The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
This relationship could be one bound by duty or obligation. It's likely to be quite a traditional relationship, and you'll both take it very seriously. It could even seem like a business arrangement as much as (or even more than) a romantic affair. Whatever else happens between you, this union will teach both of you a lot about yourselves, each other and your expectations of a love affair. Over the course of your connection, you'll have to face yourselves in ways that make you uncomfortable and learn to accept truths about yourselves that you may not want to admit. Facing down your own weaknesses could feel like a depressing process, but it doesn't have to be; it's much better if you can look at it as an important learning experience. Rather than judging yourselves or each other harshly, this can be a lesson in humility and acceptance, or even a guide for personal change. The sense of limitation inherent in this relationship might actually point to some sort of restriction that you don't want or need to put up with. But to a large degree, while this aspect may not indicate a lot of enjoyment, it does indicate an enduring, stable and committed relationship.
You'll feel really good when you're together -- easy and friendly, in a simple and natural way. You'll feel as if the relationship is everything it should be, as if it gives you everything you need from it. This is a wonderful influence for offsetting other aspects that may create a sense of discontent. You'll make a philosophical connection that allows you to increase your understanding of each other, yourselves and the world around you, through interesting conversation, watching documentary films together, traveling to new places and the like. And this won't just be simple fun; it will be important for your mutual development. You'll both really want to broaden your horizons, and exploring your places in the world will be a significant part of your connection. Your communication will be open, free and easy, and you'll both feel as if you can express yourselves in a true, honest way with each other. But though you'll discuss issues and beliefs that are deeply important to you, you'll do so in a fun, lighthearted, optimistic way -- a wonderful combination. The good attitude you foster in each other will keep you both looking toward the horizon as you move forward in life together.
You'll want to share life goals and pursue your ambitions together, but you'll probably find that your partnership isn't exactly conducive to this kind of sharing. The basic energy of your connection is at odds with what you're each looking for in the partnership, and that will create struggles for you both. For example, you might both seek a warm and nurturing connection with your partner, but you'll find that your actual, real-life connection is much more fiery and independent than that. This could cause disappointment or even resentment, but if you care about each other, the process of learning to support one another despite your differences will be an important growth experience. In fact, this contentious energy will give you an opportunity to work out your differences and become an even stronger couple as a result. Know, though, that good communication and a mutual feeling of affection and togetherness will be necessary to work this out.
No one is perfect, and everyone can stand to change at least a few things about themselves in order to be a better friend, lover and all-around person. In fact, the need for growth is one of the biggest reasons we enter into relationships; they're the perfect venue for learning these lessons. But while this relationship will certainly change you, it may not be for the better. You'll both try to force the other to change in ways that aren't necessary or fair, such as pushing your lover to become the partner you wish you could be with. Power struggles will take center stage in this relationship. You might never feel appreciated and accepted for the person you are inside; similarly, you might never feel as if you can fully relax with each other. Arguments could flare up frequently as you each try to carve out a comfortable space for yourselves. Take a look at the rest of the aspects between you: If there are lots of harmonious influences, they can balance out the challenges of this one. But if there are others that indicate conflict, you can expect this relationship to be a tough one. Still, you can consciously focus together on accepting each other and on toning down your own controlling impulses, and make this work -- with effort.
Talking about your feelings will be easy for you two. There will be a lot of affection between you, and expressing it in words will feel natural and right. Even when you're upset with each other, you'll both find ways to talk out your issues in a kind, sensitive way that won't disturb your loving connection. Of course, you could take that a little too far in the name of keeping the peace. While it's good to try to extend the sense of harmony you'll feel so strongly when you're together, it's not good to repress problems and issues. If you can trust in your shared ability to talk things out calmly and kindly, you'll be able to deal with any problems that arise even as you maintain the sweetness and intimacy of your union. You'll find you have a lot in common in terms of your tastes in art and beauty. You'll talk about these subjects a lot, and you might really enjoy going out on dates that involve trips to galleries or museums, where you can discuss the works of art before you, or trips to the park or the river, some gorgeous spot in nature that feeds your twin artistic souls.
