Wondering how the two of you match up as friends? Now you can find out, at a glance! Our two-way bar graph reveals the connection between you and your BFF -- how you affect them, and how they affect you -- giving you a quick view of the strength of your connection in six important categories.
And what are those categories? Just the ones that can make or break a friendship -- like how your core personalities mesh, how the two of you communicate and the levels of similarities you have for each other. In short, have you got what it takes to become BFF’s? The Astrologer knows! Just remember, even if you both rate high in all six categories, the friendship still might not work out...and even if you rate low, your bond can still grow solid.
What's best is when a graph shows that two people are about equal in their connection to each other. That way, no one feels left out! The bar graphs can only give you a quick peek at the chemistry of your friendship -- the rest is up to you.
Your Soul Connection with your friend is based on how your Sun connects with their personality, including their values, their outlook and what matters to them, and how their Sun connects with you. Just as the Sun is the center of the orbit of all the planets in our solar system, it's also the center of you -- your inner fire, the vital energy that will run through you your whole life. It represents your basic, core personality, separate from all the other influences that... Read more
In this bar graph, your Communicative Bond is based on how your Mercury connects with your best friend’s world view, their attitude toward friendship and how they express themselves, and on how their Mercury connects with you. Often called the planet of communication, Mercury rules your thought processes, your sense of logic, your intellectual ideas and the way you get those ideas across to the world. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top one while your BFF’s is the bottom one are very different in length, then one of you will feel mentally turned on and tuned in, but the other just won't feel the connection. If the lines are similar in length... Read more
In this bar graph, your social link with your best friend is based on how Venus, your harmony planet, connects with them at a heart level, and on how their Venus connects with you. Venus -- the sweet and affectionate planet of love, harmony and socializing -- is all about pleasure, bringing people together and uniting them in harmony, so this planet rules not just love and dating but also friendships, partnerships and any social gathering. If the lines of the graph – yours are... Read more
The excitement you have with your BFF is based on how your Mars connects with their sense of who they are, what they go after and how they express themselves, and on how their Mars connects with you in the same way. Mars rules action, your propensity for irritation, your urge to compete and succeed -- all of these fall within this powerful planet's realm. Mars affects your attitude toward friendship, and it also determines how you could argue with your bestie. If the lines of the graph – yours are on the top and theirs on the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to feel very driven by the relationship, but the other just won't feel... Read more
In this bar graph, your Beliefs and Shared Values are based on how your Jupiter connects with your best friend’s sense of what life is all about, and how their Jupiter connects with you in the same way. Jupiter is referred to as the planet of luck because it brings opportunities and advantages into your life that can seem like a stroke of luck, but are really life lessons meant to test and teach you about your own value system. This planet is also about learning... Read more
Your Long-Term Potential to become friends for life is based on how your Saturn connects with their needs, their nature and their sense of duty in life, and on how their Saturn connects with you in the same way. Saturn's influence in your chart is like that of your conscience. This planet keeps you in check, reminding you of your responsibilities -- including your commitment to your friends and family. If the lines of the graph – yours are the top one’s and theirs the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to bond fast, while the other just won't share that sense of camaraderie -- not right away, and maybe not ever.... Read more
The Harmony and Challenge Meters read the compatibility chart between you and your best friend, and reveals the levels of harmony and challenges in your friendship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between the two!
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of harmony and very little challenges, but what you really want is a mix between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And too many challenges can also ruin a friendship; without a little breathing room between fights and disagreements you'd tire each other out, fast!
Something in the middle is just the ticket. Sometimes a good argument every now and then to clear the air, and a sense of trust and understanding means you will always have each other’s back. One more word of caution before you get started... Read more
9-10: BFF's forever
7-8: You tend to finish each other's sentences
4-6: There's an easy flow between you
0-3: Sometimes it's better to agree to disagree
9-10: Frenemies?
7-8: You've been through thick and thin together
4-6: Small disagreements here and there
0-3: Hardly ever had a disagreement!
Sun sextile Sun
What fun! You'll really get along from the start. Your individual natures are complementary, but not overly similar. Translation? You'll be able to appreciate one another's strengths, make up for one another's weaknesses and still maintain your own individuality that is so essential to a healthy soul, as well as a healthy friendship. This is all fine for a casual friendship, but it also means there's great potential for a very strong connection, due to your natural rapport and understanding. There will be a real and powerful feeling of optimism created between you, possibly greater than any similar feeling you can create on your own. You'll instinctively trust each other. You'll encourage each other in all your endeavors, both personal and professional. You two will make good and supportive pals to one another, and you'll both value that connection. What a wonderful foundation for a friendship!
