The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
Love isn't just a possibility between you; it's very likely, especially if other aspects of your relationship agree on a positive, affectionate connection. From the start, there will be a sense of sweetness and tender devotion between you. You'll truly like each other, and if other conditions support the relationship moving forward, then like will almost certainly grow into love. You'll feel quite attracted to each other, whether that's at an overtly physical level or one that's more akin to a natural affinity. The sense of ease and comfort between you will smooth the way for a truly sublime partnership. The magnetic promises of this influence will easily outweigh any difficulties that may come with your relationship, and the sense of romance this aspect brings will work to counterbalance any challenges you face as a couple, keeping you feeling great about each other and the relationship. On a day-to-day basis, you're likely to be courteous, thoughtful and considerate with each other. You'll enjoy getting out and being social together, and you'll be known as a loving, affectionate and romantic couple.
It could be really difficult for you two to understand each other. You have very different dispositions, and there will be plenty of times when you look at each other and think, 'Who is this person, anyway?' It will be all too easy to react to these differences with harsh criticism or attempts to control each other. If one of you tends to have a stronger, more aggressive personality, you're likely to be the one who will take on the more aggressively critical or controlling role, trying to push your partner to be more like the person you wish they could be. But it's not fair to place such restrictions on each other, and if you want the relationship to work out long-term, you'll both need to exercise a lot of patience and tolerance with each other. Try to accept your partner for who they are instead of nitpicking their behavior and ideas and constantly sending the message that they aren't good enough as they are. A strong, warm, mutual sense of love and affection will really help tone down the challenges of this influence; so will making sure to get enough time alone, apart from each other. That way, you'll enjoy your time together all the more, and you'll learn to appreciate the fact that you're two distinct individuals.
Even if you're both ordinarily pretty relaxed, easygoing, even retiring people, when you get together, you'll spark up each other's energy and elicit some impassioned responses from one another. You'll be hard-pressed not to express your feelings to each other, in fact -- and when you're feeling upset about something, you can be sure your thoughts and impressions will come bubbling out at double-speed, which could easily start an argument. With such lively back-and-forth interactions, in fact, arguments and disagreements could become commonplace, especially if other influences in your composite chart point to friction between you. On the other hand, you might both really enjoy your verbal sparring. Other people -- such as your friends and family who have to sit there while you two verbally duke it out -- might think you're just bickering, but really, you two could be having the time of your lives as you debate what you'll consider important issues and work together through all your feelings. This influence has another benefit: It will be rare that you bottle up any hurt feelings or irritations and allow them to fester. Do try not to let that happen; especially in this pairing, bottled-up feelings could hurt or even destroy the whole relationship.
This relationship will give you the chance to face down your own deep-rooted psychological issues and gain understanding about them in a relaxed, non-threatening way. Through exploring your psyches together, you'll learn about the situations and feelings that trigger your deepest anxieties. You'll often discuss important personal issues such as your feelings, fears, dreams and desires, and through these conversations you'll each develop a deep and subtle understanding of what your relationship is all about, as well as where your partner is coming from. When issues like possessiveness, jealousy and insecurity come up between you, you'll be able to discuss them openly and reasonably rather than flying off the handle or responding on instinct alone, which is what perpetuates deep-seated fears and other blocks to intimacy. If other influences between you are as positive as this one, you'll quickly develop a strong feeling of trust as you allow yourselves to become more and more vulnerable to each other. This relationship will end up enriching your view of yourself as well as changing the way you think about the world and your place in it.
You'll idealize each other and your connection, but there's much more that's possible between you with this influence. You may both realize from the start that you've come together for some higher purpose -- some spiritual, intuitive lesson in communicating with another human being, or in experiencing love itself. You'll certainly be able to tap into each other's thoughts and feelings in a naturally intuitive way, and the more you practice this, the better you'll become at it. This will make for a warm, special feeling of intimacy. Just don't forget to communicate in words sometimes, too, and try not to get too caught up in the fantasy of what this relationship could become. After all, your bond will be meaningful enough in itself without being viewed through rose-colored glasses! But it shouldn't be too hard to stay grounded, even as you exercise more tenderness and compassion in your communication with each other than you might with anyone else in your life. That's the blessing of this particular influence: It allows you to treat each other as a precious, important part of one another's lives, without losing sight of the reality of your relationship.
