Monthly Romantic Destiny Forecast

Mars trine Uranus

Fun self-discovery

Before 10/14/2024 to Oct 14

You are in the mood to break right out of your routine and experience something, and someone, new. You'll be attracted to some very unusual people during the three weeks of this transit; don't be surprised if you go on some dates with people you never would have thought in a million years that you'd be into! The best part is, you'll have a great time. You'll probably get up to some funny antics with whoever you choose to hang out with during this time; dinner-and-a-movie dates will be out the window in favor of anything active, anything different -- laughing your head off while racing Go-Karts, maybe, or taking a couples' swing dance lesson and getting to experience your potential sweetie on that physical level. Whatever inhibitions or hang-ups you may have regarding romance will also be tossed out the window during this period; you're like a snake that has shed its skin -- brand-new to the world, basking in the sunny light of possibility. You'll also have the unique ability at this time to tune out all the pessimism and the nay sayers in your life, so you can take great strides toward living in a new, freer way.

Uranus trine Mars

In pursuit of action

Before 10/14/2024 to Nov 13

This is the perfect time to take control of your love life. Your confidence is on high, and you're in the mood to get out there and have a great time. Even if you've had some challenging romantic experiences in the past, you're not beaten down; in fact, you're stronger now, because you know more about what you want in love and how to get it. When a certain, special someone catches your eye during this one-year period, you're not likely to sit back and wait for them to notice you; instead, you're going to make contact, and they'll be impressed by your take-charge attitude. Everyone likes to feel pursued, after all! Any relationship you enter into during this period will be a unique and unusual one. You don't want to do things the same old way; you've got exciting new ideas about fun dates and innovative ways to get to know someone better. Instead of going to an action-adventure flick, you want to live and breathe the action yourself; you might ask a date to go bungee jumping or go-cart riding with you, or something equally fun and active. Along with that taste for action comes a quick temper, so watch what you say to a potential sweetie.

Mercury sextile Mercury

On the same wavelength

From Oct 15 to Oct 17

You could find someone during this 10 day transit with whom you really match up well on an intellectual level. Whether you'll make a romantic connection remains to be seen; this transit is all about a meeting of the minds, and easing communication and connection between you and someone special. It's an especially good time to tell someone you like them, or just to talk about what you're looking for in love and see if it goes with the hopes and desires of that special someone you've got your eye on. Chances are good that you'll complement each other well on a mental level, but even if you don't, you'll be okay with that. You're feeling very levelheaded and centered during this period, and you're reading all the right signals. If you're attracted to someone who turns out not to be The One, you'll be fine and you know it. This is all about reaching out to people and making a connection, so you won't waste time when the connection just isn't there. But odds are, it will be. You'll discuss the weighty subjects with your potential sweetie, including past relationships, your families and so on, and you'll both feel closer, with this great foundation for a romance in place.

Jupiter trine Pluto

Life of the party

From Oct 18 to Nov 13 | Exact: Nov 10, 2024

You could become the in-demand hot property during this four-month transit, receiving all kinds of invitations for dates, parties or at least flirtations with new and interested people. To let it go to your head would be a mistake; instead of getting comfy with your newly jammed social calendar, you should look for the deeper significance in your increased social life. Is it because you're any hotter, smarter or friendlier than you were before? No, probably not -- at least, not under the surface; at your core, you're still the same person you were a month or a year ago. But you may take big strides at this time toward personal betterment, because you've got a really good, insightful perspective on yourself and your own life now. Whatever you've been doing wrong when it comes to dating and romance, you can change it now; and whatever you've been doing right, you can emphasize. So don't just stop at being happy with your increased popularity, because popularity fades like the sunset. Look for the deeper meaning in whatever you experience at this time; you'll probably come up with something amazing about the big picture of your life.

