The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
You may have a powerful influence as a couple on other people, or you may simply have a powerful effect on each other. Either way, you'll both be profoundly affected by this relationship, and whether it lasts short- or long-term, you won't leave it unchanged. Since there will be so much power generated when you're together, you'll have to be very careful about how you use it. Obviously, using it to try to manipulate other people to your own advantage wouldn't be a good idea! But if you can use it to get to know yourselves more deeply than you ever have before, and to tune in to each other at a deep and intimate level as well, you can transform yourselves for the better. Self-awareness will be a focus of this relationship, and the process of becoming self-aware may not always be a pleasant one. You'll be required to face parts of yourselves you've long tried to ignore or deny, but those tactics just won't work anymore -- not in this pairing. You may even choose to go through formal counseling of some type together. Do be forewarned that the longer this relationship lasts, the more it may resemble a snake repeatedly shedding its skin. There may be times of intense trouble and upset, when you'll both think the relationship is over; but later, you'll look back and realize it was just yet another phase of change. Intense? Oh, yeah! And intensely rewarding, if you can stand the pressure.
The high level of energy between you could lead to problems if you aren't careful to channel it in some very specific ways. Being physically active together will be important; joining a sports team together, going to the gym for frequent workouts, or going hiking or jogging could all help in keeping the energy flowing between you. But sometimes, boil-overs will be unavoidable. There's just not quite enough room in this relationship for both your egos, and power struggles and disagreements will result. Arguing could become the typical way you communicate, especially if you allow tension to build up instead of finding dynamic ways to release it. You'll need to focus on ways to cooperate rather than allowing yourselves to compete or lash out against each other, which will come much more naturally than teamwork. But working together can become a habit, especially if you do so in the arena of physical activity or working on a project toward a common goal.
There will be a lot of restless, overblown energy between you, which you'll have to channel carefully if you want to avoid the more challenging potential of this influence. This aspect can produce a lot of instability in your relationship if you aren't careful. You'll focus a lot on development and progress, and when you're together you'll feel the need to make things happen. Of course, that can be a very creative, dynamic and useful urge -- that is, until it morphs into something bigger than it actually is. You might never feel satisfied with the way things are; you'll always want to learn, change and improve, and that in itself isn't a bad thing. It will become a real issue, though, if you can't ever accept each other, or the relationship, as you are. Developing patience and tolerance as a couple will be key for the success of this connection. Don't try to tackle too much too fast. Try to focus on one project at a time, and when it comes to self-improvement or revamping the relationship itself, keep it moderate! You'll find that you achieve a lot more together if you take it in manageable steps.
Self-analysis will become a strong focus of this relationship, and the longer you stay together, the more you'll learn about each other and yourselves. You may come to understand yourself at a deeper level than you ever would have on your own; in fact, the searching, analyzing quality of your conversations will be much like the dynamic between a therapist and client. Try not to lose sight of the fact that you're supposed to be lovers, not armchair psychologists! If you make it a habit of picking each other and the relationship apart, you'll never be able to strike a balance between striving to improve your communication while accepting each other for who you are and appreciating the relationship as it is. And if you take this influence too far, you could find yourselves embroiled in some sort of mental, intellectual power struggle, in which you'll try to dominate each other's perceptions. Try to keep a handle on this; remind yourselves as frequently as you need to that you've come together not to change each other's ways of thinking or of perceiving yourselves and the world around you, but to help each other grow -- in a gentle, accepting way.
You'll idealize each other and your connection, but there's much more that's possible between you with this influence. You may both realize from the start that you've come together for some higher purpose -- some spiritual, intuitive lesson in communicating with another human being, or in experiencing love itself. You'll certainly be able to tap into each other's thoughts and feelings in a naturally intuitive way, and the more you practice this, the better you'll become at it. This will make for a warm, special feeling of intimacy. Just don't forget to communicate in words sometimes, too, and try not to get too caught up in the fantasy of what this relationship could become. After all, your bond will be meaningful enough in itself without being viewed through rose-colored glasses! But it shouldn't be too hard to stay grounded, even as you exercise more tenderness and compassion in your communication with each other than you might with anyone else in your life. That's the blessing of this particular influence: It allows you to treat each other as a precious, important part of one another's lives, without losing sight of the reality of your relationship.
