An astrological report prepared for

Person 1, born November 26, 1976 and person 2, Born September 25, 1973:

Our Relationship Challenges

How to Uncover Roadblocks in Your Relationship

SOMETIMES LOVE THRILLS THE BODY AND FILLS THE SOUL; IT CAN PUT A BOUNCE IN YOUR STEP AND A SMILE ON YOUR FACE NO MATTER THE WEATHER. OTHER TIMES, LOVE JUST STINKS.
That's where Our Relationship Challenges report comes in. If you've been together for a while and things aren't looking quite so rosy anymore, Our Relationship Challenges can help. 

After all, facing your problems is half the battle, but sometimes that's the hardest part. Not because you don't want to face them -- you do -- but because they mystify you. You try to get along with your honey, and you know they have good intentions too. Yet somehow, things just don't go as well as you'd like.
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Friction, Differences, and Karma Meters

The Friction, Differences and Karma Meters: every couple faces a certain set of challenges, and the number and type of challenges determine whether your relationship will be merely interesting or out-and-out difficult. At The Astrologer, we've broken down these challenges into three sections: sources of friction, the major differences between you, and the karmic ties from past lives that draw you together today.

On the first two meters, Friction and Differences, a score somewhere in the middle is probably best. Friction can be a good thing -- after all, the same energy that makes you lust after each other also makes you fight. And we all know that a good argument, like good sex, clears the air and lets you know your passion is alive! The same goes for differences between you in the ways that you think and view the world: These contrasts keep the relationship dynamic.

Karma, on the other hand, isn't such a great thing, even if your past-life bonds were positive ones. This lifetime is... Read more

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7

Friction
= 5

7-10: Open warfare

4-6: The occasional dispute

0-3: Whatever you have to say dear

Differences
= 1

7-10: Who the $#@% are you, again?

4-6: Some interesting contrasts

0-3: Two Peas in a pod

Karma
= 7

7-10: New love, same old story

4-6: Total deja-vu

0-3: No past life ties (whew!)

Person 1, here is your Our Relationship Challenges report

Sun

illustrates your basic commonalities
tells your basic differences
indicates how well you get along with one another
shows what each of you brings to the relationship

Mercury

shows how you communicate with each other
reveals who is the thinker & who is the feeler
helps you understand each other’s communication style

Venus

reveals your connection to each other
indicates how each other prefers to receive love
highlights how both of you express love

Mars

represents the physical bond you share
reveals each other’s desires and impulses
shows how each person expresses frustration

Jupiter

highlights the non-negotiable values held by each of you
shows what is important to each person
indicates whether the relationship will grow

Saturn

challenges the relationship
unveils each other's shortcomings
demonstrates where extra effort is needed in the relationship

Uranus

uncovers each other’s rebellious side
points out the unique qualities each person brings to the relationship
shows how the two of you have fun

Neptune

rules the psychic connection you have to each other
reveals how you help each other grow
indicates if a relationship is a spiritual one

Pluto

reveals each person’s greatest fears
indicates opportunities for change
demonstrates the self-transformation the relationship brings to both of you
Read below to find out where each planet was on November 26, 1976, and how your birth chart has shaped your personality and guided your decisions so far…

From Friction To Fulfillment

Venus square Mercury

Speak Some Evil

You like to think of yourself as tremendously accepting of other people's foibles, but in reality your tolerance is more of a cop-out -- you just don't want to deal with the nasty business of confronting someone else and sharing your feelings. You'd rather indulge yourself; in food, wine, fun, and sometimes more illicit pleasures. Your lover is always trying to get you to open up. You view it as invasive and annoying, and feel like you've had too many heart-to-hearts at 3:00 a.m. Your sweetie, on the other hand, finds you rather selfish and closed off. How to meet in the middle? You must find a way to communicate your feelings to each other. Your lover wants to talk talk talk you to death, but you're not a big fan. Try another way instead. Emails? Scheduled meetings? Love Rx through limericks? There absolutely, positively is a way that you and your sweetie can formulate the compromises you'll need to get you through the next thousand years or so -- it just requires you to get off your butt and start. If your sweetie really means as much to you as you claim, you'd be wise to get going.

Saturn square Venus

A Bit Chilly

There's a crucial imbalance in your relationship, and it's tearing your partnership to shreds. Sorry to break it to you, but most of the problems can be laid at your door. You've been holding out on your lover, emotionally and physically. It's not that you're not attracted to your mate -- you chose yourself this sensual social butterfly. That physical attraction and emotional bond was what got you into this relationship. But something's gone awry. You've grown colder. You see your sweetie as begging for crumbs of affection, which you selfishly withhold. What's made you so haughty and dismissive?If you're truly dissatisfied with your pairing, it may be time to tally up your bills and move on. But if there's still a spark there, it's time to investigate why you've turned so chilly. Is it fear -- of being vulnerable, of letting someone know you completely -- that's holding you back? Is it connected to past experiences in which you got the short end of the stick? A little navel-gazing is in order; once you heal your own old wounds you'll have more to give to your yearning significant other.

