An astrological report prepared for

Person 1, born March 3, 1973 and person 2, Born July 20, 1982:

Our Relationship Challenges

How to Uncover Roadblocks in Your Relationship

That's where Our Relationship Challenges report comes in. If you've been together for a while and things aren't looking quite so rosy anymore, Our Relationship Challenges can help. 

After all, facing your problems is half the battle, but sometimes that's the hardest part. Not because you don't want to face them -- you do -- but because they mystify you. You try to get along with your honey, and you know they have good intentions too. Yet somehow, things just don't go as well as you'd like.
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Friction, Differences, and Karma Meters

The Friction, Differences and Karma Meters: every couple faces a certain set of challenges, and the number and type of challenges determine whether your relationship will be merely interesting or out-and-out difficult. At The Astrologer, we've broken down these challenges into three sections: sources of friction, the major differences between you, and the karmic ties from past lives that draw you together today.

On the first two meters, Friction and Differences, a score somewhere in the middle is probably best. Friction can be a good thing -- after all, the same energy that makes you lust after each other also makes you fight. And we all know that a good argument, like good sex, clears the air and lets you know your passion is alive! The same goes for differences between you in the ways that you think and view the world: These contrasts keep the relationship dynamic.

Karma, on the other hand, isn't such a great thing, even if your past-life bonds were positive ones. This lifetime is... Read more


= 9

7-10: Open warfare

4-6: The occasional dispute

0-3: Whatever you have to say dear

= 3

7-10: Who the $#@% are you, again?

4-6: Some interesting contrasts

0-3: Two Peas in a pod

= 4

7-10: New love, same old story

4-6: Total deja-vu

0-3: No past life ties (whew!)

Person 1, here is your Our Relationship Challenges report


illustrates your basic commonalities
tells your basic differences
indicates how well you get along with one another
shows what each of you brings to the relationship


shows how you communicate with each other
reveals who is the thinker & who is the feeler
helps you understand each other’s communication style


reveals your connection to each other
indicates how each other prefers to receive love
highlights how both of you express love


represents the physical bond you share
reveals each other’s desires and impulses
shows how each person expresses frustration


highlights the non-negotiable values held by each of you
shows what is important to each person
indicates whether the relationship will grow


challenges the relationship
unveils each other's shortcomings
demonstrates where extra effort is needed in the relationship


uncovers each other’s rebellious side
points out the unique qualities each person brings to the relationship
shows how the two of you have fun


rules the psychic connection you have to each other
reveals how you help each other grow
indicates if a relationship is a spiritual one


reveals each person’s greatest fears
indicates opportunities for change
demonstrates the self-transformation the relationship brings to both of you
Read below to find out where each planet was on March 3, 1973, and how your birth chart has shaped your personality and guided your decisions so far…

From Friction To Fulfillment

Mercury square Venus

Declare a Truce

You certainly chose a partner who's a match for you, and that's a good thing, ultimately -- it just drives you nuts is all. It feels like you and your lover have difficulty understanding each other, particularly around emotional issues. And it's funny how a lot of things -- dishes, who's buying dinner, where you're going on vacation -- turn into an emotional issue with the pair of you. You plow through life with acumen and logic, determined to make sense of the world in front of you. Your partner, on the other hand, is more of a feeler than a thinker, and tends to overindulge your moods and notions. The result? You sometimes view your partner with something more akin to contempt than adoration, and neither one of you feels an easy connection with each other. The cure is better communication, and since you are the Great Communicator, you're well-placed for the task. If you want to stay in this relationship, it's up to you to bridge the gap. Stop finding fault with your partner; instead, find things to love and admire. The more you give the more you'll get.

