The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
There will be a very comforting sense of stability to your connection. You'll know where you stand with each other, and that counts for a lot. To your friends, you may seem a bit on the serious or predictable side, or outwardly unaffectionate as a couple, but you'll both appreciate the feeling of steady trustworthiness that permeates your bond, and you'll both feel confident that this could last a long time if you want it to. Even if life seems hectic or chaotic when you're apart, you'll feel safe and grounded when you're together. You can have a very positive effect on each other, in fact, especially if one or both of you tends to be overly impulsive in any way -- emotionally, materialistically or otherwise. You'll learn a lot from each other and become much more mature and restrained through the course of this relationship. The only problem is, you might become too comfortable within the limits this connection describes -- in other words, you could easily get stuck in a rut together. Try to challenge yourselves on a regular basis to experience new things together and think outside the box, even if it's something as simple as trying a new restaurant. Don't forget about growth and flexibility, which are every bit as important in a relationship as stability and durability.
Don't expect this relationship to follow a preset, traditional path. It's far more likely to blaze its own trail, teaching you both a lot about yourselves in the process. You'll be very open and free together, and you'll rarely place artificial restrictions on each other. Possessiveness will have no place here; you might even agree to date other people as well as each other. But honesty will always be essential to your connection, as will open, free and spontaneous self-expression. Even if you do commit only to each other, you'll always value your alone time, and you'll almost certainly maintain your friendships outside the relationship -- meaning, you aren't likely to be one of those couples that cut off the rest of the world and hole up together at home! Your bond will thrive on lots of outside stimulation. New ideas and fresh experiences will always be a priority between you, so be sure to nurture these to stave off restlessness and boredom. Put in the effort to actively seek out new experiences: Try out new restaurants, see challenging films, visit art galleries and museums, travel to new places together... Anything that puts an emphasis on creativity or challenging your minds and intellects will be an excellent use of your time as a couple.
This could turn out to be a very tricky relationship. Deceit and disillusionment are strong possibilities here, because you'll start out with your heads in the clouds, avoiding the reality of this connection. You might idealize it to a high degree, or you might just ignore the truth of how you two really get along and what's possible between you. And when reality rears its head, as it inevitably will, one or both of you will feel disappointed, even bitter, as if you've been completely misled. It's possible that deliberate deception will happen here -- one of you will lie to the other about something important, and when the lie is finally uncovered, it will be very hurtful to your bond. But it's more likely that whatever 'deceit' occurs in this relationship will rest on both your shoulders, because you'll both be so ready and willing to ignore reality and believe whatever you want to believe about your connection. But when the truth comes out, it will be hard not to feel like a victim -- as if you've been duped. It's also possible that if neither one of you is certain where you're supposed to be heading in life, this relationship won't be much help in figuring things out, because you'll only increase each other's confusion and lack of direction.
There will be a lot of respect between you, and you'll have a grounding effect on each other's thinking. You aren't likely to get caught up in romantic fantasies about each other or the relationship; instead, you'll view each other realistically -- a real boon during disagreements. With such a grounded, sensible way of communicating, you'll be able to work together through any problems that come up during the course of your relationship. In general, you'll help each other make more rational decisions than you might on your own. You'll keep each other well within the bounds of logic, and you'll rarely try to take on impossible tasks. Therefore, you'll be able to plan well together, and you're likely to make good investments as a team. The projects you undertake together should be successful because you'll be so strong in the planning stages. Just make sure to continue challenging yourselves and each other at an intellectual level. Don't be afraid to take mental risks or leaps. Creative thinking is every bit as important as reason and consistency. Most of all, don't forget the importance of passion and pleasure! If you're too calm and reasonable with each other, you might forget that there's a lot of love and energy between you -- which is there to be enjoyed.
Whatever else may happen through the course of this relationship, you can expect your connection to affect your outlook on the world in a big way. Through interacting with each other, you'll both learn to look at life through a brand-new lens, one that's different from anything you've ever imagined on your own. Even if this connection ends up being short-lived, you'll both take something important away with you -- a fresh perspective, one you wouldn't have discovered if you'd never met. But if your relationship extends into the long term, you'll find yourselves intellectually challenged again and again, in the best way possible. These challenges won't break down your self-esteem or your sense of security in the world; instead, they'll open your eyes, not to mention quickening your pulse rate. That's right -- this relationship promises never to be dull! Problem-solving will be one of your fortes as a couple, because you'll always come up with new ideas together and find new ways to tackle old issues. You'll also make a great team when it comes to creative projects, because when you put your minds together, the combined creative potential will be limitless.