You're intellectually and mentally compatible, and the similarities in your outlooks will help to foster a feeling of friendship between you. It's not that you'll always think in exactly the same ways; it's that your ideas and perceptions will complement each other and teach you both a lot about life and your places in the world. Your viewpoints will expand a great deal through being together, and you should both look for ways to increase this growth. You might travel a great deal together, but even if you stay home and simply watch documentary films or read articles to each other from the newspaper, your time will be well-spent. Even when you disagree on some interesting, important subject, if you talk out the reasons for your disagreement, you'll both learn something. All this positive communication and healthy outlook will increase your idealistic feelings about the world as well as about your relationship. You'll actually help each other become more forgiving and patient with other people in general, because you'll teach each other about tolerance and a holistic view of humanity.
In the beginning you two might start arguing over real, important issues you have with each other, but over time, arguing will become such a normal, familiar way of interacting that you'll fight over just about anything. Every couple gets into it now and again, of course, and everyone needs to get tension off their chest rather than letting it stagnate. It's important to communicate openly about your real feelings and perceptions within the relationship, even if those feelings aren't pleasant; but you two will probably go well past that boundary together. You'll annoy each other frequently, because the ways you talk to each other will be pointed, aggressive and rarely kind or sensitive. In short, you'll talk to each other not like lovers or friends, but like enemies issuing a challenge. You'll become more and more sensitive to each other over time, too, so that after a while, it will be difficult to say anything to your partner that doesn't come across as inflammatory. You can avoid this eventuality, however, if you're aware of your argumentative tendency from the start. You can both make the effort to pay attention to how you speak to each other, and try to differentiate between real, important issues and petty disagreements that don't merit the trouble of fighting them out.
You'll encourage each other to reject traditional ideas and conventional ways of thinking, which has its good points as well as its challenging ones. On the positive side, you'll both make sure that you keep thinking well outside the box, and you'll both look for alternative perspectives in any given situation. But that's also where trouble will come in. Sometimes, the conventional viewpoint is also the most appropriate one, but if you two simply reject convention automatically, you'll fall into the habit of challenging ideas -- including each other's -- solely for the sake of the challenge itself. Needless to say, this will lead to feeling unsettled, criticized and judged if you're on the receiving end of your partner's constant, automatic disagreement. And if you team up together to treat other people this way, you'll find that standing alone too much can lead to ending up alone, when your friends and family feel too criticized to put up with you any longer. Rebellion solely for its own sake doesn't hold a lot of meaning, which is a lesson you'll have to learn together through the course of this relationship.
About the only thing you can expect from this relationship is that it will be unconventional in some noticeable, important way. This influence between you will increase your feelings of restlessness and your mutual need for freedom, as well as any inherent instability in the relationship. This connection might become intense fast and then end even more suddenly; alternatively, it might defy convention in some way, especially if you try to make it conform to any type of traditional path such as marriage, moving in together and the like. It's possible for an influence like this to be outweighed by other harmonizing, uniting influences in your composite chart, but on its own, it indicates a short-lived, unstable, even erratic love connection. You may both desire a commitment and a warm, steady connection, but either your rapidly changing feelings or outside factors will make that difficult, if not impossible. Look at the other aspects in your composite chart to gain a more complete picture of the overall potential of your relationship; that will let you know how much of an effect this particular influence will have on you as a couple.
This relationship will be nothing if not unusual, and it could be so unusual that neither of you can ultimately handle its unpredictability. There will be a very challenging, competitive energy that grows between you, pushing you to provoke each other on a regular basis regarding your work, your behavior, your goals and so on. Furthermore, you'll both find it hard to let things roll off your backs in this relationship; when your partner does or says something to you that provokes you, you'll want to address it immediately. You'll have a hard time creating balance, which will in turn make it difficult to create any sense of stability between you. You may also have to add outside pressures into the mix, especially if your connection is outwardly so odd or hard to accept that your friends and families actively disapprove of the relationship. Above all, don't try to subject this affair to any of your usual standards or expectations. If you care about each other and want this to last, the only way to make that happen will be to give each other plenty of freedom as well as support, and let the relationship follow its own unique course.
