The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
Either this relationship will be a fun, interesting and challenging growth experience, or it will just be challenging -- without much of the fun. It all depends on how strong each of you are within yourselves. The stronger and more centered you are, the better. But if you're insecure or anxiety-ridden about your personality or your place in the world, this relationship may not be a pleasant experience for you, because there will be a lot of upheaval and instability within it. Your best bet is not to try to force this relationship, your expectations of it or your behavior within it into any kind of traditional, preset standard. All you can expect from this connection is the unexpected. You'll find that your ideas about yourselves -- what kind of people you are, what kind of lovers you are, what your tastes and needs are in romance -- will change, and probably change radically, through knowing and interacting with each other. If you can be open to these changes, you might end up really learning a lot about yourselves and each other, and discovering facets of your own personalities that you never suspected before. Otherwise, the strain of constant change may just be too much for you to continue in this relationship.
There will be a very comforting sense of stability to your connection. You'll know where you stand with each other, and that counts for a lot. To your friends, you may seem a bit on the serious or predictable side, or outwardly unaffectionate as a couple, but you'll both appreciate the feeling of steady trustworthiness that permeates your bond, and you'll both feel confident that this could last a long time if you want it to. Even if life seems hectic or chaotic when you're apart, you'll feel safe and grounded when you're together. You can have a very positive effect on each other, in fact, especially if one or both of you tends to be overly impulsive in any way -- emotionally, materialistically or otherwise. You'll learn a lot from each other and become much more mature and restrained through the course of this relationship. The only problem is, you might become too comfortable within the limits this connection describes -- in other words, you could easily get stuck in a rut together. Try to challenge yourselves on a regular basis to experience new things together and think outside the box, even if it's something as simple as trying a new restaurant. Don't forget about growth and flexibility, which are every bit as important in a relationship as stability and durability.
You're intellectually and mentally compatible, and the similarities in your outlooks will help to foster a feeling of friendship between you. It's not that you'll always think in exactly the same ways; it's that your ideas and perceptions will complement each other and teach you both a lot about life and your places in the world. Your viewpoints will expand a great deal through being together, and you should both look for ways to increase this growth. You might travel a great deal together, but even if you stay home and simply watch documentary films or read articles to each other from the newspaper, your time will be well-spent. Even when you disagree on some interesting, important subject, if you talk out the reasons for your disagreement, you'll both learn something. All this positive communication and healthy outlook will increase your idealistic feelings about the world as well as about your relationship. You'll actually help each other become more forgiving and patient with other people in general, because you'll teach each other about tolerance and a holistic view of humanity.
One thing is sure: Through the course of this relationship, your minds will expand in some exciting ways that you couldn't possibly predict. You'll challenge each other to open your eyes and minds and view the world in a whole new way. Your conversations will take unpredictable turns as you focus on ways to sharpen and improve your thinking. Together you'll brainstorm ideas to make the world a better place, and you'll make each other think ever more creatively, well outside the box. Getting into a rut together will be very unlikely; your influence on each other will be too unique and interesting to allow that to happen! Of course, things will inevitably get a little dull from time to time, and that's when the more challenging potential of this influence will kick in. On the rare occasion that your interactions aren't utterly thrilling, you might convince yourselves that the spark is gone and the relationship is over (which, of course, won't be the case). Similarly, there may be so much stimulation between you that you have a hard time relaxing together. With an influence like this one between you, you'll have to remind yourselves that the occasional dud of a conversation is normal, and down time is a good thing!
At times you'll find it difficult to get along and keep the peace, because your mutual partnership needs are at odds with your shared values as well as with the natural way you'll express affection for each other. You'll have to put real effort into making compromises, because cooperation won't come easily to you as a couple, especially in matters related to money, values or your relationship itself. Furthermore, when you're upset with each other, you'll have a hard time remembering why you're together and what you love about each other. Still, this tricky energy also offers you an important growth opportunity. If you can remember to keep giving one another affection and support even when you're embroiled in an argument, you'll both benefit. Also, make a conscious effort to work out your disagreements in a mutually satisfying way instead of becoming stubborn and insistent on having your own way. Learning to compromise and work together will be important lessons for you both, ones that will improve your connection as a whole.
This aspect could really make it difficult for you two to be together in the passionate, affectionate way that you'll both desire. It might be that outside circumstances -- living in separate cities, perhaps, or having schedules that are just too different -- will keep you from making it happen, or it might just be that the problems you'll encounter as a couple will be too difficult to surmount and find happiness together. But however this restrictive energy manifests between you, it will result in a general, overall feeling that you just can't connect in the way that you'd like, no matter what either of you tries to do to bridge the gap. This doesn't have to spell the failure of the relationship, though. It may just mean that you'll both have to accept that your connection won't ever be exactly what you want it to be. If you can accept this, then you can wait and see what does develop between you -- which might be something different from what you originally envisioned, but equally satisfying. In fact, giving up any and all expectations may be the best way to make this relationship work out long-term.
