Wondering how the two of you match up as friends? Now you can find out, at a glance! Our two-way bar graph reveals the connection between you and your BFF -- how you affect them, and how they affect you -- giving you a quick view of the strength of your connection in six important categories.
And what are those categories? Just the ones that can make or break a friendship -- like how your core personalities mesh, how the two of you communicate and the levels of similarities you have for each other. In short, have you got what it takes to become BFF’s? The Astrologer knows! Just remember, even if you both rate high in all six categories, the friendship still might not work out...and even if you rate low, your bond can still grow solid.
What's best is when a graph shows that two people are about equal in their connection to each other. That way, no one feels left out! The bar graphs can only give you a quick peek at the chemistry of your friendship -- the rest is up to you.
Your Soul Connection with your friend is based on how your Sun connects with their personality, including their values, their outlook and what matters to them, and how their Sun connects with you. Just as the Sun is the center of the orbit of all the planets in our solar system, it's also the center of you -- your inner fire, the vital energy that will run through you your whole life. It represents your basic, core personality, separate from all the other influences that... Read more
In this bar graph, your Communicative Bond is based on how your Mercury connects with your best friend’s world view, their attitude toward friendship and how they express themselves, and on how their Mercury connects with you. Often called the planet of communication, Mercury rules your thought processes, your sense of logic, your intellectual ideas and the way you get those ideas across to the world. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top one while your BFF’s is the bottom one are very different in length, then one of you will feel mentally turned on and tuned in, but the other just won't feel the connection. If the lines are similar in length... Read more
In this bar graph, your social link with your best friend is based on how Venus, your harmony planet, connects with them at a heart level, and on how their Venus connects with you. Venus -- the sweet and affectionate planet of love, harmony and socializing -- is all about pleasure, bringing people together and uniting them in harmony, so this planet rules not just love and dating but also friendships, partnerships and any social gathering. If the lines of the graph – yours are... Read more
The excitement you have with your BFF is based on how your Mars connects with their sense of who they are, what they go after and how they express themselves, and on how their Mars connects with you in the same way. Mars rules action, your propensity for irritation, your urge to compete and succeed -- all of these fall within this powerful planet's realm. Mars affects your attitude toward friendship, and it also determines how you could argue with your bestie. If the lines of the graph – yours are on the top and theirs on the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to feel very driven by the relationship, but the other just won't feel... Read more
In this bar graph, your Beliefs and Shared Values are based on how your Jupiter connects with your best friend’s sense of what life is all about, and how their Jupiter connects with you in the same way. Jupiter is referred to as the planet of luck because it brings opportunities and advantages into your life that can seem like a stroke of luck, but are really life lessons meant to test and teach you about your own value system. This planet is also about learning... Read more
Your Long-Term Potential to become friends for life is based on how your Saturn connects with their needs, their nature and their sense of duty in life, and on how their Saturn connects with you in the same way. Saturn's influence in your chart is like that of your conscience. This planet keeps you in check, reminding you of your responsibilities -- including your commitment to your friends and family. If the lines of the graph – yours are the top one’s and theirs the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to bond fast, while the other just won't share that sense of camaraderie -- not right away, and maybe not ever.... Read more
The Harmony and Challenge Meters read the compatibility chart between you and your best friend, and reveals the levels of harmony and challenges in your friendship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between the two!
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of harmony and very little challenges, but what you really want is a mix between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And too many challenges can also ruin a friendship; without a little breathing room between fights and disagreements you'd tire each other out, fast!
Something in the middle is just the ticket. Sometimes a good argument every now and then to clear the air, and a sense of trust and understanding means you will always have each other’s back. One more word of caution before you get started... Read more
9-10: BFF's forever
7-8: You tend to finish each other's sentences
4-6: There's an easy flow between you
0-3: Sometimes it's better to agree to disagree
7-8: You've been through thick and thin together
4-6: Small disagreements here and there
0-3: Hardly ever had a disagreement!
You have great potential for a deep, long-term friendship because you're in balance with one another. You're not too similar, but you will understand each other well. That means that when one of you needs support, the other will be right there, ready and willing to give it. When one of you needs to take some alone time, the other will understand and respect that as well. This friendship will give you plenty of room to follow your muse, whether that happens on a personal, emotional level or a more public or professional one. You'll instinctively know how to allow each other room to pursue your ambitions. The only potential problem here is a minor one: You might be so relaxed and comfortable with each other that the friendship grows a little bit dull or stagnant as a result. But as long as you're careful to check in with each other about what's going on in your lives, your connection should stay warm and vital.
Together, you two will find growth and success. You'll both go through some changes as individuals that will be supported through your connection with each other. For example, one of you might choose to go back to school to advance your education, or you might change jobs in order to move onto a career path that's more closely aligned with the type of person you want to become. Your friendship will support these kinds of major life changes, as you'll each offer one another the unconditional support and encouragement that will make both of you feel optimistic, even lucky, as if you can't go wrong. You'll discuss the changes you're undergoing with each other and will listen with an open heart and an avid ear.
