The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
Love isn't just a possibility between you; it's very likely, especially if other aspects of your relationship agree on a positive, affectionate connection. From the start, there will be a sense of sweetness and tender devotion between you. You'll truly like each other, and if other conditions support the relationship moving forward, then like will almost certainly grow into love. You'll feel quite attracted to each other, whether that's at an overtly physical level or one that's more akin to a natural affinity. The sense of ease and comfort between you will smooth the way for a truly sublime partnership. The magnetic promises of this influence will easily outweigh any difficulties that may come with your relationship, and the sense of romance this aspect brings will work to counterbalance any challenges you face as a couple, keeping you feeling great about each other and the relationship. On a day-to-day basis, you're likely to be courteous, thoughtful and considerate with each other. You'll enjoy getting out and being social together, and you'll be known as a loving, affectionate and romantic couple.
You'll both derive a lot of energy and vitality from your partnership, because the core energy of your connection matches the things you're both seeking from this relationship. You'll both feel as if your connection embodies exactly the type of values and goals you're looking for, which will make you both feel happy and excited at the prospect of sharing a future. You'll both sense that together, you'll be able to make things happen, in your own lives as well as in your shared life. The longer you're together, the more you might feel as if you 'couldn't have done it' without your sweetie by your side. But do make sure that you're actually a solid match in terms of your communication, your goals and how much of yourselves and your energy you're willing to commit to the relationship. If you find that you're on a par in all of these important ways, it's likely that you'll be able to build a really strong, fun and mutually satisfying connection.
There will be a very comforting sense of stability to your connection. You'll know where you stand with each other, and that counts for a lot. To your friends, you may seem a bit on the serious or predictable side, or outwardly unaffectionate as a couple, but you'll both appreciate the feeling of steady trustworthiness that permeates your bond, and you'll both feel confident that this could last a long time if you want it to. Even if life seems hectic or chaotic when you're apart, you'll feel safe and grounded when you're together. You can have a very positive effect on each other, in fact, especially if one or both of you tends to be overly impulsive in any way -- emotionally, materialistically or otherwise. You'll learn a lot from each other and become much more mature and restrained through the course of this relationship. The only problem is, you might become too comfortable within the limits this connection describes -- in other words, you could easily get stuck in a rut together. Try to challenge yourselves on a regular basis to experience new things together and think outside the box, even if it's something as simple as trying a new restaurant. Don't forget about growth and flexibility, which are every bit as important in a relationship as stability and durability.
Don't expect this relationship to follow a preset, traditional path. Instead, if you two come together, your connection will blaze its own trail, teaching you both a lot about yourselves in the process. You'll be very open and free together, and you'll rarely place artificial restrictions on each other. You might really value your alone time, separate from each other, and you'll almost certainly maintain your friendships outside the relationship -- meaning, this won't be one of those affairs in which you cut off the rest of the world and hole up together at home! No, your relationship will thrive on lots of outside stimulation. You'll be amazed at the doors you manage to open together. New ideas and fresh experiences will always be a priority between you. If you don't nurture these, in fact, you could become restless together, or even bored. You should both put in the effort to actively seek out new experiences: Try out new restaurants, see challenging films, visit art galleries and museums, travel to new places together... Anything that puts an emphasis on creativity or challenging your minds and intellects will be an excellent use of your time as a couple.
No one is perfect, and everyone can stand to change at least a few things about themselves in order to be a better friend, lover and all-around person. In fact, the need for growth is one of the biggest reasons we enter into relationships; they're the perfect venue for learning these lessons. But while this relationship will certainly change you, it may not be for the better. You'll both try to force the other to change in ways that aren't necessary or fair, such as pushing your lover to become the partner you wish you could be with. Power struggles will take center stage in this relationship. You might never feel appreciated and accepted for the person you are inside; similarly, you might never feel as if you can fully relax with each other. Arguments could flare up frequently as you each try to carve out a comfortable space for yourselves. Take a look at the rest of the aspects between you: If there are lots of harmonious influences, they can balance out the challenges of this one. But if there are others that indicate conflict, you can expect this relationship to be a tough one. Still, you can consciously focus together on accepting each other and on toning down your own controlling impulses, and make this work -- with effort.
You're intellectually and mentally compatible, and the similarities in your outlooks will help to foster a feeling of friendship between you. It's not that you'll always think in exactly the same ways; it's that your ideas and perceptions will complement each other and teach you both a lot about life and your places in the world. Your viewpoints will expand a great deal through being together, and you should both look for ways to increase this growth. You might travel a great deal together, but even if you stay home and simply watch documentary films or read articles to each other from the newspaper, your time will be well-spent. Even when you disagree on some interesting, important subject, if you talk out the reasons for your disagreement, you'll both learn something. All this positive communication and healthy outlook will increase your idealistic feelings about the world as well as about your relationship. You'll actually help each other become more forgiving and patient with other people in general, because you'll teach each other about tolerance and a holistic view of humanity.