You'll help each other do and become everything you've ever dreamed of. If this relationship extends into the long term, you're both likely to take great strides toward your personal and career goals. You'll give one another the space, support and encouragement you each need to achieve your dreams, and you'll bring a lot of energy and optimism to one another's lives. You'll also make a great team when it comes to any kind of project, whether that's winning a soccer game, brainstorming career plans or anything in between. Working together will come easily to you, in part because of the warm and positive feelings you'll both have when you're together. But perhaps even more importantly, this influence will help you develop a true and affectionate friendship. You'll simply really like each other, and you'll want to do what you can to help and support each other's dreams. Since positive thinking leads to positive outcomes, the optimism you inspire in each other is likely to play a big role in setting goals, aiming high and then reaching those goals as a team.
This particular influence could make it difficult to communicate with each other in an effective, straightforward way, because nameless anxieties will work beneath the surface of your relationship, undermining your connection. When your partner tries to express their goals or needs in a strong way, you could take it as a threat to you at some level that you won't completely understand. At a deeply emotional level, you may fear that their self-expression will somehow overpower or drown out your own selfhood and emotional needs; but at the surface, all you'll know is that you're uncomfortable with the way things are going. You'll both need to be careful about the way you use your egos within the relationship and make sure that you don't try to dominate one another at that level, because any ego games or power struggles that you initiate aren't likely to go well for either of you. Part of the problem will be that neither of you will even be aware of what you're engaging in, enabling the pattern you're creating to continue unchecked. Be certain that you treat each other with both care and honesty. Any level of dishonesty, including manipulation, won't lead to good things.
As a couple, you'll focus on the excitement of new discoveries and experiences. You'll pick up on a certain love of freedom and adventure in one another, which will attract you to each other from the start. You'll both know intuitively that this is a relationship that won't restrict your desire to experience life to the fullest and constantly broaden your horizons. In fact, you'll help each other to seek out those unique experiences that will define your souls. You won't subject your relationship to overly traditional expectations, either; instead, you'll both be happy to let things follow their own course. You'll encourage independence and individualism in each other, so even if you do become a committed, long-term couple, you'll rarely restrict each other's personal freedom in any way. But this influence also won't undermine your connection or its durability. In fact, it will help to strengthen your bond, because both of you will so appreciate being able to truly be yourselves, through and through. Creativity, discovery, inventiveness, adventure and new perspectives will all be core values and interests that define your connection.
You'll want to cooperate and support each other as each of you tries to reach your goals, become more self-aware and make your dreams come true; but if you aren't careful, you may get stuck in power struggles instead. Somehow, teamwork won't come naturally to you, even if normally you're both good at working with other people. If there are other more harmonizing influences in your composite chart that indicate amicability and working together, those will help, but it's possible that in this particular pairing, each of you will see your partner's successes as somehow a threat to your own -- as if only one of you can be the achiever at any given time. You'll both want to learn and grow and make progress, but you'll trip yourselves up if you're overly competitive. As things move forward in your relationship, achievement and success could take on too much focus, as if everything in your lives, or at least in your partnership, rides on these. The good news is, you can work on this; you can make a conscious effort not to be too ambitious or aggressive in chasing down your own goals, and you can both be sure to offer your partner they support they deserve.
Your mutual needs for partnership and security within the relationship will be a close match, which will make it easier for you both to build the kind of connection and commitment you're looking for. There will be constraints that come along with this, however. You might both feel obligated to stay in this relationship, even if you're a mismatch in other important ways. Even if you don't communicate well or you lack a passionate connection, you'll still feel as if you should stay together -- bound by a sense of duty or necessity. This relationship will bring both of you a very real sense of security, but one that is bound up with responsibilities and other limitations. You might find each other's careers or families to be an unwanted restriction on your own life and time; you might even feel your relationship itself is a restriction on your freedom, but you won't know how to disconnect from it, or you simply won't want to. Still, overall, the stability and security you'll get from this relationship will be right in line with what you're seeking from this partnership, which should give you both a sense of satisfaction.
You're a unique couple: everyone agrees on that. But you might never be appreciated for the things that make you truly special, since you reserve these things for each other. Besides that, you don't really care what others think of you, which gives you a lot of independence and freedom to be who you want to be as a pair. You'll rebel in one form or another or take the cutting edge on every subject you discuss. It's your unusual perspective and point of view that brings you together and makes your union different from the rest of the world. You may vividly express your wild side or it may be completely invisible from the rest of your life. Mostly, you just want to be free.
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
There is an intensity about you as a couple, and a certain mystery and charisma, accompanied by an aura of quiet power. This pairing has an internal force, a hidden treasure, and untapped depths. These are important qualities, but with nothing else to restrain or contain them, so they could be either untapped or over-tapped in this relationship. This connection is all about personal transformation and regeneration, and these processes could be turned into something that you feel is beyond your control. It is up to you to direct this powerful energy to accomplish deeds that benefit others besides yourselves.
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