You'll naturally share a lot of respect for each other, and that will allow you to keep growing as individuals even as you get closer as friends. This connection will be, in part, about supporting your personal growth and helping your friend learn to lighten up a little bit. They can be a little too work- or career-oriented, but they'll learn from you how to let those things slide every now and again in order to make time for the more fun side of life. It's all about balance, isn't it? Your aims and goals in life will be a focus of this relationship, and you'll be able to help each other in meeting your individual goals. You might decide to go into business or some other enterprise together; if so, this should work out well, because you trust each other and you have complementary strengths that will come together to make an amazing team.
The feeling of friendship between you will be strong, but it will be complicated by the projections you place on each other. Your buddy will look at you and, at an unconscious level, they'll see everything they want for themselves. It's great to inspire your friend, but not if it leads to major disappointment when reality comes crashing in -- the reality that you're actually just a human being, like they are. Furthermore, there could be a confusing conflict between you that pits one or both of you against the sway of the friendship itself -- in other words, your need to maintain your independence versus your mutual wish to unite as a team. Since there's a good chance that you'll develop a deep emotional bond, you need to take steps to protect yourself from the start. If you can do that until you know more about your pal, this could grow into a strong and positive friendship.
Wow -- you two are really mentally in tune! You might find from the very start that you share a subtle, elevated kind of communicative bond. Your friend will wonder how you can know so much about them when they haven't even put most of it into words yet. You'll be highly observant of this person from the start, able to tune right in to their subtle cues and draw an accurate picture of their individual nature from comparatively little information. The trouble here lies in the possibility that they'll take that rapport and understanding for granted. Your pal may come to expect you to understand them so well that they won't think it's important to verbalize their thoughts, needs and feelings anymore. In general, though, there's not much of a downside to this bond. Your buddy will feel heard and understood, which will translate naturally to support and acceptance.
You'll have a creative connection, one that will encourage you to express yourselves in a deep and honest way. You, especially, might be used to more superficial friendships, but this person won't allow your bond to exist on anything but a deep, intense and focused level. This person will definitely encourage you to think more deeply and honestly, and the thoughts you come up with might surprise you. You'll have a strong pull on them as well, though, don't worry. You can help them to translate their more abstract, heavy theories or impressions into terms that make sense. Even more importantly, you can encourage them to lighten up from time to time. But don't try to keep things too light; that would be letting a great opportunity slip by. Instead, you should really try to keep each other motivated in pursuing all those deep, dark and interesting ideas and bringing them to light.
Inspiration and growth will be a big focus between you. Your friend knows how to dream big; they look at the future as an interesting puzzle, one they want to solve soon and with a lot of creativity. And they'll have this effect on you, helping you to see things with their sense of humor and hope. This is because you two really are similar when it comes down to your ideas and the ways your minds work. You've had a lot of life experience, and your buddy will be able to take all that you've learned through your experiences and put it toward some practical use. Don't be surprised if you end up starting a business together or writing a book -- something creative that will involve your intellect and your friend's creativity, your problem-solving skills and their street smarts. Whatever it is, it'll definitely be a success, because how could it not? As long as you two stay focused on your optimistic sense of possibility and opportunity, you'll be able to accomplish just about anything you both put your minds to.
Your friend will inspire you to express yourself more clearly and honestly. Whatever high-flying, abstract or generally not-well-founded ideas you may have, your pal will find a way to give those ideas expression and function. They'll have a sobering effect on you, helping you to stabilize your thought processes. If you normally have trouble being decisive or mapping out a path for yourself, this friendship could be just the thing you need to get serious and find direction in your life. Your communication will be strong and beneficial to you both. You'll be able to talk honestly about any problems or issues that might come up between you. And more than that, you'll make a great working team. They'll help you concentrate and separate your better ideas from your not-so-solid ones.
This aspect will muddy your communication; it will incline both of you to project a lot of potentially incorrect images onto each other, which will only lead to disappointment later on. Your friend will idealize you and the friendship; their expectations will run high, and they could lose sight of the fact that it's impossible to have perfect communication with anyone. At some level, they probably won't be entirely honest with you about themselves. This probably won't be out-and-out lying; this will be more of a failure to really tell you who they are, what they're thinking and feeling and so on -- maybe because they don't really know! They feel their way through life based on impressions and they can delude themselves pretty easily as to the nature of your friendship. This influence might not be very pronounced, but you'll still at least sense its influence. Though you could both think that your communication is wonderful due to that idealistic slant you'll put on everything, the truth may be more complicated than that.