Disagreements could become all too frequent between you, and you'll both have to make a conscious effort to find common ground. Otherwise, you'll find yourselves on opposite sides of lots of different subjects and issues. Communication will be difficult between you, because your points of view are so different at a deep and basic level. Your instinct might be just to blow off what your partner is saying when it doesn't match up with your own thoughts on the issue, but if you care about each other and want to preserve the relationship, it will be much smarter to try to understand why they see things the way they do. Of course, this may be a tall order; lots of times, your ideas will go completely over your partner's head, and vice versa. And when you do understand each other, you'll start arguing. In the end, agreeing on issues both big and small may be a pipe dream for you two, but you can at least work on respecting each other's viewpoints. You might even learn to enjoy your disagreements, or to take each other's opinions as a learning experience -- a way to sharpen your own position on the subject as well as to be more tolerant of opposing viewpoints.
You'll encourage each other to reject traditional ideas and conventional ways of thinking, which has its good points as well as its challenging ones. On the positive side, you'll both make sure that you keep thinking well outside the box, and you'll both look for alternative perspectives in any given situation. But that's also where trouble will come in. Sometimes, the conventional viewpoint is also the most appropriate one, but if you two simply reject convention automatically, you'll fall into the habit of challenging ideas -- including each other's -- solely for the sake of the challenge itself. Needless to say, this will lead to feeling unsettled, criticized and judged if you're on the receiving end of your partner's constant, automatic disagreement. And if you team up together to treat other people this way, you'll find that standing alone too much can lead to ending up alone, when your friends and family feel too criticized to put up with you any longer. Rebellion solely for its own sake doesn't hold a lot of meaning, which is a lesson you'll have to learn together through the course of this relationship.
Your feelings for each other will be strong, warm and affectionate. You'll really like each other, and your friends will notice that you both seem a lot happier when you're together. You'll idealize your relationship, but this shouldn't lead to disillusionment or bitterness; instead, it will enhance your mutual optimism about your shared future. And positive thinking creates positive outcomes; in effect, the confidence and hope you inspire in each other are likely to create the very sort of relationship you both hope for and dream of. You can achieve a lot together -- almost anything you put your minds to. Creative projects and financial investments should go well when they're a team effort. And you'll bring out the best in each other. You'll both want to bring as much sweetness and harmony to the union as you can, because you'll get so much out of it. Don't be afraid to disturb the peace from time to time, when necessary. The harmony you'll enjoy together will be wonderful, but there's no need to avoid addressing problems for the sake of keeping the peace. After all, you can count on your optimism to pull you through any issues that come up.
You'll both find it difficult to let each other know how you really feel about each other. Even if you fall deeply in love, there will be some barrier to expressing your true passion. Maybe you'll feel too shy to do so, or maybe you'll worry that your partner doesn't return your feelings, so you'll stay quiet and keep yours in check. It's also possible that outside circumstances could get in the way of fully, freely expressing your affection, such as if one of you is still in love with someone else when you meet, preventing you from really letting go in this relationship. Your sexual connection may also be strained by this influence; you might find that you're out of sync in this area, with one of you feeling turned on and tuned in when the other isn't in the mood, and vice versa. You'll have to look at the other aspects in your composite chart to get an overall picture of the potential of your relationship, and to get a sense of how much this particular aspect will affect you as a couple. It may be something you can work on together, consciously opening yourselves up to expressing your affectionate feelings in a free and spontaneous way; but it may turn out that the barriers between you are too great to overcome.
This relationship will be one of dynamic, energetic change for both of you. Through getting to know and becoming close with each other, you'll learn more about yourselves as well as one another, and you'll both want to make personal transformations that will change your whole lives. This particular influence will help you learn to cooperate with each other. You'll push forward toward your own goals with greater perseverance than you might have on your own, because this aspect will help you to work together rather than against each other. You'll be able to offer each other a very real and valuable kind of support as you each work toward your dreams, and you'll also come to understand yourselves better so that you can tailor your dreams more closely to the people you are inside. Problem-solving is likely to be one of your fortes as a couple; you'll inspire a kind of energetic creativity within each other that enables you to tackle any problems that arise with inventiveness and ingenuity. This aspect will also spark up the physical side of your connection; your sexual bond will become a vital and powerful part of your relationship.