Venus trine Jupiter

Lucky in love

From Oct 18 to Oct 23 | Exact: Oct 22, 2024

Too bad this transit is so short -- its intensity will only last a few days -- because it's such a pleasant and fun one. During this week-long period, you feel great: content with yourself, attractive, happy with your life. There's no better position from which to start a new relationship than from a feeling of contentment. In fact, you could get lucky during this period. No, not in that way! Although, it is a possibility. But luck in general will find its way to you, and you could meet someone you're very taken with during this time. You'll spread the wealth, bringing your confidence and good mood to any party, date or get-together and making everyone around you feel great as well. Even if no one special has caught your eye, you could go out with friends, and you'll be so fun and witty that you'll catch someone's eye without even meaning or trying to. In itself, the energy of this transit isn't enough to bring on The One or True Love; but you'll have a great time anyway, and those things are certainly a possibility. This is definitely a good time to make contact with that special someone.

Mercury sextile Saturn

The heart of the matter

From Oct 20 to Oct 22 | Exact: Oct 22, 2024

You've got discerning tastes during this transit, and that's a positive thing. You won't want to go out with just anyone; if you've got your eye on someone special, it's likely that they're actually worth getting to know, because your instincts are spot-on now. Sure, you might come across as a bit methodical (read: dull) to a potential lover. But it's just that you're serious about finding the person that's right for you, and you don't want to waste time on ridiculous small talk or chitchat when you could be getting to the heart of the matter. This sober energy might encourage you to plan out just how you'll meet someone special and how your relationship is going to go, and you're so patient and determined, you might actually make it happen! You've got old, failed relationships and past mistakes in mind in a constructive way at this time. You've learned from your mistakes and you're determined not to repeat them, and this transit offers you a wonderful opportunity to break out of old, bad habits in relating to people you're attracted to. Feel free to ask serious questions when you're out on a date or talking with your potential sweetie. You're in a mood to get the answers you seek.

Sun sextile Mercury

A sparkling wit

From Oct 21 to Oct 25 | Exact: Oct 25, 2024

Your unique personality and individuality are shining during this one-week period, which makes it a wonderful time to get in touch with someone new. You're in a great space to impress just about anyone, and you're open to unusual ideas and different types of people. Your mind is humming and your personality is sparkling; if you were a car, you'd be fresh from a tune-up and a detail wash, and ready to go! You command respect right now, and you'll draw people to you with your charisma and your charm. That's right -- your communicative ease will translate during this period to an effervescent appeal that will delight your admirers. So if you're normally shy, take advantage of this transit! Write an email that will showcase your unique wit and perspective; ask that special someone out on a date, and make it an activity that encourages conversation. Something fun and lively is just up your alley; live music, a Bingo game, whatever it is, as long as it's out and among the people -- and not too noisy to get to know each other -- you'll both have a great time. Don't be surprised if your conversation lasts long past time to go home.

Mercury sextile Mars

A good time to reach out

From Oct 25 to Oct 28 | Exact: Oct 28, 2024

You can get to know someone really well during this 10-day transit, because your mind is sharp, your energy is on high and you're reaching out into the world in an active way. This is the perfect time to call someone up or email them and ask them out on a date. You could talk all night! You'll make a real impression on that special someone at this time, because you're feeling good, strong and confident, really centered and in tune with yourself. You won't play nice with them; you'll be yourself, which means that if you have any differences of opinion, you'll go ahead and say so. You're able to be tactful now, though, so you won't come across as combative, contrary or overly opinionated. Instead, you'll seem intelligent, because you are! Your mind is sharp and you're eager to make a mental connection. Will this be a meeting of the minds? Maybe so! So if someone catches your eye during this period, reach out to them. If no one special pops up, you can still make the most of this transit by going out with friends or even by updating your dating profile with all the clever things you'll dream up.

Mercury sextile Sun

Reach out and connect

From Oct 26 to Oct 28

You feel vital and in touch with yourself during this one-week transit, connected with all the parts of your personality that are the best and brightest. You're energetic and outgoing at this time, too, and you want to reach out to all the fun and interesting people and possibilities that surround you. So do it! You're talkative now, able both to communicate yourself and what you're looking for in a mate as well as to listen to someone else and help them feel heard and supported. You can make a great connection with someone at this time if you want. Anyone you reach out to during this period will love talking with you, because you're so able to understand them and to access their inner feelings and thoughts. You're able to do the same with yourself. You might stay up all night talking to that special someone on the phone, or exchanging email after email! You'll talk about your past relationships and your hopes for the future, and it will all help you to understand each other and yourselves better. What a great, friendly, energetic foundation for a relationship. Especially if you're ordinarily shy, take this opportunity to reach out and connect.