This aspect combines your best qualities with your partner's in a fun, lively exchange that will leave both of you wanting more. You'll rarely get tired of each other's company. Your friend has a wonderful way of putting your feelings and desires into words, such that you'll feel well understood. You'll work together wonderfully, both in everyday interactions and on any creative projects that you end up taking on together. One note of caution is in order: Do try not to become so comfortable together that you start taking each other for granted. While you aren't likely to hole up together at home and burn out on each other's company, things could go so smoothly between you that you'll stop making the effort to keep your connection vibrant. Still, yours will be a fun-loving bond that only gets better with time.
There will always be an undercurrent of competition and combativeness between you, but it could be more than just a feeling. Something about your friend's personality will rub you the wrong way, and elicit passionate reactions from you that may surprise even you. And you'll rub them the wrong way, too; your drives and ambitions will seem off-target to them, and you can bet you'll have more than a few disagreements about your goals and how you move toward them. Needless to say, these frustrations could easily mount and spell the end of the friendship, but it doesn't have to be that way. This connection could, in fact, teach both of you to be far more patient, compromising and compassionate than you've been in the past. If this friend means something to you, you can probably work things out, but it will take effort as will as humility and self-control.
This aspect will lend you an element of competition that will spark all your interactions. Whether you're on the same team or opposing ones; whether you're playing a game, having an argument, talking about a movie you saw -- you'll push each other to say what you really mean, to focus your energies and efforts and get more done than you would have on your own. There will be your friend's opinionated nature to contend with, of course; they'll have their own ideas and they'll stand right by them, often at the expense of listening to you. But over time, as you grow to trust and like each other more, you'll allow that helpful influence to start seeping in. You'll challenge each other on your beliefs, which will help you to better define them. If you work together as a team, you'll find that the slightly challenging energy between you will spark creative action.
You two may not treat each other as equals. Your friend will usually try to take the leadership position, telling you what to do and how to do it, and that will inspire a rebellious reaction in you. Don't they realize that you like to be in the lead? When you get excited about something, your pal will try to repress that enthusiasm like water dousing a flame. You'll focus too much on respectability versus rebellion, outrageous behavior versus good manners and following the rules. You'll always seem to be on opposite sides of the fence, and the tension will mount until you're both forced to abandon any pretense or hope that you can control each other's behavior. Otherwise, you'll find yourselves being passive-aggressive or even openly aggressive. You two must make the effort to treat each other with respect.
Your communication will be strong and you'll inspire each other and challenge each other to think in brand-new ways, stretching your minds past what you previously thought possible. Your biggest dreams will appeal to your friend's natural curiosity, and they'll instantly start to devise ways to make your dreams a reality. Your expansiveness and natural yearning to learn will serve as an example for them of how to loosen up their own thinking. In conversation, you'll roam together from one subject to another, and you'll find fun ways to root out any narrow thinking and open your buddy's mind to new theories. In return, they'll help you ground your philosophies in fact and logic, shaping your values into something realistic and workable. Absorbing completely new ways of thinking will make for quite a stimulating friendship.
Though individually you might focus on your dreams and ideals for the future, together, you'll have a restrictive, inhibitive effect on each other's ability to attain those ideals. Whenever you have a bright, creative, high-flying idea about a goal that you want to meet, your pal will tend to bring it down with an overly sober explanation of everything that might go wrong. And whenever they're trying to be serious about working hard toward one of their goals, you'll be off somewhere, refusing to focus or get serious with them. Neither of you deserves to have your sense of responsibility challenged or your joie de vivre stripped away. So your task in this friendship will be to learn how to move forward and achieve your goals, even in the face of a challenge from this friend. It might not be a fun process, but it could be a very important step in developing your own strength and determination.
You'll work well as a team, bringing complementary strengths to the table, and you'll help each other accomplish whatever you set your minds to. Better yet, you'll keep each other from becoming complacent in the natural security that will characterize your friendship. You'll be a hardworking team, focused on meeting your goals. You'll work hard together, keeping your eyes on the prize, and best of all, you'll get to enjoy the fruits of all that honest labor. You'll both want the same level of security and you'll have the same idea about how to make it happen. You'll have complementary ideas of how to be a disciplined and responsible human being, and you'll cooperate with each other very well -- which would make you wonderful business partners as well as buddies.
Your friend is the more natural, spontaneous person in this friendship, and you'll both feel an increasing amount of tension as a result. They will come to feel as if they have to suppress their natural self-expression, which will be a bit depressing for them; it may even chip away at their self-esteem, because your reaction may translate to them as disapproval or even distaste. That's not what's going on, of course; for you, it's be more about needing to feel secure before you can start relaxing into a more natural, spontaneous ways of expressing yourself. But the day-to-day reality of your friendship may blow hot and cold. Sometimes you'll feel like there's a barrier between you that even the best of intentions can't cross. If you decide to, you'll be able to work on this together and become more trusting and in sync over time.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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