Venus square Uranus

Storybook Romance

This is the kind of romance that makes for great stories later.In other words, it's not always easy. You and your lover were drawn to each other right from the start. It all happened so fast. One minute you were on your first date, the next you were on the phone to your best friend saying 'This is the ONE!' You fell into love so quickly that you didn't look where you were headed, and therein lies the problem. It's just that you chose yourself such a darned tricky, unstable sweetie. They are full of electric excitement, of drama and blistering, little-hairs-standing-up-on-the-back-of-your-neck passion. But as you've no doubt found out, they also signify upheaval, disruption, a heaping helping of the wrong kind of excitement.Well, if nothing else, you've had yourself one heck of a ride. And if you're willing to hang on, accepting all the bumps and jolts that are sure to come your way, more thrills will be yours. One thing you can say for your relationship -- it's absolutely never boring. For now, that'll have to be enough for you.

Saturn square Mars

Hot and Cold

You're receiving a taste of your own medicine, and you don't like it one bit. You're usually the one who has the upper hand in relationships, sitting in judgment against a partner who you feel doesn't measure up to your high standards. But your passionate sweetie has you in an uproar. Compelling, magnetic, but awfully hard to tame, your lover alternates between periods of aggressive interest, followed by boredom. And you're stuck between the two poles, infuriated but interested. You feel as though you can't get your footing, as though you're at a loss.Does it help to know that your mate doesn't mean to blow hot and cold? Your sweetie often hurts the ones they love, though it isn't intentional. The key to maintaining your sanity is self-confidence. Muster that hardworking practical strength and hunker down on to work on your own projects. Your dear will come hither once it's clear that you're not going to beg and scrape for crumbs of affection. The commitment you've been craving is not out of the question. In fact, you are well-placed to become a permanent fixture if you can bring calm to your tempestuous pas de deux.

Friend or Foe?

No oppositions

Finding a Wider Perspective

Do you two have trouble walking a mile in each other's moccasins? Is it difficult for either of you to view things from your partner's perspective? In arguments as well as in day-to-day life, are you both so attached to your own points of view that you just can't comprehend where your sweetie is coming from?If you answered 'yes' to any of the above questions, it may be because the two of you lack any oppositions between you. An opposition is a somewhat stressful planetary connection, but it does something very important: It provides a wider perspective than just your own. Oppositions bring awareness of The Other and the ability to see things from your partner's point of view.Not being 'in opposition' to your lover might sound like a good thing, but look at it this way: When there are no oppositions present between you, it's like you're each going in your own direction, but your paths don't align. They don't cross and they don't run parallel. You're each simply moving along on your own track, one that's noticeably unrelated to your partner's.You each think you know the other, but if you took a test on each other's likes and dislikes, you probably wouldn't do as well as you think. There's a basic inability for either of you to look across the table at the other and see the person who's actually sitting there; you both have a strong tendency to view the other through your own looking glass, which distorts the picture. Finding the balance between you will require a lot of awareness and honesty on both your parts -- difficult, but not impossible.

Why Are We Involved, Again?

Mars quincunx Mars

It's Grating

For two people supposedly in love, you certainly rub each other the wrong way. Grouse and bicker, grouse and bicker -- you sound like ill-tempered siblings, not like lovers at all. You can't seem to make things run smoothly no matter how hard you try. There are misunderstandings galore; you zig when your partner zags, your lover wants time together at a time when you're craving solitude. And the impatience and frustration you both feel with each other isn't making anything any easier. Why is it that you seem to blurt out the absolutely worst thing to say at exactly the worst moment? Are you acting without thinking, or are you acting out your resentments? This relationship is a difficult nut to crack, but it's not necessarily DOA. If you truly love each other, act like it. Make a conscious effort to be kinder, more understanding, less demanding. Take care to communicate your needs and feelings gently, rather than raising your voice. Give your lover plenty of freedom and give yourself some 'me' time too. This relationship does not flow as naturally as some, but there is much to gain if you are willing to put in the work.