Venus sextile Pluto

Bringing someone closer

From Oct 30 to Nov 2 | Exact: Nov 2, 2024

You really want a romantic union during this transit -- not in a needy way, just in a way of knowing yourself and your desires. You want to be part of a loving, committed couple, and the fact that you're so in touch with those feelings at this time will help you make it happen. If you do get involved with someone now, don't be surprised if it's a really intense relationship, full of emotional highs and lows! You're all about digging deep into yourself and whoever you're involved with, and you'll have no patience for chitchat, coyness or general beating around the bush; so if your new special sweetie is a reserved type, they'll be in for a surprise. Your natural charisma and magnetism will help them to feel more comfortable with your probing, though. If you apply your penetrating mind to your potential lover or to yourself at this time, you'll be surprised at how you're unable to unlock parts of yourself and the other person that have been closed for some time. The good thing about the energy of this transit is that it makes you intense, but not so much so that you'll push people away. Instead, you'll probably bring someone closer.

Sun sextile Saturn

A good head on your shoulders

From Nov 1 to Nov 5 | Exact: Nov 5, 2024

You'll come across as very mature and grounded during this time, so you'll attract people who are either similarly grounded, or who need a grounding influence in their life so they're drawn to your strength! In general, this is a great time to get to know someone new, because you're in a very sensible frame of mind. You won't expect too much from a first date, knowing they'll be awkward at best. And for that reason, you might even have more fun than usual, because you won't worry about whether this is The One or what kind of impression you're making. Instead, you'll be concerned with more practical matters: Is this someone I can get along with? Do they seem like someone I could know and like for a long time? You'll have your wits about you, so you won't let yourself get swept off your feet. No, this may not be the most fun, frolicsome week or two of your life, but you could make some really good, solid contacts during this time. In fact, if you find yourself attracted to someone past the first email or date during this transit, you can feel reasonably certain that they're worth getting to know better.

Mercury trine Jupiter

Enjoy yourself

From Nov 3 to Nov 7 | Exact: Nov 6, 2024

You've got a great attitude during this transit for dating and finding love. You're feeling optimistic about the future, and confident in your abilities to attract someone special -- as well you should. You're charming and funny now, talkative and expressive, and your natural intelligence is easily conveyed. You might even be feeling so on a high that you'll feel a bit intellectually superior to the people around you -- but don't let yourself fall into that trap. This is too nice of an influence to waste it on feelings of superiority. After all, you're smart, but you don't know all there is to know about the world. Getting to know someone special will take you a step closer to that knowledge, however! Reach out to someone who seems unique and unusual; your mind will be blown by their perspective on life. You're very communicative at this time, able to reach people at a deep level, so you'll be able to make this person feel seen and heard in a way that's pleasurable to both of you. Most of all, during this period, have fun! You're tuned in to the best parts of life, so enjoy yourself.

Mars trine Venus

Potential for a physical connection

From Nov 8 to Nov 13 | Exact: Nov 13, 2024

This transit highlights your sexual energy, but in a smooth and calm way. If there's no one special in your life or on the horizon right now, you're okay with that; you're not going to run out and get a date just to find some physical self-expression. But if there is someone you've been flirting with or getting to know better, this three-week period could mark the time when you'll step your relationship up to the next level. That might mean just holding hands, which can be really hot! Or it might mean something more. Whatever level you're at with someone, don't be surprised if your relationship fast-forwards just a bit now. You're feeling sexy and attractive, and just good and energetic, ready to connect. But again, even if you don't connect with anyone romantically during this time, that will be okay with you. You'll know how to divert your energy into something creative. You could write a short story, paint a picture or just get out into nature, to appreciate the bounty of life around you. You've got plenty of energy, but you're calm at your center. Whatever comes, you'll be happy with it, and you'll meet it actively, head-on.

