The Friction, Differences and Karma Meters: every couple faces a certain set of challenges, and the number and type of challenges determine whether your relationship will be merely interesting or out-and-out difficult. At The Astrologer, we've broken down these challenges into three sections: sources of friction, the major differences between you, and the karmic ties from past lives that draw you together today.
On the first two meters, Friction and Differences, a score somewhere in the middle is probably best. Friction can be a good thing -- after all, the same energy that makes you lust after each other also makes you fight. And we all know that a good argument, like good sex, clears the air and lets you know your passion is alive! The same goes for differences between you in the ways that you think and view the world: These contrasts keep the relationship dynamic.
Karma, on the other hand, isn't such a great thing, even if your past-life bonds were positive ones. This lifetime is... Read more
7-10: Open warfare
4-6: The occasional dispute
0-3: Whatever you have to say dear
7-10: Who the $#@% are you, again?
4-6: Some interesting contrasts
0-3: Two Peas in a pod
7-10: New love, same old story
4-6: Total deja-vu
0-3: No past life ties (whew!)
Jupiter square Jupiter
Both of you view the other as rather pompous and arrogant. The irony? You see your lover's delusions of grandeur but don't recognize your own. You're every bit as stuck on yourself as your lover is on him/herself. You can't see that you despise the parts of your lover that mirror you? Is it too painful to face? Or do you simply believe your way is the right way and anyone who disagrees must be a fool? It is likely that you and your lover have widely disparate views on moral issues and ethics, and that you're both somewhat foolish with money. Credit card debt may plague you, as may a certain lack of motivation. You both mean well. But instead of pushing each other to perform, you egg each on in unrealistic dreams.But underneath all the bickering, you two are well-matched. If you can muster a little tolerance (instead of demanding your lover toe your line), you could learn a lot from each other. By accepting each other, you can expand your world view and get along better with people in general. It requires flexibility, sacrifice, and patience/ But the work you put in will pay off, and darned soon, too.
Saturn square Jupiter
You and your sweetie are an unusual match. There are ways that it's working for you, as well as ways you're bugged by the differences between you. Most of your problems are connected with the schism between your personalities. You see your lover as rather egotistic and indulgent, while you're seen as stingy and pessimistic. You're both right, to an extent. But there's another side to your differences; mainly that they complement each other. Your lover's presence causes you to open up and laugh more, while you act as a stabilizing reality check on your sweetie's worst impulses. Even so, knowing that doesn't help you get along better in your day-to-day interactions.One of the biggest problems you face is your own insecurities. You view your lover as somehow more important or special than you. It makes you feel like you don't have the right to expect an equal voice in the relationship. But your mate desires a partner, not a child to nourish and scold. You are every bit as worthy as your sweetie -- start asking for what you want, and putting in as much time on your own goals as your partner's. A little energy put in these directions will yield great rewards.
Mercury square Uranus
There's an old Chinese proverb that goes like this: 'May you live in interesting times.' On the surface it seems like a blessing. But you of all people can confirm that it can also be a curse. The one who's claimed your heart is exciting all right -- and completely unpredictable. You could come home at night to find your lover's changed the curtains in the living room or oh, changed careers and made plans to move to Antarctica. You like excitement as much as the next person, but this is ridiculous. You're having a lot of trouble managing the day-to-day problems, because who has time to figure out what day to visit Uncle Fred in the hospital when you're arguing over giant life-changing issues.But you're going to have to roll with it if you're going to make this thing work. Don't ask for stability from a live wire. Instead, enjoy the passion and intensity that's the silver lining of the rather dramatic life you've chosen. You may not have quiet nights snuggling on the sofa, but you will have the kind of love relationship that makes for great stories -- and great highs.
Mars opposite Pluto
Hey, jealous lover! You've assumed the role of a punitive first-grade teacher: standing over your lover, shaking your finger at naughty behavior, hectoring and blustering. Unfortunately, in order to avoid your lectures, your lover has turned off. You're not being heard, so why are you bothering to express yourself so forcefully and frequently? You're at odds, bickering over small things to avoid talking about the Great Big Thing neither of you wants to face. But hiding your head in the sand will get you exactly nowhere. It's time facts were faced, and obstacles looked at truthfully.You and your lover aren't particularly well-matched, this is true. While you are all speed and action and energy, your lover is dark, secretive, maybe even a bit cruel. But something in you craves the abuse and invites the ill-treatment. What you need to find is balance. You need to be getting as much as you give -- so if you find you're not receiving as much affection and attention, resolve to put your energies elsewhere. It's not game-playing -- it's just that you need to dial down your emotions a bit. Your lover will appreciate the break, and you'll get back into balance.
