The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
The high level of energy between you could lead to problems if you aren't careful to channel it in some very specific ways. Being physically active together will be important; joining a sports team together, going to the gym for frequent workouts, or going hiking or jogging could all help in keeping the energy flowing between you. But sometimes, boil-overs will be unavoidable. There's just not quite enough room in this relationship for both your egos, and power struggles and disagreements will result. Arguing could become the typical way you communicate, especially if you allow tension to build up instead of finding dynamic ways to release it. You'll need to focus on ways to cooperate rather than allowing yourselves to compete or lash out against each other, which will come much more naturally than teamwork. But working together can become a habit, especially if you do so in the arena of physical activity or working on a project toward a common goal.
It could be really difficult for you two to understand each other. You have very different dispositions, and there will be plenty of times when you look at each other and think, 'Who is this person, anyway?' It will be all too easy to react to these differences with harsh criticism or attempts to control each other. If one of you tends to have a stronger, more aggressive personality, you're likely to be the one who will take on the more aggressively critical or controlling role, trying to push your partner to be more like the person you wish they could be. But it's not fair to place such restrictions on each other, and if you want the relationship to work out long-term, you'll both need to exercise a lot of patience and tolerance with each other. Try to accept your partner for who they are instead of nitpicking their behavior and ideas and constantly sending the message that they aren't good enough as they are. A strong, warm, mutual sense of love and affection will really help tone down the challenges of this influence; so will making sure to get enough time alone, apart from each other. That way, you'll enjoy your time together all the more, and you'll learn to appreciate the fact that you're two distinct individuals.
Talking about your feelings will be easy for you two. There will be a lot of affection between you, and expressing it in words will feel natural and right. Even when you're upset with each other, you'll both find ways to talk out your issues in a kind, sensitive way that won't disturb your loving connection. Of course, you could take that a little too far in the name of keeping the peace. While it's good to try to extend the sense of harmony you'll feel so strongly when you're together, it's not good to repress problems and issues. If you can trust in your shared ability to talk things out calmly and kindly, you'll be able to deal with any problems that arise even as you maintain the sweetness and intimacy of your union. You'll find you have a lot in common in terms of your tastes in art and beauty. You'll talk about these subjects a lot, and you might really enjoy going out on dates that involve trips to galleries or museums, where you can discuss the works of art before you, or trips to the park or the river, some gorgeous spot in nature that feeds your twin artistic souls.
A meeting of the minds is a strong possibility in this relationship, especially if you have an overall positive communicative bond. The way you'll naturally communicate with each other will reinforce what you're each looking for in this partnership, which will make it easy to talk about any issues that might come up through the course of the relationship. In an important sense, you'll speak the same language when it comes to love. You'll also just enjoy talking to each other, and you may want to keep in close touch, chatting often on the phone or e-mailing each other from work, even when you know you're going to see each other later that evening. Whatever your goals are for the relationship, you'll be able to talk those out together and make decisions as a team on meeting both your needs.
One important lesson for each of you to learn in this relationship will be that neither one of you can always be right! But you'll certainly try to convince each other that you are, and you'll embroil yourselves in some pretty big battles as you each try to force your perceptions and opinions onto one another. You may also do this as a team when you're out with friends or family, trying to push your combined world view onto other people, making them feel as if their own views aren't being heard or accepted. This could become a difficult aspect to deal with if you let things get out of hand; whether you direct this energy toward each other or outward toward others, your communication style could become more and more aggressive and less and less sympathetic, to the point that it will be hard to get through to each other at all. But you don't have to let that happen. You can choose to be conscious of your behavior as well as the motives behind it, and remind yourselves that you need to stay open to others' viewpoints. Above all, try to avoid damaging or even destroying the relationship by forcing each other to fight for intellectual freedom.
You'll both idealize this relationship, believing you can get everything you want and dream of out of it. Normally, idealization can lead to disillusionment or even bitterness. But in this particular pairing, it's quite likely that by thinking so positively and assuming the best, you'll actually create the best, most positive outcome for yourselves. You'll both have a lot of optimism about the relationship and your future together as a couple, and this strong, warm feeling will certainly make it much easier to deal with problems together. Communication breakdowns, hurt feelings and mismatched needs or objectives are all common and even unavoidable in love affairs; at least in your case, you'll both believe, deep down in your hearts, that you'll find a solution to anything that upsets you. Just don't get caught in the trap of looking for some grand, overarching or spiritual source for the problem. Sometimes, the issues that crop up in your relationship will be in the smaller details -- something as minor and petty as a simple miscommunication or differing tastes. Don't make mountains out of molehills, and you'll be fine.