Sun sextile Mars

Expressing your inner passion

From Nov 10 to Nov 13 | Exact: Nov 13, 2024

You'll express your passionate side more easily than usual during this period, and everyone around you will notice. That makes this a great time to get in contact with that special someone, because you'll turn them on to all the possibilities -- just by being yourself. You don't have to do anything special or go out of your way to make a great impression, but if you want to, go for it! You're very creative during this period. If you have a new idea for how you want to approach a potential date, go ahead and try it out, because you can expect good results. Your instincts are just right-on at this time. You feel adventurous and ready to explore -- even if that means contacting someone you wouldn't normally be attracted to, or someone who actually makes you nervous! If nothing else, you'll just feel very positive during this period, so even if you end up going on dates that don't lead anywhere special, you'll still feel energized by the experience and ready for the next one. You're in a good mood during this time, in touch with your own inner drive, and that will definitely attract admirers. This transit only comes around twice a year, so have fun!

Sun sextile Sun

Your best, most easygoing self

From Nov 11 to Nov 13

You're in a social, positive frame of mind, and ready to connect. You're feeling great, in fact, so spread the wealth! Don't hesitate to email or call someone who's special to you. You'll impress them with your supportive, fun, easygoing self, and you'll make a real impact on them. You're feeling really connected with yourself and others. Your individuality is on display in the best way, and will actually be highlighted by being around other people. Don't be surprised if you find your email Inbox full of messages from interested admirers, and your voicemail jammed with calls from people who want to get to know you better! You're feeling so positive and easygoing that you'll just put other people at ease, so this is a great time for a date. Make it something friendly and simple -- a walk by the lake, maybe, if you're meeting someone brand-new, or lunch at a little cafe where you can enjoy your conversation as much as the food. Don't miss any opportunity to socialize. Even if you don't meet The One during this period, you could make some lasting friendships -- which can be just as good.

Venus conjunct Venus

New beginnings

From Oct 19 to Oct 24 | Exact: Oct 20, 2024

You might think you've been totally obvious about your interest in that special someone, but this two-week transit offers you the perfect opportunity to really get it out in the open. Let them know how you feel. It will probably end up jump-starting the relationship and moving things to the next level, because the energy during this time is all about renewal and new beginnings. You're very magnetic now, so you can pull your honey to you by just thinking about them, and chances are good that doing so will have great effects. Whether a flirtation that begins during this time will be just that or grow into something significant depends on other factors; but if you're strongly attracted to someone now, the time is right to do something about it. You're feeling highly romantic and attuned to the loving vibes of the world. You're very affectionate now; you might want nothing more than to cuddle up with someone and stroke their hair while you murmur words of endearment! If no one special catches your eye during this transit, you should still go out with friends and have a good time. You're not in the mood to be alone!

Mercury conjunct Uranus

A method to your madness

From Oct 23 to Oct 27 | Exact: Oct 26, 2024

Wow -- you're in a funny, strange state of mind, and the most unusual qualities of your personality will come to the fore at this time. If you contact that special someone, will they be able to handle all the weird and wonderful, unexpected things that you'll say? Well, that depends on them, and remains to be seen. One thing is sure: you won't be satisfied with connecting on any level that's mundane. Idle chitchat about your day jobs? No way! Unless your potential sweetie has a strange and exciting job, like working on a SWAT team. Pleasantly dull conversation about your likes and dislikes? No, thank you! You want creative conversation, and you'll do whatever it takes to make that happen, even if that means sparking up your date with wacky, zany jokes or poking fun at them just to get them to react. In general, though, there will be a method to your madness during this transit. You'll be very innovative in coming up with dates; no dinner-and-a-movie for you, no way. You want to connect with someone unique in a way that you've never connected before, and this period offers you the perfect opportunity.