Sun opposite Jupiter
Your friendship will be strong from the first time you hang out, a feeling that will come from some basic differences between you that will create awareness on a variety of levels. Your friend has a way of bringing you information, experience and ideas that can radically increase your perspective. You, on the other hand, ask the hard questions that force your buddy to articulate and clarify their position. This interaction springs from a natural curiosity that arises between you, allowing you to play the devil's advocate for each other. Your opposing ideas and beliefs create sparks, high-spirited conversations that you'll both enjoy and that will expand your mutual perceptions. This is a friendship that can lead to great personal growth as well as increased tolerance and understanding of others.
Sun square Uranus
You'll have some conflict from time to time. At first it might be mild and occasional, but as time goes on, you'll go head to head more and more often. You two have some basic and important differences when it comes to how you think life should be lived. You're a bit more traditional than your pal, and they can seem unstable and unpredictable. You'll fight over issues of responsibility, morals and other subjects. If you're lucky, you'll be able to laugh at yourselves and each other, but these arguments could turn into painful disagreements that affect your friendship. Each of you will be subtly trying to dominate the other, and that will lead to some major clashes. This is a very unstable and difficult aspect to deal with, and it will take plenty of patience on both your parts to get past it.
Mercury sextile Uranus
Your conversations won't follow the usual tracks. Instead of talking about your likes and dislikes, your jobs and families and so on, you'll get off on wild tangents that will have both of you laughing and really appreciating each other's company! And the better you get to know each other, the more this will be true. You'll come up with ideas together and with just a little extra planning, you'll put them to work. You'll make a great team, since you each have your own unique gifts to add to the mix. You'll put form and function to your friend's abstract ideas, combining your practicality with their vision to create a whole that's larger than the sum of its parts. So use this influence for something big: a creative project, a scientific discovery, an invention -- something that will change the world as you know it. You'll fan the flames of each other's fire, breathe life into each other's unconscious minds... What a great, creative influence! The possibilities will be limited only by your imaginations, so make the most of this connection.
Venus trine Mercury
This aspect combines your best qualities with your partner's in a fun, lively exchange that will leave both of you wanting more. You'll rarely get tired of each other's company. Your friend has a wonderful way of putting your feelings and desires into words, such that you'll feel well understood. You'll work together wonderfully, both in everyday interactions and on any creative projects that you end up taking on together. One note of caution is in order: Do try not to become so comfortable together that you start taking each other for granted. While you aren't likely to hole up together at home and burn out on each other's company, things could go so smoothly between you that you'll stop making the effort to keep your connection vibrant. Still, yours will be a fun-loving bond that only gets better with time.
Venus trine Uranus
There will be a feeling of uniqueness and originality to your friendship. This will be a really creative and social relationship for you. You'll have a lot of fun together, whether you end up meeting in person or just continue this friendship online. You'll feel like you've never known anyone like this before, but it will be more accurate to say no one has ever made you feel so original. If you meet face to face, you'll end up going out a lot together, and you'll get into a lot of mischief, fun and crazy adventures that way. Strange and amazing things will happen when you're together, things you won't expect -- things that will make great stories for many years to come. Just your presence in each other's lives will spark things up for both of you, so have a great time!
Mars trine Neptune
With this kind of influence between you, you could accomplish a lot together, because it pairs your practical drive with your pal's creative ideas. They'll inspire you to move to a whole new level in your thinking, and perhaps even transform yourself at an emotional or spiritual level. You'll become more in tune with yourself, your intuitions and your deeper motivations through the course of this friendship. And in return, you'll offer your pal all your energy, enthusiasm and support. Just be sure to stay communicative with each other, even when things get murky. A feeling of confusion could mark your bond. But if you take care to be very, very clear with each other and encourage each other in your self-expression, you'll find that you'll gain a new perspective on life and the world you live in. You'll open each other's minds to new horizons.
Mars sextile Mercury
As you begin getting to know each other, you'll both feel excited and energized due to the dynamic nature of your communication. Your conversations will exhilarate you. You'll be able to talk about anything and everything; you'll assert your opinions and get to know yourselves better even as you learn more about each other. Your friend will feed off your energy, and you'll learn a lot from the way their mind works. You'll push them to think in livelier, more adventurous ways. They'll encourage you to define your ideas and base them in sound logic. Under your influence, your friend will become more assertive and animated about expressing themselves. This dynamic is likely to be a lot of fun for both of you, even if your debates take a frustrating turn!
Mars square Venus
There will be a certain amount of tension between you that makes your friendship frustrating for both of you. You'll feel attracted to your friend, but they'll also get under your skin in a big way. They're likely to think you're more than a little annoying. They may see the way you express yourself as tactless; your behavior in social situations could get on their nerves or even offend or embarrass them, even though you're simply being yourself. Part of what they're perceiving may be the simple fact that they care more than you do about what other people think. You may be less concerned with social grace than they are, and there's nothing wrong with that; but it does speak to the fact that certain basic personality differences between you will figure large in how you get along together.