Giving one another affection and getting along well should come easy to you two, because the way you'll naturally express your tender feelings for one another will be a good match with what each of you is seeking from this connection. In one another's arms, you'll find what you're looking for in terms of partnership and romance; in fact, if there are other more difficult energies at work between you, this one might help to alleviate them. Even when you're really annoyed with each other, you'll still be able to remember why you're in this relationship and what you like about your sweetie. You'll each hold your connection in a special place in your heart, which means you'll both do what it takes to guard and preserve that bond. In general, you'll cooperate well and compromise when it's needed. You're also likely to find that you're a good fit in terms of your values and expectations as related to romance as well as to your financial needs and artistic tastes.
There will be a calm, steady and enduring affection between you, one that could easily last a long time, especially if other aspects in your composite chart also point to a long-term connection. But be forewarned: This influence creates a kind of glue between two people. Once you establish a certain relationship pattern together, it will be hard to break out of it or change it in any way, which has its pluses as well as its minuses. On the plus side, you'll share a deep sense of duty and responsibility toward each other, and you'll have well-defined principles about how you want to conduct your relationship. These factors may be the very things that keep you together when you go through rough patches as a couple. Plus, you'll work well together; if you ever make investments or pursue any kind of business venture together, it's sure to be a solid success. But, on the minus side, you probably won't be the most demonstrative couple around, even in your happiest moments. Your affectionate displays will be restrained at best, which could lead to a feeling of distance between you. You'll both need to put in a little extra effort to make sure your lover knows you care about them, truly and deeply. You'll also need to put in conscious effort to seek out new experiences and deliberately bring a sense of adventure into your relationship.
This relationship will be one of dynamic, energetic change for both of you. Through getting to know and becoming close with each other, you'll learn more about yourselves as well as one another, and you'll both want to make personal transformations that will change your whole lives. This particular influence will help you learn to cooperate with each other. You'll push forward toward your own goals with greater perseverance than you might have on your own, because this aspect will help you to work together rather than against each other. You'll be able to offer each other a very real and valuable kind of support as you each work toward your dreams, and you'll also come to understand yourselves better so that you can tailor your dreams more closely to the people you are inside. Problem-solving is likely to be one of your fortes as a couple; you'll inspire a kind of energetic creativity within each other that enables you to tackle any problems that arise with inventiveness and ingenuity. This aspect will also spark up the physical side of your connection; your sexual bond will become a vital and powerful part of your relationship.
You'll both need to make a real effort to be completely honest and aboveboard with each other, and not to engage in power struggles or petty ego games. There will be too much tendency in this relationship to threaten, weaken and confuse each other at a deep, murky, emotional level; even 'little white lies' will have a negative effect on your connection. If you aren't careful, you'll both become more and more unclear over time about what, exactly, your aims are as a couple and how you're supposed to achieve them. Your self-confidence could suffer as well as your general sense of goals and personal power. Since all of this will happen at levels neither of you will fully understand or even be able to pinpoint, dealing with it will be that much more difficult. Just try to be honest with each other at all times, even when you want to save your partner's feelings in some way. And try to let go of your own need to assert yourself at the expense of your partner's needs and feelings. If you can both do these things, this relationship can be a positive experience for you both.
You'll both enjoy each other's company, and you'll generate a lot of energy when you're together. For this reason, you'll need to direct that energy in a conscious, positive way, because there will be a certain level of competition between you. It will be much better to focus it toward a particular objective than to allow it to slowly change your good feelings toward each other! Still, even if you aren't careful in how you use this energy, the challenging potential of this particular influence shouldn't be too difficult to deal with. At most, you could become annoyed with each other because of the kidding way you'll have with each other. At times, the barbs you'll toss each other's way could be just a little too sharp; in those moments, you'll have to rely on other influences in your relationship to help you know it's time to pull back and perhaps offer an apology for hurting your sweetie's feelings. But in general, you'll push each other to do and achieve more than you would on your own, and that should be a very positive characteristic of this relationship. Working together on projects could be difficult if you let that competitive undertone turn into outright challenge and arguments; do watch yourselves when you have to function as a team.