Venus conjunct Neptune

Consumed with visions of love

From Oct 28 to Nov 3 | Exact: Nov 2, 2024

You're in touch with your highest ideals when it comes to love during this transit, and you could either have an amazing emotional experience with that special someone, or else set yourself up for a fall. After all, no one is perfect, and there might not be any one person who's really The One for you. But you'll dream of them anyway, and you'll know just how you'll feel when you meet them or touch them. If it happens, wow! You'll be on cloud nine. You'll make an amazing emotional connection with this potential sweetie, and you'll feel as if the future is full of limitless possibilities. On the other hand, if you don't meet someone at this time who really sets your heart afire, you could feel lonely and disappointed by the end of the transit. If you build up that special someone to be someone they just aren't, you could feel inordinately disappointed in a week or two, when their true colors start to seep through that rose-colored filter you've got firmly positioned in front of your eyes. It's not that you'll hook up with a bad person during this transit; it's that you'll make a connection with someone normal, but you'll make them out to be a demigod.

Mercury conjunct Venus

A way with words

From Nov 1 to Nov 5 | Exact: Nov 4, 2024

Anyone who catches your eye during this 10-day transit will appeal to you first on a physical level and then an intellectual one. You're in the mood to make a connection and you're tuned in to beauty, both the kind that's skin-deep and the kind that goes beneath the surface. You have a way with words at this time, so take advantage! If you're attracted to someone, let them know with a well-penned love poem, an email that reveals your feelings or even a creative project that you make just for them. You'll also have some great conversations during this time, so even if you're not feeling ready to make a statement of your feelings, it's still a good time to go out and have fun with someone new, or make that first contact. You'll make a good impression, because you're feeling so tuned in to pleasure and romance. Make sure you don't get caught up in the mood so much that you make a declaration of affection to someone that you're not going to be into long-term! But that's not so likely; your warmth is heartfelt, and you can't go wrong in letting someone know you like them.

Mars conjunct Jupiter

Feeling lucky, even overly optimistic

From Nov 3 to Nov 13

You're feeling exuberant and energetic, kind of like a little puppy -- ready to get into any kind of trouble you can find! If you're attracted to someone during this transit, it could go either way, because either they'll be able to match your energy and you'll have a great time together, or you'll be too much for them to handle. And even if you do have a great time with someone while out on a date, you might have a little too much fun. You're confident to the point of overconfidence; don't go play Bingo with that special someone, much less going to an actual casino or racetrack, because you might put way too much money down since you're feeling so lucky. Alternatively, you might misread the signals that hottie is putting out and go too far with them, thinking you're being really sexy and confident when they're actually finding you overbearing. If you can stay sensitive to signals while still being your confident, energetic self, you'll have a great three weeks. As long as you don't push things too far, your high energy will be a really fun experience for you and whoever you hook up with at this time.

Sun conjunct Uranus

Spontaneous impulses

From Nov 6 to Nov 13 | Exact: Nov 11, 2024

If you fall hard for someone during this period, don't necessarily trust your emotions -- you're operating under some strange and excitable energies. You could wake up in a week or two wondering exactly why you thought you were so into this person. Now, that caution aside, this could be a really fun time! It only happens once a year, so have fun -- just not too much fun. This could be a whirlwind couple of weeks of dating and making new contacts, and your new potential lovers will find you fascinating indeed. You're putting out a current of energy that's like an electrical charge to anyone who gets involved with you. In fact, you could be a bit much to handle right now, especially for someone who's more reserved than you. You'll be full of great ideas, bouncing off the walls, and unless you're with someone who can handle that kind of energy, you're likely to turn off a potential date because you'll just seem, well, weird to them. And it's true; you'll have some unusual, spontaneous impulses at this time. But if you can match up with the right person, someone who's willing to follow your lead, you could have the time of your life!

Venus conjunct Mercury

Good times ahead

From Nov 12 to Nov 13 | Exact: Nov 13, 2024

What a great mood you're in! You're lighthearted, and you're just not able to make yourself focus on anything that's dull or sad or depressing. You don't see any reason to dwell on all the parts of life that are painful or just mundane; instead, you want to reach out and experience people who are as good-humored as you are, people who are also in the mood to have a great time. You'll infect everyone around you with your good mood, which makes this a great time to throw a dinner party or just get everyone together. By all means, invite that hottie you've got your eye on! You're at your witty, flirtatious best, and you'll make a great impression. If there's someone you've already been getting to know, now's a good time to step things up to the next level. Short, fun little day trips are just your speed during these couple of weeks; take your potential sweetie antiquing in a country town or go to the park if the weather's nice. And if you really, really like them, let them know. Your words will flow smoothly at this time, and you'll express yourself well. Your romantic thoughts are highlighted now, and it's a great time to connect on that level.

