The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Love Life Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Sun in Cancer
You're a picture of loyalty, and that's admirable. Once in a relationship -- not an easy task in itself, due to your shy and vulnerable nature -- you'd no sooner leave than you'd sell your favorite piece of furniture. Too bad you forgot to warn your sweetie about your 'cold spells.' You're not unlike a turtle; you're just fine as long as you feel safe and comfortable, basking in the sun, arms and legs stretched out. But the moment anything happens, you snatch yourself inwards, withdraw under your shell, and there's no getting you out until you feel comfortable once again, at some undetermined point in the future. In real life, this translates to moodiness, cold shoulders and sealed lips, and it's no mystery why someone else would quickly get tired of such behavior.It's not so bad out here, Cancer. Your ideal partner will provide a warm and safe place for you to express your fears, but you'll never know that if you don't come out and try. It will take a big leap of faith, but it's one that will pay off in spades for you.
Mercury in Leo
Isn't it great, always being right? You're so confident of your ideas, so inspiring in your speech, so convincing to others, that there's really no reason for anyone else to hold the microphone, is there? You may as well keep it, because as soon as you're finished expressing yourself, you're going to direct the group in what to do next. That's why your past lovers have nicknamed you 'Sarge.' Which, frankly, works for you. That way, fewer people challenge you, because you don't like being challenged. Just who do they think they are, anyway? Well, maybe they're someone important to you who just happens to think a little differently. They're not trying to shoot you down, despite what you think. They're just questioning one of your unquestioned concepts, and it would be to your benefit if you would listen. If you didn't cling so stubbornly to your own ideas, you could expand your mind with some new ones.
Venus in Gemini
You're flirtatious, fickle and funny, and you've probably left a long string of unclaimed lovers in your wake. Even on the rare occasions when you settle down long enough to form an actual relationship with someone, you're out the door as soon as the idea of commitment or longevity comes up. That's just not your style! No one satisfies you for long, because the wind changes direction frequently in the climate of your romantic fascinations. Your head turns here, your eyes turn there. Be careful that you don't wind up with disjointed vertebrae!You chat up anyone who will sit still. You love to share ideas and you welcome new people and intellectual input into your life. You seduce lovers with your wit and charm. Sooner than later, you'll meet your match: someone as intelligent as you, who can match you joke for joke. They'll come fully equipped with their own set of friends and will expect you to get along with them, too. How does it feel to have a taste of your own medicine? Suddenly commitment doesn't seem like such a bad idea.
Mars in Gemini
What did your past lovers have a problem with? Well, for starters, you couldn't sit still for more than five minutes. That made dinner-and-a-movie dates quite a challenge. Then there was your short little span of attention, the one that made it impossible for you to really listen and hear when they were pouring their hearts out to you. Finally, they got annoyed with the way you'd just blurt anything out, anytime, anywhere. It got so they couldn't take you out into public for fear of what you'd say.Is there hope for you? Certainly there is. Not that we're blaming your previous partners, but can't you find someone a little more lighthearted, someone who can bring out your playful side and focus on the fast-thinking, quick-talking person instead of on your deficits? Doing any type of physical activity together is good, so keep the jogging shoes or bike close at hand. Intellectual pursuits work, too, since they keep your mind busy. Your key to more successful relationships is to bring the lighter side to the fore.
Jupiter in Leo
Alert and perceptive partners in your past soon figured out that the louder you boast, the smaller you feel. Ironic, isn't it? That you, with so much to offer, can feel so puny inside? Where does that come from? Like the old song, you can spell it out in one word: R-E-S-P-E-C-T. The more you give of yourself and the more you demand from others, the less you have to boast, because your work and ideas will stand up for themselves. The better your relationships will go, too, not surprisingly. The whole respect concept is the key to success in your professional and romantic lives.You have plenty of reason to feel confident. You're a natural leader and maintain a sunny, even disposition even when everything is not running as smoothly as you'd like. Your irrepressible optimism inspires others. You stand out in a crowd and receive approval from others almost without doing anything, simply by the strength of your natural personality. When you shine your gifts on a lover, they feel like a million dollars. And that's a priceless gift.
Saturn in Virgo
When your past lovers inquired if you'd been tested for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, that should have been a red flag for you. OK, maybe you're not obsessive-compulsive, or even a neat freak. But there's a perfectionist streak inside you that's a mile wide, and even the tidiest or hardest-working person might feel oppressed by your efforts to perform up to your own impossible standards. Fastidiousness, after all, is not a virtue unless you're in a hospital or science lab, and no one but you expects you to ace that test every single time. The standards you hold for yourself are in the stratosphere, yet you struggle incessantly to fulfill them -- and if you can't, you throw a temper tantrum and then give up completely. The people who know you best can only sit back and shake their heads at you.You're not given to flights of fancy, that's for sure, but you could still lighten up a little. Stop worrying that people will think you're not good enough, or productive enough, or diligent enough. You trump everyone in those departments. Have a little faith in yourself! Once this happens, it will be easier to see the admiring glances that are cast your way. You've many fine qualities to offer if you could just learn to let things go a little bit. The sky won't fall, Chicken Little.