You could have a lot of trouble expressing your tender, affectionate feelings for each other, because there will always be a certain coolness between you -- a restricted feeling that will make you feel as if flirting and having fun together are just trivial pursuits. Over time, you could both develop the sense that there are more important things you should focus on together than anything so silly as sensuality or romance. It's even possible that some outside circumstance -- a demanding job, perhaps, or living in separate cities -- will make you feel as if it's just not possible to pursue this relationship with the ardor you feel inside. The bottom line is, if you're looking for an exciting, heated, spontaneous affair, this probably won't be it. But on the plus side, what it lacks in dramatic flair, it can make up in steadiness and genuineness. Even if your connection is cool and restrained, it will also be stable, loyal and dedicated. It's up to you to decide whether this is the type of relationship you're looking for, and whether this will be a level of coolness and restraint you can put up with.
Together you'll focus on beauty and pleasure, and you'll do what it takes to fill your shared life with these things. You'll love going out together for an expensive, lavish meal, or visiting an art gallery to find pieces you want to take home with you. You could easily spend a lot of money when you're together, because you'll both want to indulge yourselves and neither one of you will be the voice of reason -- 'No, honey, we can't afford that.' Instead, you'll both be the voice of indulgence: 'You want that? Then you should have it. Put it on the credit card!' If you end up living together, you'll put a lot of thought and money into making your home a beautiful, comfortable place to hang out. Inviting friends over to enjoy your riches will be one of your favorite pastimes -- almost as fun as going out on the town and gobbling up all the social and culinary pleasures life has to offer. Clearly, this influence will be a fun one, but you'll have to be very careful about overindulging or using up all your financial resources on nonessential items. Sure, it's more fun to cut out of work early for a day at the lake than to put in extra hours at the office, but those bills are going to have to be paid somehow.
This relationship will be nothing if not unusual, and it could be so unusual that neither of you can ultimately handle its unpredictability. There will be a very challenging, competitive energy that grows between you, pushing you to provoke each other on a regular basis regarding your work, your behavior, your goals and so on. Furthermore, you'll both find it hard to let things roll off your backs in this relationship; when your partner does or says something to you that provokes you, you'll want to address it immediately. You'll have a hard time creating balance, which will in turn make it difficult to create any sense of stability between you. You may also have to add outside pressures into the mix, especially if your connection is outwardly so odd or hard to accept that your friends and families actively disapprove of the relationship. Above all, don't try to subject this affair to any of your usual standards or expectations. If you care about each other and want this to last, the only way to make that happen will be to give each other plenty of freedom as well as support, and let the relationship follow its own unique course.
You'll find it hard to sync up your energies, your goals and your ambitions, and the effects of this could range from occasionally frustrating to a constant source of tension between you. Especially if your communicative bond isn't very strong, there could be a lot of strain and anxiety lurking beneath the surface of your relationship. This makes it difficult to find open, honest expression, which is essential to overcoming this problem together. While it's good to try to get along and share a harmonious connection, neither one of you should try to do so by suppressing real feelings of anger, hurt or resentment. Instead, you should find nondestructive ways to express these feelings so that you can talk them out and process through them as a couple. The danger here is that you'll fall into the trap of becoming more and more resentful toward each other, and therefore more and more critical, always trading barbs but rarely just having it out with one another. Since you'll so often be out of sync with each other, you'll also both have to focus on letting your partner have things their way once in a while. If either of you is too demanding, that will only contribute to the difficult, stagnant energy between you.