Sun quincunx Mars

Forget Fighting

Oh, you poor thing. You do try so hard, don't you? Always earnestly striving to improve yourself, tune up your relationship, make yourself clear. You're convinced that if your lover would only understand your point of view, if you could find the right words, than all the awkwardness between you would disappear. Sorry, but it's not that easy. Think of it like this: You're a square peg trying to fit into a round hole. You and your mate have much in common: verve, drive, a zest for life. But there are many other things you disagree on. You, in particular, struggle with arrogance, jealousy, insecurity; all things you know make you less attractive to your dazzling catch of a mate. There are others who'd like to take your place and you know it. But you can't seem to stop trying to explain yourself once and for all and clear things up between you. Nothing you can say will work the trick, though. The key is in your behavior. Are you delightful to come home to, loving, interested in what your mate says and does? No? If not, nothing you can say will take the place of that lack.

Mars quincunx Saturn

No Pain, No Gain

It's not that you don't love your sweetie, it's just that you find your dearest one to be a pain in the butt. While you are courageous and fearless, wanting only to go and do and strive, your lover is like a big bucket of cold water on your hot impatience. You are reminded of unpleasant realities, and not in a very diplomatic way. You are often made to feel like a silly child, rather than a competent adult. Inside you feel like a rebellious teenager, wanting to stand up to the strictures your sweetie places on you, and break out of the box you've been enclosed in. If you're really in love with your lover and determined to continue, you both must be willing to pay the price. You must cool off a bit, become more of a listener and thinker and less of an impulsive doer. Your lover, on the other hand, must stop squelching your ideas wholesale and learn to be more supportive and loving. Together you could create a great big beautiful grownup relationship. But this can only happen if you stop wasting your energy on strife and start channeling it into positive directions.

Sun quincunx Saturn

Emotional Rescue

You're the kind of person who's driving through life looking in the rearview mirror. Yeah, your past isn't ideal. People haven't always treated you as kindly as they could have, and your parents were anything but supportive. But why do you marinate in your misery? That victim label doesn't flatter you, you know. You're such a vital, vibrant soul; don't let your sunshine be dimmed by your rage -- and yes, rage is what it is, masquerading as hurt. Now, speaking of dim, it is true you've chosen a rather murky lover. Serious where you are lighthearted, weighty and solid where you can be impetuous and moving in too many directions. Your lover pulls out your best qualities simply by acting as a reality check. Yet your disparities trouble you. You don't feel as connected, or as comfortable as you could. The two of you can't seem to relax together into something sweet and easy. But if you can find a way to unload some of your emotional baggage, to become more comfortable in your own skin, you'll find more ease in your pairing.

Jupiter quincunx Uranus

No Controlling It

Hmm. Whatcha got there? It's a strange one, all right. Your lover is sexy for sure; compelling and exciting and quite attractive. Whenever you introduce your friends, you always hear what a hottie you've bagged. But there's something unstable. Something restless. Your lover can't seem to settle down and just be into you; there's always a sense you get that they have a roving eye -- and it may even have landed on a friend of yours, or so you fear. You can't get comfortable. You can't relax. You feel like you have to be on guard to be in control.But there's no controlling this one. And that's the fun of it. It's kind of cool to be on your toes, to be forced into being your best self rather than relaxing into your typical self-indulgent laziness. You've found just what you wanted -- something exciting, something that brings out your competitive side. You have to chase, which quickens your blood. Go with it. Don't expect to wrestle your love to the ground and pin it for a count of three. Instead hang on and dig the tumult; this is the kind of love that songs are written about.

The Ties That Bind

No conjunctions

Enjoying Togetherness and Apartness

There's glue, and then there's glue. Elmer's versus epoxy, Velcro versus nails. Fortunately, with no difficult conjunctions between you, your relationship is bound by the easy-to-separate type of togetherness, not the wild-horses-couldn't-drag-us-apart variety. Now, don't misunderstand: This is not to say that there's not a strong connection between you. But it's nice, isn't it, to be able to take the occasional separate vacation; to enjoy your own interests without your partner feeling threatened; to be two distinct individuals who choose to hang out together. Compare this to the joined-at-the-hip, can't-bear-to-be-apart couple. Don't you always wonder about them? What do they think will happen if they're not together for an entire evening, much less a day or even a week?Separation is not a problem for you two; in fact, you may do it by choice on a regular basis. After all, absence makes the heart grow fonder, and this is surely true of you and your partner. You take great joy in sharing your individual experiences, as well as in spending time together. If anything, you might have to make it a point to schedule in time to be together! You may each be so wrapped up in your own orbit that you suddenly realize that days or even weeks have gone by without you two sharing a full day together.Don't let that happen. Use the previous sections of this report to discover the challenges of your relationship, which so often turn out to be opportunities for growth and development. You two have chosen to be together, and likewise, you can choose to grow together.

Next Steps

I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!

Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.

That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.

Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.

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