Uranus in Scorpio
Have you noticed that it's all the rage now to be bisexual? The world has you and your generation to thank for that; you are opening doors on new ways of being, particularly in the sexual arena. Experiences and orientations that have been taboo since forever are coming up for review. You and your peers open these areas confidently, seeking to find out what's going on behind the closed doors. You let the full light fall on subjects that were previously off-limits. In fact, you accept no limits on your sexuality; it's obvious to you that everyone should be free to love whom they want, when they want and how they want. This new way of viewing sexuality is only part of what your generation is called upon to open up; the human psyche is no less a target for your revolutionary ways. Your job is to shine the light on all areas that have been taboo up until now. The effects of the changes started by you and your peers will be long-lasting, indeed.
Neptune in Sagittarius
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
Pluto in Libra
You and your peers will revolutionize the arena of relationships and romances. As a child, you watched partnerships crumble all around you, if not your own parents', then the relationships of your friends' parents; and you decided early on that you wouldn't repeat the same pattern. You take relationships very, very seriously, and for this reason may wait to start dating or getting serious about anyone. You're not in any hurry, which provides you with enough time to understand yourself and your relationship needs. Don't delay too long, though! Fear of relationship can be just as harmful as hooking up too early. Your challenge will be in finding the right balance of independence and partnership, and in knowing how much of your personal energy to expend toward each.
Mars square Saturn
First things first: Who's been holding out in the love department? Signs point to your past partners, who've been stingy with affection at the best of times. But certain developments have practically shut the store down, and whether you're with a partner or not, you're starving for physical contact. You'll go far trying woo any sweetie within reaching distance, but it's to no avail: They're better than you at playing mind games. You're outmatched. You're going to have to iron out your problems if you'd like to move along through this field of broken dreams. One thing you should know: Much of the reason why you're off your game is that you're enacting old dramas from your past. Just who can you think of who withheld love from you in your childhood? And how did you behave, given your high hopes of evening the score? Now do you recognize why you've become what you are? You've got to start unloading your baggage, one piece a time, before you can unwind the Gordian knot of your woes. If you change your behavior, you'll change your relationships, too. But first you have some deep thinking to do.
Jupiter square UranusWhat was the old Chinese proverb? 'May you live in exciting times,' or something like that? Ah, the tales you can tell of exciting times, what with those great, frantic, rebellious sweeties you've grabbed hold of! The passion was something else, yes, oh yes, but the side-effects were brutal. You couldn't find your footing, and you were too well aware of your lovers' propensity for sudden upheaval. Life-changing decisions were made in an instant, and you were just along for the ride, for good or for bad. It has all left you feeling pretty insecure -- and perhaps even fearful that your lover may have had eyes for another. Maybe you've had a history of fidelity issues, and promises to do better next time didn't help you when your lovers were so darn unpredictable.You're in for some wild rides in your love life, but they're not without their pleasures. You'll never be bored; rather, you'll always be wide awake and ever-present for whatever your lover hands you. Trust in one thing: Your lovers don't go anywhere merely for duty's sake. If you get plenty of attention from someone, there's a reason why. Don't question. Don't worry. Just lay back and enjoy the goodies; take it while you can get it.
Venus opposite Neptune
What secrets were behind your lovers' dreamy, far-off gaze? You had no idea, really, and the mystery drove you mad. In one way it seemed so romantic to be attached to such compelling, enigmatic sweeties, but you could never figure out all their secrets. Instead, you filled the information void with your fantasies. And therein was your problem. You were not involved in something solid and real at all; instead you were locked in on a shifting miasma. Darned sexy, and lots of fun, but it's like mist, or fog; when you tried to hold on to your lover, they slipped through your hands and refused to be captured. Will you ever gain a more solid hold on your relationships? You've simply got to, because what you've had in the past has drifted away and left you empty. You've been too busy enjoying your fantasy life to try to inject any reality into your relationships. Here's your wake-up call: Start examining what you're doing with a more critical eye. There's much love yet to come for you and it's time to start facing it like an adult.
Venus quincunx Uranus
You're one who likes to handle your affairs with a light, sure touch. Others may swoon or weep in your wake, but you're the one on top, confident, smiling. That is, when you're not with a lover who flips your switch but good. Much as you hate to admit it, you keep getting lovers who do not return your amorous intentions. You were intensely drawn to these types right from the start. You ignored your good sense and went too far, too fast. Sometimes you felt helpless in the grip of a towering passion. Yet your lover wasn't similarly enthralled. Did you suspect infidelity? Did strangers call your house and hang up when you answered? Was your lover absent for unusual lengths of time?You fear all is lost in love, but this is not so. However, if you wish to hook up with a new and improved lover, you're going to have to work harder than you ever have before. You will not be able to make your ideal partner dance to your tune; instead, you will have to learn how to play it cool and not reveal how affected you are by them. Find a bird who will not sing in your cage -- and let it fly free. It will surely come back to you.
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