in words will feel natural and right. Even when you're upset with each other, you'll both find ways to talk out your issues in a kind, sensitive way that won't disturb your loving connection. Of course, you could take that a little too far in the name of keeping the peace. While it's good to try to extend the sense of harmony you'll feel so strongly when you're together, it's not good to repress problems and issues. If you can trust in your shared ability to talk things out calmly and kindly, you'll be able to deal with any problems that arise even as you maintain the sweetness and intimacy of your union. You'll find you have a lot in common in terms of your tastes in art and beauty. You'll talk about these subjects a lot, and you might really enjoy going out on dates that involve trips to galleries or museums, where you can discuss the works of art before you, or trips to the park or the river, some gorgeous spot in nature that feeds your twin artistic souls.
A meeting of the minds is a strong possibility in this relationship, especially if you have an overall positive communicative bond. The way you'll naturally communicate with each other will dovetail nicely with what you're each looking for in this partnership, which will make it easy to talk about any issues that might come up. In an important sense, you'll speak similar languages when it comes to love. You'll also just enjoy talking to each other, and you may want to keep in close touch, chatting often on the phone or e-mailing each other from work, even when you know you're going to see each other later that evening. Whatever your goals are for the relationship, you'll be able to talk those out together and make decisions as a team. Make sure that you do talk these issues through together, however, and always check with each other on your partner's feelings and needs. If you assume too often that you know just what they're thinking, you could start to misuse this precious gift.
Whatever else may happen through the course of this relationship, you can expect your connection to affect your outlook on the world in a big way. Through interacting with each other, you'll both learn to look at life through a brand-new lens, one that's different from anything you've ever imagined on your own. Even if this connection ends up being short-lived, you'll both take something important away with you -- a fresh perspective, one you wouldn't have discovered if you'd never met. But if your relationship extends into the long term, you'll find yourselves intellectually challenged again and again, in the best way possible. These challenges won't break down your self-esteem or your sense of security in the world; instead, they'll open your eyes, not to mention quickening your pulse rate. That's right -- this relationship promises never to be dull! Problem-solving will be one of your fortes as a couple, because you'll always come up with new ideas together and find new ways to tackle old issues. You'll also make a great team when it comes to creative projects, because when you put your minds together, the combined creative potential will be limitless.
One important lesson for each of you to learn in this relationship will be that neither one of you can always be right! But you'll certainly try to convince each other that you are, and you'll embroil yourselves in some pretty big battles as you each try to force your perceptions and opinions onto one another. You may also do this as a team when you're out with friends or family, trying to push your combined world view onto other people, making them feel as if their own views aren't being heard or accepted. This could become a difficult aspect to deal with if you let things get out of hand; whether you direct this energy toward each other or outward toward others, your communication style could become more and more aggressive and less and less sympathetic, to the point that it will be hard to get through to each other at all. But you don't have to let that happen. You can choose to be conscious of your behavior as well as the motives behind it, and remind yourselves that you need to stay open to others' viewpoints. Above all, try to avoid damaging or even destroying the relationship by forcing each other to fight for intellectual freedom.
Giving one another affection and getting along well should come easy to you two. In one another's arms, you'll find what you're looking for in terms of partnership and romance. In fact, if there are other more difficult energies at work between you, this one might help to alleviate them. Even when you're really annoyed with each other, you'll usually be able to remember why you're in this relationship and what you like about your sweetie. You'll each hold your connection in a special place in your heart, which means you'll both do what it takes to guard and preserve that bond. In general, you'll cooperate well and compromise when necessary. Do this consciously, though. If you rely too much on this easy, sweet energy, you'll start taking it for granted, which will weaken it. But if you both put continual effort into treating one another well, giving each other plenty of affection and compromising when the situation calls for it, you'll find that your relationship will fulfill you both.
When it comes to the ways you'll naturally express your energies in this relationship and pursue your mutual partnership needs, you'll find that you're on opposite sides of the fence. You may find, for instance, that your energy, ambition and drive actually prevent you from building the balanced, loving and romantic partnership you dream of creating. You may find that your sexual passions aren't well matched, or that you get into more arguments than either of you wants -- and neither of you will know how to cool off and get along. Perhaps fighting will be your road to intimacy; some couples seem to thrive on it. This could be a love-hate relationship, where you frequently break up and quickly get back together -- after all, there's a strong appeal here! As a team, you tend to do things impulsively and quickly and often without input from others. This tricky energy also offers you an important growth opportunity. Being conscious about expressing yourselves in a calm yet direct way will help; so will taking care to really listen to your partner and honor their feelings and perceptions.
