The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
Positive growth and expansion will be a wonderful focus of this relationship. In a very simple and natural way, you'll feel good when you're together. You'll give each other a lot of comfort and support, and you'll feel optimistic together, as if anything is possible as long as you work as a team. And you're likely to find that most anything you dream up together really is possible. If your relationship continues into the future, you'll most likely be quite financially comfortable together, with a comfortable lifestyle in which you indulge yourselves in most anything you want -- frequent meals out, nice furniture for your home, vacations whenever the whim strikes you and more. This could actually be one of the downfalls of this relationship, albeit a fun one: You could be a little too indulgent of each other's desires and whims! There will be a less materialistic, more philosophical component to this influence, however. You'll focus together on broadening your horizons. You'll always try to increase your understanding, of each other, yourselves and the world around you, through travel, discussion, reading and more. In short, this relationship will be a real eye-opener for you both in a very fun and positive way.
Either this relationship will be a fun, interesting and challenging growth experience, or it will just be challenging -- without much of the fun. It all depends on how strong each of you are within yourselves. The stronger and more centered you are, the better. But if you're insecure or anxiety-ridden about your personality or your place in the world, this relationship may not be a pleasant experience for you, because there will be a lot of upheaval and instability within it. Your best bet is not to try to force this relationship, your expectations of it or your behavior within it into any kind of traditional, preset standard. All you can expect from this connection is the unexpected. You'll find that your ideas about yourselves -- what kind of people you are, what kind of lovers you are, what your tastes and needs are in romance -- will change, and probably change radically, through knowing and interacting with each other. If you can be open to these changes, you might end up really learning a lot about yourselves and each other, and discovering facets of your own personalities that you never suspected before. Otherwise, the strain of constant change may just be too much for you to continue in this relationship.
It's likely that at least one of you will become very critical of your sweetie through the course of this relationship. There will be a feeling of restriction and limitation between you, and your expectations of each other will be both high and inflexible. You'll find it hard to relax in this relationship; you might always feel as if you're being judged harshly. The importance placed on stability in this connection could easily begin to cancel out the importance of warmth, affection and comfort, even though these are all every bit as valuable in a love affair as durability or being grounded together. Over time, you'll both realize that there's very little mutual acceptance here; instead, you'll find that you've focused too much on constant criticism and the need for improvement. You might learn something from having your weaknesses and flaws exposed, but the cold, judgmental climate of this connection won't be very conducive to positive growth or learning. Instead, you might just find your self-confidence slowly worn down over time. To make this work, you'll both have to accept each other as you are and allow your partner to behave in whatever way comes most naturally to them -- which could be too tall an order for either of you.
Talking about your feelings will be easy for you two. There will be a lot of affection between you, and expressing it in words will feel natural and right. Even when you're upset with each other, you'll both find ways to talk out your issues in a kind, sensitive way that won't disturb your loving connection. Of course, you could take that a little too far in the name of keeping the peace. While it's good to try to extend the sense of harmony you'll feel so strongly when you're together, it's not good to repress problems and issues. If you can trust in your shared ability to talk things out calmly and kindly, you'll be able to deal with any problems that arise even as you maintain the sweetness and intimacy of your union. You'll find you have a lot in common in terms of your tastes in art and beauty. You'll talk about these subjects a lot, and you might really enjoy going out on dates that involve trips to galleries or museums, where you can discuss the works of art before you, or trips to the park or the river, some gorgeous spot in nature that feeds your twin artistic souls.