Saturn quincunx Pluto
You've got a Romeo and Juliet thing going on. It seems at times as if your relationship is doomed by circumstance. One of you will be in the mood to get closer while the other is distracted by things outside your pairing. Or you're never single at the same time. Or other forces -- your family? geographical distance? -- keep you apart. Will the universe never line up and let you just be together in peace? You feel as if your love is being tested, and you're right. But how can you make it through the hard times unscathed?The key to weathering any rough patch -- those 'for worse' moments -- lies in your ability to sacrifice. There's something you're going to need to give up in order to move ahead, and likewise for your partner. It's painful to give up something secure for something that seems unsettled and unreliable. But the only way you can move forward is to trust, to make a leap. There's something beautiful awaiting you on the other side; let go and believe in the two of you. You can endure the obstacles -- together.
Mercury quincunx Saturn
Remember when you were a kid and you misbehaved and your parents would lecture you? They'd rant on and on until you wanted to jump out a window. Feeling a bit of deja vu with your partner? Your sweetie is more like a teacher (or yeah, a parent) than an equal, and it bugs you. You don't like anyone telling you what to do, or more importantly, what not to do. You're chafing under the surveillance, and feeling like you might want to wriggle away altogether. After all, you signed up for a love relationship, not life lessons.But hold on there, impulsive one. This is not one of those tissue-paper relationships you can just toss away without thinking. This is something solid, something real, and the only reason your lover tries to guide you is out of concern. You are loved and looked after; so many people would want to be in your shoes. Stop rebelling like the kid you once were. Buckle down and start delivering your very best. Only then will you make both the most of yourself and of a relationship that's irksome simply because it's so challenging.
Saturn quincunx Neptune
Past indiscretions have a way of coming back on you, and yours have rebounded on you. Your mate has discovered something you wanted to keep hidden, and you're feeling exposed and insecure. What you fear is true -- your lover does think less of you than before. But what you don't know is that the shift is due more to your secrecy than to what you did. How can your mate trust you if you keep things hidden? Come on, open up. Reveal all the aspects of the situation. What were you feeling at the time? How has this affected your life? How have you changed since then?Opening up like this is quite uncomfortable for you. You would much rather revert to your usual pattern, pretending like nothing's going on while you bury your head in work. You also fear rejection if your lover knows your true self. But you must let some air into your dark closet. It's hard to breathe back there! Let your lover know what's up; explain the repercussions of your past choices, and allow your lover to make choices about what to do next. It's scary being an open book, but you can only move forward by letting go.
No conjunctions
There's glue, and then there's glue. Elmer's versus epoxy, Velcro versus nails. Fortunately, with no difficult conjunctions between you, your relationship is bound by the easy-to-separate type of togetherness, not the wild-horses-couldn't-drag-us-apart variety. Now, don't misunderstand: This is not to say that there's not a strong connection between you. But it's nice, isn't it, to be able to take the occasional separate vacation; to enjoy your own interests without your partner feeling threatened; to be two distinct individuals who choose to hang out together. Compare this to the joined-at-the-hip, can't-bear-to-be-apart couple. Don't you always wonder about them? What do they think will happen if they're not together for an entire evening, much less a day or even a week?Separation is not a problem for you two; in fact, you may do it by choice on a regular basis. After all, absence makes the heart grow fonder, and this is surely true of you and your partner. You take great joy in sharing your individual experiences, as well as in spending time together. If anything, you might have to make it a point to schedule in time to be together! You may each be so wrapped up in your own orbit that you suddenly realize that days or even weeks have gone by without you two sharing a full day together.Don't let that happen. Use the previous sections of this report to discover the challenges of your relationship, which so often turn out to be opportunities for growth and development. You two have chosen to be together, and likewise, you can choose to grow together.
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