This relationship will be nothing if not unusual, and it could be so unusual that neither of you can ultimately handle its unpredictability. There will be a very challenging, competitive energy that grows between you, pushing you to provoke each other on a regular basis regarding your work, your behavior, your goals and so on. Furthermore, you'll both find it hard to let things roll off your backs in this relationship; when your partner does or says something to you that provokes you, you'll want to address it immediately. You'll have a hard time creating balance, which will in turn make it difficult to create any sense of stability between you. You may also have to add outside pressures into the mix, especially if your connection is outwardly so odd or hard to accept that your friends and families actively disapprove of the relationship. Above all, don't try to subject this affair to any of your usual standards or expectations. If you care about each other and want this to last, the only way to make that happen will be to give each other plenty of freedom as well as support, and let the relationship follow its own unique course.
You'll find it hard to sync up your energies, your goals and your ambitions, and the effects of this could range from occasionally frustrating to a constant source of tension between you. Especially if your communicative bond isn't very strong, there could be a lot of strain and anxiety lurking beneath the surface of your relationship. This makes it difficult to find open, honest expression, which is essential to overcoming this problem together. While it's good to try to get along and share a harmonious connection, neither one of you should try to do so by suppressing real feelings of anger, hurt or resentment. Instead, you should find nondestructive ways to express these feelings so that you can talk them out and process through them as a couple. The danger here is that you'll fall into the trap of becoming more and more resentful toward each other, and therefore more and more critical, always trading barbs but rarely just having it out with one another. Since you'll so often be out of sync with each other, you'll also both have to focus on letting your partner have things their way once in a while. If either of you is too demanding, that will only contribute to the difficult, stagnant energy between you.
There will be a strong and definite spiritual side to your connection. You both could feel spiritually attuned as soon as you start getting to know each other, as if you've finally met the person who will help you awaken the secrets of your soul. This is certainly a lofty goal, but it's also quite an idealistic one, which means you'll need to focus on the more realistic, practical side of your connection as well. You stand to learn a lot from each other within the realm of your emotions and your highest spiritual aims, but you could also lead one another down a decidedly less productive path if you allow yourselves to get too far away from a grounded perspective. If either of you has tendencies toward escapist behaviors, they could grow through the course of this relationship; escape from reality will be a strong theme of your bond. Try to make sure your escapes are enlightened ones, not ones that pull you away from the real world in a detrimental way. It's wonderful to revel in the uplifting optimism and delight you'll derive from this affair, but be sure you pay enough attention to the more physical, earthly, day-to-day side of life as well.
This influence will bring two seemingly opposed energies at work within your relationship -- expansion and restriction -- into harmony with one another. Instead of being pitted against each other, these energies will work together to balance each other out. They can serve to keep each other in check, allowing you to have adventures together and push toward new, exciting experiences, but without going too far or extending yourselves beyond your real means. It can also help with seeing each other realistically and setting your expectations for the relationship accordingly. Thus, you won't often put unnecessary demands upon each other, and you'll make a good team when it comes to setting long-term goals and working toward them at a steady pace. You'll treat each other with patience and calm acceptance, which will really help when you hit those rough patches. In short, you'll help each other to move forward in life in a practical way, feeling supported but not limited by your partner.
This influence will help a great deal in creating dynamic stability in your relationship. You'll make an excellent working team, and you'll work hard to help each other make your dreams come true. Together, you'll want to have a positive effect on the world and change things around you for the better, and you can make that happen through your combined positive outlook and your dedication to your cause. This influence will also help in dealing with any problems you two face as a couple. Even if you run into big obstacles -- misunderstandings, mismatched objectives and the like -- you'll be able to find your way back to each other and reunite as a strong team. This is where stability is created between you; over time, a sense of trust, harmony and optimism will grow, as each of you begins to realize that when you're together, there's very little you can't accomplish, and very little that can drive you apart. This won't be the result of luck, but of effort and well-tuned energies combining in a positive way. If you make sure to focus together on making positive changes that will benefit more than just yourselves, you'll reap all the best that this relationship has to offer.