When it comes to the ways you'll naturally express your energies in this relationship and pursue your mutual partnership needs, you'll find that you're on opposite sides of the fence. You may find, for instance, that your energy, ambition and drive actually prevent you from building the balanced, loving and romantic partnership you dream of creating. You may find that your sexual passions aren't well matched, or that you get into more arguments than either of you wants -- and neither of you will know how to cool off and get along. Perhaps fighting will be your road to intimacy; some couples seem to thrive on it. This could be a love-hate relationship, where you frequently break up and quickly get back together -- after all, there's a strong appeal here! As a team, you tend to do things impulsively and quickly and often without input from others. This tricky energy also offers you an important growth opportunity. Being conscious about expressing yourselves in a calm yet direct way will help; so will taking care to really listen to your partner and honor their feelings and perceptions.
There could be a confusing aspect to this relationship -- something about your connection that you sense but don't completely understand. If so, it will be best just to go with the natural flow of energy between you, because that energy is likely to be a helpful one that ensures that you grow together at a spiritual level through the course of your relationship. You'll both sense that your connection isn't ordinary; instead, it will seem quite special, and you'll both know that you have some important work to do together. This work isn't likely to be literal or physical; it's more likely to be emotional or spiritual, something to do with the ways in which each of you experiences and responds to the world around you. Just be certain that your communication is as pure as your intentions. This will be the kind of relationship in which any small deception could lead to something undesirable. It's best to be honest with each other, as well as to treat each other with sensitivity and compassion. If you do all of this, you're likely to find that you're uplifted by your bond, and that your entire perception of life changes as a result.
Try not to have too many high expectations for this relationship. It's not that your bond won't become something dear and valuable to you both; it's that it will follow its own course, no matter how either of you tries to influence it, so having rigid expectations can only lead to disappointment. If you can be more open to the fluidity and changeability of this relationship, you'll stand to gain a lot more from it. Sudden, unexpected changes may characterize your bond, which could mean that a long-term commitment just isn't in the stars for you two. You'll have to look at the rest of your composite chart for a more complete picture of whether this has long-term potential. But based on this influence alone, the only thing you may be able to count on together is unpredictability. New experiences will become the norm for you both, and they won't all be pleasant ones. At least this connection will be surprising and stimulating! And you'll definitely keep each other on your toes. But if you're looking for a connection you can count on, day in and day out, this may not turn out to be it.
Somehow, as a couple, you're never satisfied with what you have or what you're given. You always want more. Not in a whiny or unpleasant way, but still, there is a sense of entitlement. Even if there is a little voice inside you saying that you are sufficiently sated, you don't pay attention to it. Clearly this can lead to overdoing it on all fronts, with inevitable results. Do be careful of excesses, because neither of you knows when enough is enough and probably egg each other on, while protecting each other from criticism. On the plus side, you are a couple of great faith and optimism. You were brought together by similar belief systems very early on, and if they are different from the norm around you, that's OK with both of you. You inspire others with your strong faith and independent beliefs, and these may even be the qualities for which you're best known as a couple.
As a couple, you have very definite ideas about responsibility, duty and what's important in life. Your drive is quite strong, and you feel compelled to achieve a great deal and to behave responsibly. You may be far too serious and have difficulty just relaxing. There seems to be no limits to your sense of discipline and commitment. As a couple, you feel compelled to work hard and yet you never feel satisfied that you've accomplished enough. You're known as a pair with a serious attitude, incredible work ethic and no-nonsense approach. You'll have to make concerted efforts to connect with others so you don't feel lonely. You may look down on people who know how to play and relax, which seems very childish and immature to you, yet you could actually both learn a lot from them if you would let down your hair a little bit from time to time. Not much, just a little, would help a lot.
You're a unique couple: everyone agrees on that. But you might never be appreciated for the things that make you truly special, since you reserve these things for each other. Besides that, you don't really care what others think of you, which gives you a lot of independence and freedom to be who you want to be as a pair. You'll rebel in one form or another or take the cutting edge on every subject you discuss. It's your unusual perspective and point of view that brings you together and makes your union different from the rest of the world. You may vividly express your wild side or it may be completely invisible from the rest of your life. Mostly, you just want to be free.
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
There is an intensity about you as a couple, and a certain mystery and charisma, accompanied by an aura of quiet power. This pairing has an internal force, a hidden treasure, and untapped depths. These are important qualities, but with nothing else to restrain or contain them, so they could be either untapped or over-tapped in this relationship. This connection is all about personal transformation and regeneration, and these processes could be turned into something that you feel is beyond your control. It is up to you to direct this powerful energy to accomplish deeds that benefit others besides yourselves.
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