Even if you're both ordinarily easygoing people, you'll get under each other's skin and become a lot more irritable through the course of this relationship. Perhaps in the beginning you'll start out arguing only about the important issues that come up between you, but the way you'll argue will really be hurtful to both of you, not to mention destructive to the relationship itself. And over time, you're likely to begin arguing over just about anything, as your levels of sensitivity toward each other rise and you both try harder to get in little verbal jabs during your arguments, to hurt the other person in the way that you've been hurt. Needless to say, this isn't a good way to foster intimacy and warmth between you; in fact, it's a much better way to head toward a breakup. But you don't have to conduct yourselves this way, especially if there are lots of other positive aspects between you to outweigh this one. You could both learn to watch the way you speak to each other during an argument, and try your hardest not to be derisive or belittling of one another; you could also try taking breaks away from each other while you get your thoughts and feelings sorted out. But if there are lots of other indications of conflict in this relationship, it may not be worth trying to salvage.
If you fall for each other, you'll fall fast. You'll feel immediately interested in and attracted to one another, as soon as you start talking or go out on your first date. You'll feel excited, even electrified by the possibility of a new love in your life, and the horizons of your relationship will seem broad and varied. But don't be tricked into thinking that this intensity of response is an indication of how things will always be between you. You'll still need to get to know each other before you can know whether there's really something deep and valuable between you, something that can last long-term. And you'll need to give each other plenty of freedom to make this relationship stable and enduring. Otherwise, you could stifle your connection before it really gets off the ground. Jealousy and possessiveness will have no place in this affair, so if either of you tends toward those feelings or behaviors, you'll really have to keep your impulses in check. The best you can get out of this connection will be a sense of excitement and newness, and a completely new and different way of loving another person. You may also learn a whole new way of loving and then letting go.
You'll feel magnetically drawn to each other and you'll find it very hard to resist the pull. At an unconscious level, you may feel so mutually attracted because you'll each recognize that your lover has something you want and need in your own life; but at the conscious level, you'll just feel attraction, pure and simple. Your bond will be very strong as a result, and your sexual connection will be an important link between you. This influence can also bring challenges with it, however. Since this aspect indicates that there's something you want and need from each other, it could be all too easy to let sexual fulfillment become the thing you try to get from your partner. Sex could become a difficult, complex give-and-take rather than being the mutually affirming, connective experience that it should be between two people who care for each other. Watch out for this; if you find yourselves becoming demanding about your physical interactions, take a step back and remind yourselves that sexual encounters are best when they're allowed to happen naturally. You'll need to be deliberate about cooperating in the bedroom if you want this aspect of your relationship to work out.
This relationship will be nothing if not unusual, and it could be so unusual that neither of you can ultimately handle its unpredictability. There will be a very challenging, competitive energy that grows between you, pushing you to provoke each other on a regular basis regarding your work, your behavior, your goals and so on. Furthermore, you'll both find it hard to let things roll off your backs in this relationship; when your partner does or says something to you that provokes you, you'll want to address it immediately. You'll have a hard time creating balance, which will in turn make it difficult to create any sense of stability between you. You may also have to add outside pressures into the mix, especially if your connection is outwardly so odd or hard to accept that your friends and families actively disapprove of the relationship. Above all, don't try to subject this affair to any of your usual standards or expectations. If you care about each other and want this to last, the only way to make that happen will be to give each other plenty of freedom as well as support, and let the relationship follow its own unique course.
Your mutual partnership needs will match up well with your shared interest in philosophy, learning, travel and other forms of expanding your minds. You'll both feel as if, on that level of intellectual and philosophical interests, you've found the type of partnership you're looking for, and this point of connection will be an important one for the development of your relationship. Therefore, you should be conscious in honoring that connection in whatever ways are appropriate. If you're both interested in traveling to other countries, then work together to save up money for the plane tickets. If you're interested in educating yourselves in new subjects, then look through a course catalog from your local community college and find a new subject to explore together. If you're seeking spiritual enlightenment, then take couples' yoga or meditation classes together, or research temples or churches in your area that might appeal to you both. Your best bet with this particular energy is to be mindful in how you use and express it. That way, you'll build your connection with each other as you enhance your own minds and lives.