You'll share a strong spiritual attunement, and the more intimate you become, the more your souls will feel uplifted, as if you've tapped into a wellspring of joy and enlightenment. You'll certainly have a lot to teach each other within these realms; in fact, you could take on a master-disciple dynamic, which will be a positive experience for you both as long as you switch roles from time to time. If other influences within your relationship point to a strong emotional, spiritual or intuitive connection, it's possible that you'll live out your love more through thought and feeling than through touch or anything else tied to the physical realm. Alternatively, your physical bond could become a way to connect with each other and transcend the physical world into a dimension that's all your own, beautiful and perfect in its idealized state. You will need to pay special attention to the mundane, everyday world, however; don't allow yourselves to be so carried away on a cloud of feeling and togetherness that you forget to eat, get to work on time, pay the bills and so on! The spiritual and physical worlds are meant to complement one another, so try not to ignore one for the other.
You're both going to have to learn to control your own egos in this particular pairing. Even if you're ordinarily not the competitive type, something will happen when the two of you get together that accentuates your egos and your drives for success. In fact, success and achievement will take on too much importance over time, if you don't do anything to temper the situation. Other more harmonizing influences in your relationship will help, but in general, you'll both find it hard to support each other -- as if your partner's successes can only happen at the expense of your own. Don't allow things to degenerate into a petty struggle for power or domination over each other; neither one of you will win that battle. Instead, focus on checking your own ambitious and competitive urges, and on supporting your partner no matter how uncomfortable it makes you feel. Perhaps you'll even find a way to combine your egos and energies and work together toward a common goal, one that benefits not only yourselves but the world around you.
Your mutual partnership needs won't match up well with your shared interests in philosophy, learning, travel and other forms of expanding your minds, which could make a serious dent in your faith in the relationship. You're both seeking particular things from this partnership, and you'll both feel disappointed at the fact that your intellectual and philosophical interests won't match up well with the connection you're envisioning for yourselves. You may have plenty of good ideas about how to enhance your spiritual lives or which subjects to learn more about as a couple, but if the natural course of your relationship steers you away from those things, you'll both feel shortchanged. Depending on how well you communicate, you could get into some real struggles over these issues. Still, this tricky energy also offers you an important growth opportunity. Be conscious in seeking ways to blend your interests rather than just arguing over them and trying to get your own way. That way, you'll build your connection with each other as you enhance your own minds and lives.
As a couple, you have very definite ideas about responsibility, duty and what's important in life. Your drive is quite strong, and you feel compelled to achieve a great deal and to behave responsibly. You may be far too serious and have difficulty just relaxing. There seems to be no limits to your sense of discipline and commitment. As a couple, you feel compelled to work hard and yet you never feel satisfied that you've accomplished enough. You're known as a pair with a serious attitude, incredible work ethic and no-nonsense approach. You'll have to make concerted efforts to connect with others so you don't feel lonely. You may look down on people who know how to play and relax, which seems very childish and immature to you, yet you could actually both learn a lot from them if you would let down your hair a little bit from time to time. Not much, just a little, would help a lot.
It will be important for you two, as a couple, to determine how your relationship will be structured, completely apart from anyone else's expectations or 'rules.' The good news is, all you'll need to do is focus on your natural, innate partnership needs for clues to making your relationship as unique as it deserves to be. It's possible that this emphasis on freedom and uniqueness will go overboard at times, but in general, the element of surprise and spontaneity in your relationship will make things fun and exciting. That can really come in handy in a committed relationship, because it will keep both of you guessing! You should have fun as long as you know to expect the unexpected -- and know that whatever form this unpredictability takes, it's right for you as a couple, since it could only work for you two and no one else! Just don't take this easy flow of fresh energy for granted. You'll have to work at balancing freedom with commitment to derive the best benefits from this influence.
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
You'll share some specific needs as to the type of commitment and togetherness you'll want to create with each other, but those needs will be at odds with your deepest emotions and urges for personal transformation. You might want or try to go deeply together into your own interiors -- the parts of yourselves that are powerful and passionate, and ready for transformation -- but then you'll somehow misuse the things you learn about each other. Instead of supporting each other through this intense and vulnerable process, you might manipulate each other with what you've learned, or otherwise get mixed up in power plays. After all, facing your own inner demons is difficult, uncomfortable work under the best of circumstances, as old hurts and anxieties flare up anew, demanding that you process them thoroughly. But your tendency to try to control or even shame each other will work against your shared urge to commit to your relationship. This situation does offer you an important growth opportunity, however. You'll need to work together to recognize that the point of your relationship shouldn't be to gain the upper hand as you control or manipulate your lover; it should be to get to know yourselves better while becoming a closer, more committed couple in the process.
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