Giving one another affection and getting along well should come easy to you two. In one another's arms, you'll find what you're looking for in terms of partnership and romance. In fact, if there are other more difficult energies at work between you, this one might help to alleviate them. Even when you're really annoyed with each other, you'll usually be able to remember why you're in this relationship and what you like about your sweetie. You'll each hold your connection in a special place in your heart, which means you'll both do what it takes to guard and preserve that bond. In general, you'll cooperate well and compromise when necessary. Do this consciously, though. If you rely too much on this easy, sweet energy, you'll start taking it for granted, which will weaken it. But if you both put continual effort into treating one another well, giving each other plenty of affection and compromising when the situation calls for it, you'll find that your relationship will fulfill you both.
There will be a frustrating edge to your relationship, one that makes it hard to relax together, have fun and feel as if your objectives are within reach. Only a strong communicative bond will be able to combat the effects of this influence, which will make you both feel as if you can't express yourselves or your energies freely. Whatever it is that you want out of the relationship -- greater trust, physical intimacy, a sense of fun, a source of emotional support -- you may have a hard time getting it, and the frustration will only mount as you try harder and harder to make it happen. Sooner or later, and probably sooner, you'll start to turn this frustration toward each other, blaming each other for this sense of restriction. You might shoot little barbs at each other in conversation, taking digs at each other that undermine your self-confidence as well as your good feelings about each other. Sarcasm and criticism could also become commonplace between you. And clearing the air with a good argument or a sweaty, vigorous session in the bedroom? Nope, neither one will be easy to come by. You may find your libidos are mismatched in this relationship; you might rarely feel as if you're on the same page sexually or emotionally. The only way to work around this is to control your own behavior, which means toning down the criticisms and the sarcastic remarks, and focusing on ways to build up your connection instead of tearing it down.
You'll help each other learn brand-new ways of being and behaving in a relationship, but this shouldn't be a difficult process. It should be a fun, exciting and engaging one, one that you're both happy to be involved in. You'll learn to be less possessive than you've ever been before, because freedom and individuality will be so highlighted. From your first meeting through your courtship and beyond, in many ways, this relationship won't follow the normal, prescribed course that you're used to. The best way to respond will be simply to accept things as they come. The fewer expectations you have, the better; that way, you'll be able to enjoy all the unpredictability and excitement. As long as you're both being genuine as well as enjoying yourselves and each other, there should be no problem! If other aspects between you signal an unstable or unpredictable affair, this influence will add to that energy, but it will also help make sure that your connection is still mutually enjoyable, and that you both grow through sharing this experience.
You'll both enjoy each other's company, and you'll generate a lot of energy when you're together. For this reason, you'll need to direct that energy in a conscious, positive way. The key in this relationship will be plenty of teamwork and physical activity. As long as you're figuring out how to tackle problems and projects together, you should be able to avoid the more challenging potential of this influence which includes competition, bickering and other unpleasantness. Working out together could be a great outlet for excess energy; so might working together around the house or the yard. Joining a sports team together could also offer healthy expression for your combined energies. Whatever you do together, just focus on cooperation over competition. Try to build one another up and support each other, rather than allowing yourselves to compete and slowly tear each other down.