Your relationship will be about a lot more than simple mutual pleasure and good times. You'll both feel as if your connection is more important than that -- as if you've come together for some higher purpose, to achieve something profound. This influence may tone down the passion between you, turning what would otherwise be something spontaneous and often physical into something more spiritual, refined and restrained. But this restraint won't be unwelcome; instead, it will be something you impose on yourselves in order to honor your commitment to each other and to the relationship. You'll both put a lot of effort into creating an ideal bond, one that is emotionally and spiritually fulfilling. You'll spend time talking about what's most important to you in life, including your problems, and you'll help each other work on your issues and find ways to solve them. You'll look up to each other as mentors, because you'll each bring such an important and helpful influence to your partner's life. With this aspect between you, a long-term connection is a distinct possibility. If your relationship does continue, you'll always respect and look up to each other.
You'll be able to weather beautifully through the difficulties that will inevitably arise during the course of your relationship. This influence will help you work through problems with dedication and an eye for permanent, positive transformation, as long as you stay attuned to the need for change. It may be a little too easy to rely on the security this aspect brings and therefore resist change, but every intimate bond should be about growing and learning. Keep that in mind, and you'll be able to work together on the relationship in a gentle yet effective way, nurturing each other while creating a bond that makes you both feel safe and supported. This aspect ensures that if you both want to stay together, you'll be able to do so, no matter what problems come up between you, either within the relationship or outside of it. This influence gives you a lot of staying power as a couple. You'll find a great deal of strength within this bond, but it will be up to you to stay open and feeling -- meaning, keep your relationship fresh and evolving, so that your feelings for each other never grow stagnant.
Your mutual needs for partnership are at odds with your shared security needs, which will create uncomfortable friction as you work together to build a connection. Perhaps you're both looking for a high-minded, adventurous and exploratory partnership, for example, but you'll build your relationship on on a much more critical, exacting, demanding approach to commitment. You might feel as if creating the kind of partnership you want is impossible; similarly, you might never feel that your security needs are being met. Furthermore, any sense of security you're able to derive from this connection is likely to be bound up with responsibilities and other limitations. You're likely to find each other's careers or families to be an unwanted restriction on your own life and time; you might also feel your relationship itself limits your freedom. Still, this tricky energy also offers you an important growth opportunity. Work together at creating a partnership you can both enjoy and appreciate, while still honoring one another's needs in terms of security and commitment. You can find that balance, and once you do, you'll both feel more stable and connected.
You'll be much better off as a couple if you can train yourselves to deal with irritations as they come up instead of bottling them up inside, which will be your instinct. Bottling things up, of course, only makes them expand and eventually boil over, and at that point, the tension you've created may be way too hot to handle. Unfortunately, if you tend to irritate each other on a regular basis, the only thing for it will be to deal with each incident as it happens, clearing the air for the next one. Yes, this will be an annoying process, but it will be far worse to try to sweep your feelings under the rug, only to have them rear up later, far bigger and more insistent. This influence can actually have a healthy effect on your relationship if you can take it as a lesson in honesty and tact. You'll need both in dealing with each other, especially if your relationship progresses and you end up living together or getting married. But if you let tension build up between you too much, it could spell the end of the relationship.
It will be important for you two, as a couple, to determine how your relationship will be structured, completely apart from anyone else's expectations or 'rules.' The good news is, all you'll need to do is focus on your natural, innate partnership needs for a clue to making your relationship as unique as it deserves to be. Of course, this emphasis on freedom and uniqueness could go overboard at times. There may be a distinct element of surprise and uncertainty to your connection, even if you make a solid commitment to one another. Maybe you'll break up and get back together repeatedly; maybe you'll stay together but have a roller coaster of a connection in a more emotional sense. The point is, all you can expect here is the unexpected. At least whatever form this unpredictability takes, you'll know it's right for the two of you, in the sense that it could only work for you two and no one else. It might become tiring, of course, not being able to rely on your relationship, but what it lacks in stability, it will make up in excitement.
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
There is an intensity about you as a couple, and a certain mystery and charisma, accompanied by an aura of quiet power. This pairing has an internal force, a hidden treasure, and untapped depths. These are important qualities, but with nothing else to restrain or contain them, so they could be either untapped or over-tapped in this relationship. This connection is all about personal transformation and regeneration, and these processes could be turned into something that you feel is beyond your control. It is up to you to direct this powerful energy to accomplish deeds that benefit others besides yourselves.
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