Venus square Uranus

Storybook Romance

This is the kind of romance that makes for great stories later.In other words, it's not always easy. You and your lover were drawn to each other right from the start. It all happened so fast. One minute you were on your first date, the next you were on the phone to your best friend saying 'This is the ONE!' You fell into love so quickly that you didn't look where you were headed, and therein lies the problem. It's just that you chose yourself such a darned tricky, unstable sweetie. They are full of electric excitement, of drama and blistering, little-hairs-standing-up-on-the-back-of-your-neck passion. But as you've no doubt found out, they also signify upheaval, disruption, a heaping helping of the wrong kind of excitement.Well, if nothing else, you've had yourself one heck of a ride. And if you're willing to hang on, accepting all the bumps and jolts that are sure to come your way, more thrills will be yours. One thing you can say for your relationship -- it's absolutely never boring. For now, that'll have to be enough for you.

Mars square Saturn

Stingy With Amour

First things first. Who's holding out in the love department? Signs point to your partner, who's stingy with affection in the best of times. But certain developments have practically shut the store down, and you're starving for physical contact. It's almost pathetic how far you'll go to try to woo your stubborn sweetie. But it's to no avail. Your partner's better than you at playing mind games. You're outmatched. And though you'd like this one to be The One, you're going to have to iron out your problems if you'd like to move along. One thing you should know: Much of the reason why you're off your game is that you're enacting old dramas from your past. Just who can you think of who withheld love from you in your childhood? And how did you behave, given your high hopes of evening the score? Now do you recognize why you've become what you are? You've got to start unloading your baggage, one piece at a time, before you can unwind the Gordian knot of your woes. If you change your behavior your partner will change as well. But first you have some deep thinking to do.

Jupiter square Pluto

Power Struggle

Hey, jealous lover! It can't be helped that you chose such an intense and difficult mate, but do you have to reveal your insecurities so nakedly? Have a little pride -- no one likes to be begged. Particularly not your button-pushing significant other, who enjoys your predicament just a little too much. You're over a barrel, wondering where your lover is every second you're not together. Have you been searching for clues? Emails, phone calls, notes in pants pockets? Shame on you. You've let your emotions get the better of you, and it's not a pretty picture.The problem lies in the lover you picked. Your partner is sexy and compelling, magnetic and irresistible. But there are a lot of negatives along for the ride as well. You'll never be able to harness this sweetie. You'll never be the one in complete power. So it's time to muster your inner confidence, and vow to neither control nor be controlled. Be your own person. Make your own choices. Follow your own path. Your sweetie will come around once it's clear that you're no mere worm to be trod upon -- and won't being wooed feel great for a change?

Jupiter square Jupiter

A Pompous Pair

Both of you view the other as rather pompous and arrogant. The irony? You see your lover's delusions of grandeur but don't recognize your own. You're every bit as stuck on yourself as your lover is on him/herself. You can't see that you despise the parts of your lover that mirror you? Is it too painful to face? Or do you simply believe your way is the right way and anyone who disagrees must be a fool? It is likely that you and your lover have widely disparate views on moral issues and ethics, and that you're both somewhat foolish with money. Credit card debt may plague you, as may a certain lack of motivation. You both mean well. But instead of pushing each other to perform, you egg each on in unrealistic dreams.But underneath all the bickering, you two are well-matched. If you can muster a little tolerance (instead of demanding your lover toe your line), you could learn a lot from each other. By accepting each other, you can expand your world view and get along better with people in general. It requires flexibility, sacrifice, and patience/ But the work you put in will pay off, and darned soon, too.

Mercury square Neptune

Offbeat Pairing

You're losing your temper with your love, and it's hardly attractive. Clearly you were taking orders from your heart and not your brain when you hooked up with your current amour, because you chose someone rather ill-suited for you on paper. While you are all power and force, drive and demand, your lover is a bit, well, wishy-washy. You want to get up and go and make and do; your lover is happier sitting in a quiet corner dreaming the day away. You think you've made plans and formulated goals, but when you turn around to check that your lover's on the same page as you, suddenly all your control's slipped away. It confuses you, and that makes you both furious and difficult to live with. The answer lies in confronting your patterns. Haven't you been having the same conversations, the same tedious arguments, over and over again? Stop repeating yourself, and stop imagining that simply confronting your lover one more time will make things change. The time has come for creative thinking, new ways of tackling the problems between you. Try something new, because what you have been doing so far certainly isn't working.

