Wondering how the two of you match up as friends? Now you can find out, at a glance! Our two-way bar graph reveals the connection between you and your BFF -- how you affect them, and how they affect you -- giving you a quick view of the strength of your connection in six important categories.
And what are those categories? Just the ones that can make or break a friendship -- like how your core personalities mesh, how the two of you communicate and the levels of similarities you have for each other. In short, have you got what it takes to become BFF’s? The Astrologer knows! Just remember, even if you both rate high in all six categories, the friendship still might not work out...and even if you rate low, your bond can still grow solid.
What's best is when a graph shows that two people are about equal in their connection to each other. That way, no one feels left out! The bar graphs can only give you a quick peek at the chemistry of your friendship -- the rest is up to you.
Your Soul Connection with your friend is based on how your Sun connects with their personality, including their values, their outlook and what matters to them, and how their Sun connects with you. Just as the Sun is the center of the orbit of all the planets in our solar system, it's also the center of you -- your inner fire, the vital energy that will run through you your whole life. It represents your basic, core personality, separate from all the other influences that... Read more
In this bar graph, your Communicative Bond is based on how your Mercury connects with your best friend’s world view, their attitude toward friendship and how they express themselves, and on how their Mercury connects with you. Often called the planet of communication, Mercury rules your thought processes, your sense of logic, your intellectual ideas and the way you get those ideas across to the world. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top one while your BFF’s is the bottom one are very different in length, then one of you will feel mentally turned on and tuned in, but the other just won't feel the connection. If the lines are similar in length... Read more
In this bar graph, your social link with your best friend is based on how Venus, your harmony planet, connects with them at a heart level, and on how their Venus connects with you. Venus -- the sweet and affectionate planet of love, harmony and socializing -- is all about pleasure, bringing people together and uniting them in harmony, so this planet rules not just love and dating but also friendships, partnerships and any social gathering. If the lines of the graph – yours are... Read more
The excitement you have with your BFF is based on how your Mars connects with their sense of who they are, what they go after and how they express themselves, and on how their Mars connects with you in the same way. Mars rules action, your propensity for irritation, your urge to compete and succeed -- all of these fall within this powerful planet's realm. Mars affects your attitude toward friendship, and it also determines how you could argue with your bestie. If the lines of the graph – yours are on the top and theirs on the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to feel very driven by the relationship, but the other just won't feel... Read more
In this bar graph, your Beliefs and Shared Values are based on how your Jupiter connects with your best friend’s sense of what life is all about, and how their Jupiter connects with you in the same way. Jupiter is referred to as the planet of luck because it brings opportunities and advantages into your life that can seem like a stroke of luck, but are really life lessons meant to test and teach you about your own value system. This planet is also about learning... Read more
Your Long-Term Potential to become friends for life is based on how your Saturn connects with their needs, their nature and their sense of duty in life, and on how their Saturn connects with you in the same way. Saturn's influence in your chart is like that of your conscience. This planet keeps you in check, reminding you of your responsibilities -- including your commitment to your friends and family. If the lines of the graph – yours are the top one’s and theirs the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to bond fast, while the other just won't share that sense of camaraderie -- not right away, and maybe not ever.... Read more
The Harmony and Challenge Meters read the compatibility chart between you and your best friend, and reveals the levels of harmony and challenges in your friendship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between the two!
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of harmony and very little challenges, but what you really want is a mix between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And too many challenges can also ruin a friendship; without a little breathing room between fights and disagreements you'd tire each other out, fast!
Something in the middle is just the ticket. Sometimes a good argument every now and then to clear the air, and a sense of trust and understanding means you will always have each other’s back. One more word of caution before you get started... Read more
9-10: BFF's forever
7-8: You tend to finish each other's sentences
4-6: There's an easy flow between you
0-3: Sometimes it's better to agree to disagree
9-10: Frenemies?
7-8: You've been through thick and thin together
4-6: Small disagreements here and there
0-3: Hardly ever had a disagreement!
Yours will be an exciting and unusual friendship. You are very different from each other and find much enjoyment in these differences. You in particular could be very influenced by this friend to branch out of your usual sphere of existence. Trying new experiences, with new people and in new places could well be a theme of your time together. This friend may introduce you to a whole new circle of friends and related events. It's entirely possible your life will be changed by your companion, so do pay attention when they come around! As long as you avoid anything dangerous or foolhardy, you'll find that your life is more fun, adventurous and exciting by having your friend in it. You'll go places you would never have gone on your own.
There will be plenty of liveliness between you two, but it's probably best if you hang out in small doses. You'll start out sensing the high level of rivalry between you very clearly, and the more you get to know each other, the more annoyed you'll feel with each other. There's a lot of competitive energy here that needs an outlet, but it's possible that you'll always just rub each other the wrong way. Arguments could be frequent occurrences, and you may feel that this person doesn't see or support you. Annoyance will be almost unavoidable for your buddy, who will be the more aggressive and impatient of the two of you. If you can both focus your energy toward doing active things together and make it a point to give and take equally, you'll be able to work through any problems that arise.
You two will instinctively know when to make a compromise in order to keep things harmonious between you. It's not that you'll be a pushover when it comes to your friend; you'll certainly stand up for your position when it's truly important. Harmony will be a focus between you, an ideal that you'll work hard to attain together. You won't want to argue with each other. You'll strive to be supportive of each other and to show each other that you care. You will be creative in the expression of your feelings and you'll work hard to keep the friendship strong. You could even end up being the pals that all your other friends will envy! If you end up meeting face to face, you'll have an active social life. Traveling together or working on a creative project will go well, because you'll always take care to deal with one another kindly and gently. Just make sure that you don't become so comfortable together that you become complacent! Even the best of friendships needs nurturing.