Somehow, as a couple, you're never satisfied with what you have or what you're given. You always want more. Not in a whiny or unpleasant way, but still, there is a sense of entitlement. Even if there is a little voice inside you saying that you are sufficiently sated, you don't pay attention to it. Clearly this can lead to overdoing it on all fronts, with inevitable results. Do be careful of excesses, because neither of you knows when enough is enough and probably egg each other on, while protecting each other from criticism. On the plus side, you are a couple of great faith and optimism. You were brought together by similar belief systems very early on, and if they are different from the norm around you, that's OK with both of you. You inspire others with your strong faith and independent beliefs, and these may even be the qualities for which you're best known as a couple.
Your mutual needs for partnership are at odds with your shared security needs, which will create uncomfortable friction as you work together to build a connection. Perhaps you're both looking for a high-minded, adventurous and exploratory partnership, for example, but you'll build your relationship on on a much more critical, exacting, demanding approach to commitment. You might feel as if creating the kind of partnership you want is impossible; similarly, you might never feel that your security needs are being met. Furthermore, any sense of security you're able to derive from this connection is likely to be bound up with responsibilities and other limitations. You're likely to find each other's careers or families to be an unwanted restriction on your own life and time; you might also feel your relationship itself limits your freedom. Still, this tricky energy also offers you an important growth opportunity. Work together at creating a partnership you can both enjoy and appreciate, while still honoring one another's needs in terms of security and commitment. You can find that balance, and once you do, you'll both feel more stable and connected.
No matter how sweet, harmonious or supportive the rest of your relationship may seem, there will be a sense of restriction between you, as if one or both of you isn't getting what you want at an important level. As these feelings return repeatedly, frustration could build, and blame will be a natural, if unfortunate, result. You might feel as if the relationship inhibits your freedom or your happiness in some fundamental way, or it could be your partner who feels that way. Alternatively, you could both feel as if in this relationship, you can never have quite enough money, commitment, trust or any of the other elements that make it easy to relax and just float awhile. You may feel as if your friends or your families don't support the relationship, which makes it harder to have a carefree time together. It's possible that, even if this relationship starts out with the warmest of feelings and the best of intentions, things will really cool off emotionally between you. However, if you can remember that this is a growth opportunity, a chance to work through your mutual issues of resources, trust or commitment, then as a couple you can burn through these issues and gain the rewards of a deep and intimate connection.
You're a unique couple: everyone agrees on that. But you might never be appreciated for the things that make you truly special, since you reserve these things for each other. Besides that, you don't really care what others think of you, which gives you a lot of independence and freedom to be who you want to be as a pair. You'll rebel in one form or another or take the cutting edge on every subject you discuss. It's your unusual perspective and point of view that brings you together and makes your union different from the rest of the world. You may vividly express your wild side or it may be completely invisible from the rest of your life. Mostly, you just want to be free.
You'll both feel as if you've found just what you're looking for in this partnership. The emotional intimacy you'll share will seem more like a spiritual connection, as if your souls are merging as one, and the way you'll bond will feed your needs for union and togetherness. You're likely to find it incredibly easy to communicate, as if you can tap intuitively into one another's needs and emotions. If you have an otherwise difficult communicative bond, this influence will help. You'll have to be careful about over-idealizing one another, as it will be easy to deceive yourselves about the nature of your relationship or of your partner, which could lead to disappointment when you find that the reality measures less than you thought. But in general, putting one another on pedestals will serve your partnership needs in a positive way. Just be sure to be honest with each other about your feelings, needs and desires, and your levels of commitment to the relationship. That will help avoid disappointment later.
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
One of the best ways to manifest your needs in this relationship will be to go deeply together into your own interiors: to the parts of yourselves that are powerful and passionate, and ready for transformation. Exploring this intense emotional energy together will be your ticket to building the kind of deep union you'll both wish and hope for. But be forewarned: This could be difficult, uncomfortable work at times. Delving into your own emotional depths may not be a lot of fun, as old hurts and anxieties will flare up anew, demanding that you feel them thoroughly and process them this time. The good news is, if you can work together on creating a mutually supportive relationship, you'll have one another to lean on through this process. Be sure that you don't use anything you learn about your sweetie for leverage against them, say, in an argument later. The point of all this should not be power plays or manipulation; it should be about getting to know yourselves through and through, and becoming a closer, more committed couple in the process.
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