Friend or Foe?

Mars opposite Mercury

Frustration Station

You love your sweetie. That's the first disclaimer you make when discussing your many relationship problems with your friends. But ooh, you just get so irritated! Your lover is apt to yak and yak, at inappropriate times -- you can't read a newspaper or watch a movie without being interrupted by a flood of chatter. Even more annoying, much of the babble concerns your lover's big plans and soaring dreams. It used to be cute, but no more. You're getting fed up with hearing about goals that will never be realized, dreams that will never come to fruition. Your lover is all talk and no action, and you're all about energy, movement and force. All the inactivity makes you feel stultified and angry. If you are to get along, you're going to have to take things slowly. Your partner views you as aggressive and kinda mean, and there's a reason why. Take a good hard look at yourself. Are you a partner or a parent? Exercise patience and consideration. Think of your lover's feelings before you speak and act. Don't let the annoyance you feel color your dealings, or you will spoil what could be so very good.

Jupiter opposite Sun

Drifting Dreamily

The problem with the two of you is that you're both so busy papering over your problems with sweetness and lightness that you can't see the great big chasms between you. Chances are that you hold widely varying opinions of some kind -- they could be connected with your careers, or moral philosophies. Whatever the great divide is, it's something you're refusing to face. You keep your eyes closed, preferring to focus on the warmth between you and your lover. Day-to-day life is uncomplicated and easy since the two of you get along so well. So that's where you live, in the day-to-day, letting things drift along pleasantly without knowing exactly where you're going.That's all fine and well, but there's going to be a wake-up call sooner or later, and sooner is better than later. Talk about the differing issues between you. It may well be that you can find a compromise. But you'll never get there without some hard work. You're going to have to bend, a little or a lot, and accept something you never thought you could. Find a middle ground -- if there's a solution that leaves you and your partner both feeling bittersweet, you've probably found it.

Jupiter opposite Mercury

High Living

At your best, you're a pair of cooing lovebirds: sweet, adoring, inclined towards generosity, good times and cheer. It sounds so positive, does it not? It generally is. Except, for the pair of you, there is no restraint. Neither of you knows how to hold back, how to stop yourself before you say too much, how to discipline yourselves. You indulge all your appetites -- for food, for passion, for drink, for fun. You encourage each other in your excesses, and inevitably the bill for all this high living comes due. And that's when the friction starts between you, as each blames the other for money problems, weight issues, problems stemming from not taking care of responsibilities.Luckily, the problem are not that tough to iron out. Seek out professional help in your problem areas. Hire someone to help you make a budget, engage a professional trainer, or otherwise find a pro who'll spur you into some kind of action. Let loose on the world. You're a force to be reckoned with -- all you have to do is ensure your energy's being channeled into positive areas. With a little more discipline on both your parts, your life will come back into balance.

Why Are We Involved, Again?

Jupiter quincunx Venus

Uncomfy Love

Everybody likes your lover. Your parents. Your friends. Your coworkers. Everything seems so right: You always have a great time whenever you're together. In fact, things go so smoothly between you that you've been able to ignore the gaps thus far. But you're waking up. The fact is that on the surface you're congenial and gracious, but underneath there are some serious disparities in your goals and values. You're more attuned to the intellectual side of things, politics and ideas and art, while your lover's the more sensual hedonist type. Think about it. Don't you make conversation more often than your lover, talking about humdrum matters to mask the realization that you don't have an awful lot in common?Developing common interests is key to the survival of your relationship. Take up a hobby together. Dance lessons? A foreign language? A sport? Whatever it is, make sure it's something that'll consume you both. With a little attention, you can get things moving in the right direction again. This is one love relationship that needs a little nudging to run smoothly.