You'll see and hear what you want to see and hear, rather than perceiving the real truth of your relationship. You'll both idealize your communication in the beginning of this affair; you might feel as if you can talk about anything together -- as if your sweetie listens to you with just the sort of rapt, devoted attention you crave, and understands you in an intuitive way. But over time, disappointment and bitterness could set in as you both realize you don't communicate as well as you thought you did. That intuitive understanding? You'll find it's just a series of assumptions that have actually inhibited your ability to understand each other. Feeling as if you just 'get' each other will lead to a failure to listen as carefully as you might otherwise. You may even feel as if your partner misled you or out-and-out lied to you, even though you'll both be guilty of telling each other, and yourselves, unintentional half-truths. Though the realization of just how many misperceptions exist between you could really get you down, this aspect also offers a growth opportunity. Make the effort to listen more carefully to what's actually being said rather than simply hearing what you want to hear. With time, care and effort, you can hone your communication skills and learn to see each other in a more realistic way.
Whatever you two want to create, find or accomplish together -- great love, connection, adventure, comfort, joy -- you can make it happen. This particular influence could be considered a very lucky one to have in a relationship. It will help you find success with anything you pursue in the tangible world, such as financial investments or creative projects, because it will lend you optimism as a team while expanding your creativity. But you'll also just feel better when you're together, as if life is a lot easier than when you're struggling through on your own. There will be a lot of warmth and affection between you, in part because you'll treat each other with such tender patience. You won't expect too much from each other, or from your connection. You'll find it easier than usual to accept each other's shortcomings, and you'll both feel more comfortable, more understood and embraced, as a result. There is a dark underbelly of this influence, however, which is indulgence. You two may egg each other on and not know when to stop. As a couple, you'll tend toward excess, which could get costly in more ways than one. But your combined positivity will pull you through almost every time. Together, you'll create the goodness you seek.
It's possible that you'll always feel just a little bit distanced from each other, and at times, it could be hard to bridge the gap. But there will also be a calm, steady and enduring affection between you, one that could last a long time, especially if other aspects in your composite chart point to a long-term connection. If you do fall in love and stay together, your relationship will be about more than just love, lust, romance or affection. You'll share a deep sense of duty and responsibility toward each other, and you'll have well-defined principles about how you want to conduct your relationship. And it may be these principles or your shared sense of responsibility that keeps you together when you go through rough patches as a couple. Even in happy times, though, you probably won't be the most demonstrative couple around. Your affectionate displays will be restrained at best, which is what might lead to a feeling of distance between you. If you allow your romantic signals to be too subtle, they might fly right over your partner's head. It's better not to let this happen. You'll both need to put in a little extra effort to make sure your lover knows you care about them, truly and deeply.
As wonderful as this relationship may seem in the beginning, it could easily lead to disappointment if you aren't both careful to view it realistically. There will be a strong tendency here to idealize one another and place each other on a pedestal -- one that would be impossible to live up to in real life. Still, you could both believe you've met your ideal lover, the very person you've been dreaming of and longing for all your life. Of course, your dream lover is little more than a figment of your imagination, while your real-life lover will be a very real person, someone with flaws and unexpected weaknesses. Try to keep in mind that things aren't as perfect between you as you'll initially believe them to be. You'll inevitably run into problems with one another, and you may not always be able to sustain the incredible tenderness and sensitivity that you'll show each other in moments. Even if you believe you share an intimate connection on many levels, you'll still experience the occasional communication breakdown; you'll still hurt each other's feelings from time to time. Give each other some leeway to be the real people you are rather than expecting perfection. That way, this relationship will come even closer to bliss than you've already imagined.
You'll generate a lot of energy when you're together. You might love jogging or working out together, gardening, or just working around the house; but whatever you do, you'll both bring a good deal of energy and optimism to the task at hand. There will be a sense of anticipation created between you, and the fact that you'll expect success will help to ensure that you find it. There will be a strong physical component to your relationship that makes both of you feel really good and satisfied, but beyond your physical connection, you'll simply have a naturally good sense of timing together, one that helps you make good things happen as a team. You'll each be able to pursue your interests with the vigor born of having your partner's solid support. You'll make a plan, you'll follow it, and you'll get results. In this way, you'll both do what you want and create what you love. From the outside, it could look to your friends and families as if you're a lucky couple, but it's really that your combined energy, optimism and pro-activity will ensure many successes through the course of your relationship.
When it comes to the ways you'll naturally express your energies in this relationship and pursue your mutual partnership needs, you'll find that you're on opposite sides of the fence. You may find, for instance, that your energy, ambition and drive actually prevent you from building the balanced, loving and romantic partnership you dream of creating. You may find that your sexual passions aren't well matched, or that you get into more arguments than either of you wants -- and neither of you will know how to cool off and get along. Perhaps fighting will be your road to intimacy; some couples seem to thrive on it. This could be a love-hate relationship, where you frequently break up and quickly get back together -- after all, there's a strong appeal here! As a team, you tend to do things impulsively and quickly and often without input from others. This tricky energy also offers you an important growth opportunity. Being conscious about expressing yourselves in a calm yet direct way will help; so will taking care to really listen to your partner and honor their feelings and perceptions.