As a couple, you'll focus on the excitement of new discoveries and experiences. You'll pick up on a certain love of freedom and adventure in one another, which will attract you to each other from the start. You'll both know intuitively that this is a relationship that won't restrict your desire to experience life to the fullest and constantly broaden your horizons. In fact, you'll help each other to seek out those unique experiences. You won't subject your relationship to overly traditional expectations, either; you'll both be happy to let things follow their own course. You'll encourage independence and individualism in each other, so even if you do become a committed, long-term couple, you'll rarely restrict each other's personal freedom. But this influence also won't undermine your connection or its durability. In fact, it will help to strengthen your bond, because both of you will so appreciate being able to truly be yourselves, through and through. Creativity, discovery, inventiveness, adventure and new perspectives will be core values and interests that define your connection.
You'll notice a real conflict between you of optimism versus realism; of expansion versus restriction; of adventuresome spirit versus practicality. You'll both feel a strong need for caution as well as an equally strong need to break away from that type of limitation, and this conflict could lead to instability in the relationship. One minute you'll feel fine about things -- you're working together, you're proceeding slowly but surely toward goals you both care about; the next minute you'll feel incredibly limited by your bond -- you'll want more adventure, less pessimism and restriction! One of you could take on the role of stick-in-the-mud while the other is cast as the heedless, impulsive dreamer, or you could trade off positions; but either way, you'll both feel frustrated with each other, and your relationship will suffer from the lack of balance. Your patience with each other will be short, which will only make things worse when you start arguing about how to approach things. Developing greater tolerance will be key here; so will learning to give each other plenty of freedom. You'll both need to try to work together to create openness and buoyancy between you, while staying practical and grounded as a couple.
You'll both need to make sure that you don't let tensions build up between you. There could be quite a bit of tension simmering beneath the surface of your connection, which will increase, if you let it, to the point that you'll explode in a fit of anger or feeling misunderstood. But if you put in a little effort and consideration, you'll find that together you can bring quite an innovative eye to your issues as a couple. Creative problem-solving will be one of your fortes together, which will really alleviate those tensions. Still, make sure that you communicate openly and deal with problems as they arise. But beyond that, this influence will play an important part in the stability of your connection, because it will help you make innovative long-term plans together. This influence is about the blending of discipline and freedom, and when you work with it, you'll gain the best of both. You'll be levelheaded and practical in your view of most things, yet you'll both bring lots of ingenuity to the table as you build toward the future. Together, you'll respect traditional ways and means while keeping an eye out for new, interesting and unusual ideas that will enhance your connection and your lives.
You're a unique couple: everyone agrees on that. But you might never be appreciated for the things that make you truly special, since you reserve these things for each other. Besides that, you don't really care what others think of you, which gives you a lot of independence and freedom to be who you want to be as a pair. You'll rebel in one form or another or take the cutting edge on every subject you discuss. It's your unusual perspective and point of view that brings you together and makes your union different from the rest of the world. You may vividly express your wild side or it may be completely invisible from the rest of your life. Mostly, you just want to be free.
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
You'll both want to build an emotionally intimate bond that will feed your needs for union and togetherness, but these elements will be at odds within your relationship. At times you'll feel as though you share a spiritual connection, as if your souls are uniting as one, but mostly you'll feel a disappointing disconnect. You'll both need to be careful about over-idealizing one another. There's a strong tendency here to deceive yourselves as to the true nature of your partner or your relationship, leading to disappointment later when you're finally faced with the reality of the situation and you find that it measures less than you thought. This tricky energy does offer you an important growth opportunity -- learning to accept reality instead of pretending things are ideal -- but you'll need to be perfectly honest with each other about your feelings, needs and worries, and your levels of commitment to the relationship.
There is an intensity about you as a couple, and a certain mystery and charisma, accompanied by an aura of quiet power. This pairing has an internal force, a hidden treasure, and untapped depths. These are important qualities, but with nothing else to restrain or contain them, so they could be either untapped or over-tapped in this relationship. This connection is all about personal transformation and regeneration, and these processes could be turned into something that you feel is beyond your control. It is up to you to direct this powerful energy to accomplish deeds that benefit others besides yourselves.
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