Mercury quincunx Pluto

Tweaks Your Insecurities

Your powerful, intense lover turns you on, all right. So much so that you wonder who else has hot pants for your One. Where does your lover go when away from you? What are all those numbers programmed into your sweetie's cell phone, anyway? Who else has their greedy little eyeballs on your special someone? Thus runs your paranoia, and your secretive lover doesn't give you a whole lot of reassurance, either. When you screw up the courage to question, you're made to feel ridiculous. Or worse, your lover splits, vowing to return when you're acting rationally. But how can you act rationally in the face of your overwhelming jealousy? This is a tough nut to crack, because your insecurities melded with your lover's tendency to withhold both information and affection makes for a sticky sitch. And your own tendency to want to talk things out won't work. Instead, try marshaling your independent streak. Your lover's partial to head games, so play a few yourself. Act like you're calm and collected, and soon not only will you feel that way but your lover will behave better too.

Sun quincunx Saturn

Emotional Rescue

You're the kind of person who's driving through life looking in the rearview mirror. Yeah, your past isn't ideal. People haven't always treated you as kindly as they could have, and your parents were anything but supportive. But why do you marinate in your misery? That victim label doesn't flatter you, you know. You're such a vital, vibrant soul; don't let your sunshine be dimmed by your rage -- and yes, rage is what it is, masquerading as hurt. Now, speaking of dim, it is true you've chosen a rather murky lover. Serious where you are lighthearted, weighty and solid where you can be impetuous and moving in too many directions. Your lover pulls out your best qualities simply by acting as a reality check. Yet your disparities trouble you. You don't feel as connected, or as comfortable as you could. The two of you can't seem to relax together into something sweet and easy. But if you can find a way to unload some of your emotional baggage, to become more comfortable in your own skin, you'll find more ease in your pairing.

Mercury quincunx Jupiter

Three's Company

You've been feeling very lonely, haven't you? You're surrounded by people and noise, your hand held by another, yet inside, in the places that really matter, you feel utterly alone. One problem is that the people who surround you aren't those of your choosing. Your lover has a habit of picking up strays and making new friends easily, and in theory you find it charming. How sweet that your sweetie is warm to so many. But you'd prefer not to be constantly crowded. You'd like more quiet evenings at home, more dinners spent talking over the news and working out your problems, not endless rounds of small talk with folks you don't plan to befriend.So how do you address your issues with your true love? Because address them you must; this won't work out on its own. Find a quiet, calm place to sit down and just talk. Ask for what you want. Be specific. Do you want to spend two nights together a week, or four? Don't be afraid to open the lines of communication; you are deeply cared for and your lover will work to find a way to your heart. Just be willing to accept a compromise when you are offered one.

The Ties That Bind

No conjunctions

Enjoying Togetherness and Apartness

There's glue, and then there's glue. Elmer's versus epoxy, Velcro versus nails. Fortunately, with no difficult conjunctions between you, your relationship is bound by the easy-to-separate type of togetherness, not the wild-horses-couldn't-drag-us-apart variety. Now, don't misunderstand: This is not to say that there's not a strong connection between you. But it's nice, isn't it, to be able to take the occasional separate vacation; to enjoy your own interests without your partner feeling threatened; to be two distinct individuals who choose to hang out together. Compare this to the joined-at-the-hip, can't-bear-to-be-apart couple. Don't you always wonder about them? What do they think will happen if they're not together for an entire evening, much less a day or even a week?Separation is not a problem for you two; in fact, you may do it by choice on a regular basis. After all, absence makes the heart grow fonder, and this is surely true of you and your partner. You take great joy in sharing your individual experiences, as well as in spending time together. If anything, you might have to make it a point to schedule in time to be together! You may each be so wrapped up in your own orbit that you suddenly realize that days or even weeks have gone by without you two sharing a full day together.Don't let that happen. Use the previous sections of this report to discover the challenges of your relationship, which so often turn out to be opportunities for growth and development. You two have chosen to be together, and likewise, you can choose to grow together.

Next Steps

I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!

Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.

That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.

Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.

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