You could find it difficult to stay grounded in this relationship, even if you're both ordinarily very practical. Something will happen when you're together that stimulates your idealistic sides, or perhaps your escapist tendencies, and you'll both find it hard to get back to reality. Together you'll buy wholeheartedly into the illusion of perfect love -- of spiritual communion, emotional intimacy and ever-expanding enlightenment. And while you may certainly experience moments of bliss in this pairing, it won't be perfect -- no relationship is -- and the comedown could be quite a disappointment once reality intrudes. You don't have to choose, however, between deluding yourselves and bitter pessimism. Just make it a point to accept the truth of your connection. If things aren't as wonderful as you might wish, don't waste time pretending they're idyllic; instead, put your energy into either working to fix them or accepting them as they are. Trust in your moments of happiness and communion, but try not to allow problems to conceal themselves beneath the surface of your relationship.
You'll both need to make sure that you don't let tensions build up between you. There could be quite a bit of tension simmering beneath the surface of your connection, which will increase, if you let it, to the point that you'll explode in a fit of anger or feeling misunderstood. But if you put in a little effort and consideration, you'll find that together you can bring quite an innovative eye to your issues as a couple. Creative problem-solving will be one of your fortes together, which will really alleviate those tensions. Still, make sure that you communicate openly and deal with problems as they arise. But beyond that, this influence will play an important part in the stability of your connection, because it will help you make innovative long-term plans together. This influence is about the blending of discipline and freedom, and when you work with it, you'll gain the best of both. You'll be levelheaded and practical in your view of most things, yet you'll both bring lots of ingenuity to the table as you build toward the future. Together, you'll respect traditional ways and means while keeping an eye out for new, interesting and unusual ideas that will enhance your connection and your lives.
Your mutual needs for partnership are at odds with your shared security needs, which will create uncomfortable friction as you work together to build a connection. Perhaps you're both looking for a high-minded, adventurous and exploratory partnership, for example, but you'll build your relationship on on a much more critical, exacting, demanding approach to commitment. You might feel as if creating the kind of partnership you want is impossible; similarly, you might never feel that your security needs are being met. Furthermore, any sense of security you're able to derive from this connection is likely to be bound up with responsibilities and other limitations. You're likely to find each other's careers or families to be an unwanted restriction on your own life and time; you might also feel your relationship itself limits your freedom. Still, this tricky energy also offers you an important growth opportunity. Work together at creating a partnership you can both enjoy and appreciate, while still honoring one another's needs in terms of security and commitment. You can find that balance, and once you do, you'll both feel more stable and connected.
No matter how sweet, harmonious or supportive the rest of your relationship may seem, there will be a sense of restriction between you, as if one or both of you isn't getting what you want at an important level. As these feelings return repeatedly, frustration could build, and blame will be a natural, if unfortunate, result. You might feel as if the relationship inhibits your freedom or your happiness in some fundamental way, or it could be your partner who feels that way. Alternatively, you could both feel as if in this relationship, you can never have quite enough money, commitment, trust or any of the other elements that make it easy to relax and just float awhile. You may feel as if your friends or your families don't support the relationship, which makes it harder to have a carefree time together. It's possible that, even if this relationship starts out with the warmest of feelings and the best of intentions, things will really cool off emotionally between you. However, if you can remember that this is a growth opportunity, a chance to work through your mutual issues of resources, trust or commitment, then as a couple you can burn through these issues and gain the rewards of a deep and intimate connection.
You're a unique couple: everyone agrees on that. But you might never be appreciated for the things that make you truly special, since you reserve these things for each other. Besides that, you don't really care what others think of you, which gives you a lot of independence and freedom to be who you want to be as a pair. You'll rebel in one form or another or take the cutting edge on every subject you discuss. It's your unusual perspective and point of view that brings you together and makes your union different from the rest of the world. You may vividly express your wild side or it may be completely invisible from the rest of your life. Mostly, you just want to be free.
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
You'll share some specific needs as to the type of commitment and togetherness you'll want to create with each other, but those needs will be polarized with your deepest emotions and urges for personal transformation. You might want or try to go deeply together into your own interiors -- the parts of yourselves that are powerful and passionate, and ready for transformation -- but then you'll somehow misuse the things you learn about each other. Instead of supporting each other through this intense and vulnerable process, you might manipulate each other with what you've learned, or otherwise get mixed up in power plays. After all, facing your own inner demons is difficult, uncomfortable work under the best of circumstances, as old hurts and anxieties flare up anew, demanding that you process them thoroughly. But your tendency to try to control or even shame each other will work against your shared urge to commit to your relationship, and swinging back and forth between the two extremes will only make the process more confusing. You'll need to work together to recognize that the point is not to gain the upper hand as you control or manipulate your lover, but to get to know yourselves better while becoming a closer, more committed couple in the process.
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