You'll notice a real conflict between you of optimism versus realism; of expansion versus restriction; of adventuresome spirit versus practicality. This conflict could lead to some instability within the relationship, because you'll go back and forth between feeling fine about things (you're working together, you're proceeding slowly but surely toward goals you both care about) and feeling incredibly limited by your bond (you want more adventure, and less pessimism and restriction!). One of you could take on the role of stick-in-the-mud while the other is cast as the heedless, impulsive dreamer, or you could trade off positions. Either way, you'll both feel frustrated by the situation, and your relationship will suffer from the lack of balance. The good news is, these opposing energies can be integrated, with some effort. Patience will be key between you; perhaps you can derive a sense of mutual tolerance and acceptance from other more harmonious influences in your relationship. You should both try to work together so that you can create openness and buoyancy between you, yet still be practical and grounded as a couple.
As a couple, you have very definite ideas about responsibility, duty and what's important in life. Your drive is quite strong, and you feel compelled to achieve a great deal and to behave responsibly. You may be far too serious and have difficulty just relaxing. There seems to be no limits to your sense of discipline and commitment. As a couple, you feel compelled to work hard and yet you never feel satisfied that you've accomplished enough. You're known as a pair with a serious attitude, incredible work ethic and no-nonsense approach. You'll have to make concerted efforts to connect with others so you don't feel lonely. You may look down on people who know how to play and relax, which seems very childish and immature to you, yet you could actually both learn a lot from them if you would let down your hair a little bit from time to time. Not much, just a little, would help a lot.
You're a unique couple: everyone agrees on that. But you might never be appreciated for the things that make you truly special, since you reserve these things for each other. Besides that, you don't really care what others think of you, which gives you a lot of independence and freedom to be who you want to be as a pair. You'll rebel in one form or another or take the cutting edge on every subject you discuss. It's your unusual perspective and point of view that brings you together and makes your union different from the rest of the world. You may vividly express your wild side or it may be completely invisible from the rest of your life. Mostly, you just want to be free.
You'll both feel as if you've found just what you're looking for in this partnership. The emotional intimacy you'll share will seem more like a spiritual connection, as if your souls are uniting as one. You might find it incredibly easy to communicate because of this, as if you can tap into one another's emotions and needs without effort, intuitively. Be careful, though, about over-idealizing one another, because that tendency will run strong through your relationship. If you aren't careful, you could easily deceive yourselves about the nature of your relationship or of your partner. This will lead to disappointment when you're finally faced with the reality of the situation and you find that it measures less -- or even far less -- than you thought. Be sure to be perfectly honest with each other about your feelings, needs and desires, and your level of commitment to the relationship. That will help avoid disappointment later.
Your intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or psychic level. Being intimate with each other in this way will change you both over time. You'll learn to develop your more sensitive, feeling side, and you'll both hone your intuitive skills through the course of this relationship. You'll use those intuitions to dig deeply into each other's minds and psyches, and uncover hidden memories, feelings and desires that lie there. This will change you, especially if the rest of your relationship is supportive, loving and warm; you'll have a soft, safe haven in which to evolve at an important personal level. Since this is an overall positive and harmonious influence, this shouldn't be an unpleasant process for either of you, but do make sure not to don't cross any boundaries your partner doesn't want you to cross! You both still deserve your privacy, even in an intimate relationship like this one could become.
You'll share some specific needs as to the type of commitment and togetherness you'll want to create with each other, and one of the best ways to manifest your needs in this relationship will be to go deeply together into your own interiors: the parts of yourselves that are powerful and passionate, and ready for transformation. Exploring this intense emotional energy together will be your ticket to building the kind of deep union you'll both wish and hope for. This could be difficult, uncomfortable work at times, as old hurts and anxieties flare up anew, demanding that you feel them thoroughly and process them this time. But the good news is, if you can work together on creating a mutually supportive relationship, you'll have one another to lean on through this process. If you play this right, you'll get to know yourselves through and through while becoming a closer, more committed couple in the process.
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