You'll find it hard to sync up your energies, your goals and your ambitions, and the effects of this could range from occasionally frustrating to a constant source of tension between you. Especially if your communicative bond isn't very strong, there could be a lot of strain and anxiety lurking beneath the surface of your relationship. This makes it difficult to find open, honest expression, which is essential to overcoming this problem together. While it's good to try to get along and share a harmonious connection, neither one of you should try to do so by suppressing real feelings of anger, hurt or resentment. Instead, you should find nondestructive ways to express these feelings so that you can talk them out and process through them as a couple. The danger here is that you'll fall into the trap of becoming more and more resentful toward each other, and therefore more and more critical, always trading barbs but rarely just having it out with one another. Since you'll so often be out of sync with each other, you'll also both have to focus on letting your partner have things their way once in a while. If either of you is too demanding, that will only contribute to the difficult, stagnant energy between you.
Somehow, as a couple, you're never satisfied with what you have or what you're given. You always want more. Not in a whiny or unpleasant way, but still, there is a sense of entitlement. Even if there is a little voice inside you saying that you are sufficiently sated, you don't pay attention to it. Clearly this can lead to overdoing it on all fronts, with inevitable results. Do be careful of excesses, because neither of you knows when enough is enough and probably egg each other on, while protecting each other from criticism. On the plus side, you are a couple of great faith and optimism. You were brought together by similar belief systems very early on, and if they are different from the norm around you, that's OK with both of you. You inspire others with your strong faith and independent beliefs, and these may even be the qualities for which you're best known as a couple.
Your mutual needs for partnership and security within the relationship will be very well matched, which will make it easier for you both to build the kind of connection and commitment you're looking for. There will be constraints that come along with this, of course; you might both feel obligated to stay in this relationship, even if you're a mismatch in other important ways. But in some important ways, this will be a help. Even if you don't communicate well or you lack a passionate connection, you'll still feel closely bonded together, and staying together and working on your relationship will seem worth it to both of you. This relationship will bring both of you a very real sense of security, albeit one that is bound up with responsibilities and other limitations. It's possible that you'll find each other's careers or families to be restrictive of your own life and time. Still, overall, the sense of stability you'll get from this relationship will be right in line with what you're seeking from this partnership, which should please you both.
This influence will play an important part in the stability of your connection, because it will help you treat each other with plenty of patience and acceptance. You aren't likely to fly off the handle at every little issue that crops up between you; instead, you'll stay levelheaded about most things, and you'll work together to come up with innovative yet practical solutions to your problems. That's the general significance of this aspect: a healthy and harmonious blend of realism and ingenuity. Together, you'll be able to respect traditional ways and means while still keeping an eye out for any new, interesting or unusual ideas that might enhance your connection and your lives. Just make sure that you're not overly patient -- that you don't let tensions build up to the point that you explode in a fit of anger or feeling misunderstood. You'll still need to communicate openly and deal with issues as they arise; you're just likely to find that most issues, except the really big ones, just aren't that big of a problem to either of you.
You'll both have to try hard to remember that things between you aren't nearly as dismal as they'll sometimes seem. There will be a real conflict in your relationship between reality and idealism, and there will be times when both of you feel as if working toward your ideals is useless, because of some circumstance or limitation in your lives that just won't allow you to accomplish what you're trying to do. But in those moments, it may help to remember that ideals are rarely achieved in real-life relationships. There are simply too many variables to allow perfection, except in fleeting moments, and to expect otherwise is unrealistic. Still, you could go through some very down, even depressing periods as you both feel as if the things you're trying to establish together are simply out of reach. You could start doubting yourselves and each other, or feeling very confused about the worth and nature of your relationship. You should try not to let these kinds of thoughts and feelings weaken your connection, however. You'll build strength by weathering through your moments of confusion and doing the best you can despite your doubts.
You're a unique couple: everyone agrees on that. But you might never be appreciated for the things that make you truly special, since you reserve these things for each other. Besides that, you don't really care what others think of you, which gives you a lot of independence and freedom to be who you want to be as a pair. You'll rebel in one form or another or take the cutting edge on every subject you discuss. It's your unusual perspective and point of view that brings you together and makes your union different from the rest of the world. You may vividly express your wild side or it may be completely invisible from the rest of your life. Mostly, you just want to be free.
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
There is an intensity about you as a couple, and a certain mystery and charisma, accompanied by an aura of quiet power. This pairing has an internal force, a hidden treasure, and untapped depths. These are important qualities, but with nothing else to restrain or contain them, so they could be either untapped or over-tapped in this relationship. This connection is all about personal transformation and regeneration, and these processes could be turned into something that you feel is beyond your control. It is up to you to direct this powerful energy to accomplish deeds that benefit others besides yourselves.
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