Wow -- you two are really mentally in tune! You might find from the very start that you share a subtle, elevated kind of communicative bond. Your friend will wonder how you can know so much about them when they haven't even put most of it into words yet. You'll be highly observant of this person from the start, able to tune right in to their subtle cues and draw an accurate picture of their individual nature from comparatively little information. The trouble here lies in the possibility that they'll take that rapport and understanding for granted. Your pal may come to expect you to understand them so well that they won't think it's important to verbalize their thoughts, needs and feelings anymore. In general, though, there's not much of a downside to this bond. Your buddy will feel heard and understood, which will translate naturally to support and acceptance.
You two think about things in similar ways, which is a great basis on which to develop a friendship. Even if you have different opinions, you'll have a great time debating the sides of the issue. You'll enjoy picking each other's brains from the very beginning, and you'll come to depend on your friend's perspective. Even when your thinking is different, you'll complement one another well. You'll both feel as if you're on the same intellectual plane, or at least complementary ones. You won't worry about your pal's ability to understand something that you want to discuss, or that they're smarter than you. You'll both know that you're both intelligent individuals with your own mental strengths, and you'll like the way your minds work together. So don't stay on the superficial level. Go ahead and bring up controversial subjects; dig deeply into each other's minds, because that's a major connection between you.
Lively communications will be the highlight of your friendship with this person. You'll have a mental connection and enjoy all types of discussion, comment, and debate. Things could get quite heated -- in a friendly way, of course -- especially if either of you has strong opinions about any specific subject. You will also enjoy physical activity together, especially if you can converse as well as move together. Bike rides, hikes, or any activity that permits you to engage mentally as well as physically will help you build your companionship and connection. You'll enjoy games of all types together, as there is a very playful aspect to your friendship that you'll both find enjoyable.
The beauty of this friendship will embrace you -- it will simply exist on its own, seemingly without input or nurturing from either of you. What a gift! You'll have a strong foundation of sympathy and affection to draw from. There will be a dreamy quality to your time together, and you're likely to feel very comfortable with one another, as if you've known each other a long time. You could influence each other to be quite fanciful and romantic, and your friend may actually hold quite a bit of sway over you, or vice versa. Though your imagination will be stimulated by this influence, which is generally a good thing, it will also be important to ground yourself in reality from time to time. You'll have to come out of that dream world sometime!
When it comes to getting along naturally as a friends, this aspect could make it difficult or even impossible. Lots of times, your friend will look down on your looks, your values or your relationships with other people. They can actually make you feel really insecure in these areas, and as a result, you'll feel very self-conscious around them. The likelihood is that you'll both feel uncomfortable. Your pal will try to control your behavior, both in private and in public. When you're together, you'll feel overly serious and rigid, as if there are outside forces pushing in on you, trying to making you behave in a certain way. Your friend will try to direct you in a way that makes it hard to get along, and they'll try to restrain your natural way of being outgoing and affectionate. In order to have a fun, friendly relationship, you'll both have to learn to like and respect each other despite your differences.
This aspect will lend you an element of competition that will spark all your interactions. Whether you're on the same team or opposing ones; whether you're playing a game, having an argument, talking about a movie you saw -- you'll push each other to say what you really mean, to focus your energies and efforts and get more done than you would have on your own. There will be your friend's opinionated nature to contend with, of course; they'll have their own ideas and they'll stand right by them, often at the expense of listening to you. But over time, as you grow to trust and like each other more, you'll allow that helpful influence to start seeping in. You'll challenge each other on your beliefs, which will help you to better define them. If you work together as a team, you'll find that the slightly challenging energy between you will spark creative action.
Your ideals and beliefs will be aligned. Together, you'll search for meaning in your lives, and you'll understand and support this search in each other. You'll feel as if you've come together for a purpose -- to figure out something big about your lives and your futures -- and you could be right! You'll both want to expand your minds and your horizons, and that's something you'll be able to do as friends. You'll inspire each other, and help each other to find yourselves. Your individual purposes in life could become more clear through the course of this relationship than they've ever been to you before, and you'll support each other in finding your way along your paths. Learning and education will be highlighted for you, and the optimism you'll bring to each other's lives will inspire self-confidence in both of you.
The feeling of support will that will grow between you, especially on your part, will help you both to accomplish something big during the course of your friendship. Your buddy will offer you a lot of emotional support for your ideas, and in return, you'll help them to understand the changes they'll go through as a human being throughout your friendship. You're already attuned to making personal changes, so you won't be surprised by the transformations and experiences you'll go through as a friends. Your buddy will be affected by the whole experience and they'll be grateful for your influence in their life.
Your friend will have a handle on the more emotional and spiritual side of human experience, and they'll invite you into their world. They'll be enlivened by your natural optimism and spontaneity and they'll offer you their own compassion and emotional support in return. Though you're more of a thinker and they're more of a feeler, your two approaches to experiencing life will actually be complementary, and with this influence between you, you won't lack for a sense of commonality in your friendship. Your individual gifts -- your intellectual keenness, your sense of values and your pal's emotional depths -- will combine to teach each other about living life in a fuller way. If you both stay motivated toward personal growth together, this could be a really important friendship for both of you.
This aspect won't make things easy between you. Overtly, it'll feel to your chum as if you're a restrictive influence on the way that they would normally, naturally grow in their life; but subconsciously, it could be quite the opposite. Whether consciously or not, you'll each know just what the other needs to do to transform in life. Some big, deep-rooted need for change exists in each of you, and your friend, especially, will ferret that out, perhaps without even meaning to. Whatever it is that you need to do to get to the next level of person-hood, your friend will zero in on it and press those buttons again and again. The problem is, having your buttons pushed can be really frustrating and annoying! But, the more you mature and grow, the less bothersome it will be.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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