Mars square Mars
Without plenty of harmonizing aspects to promote good feelings between you, this aspect could be real trouble in your friendship because of the hostile energy it will create. When you're around each other, you'll feel excited and touchy, ready to react to anything your friend does or says, and even to imagined slights. Your basic approach to life, to how you get things done on a day by day basis, will be at odds. You'll both take things so personally; in a sense, you'll have the effect of poison ivy on each other -- a spreading irritation that only seems to get worse with time. When arguments arise, you'll both get hostile and defensive fast, even if that's not your normal nature. You'll feel the tension in your bodies when you're together, and it will be hard to relax. Exercising extreme patience will be the only way to get through this difficult influence, but this aspect will make patience almost unattainable.
Mars opposite Jupiter
The energy between you will have to find a good outlet, because there will be a lot of it! This aspect will be exciting, and its influence will probably end up being good for both of you. You'll certainly have a big effect on each other. Your friend might act as your cheerleader in a sort of exuberant way that could go overboard at times. They'll push you to say what you really mean; they'll help you focus your energies and efforts and get more done than you would have on your own. At the same time, they might go too far: They'll have big ideas and dreams that could be beyond the scope of what you can actually accomplish together. If you work together as a team, you'll find that the slightly challenging energy between you will spark creative action, even if you tend to go off on unrealistic tangents once in a while. If you try, you'll be able to learn how to curb the recklessness and focus your otherwise scattershot energies.
Jupiter square Sun
Your core values and beliefs aren't very compatible with your friend's personality, and you may both experience some resulting tension as you get to know each other better. The ways in which you ordinarily learn and expand your horizons will run counter to the ways in which your friend naturally behaves and expresses themselves, and you'll both feel limited as a result of this disconnect. You just have different ideas, both of which deserve respect. At a deeper level, your beliefs may somehow seem threatening to your buddy, but you are likely to simply brush any concerns aside, opting instead for blind optimism -- which isn't always as helpful as it may seem. Open, honest communication will be necessary here.
Jupiter opposite SaturnYou'll often take opposing sides on achieving any goal or moving forward into the future, and this could create some tension between you. You're the dreamer, but your friend's overly serious, even pessimistic outlook will have a dampening effect on your creative spirit. Part of the problem will be that you'll represent things to each other that each of you lacks: Your friend lacks your optimistic outlook and your ability to seize opportunities, and you lack their focus and dedication to hard work. If you could figure out how to blend your individual strengths, then you'd really get somewhere as a team. Instead of looking at your buddy as being limited and overly focused on responsibility, look on those qualities as strengths. And what looks to them like carelessness on your part is actually an unquenchable spirit, an optimistic streak a mile wide. Change the way you look at each other and you'll stand a greater chance of blending your strengths.
Jupiter square Pluto
You'll want to cooperate with each other, but instead, somehow, you'll get into power struggles. The intensity of this aspect can be mitigated by other, softer ones that will promote harmony between you, but in general, this one will be hard to deal with. Your friend will try, consciously or subconsciously, to force you to change, because your methods of processing the world and your place in it won't match up with theirs. You're much more intellectual about things than they are, whereas they act more from the gut. You'll both take your own side in a serious and dogmatic way, clinging to your own beliefs so fervently that you could forget there's any other way of experiencing the world. In some big ways, you'll disagree. Challenges like this can be really hard to deal with and could make you feel divided. On the other hand, this friendship could push you to define yourself in ways that you've never thought of before.
Saturn trine Mercury
You'll have a sobering influence on your friend's thought processes. In conversation, you'll encourage them not just to skim the surface of a subject or an idea, but to grasp its details and complexity. If they tend to zip from one idea to the next like a butterfly, never stopping for long at any one, you'll help them learn to focus and explore in a more purposeful way. You'll also offer them sound advice for dealing with issues in their life. You'll help them to take life more seriously and to recognize which subjects and situations merit a more probing investigation. You can show them how to take their high-flying or abstract ideas and ground them in a workable, well-functioning framework, to make them more lasting as well as more accessible to the world around them.
Saturn trine Uranus
Two such opposite people shouldn't get along as well as you two will. But you will get along well. In fact, each of you will derive a lot of benefits from the other's way of doing things. If there's any tension generated by your differences, it should be a creative type of tension that will actually further your purposes. Your friend will bring their spontaneous, high-flying creativity to the table, and you'll bring your sensible, levelheaded approach to any problem. You'll be able to blend your strengths into one. This friend will be able to jostle you out of any rigidity with their spontaneity and enthusiasm for life. In return, you'll ground their sometimes off-the-wall ideas.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
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