Mercury conjunct Neptune

A sensitive mind

From Nov 13 to Nov 13

Some people just aren't good at dating; they get all mixed up and nervous when faced with someone new, and make a bad impression when really they're a fine person, and very much worthy of love. Anyone who's like that would be lucky to go out with you at this time, because you'll see past their stuttering, their sweaty palms and their inane conversation to the real person beneath. You might be moved during this two-week period to write love sonnets about the object of your affections, or to read poetry that focuses on the heart and its mysterious workings. You're able to connect intuitively at this time, so use your highly emotional mental powers to reach out to someone and get to know who they really are, heart and mind. The only danger with this transit is that you'll idealize someone, but that will just come from looking so intently into their heart. You'll be able to see all their good intentions instead of getting caught up in the outer details. You might make a really dreamy romantic connection during this period; just don't be surprised if your object of affections turns out somewhat different from whom you initially thought they were.

Saturn opposite Saturn

A hard lesson

Before 10/14/2024 to Nov 13

If you haven't been on the right path in your love life during the past few years, this could be a difficult ten-month transit for you. Bad choices you may have made in the past will come up again now, either as regrets or as insecurities that date back to that old, bad relationship. This period calls on you to make positive changes in your life, changes that will have long-lasting effects, but it's not going to be made easy for you. Any area of your life that is presenting major difficulties -- not just your love life -- will indicate that a major overhaul is needed. So how can you overhaul your love life? Take some time, either alone with a journal or with a trusted friend, to look over your past relationships. Have they been good for you? Have you chosen to date people who treated you well, who made you feel good about yourself? If not, now's the time to start looking for a new kind of love. You deserve to be treated right and to have everything you've ever dreamed of, but the only person who's going to make it happen is you. So now's the time to start. This way, if you make the changes you need to make, you can look back on this difficult period with pride.

Sun square Sun

Be patient

Before 10/14/2024 to Oct 17

Whew -- you're just not feeling yourself during this period. You're edgy and ready to react to just about anything, and your energy is low. Even if you're in a hopeful and optimistic frame of mind, you're likely to notice that you keep coming up against challenges. This is probably not the best time to go out on a date, especially with someone new; there will just be too many challenging elements preventing you two from making a good connection. You could think things are going fine one minute, but then you'll say something innocuous, and they'll get their back up -- and there goes a perfectly good date. It'll be that easy to set someone off during these few days, or to get your own feelings hurt by them. You're more likely to put your foot in your mouth at this time, or to react defensively to something that normally wouldn't bother you. You could take things personally that aren't meant that way. Communicating with that special someone could be really difficult at this time, but don't let that make you lose hope in the connection. This transit is short, so what appears bleak now could look a lot rosier in a week or so. Just be patient; you'll make that connection soon.

Sun square Mars

Wait to make contact

Before 10/14/2024 to Oct 16 | Exact: Oct 14, 2024

If you contact someone or go on a date during this period, don't be surprised if you rub them the wrong way without even meaning to. What might start out as a perfectly good connection could go bad fast if you're argumentative or competitive with them. You might not even mean to argue; you might just think you're being your normal, opinionated self. After all, what's wrong with a little friendly competition between friends? Well, nothing -- as long as you don't push it too far. But the chances are high that you're going to come across as way more aggressive and even offensive than you mean to. If you do decide to contact someone during this period, it might be best to wait a week or two until this hotheaded energy cools off. This transit only comes around twice a year, thank goodness, and it lasts less than two weeks, so your best bet might be to just avoid going out with anyone new until your normal, calmer energy returns, because you just won't make a great impression. Even if you're ordinarily a very modest and unassuming person, your future sweetie could get the wrong impression of you.

Mars opposite Sun

This could go either way

Before 10/14/2024 to Oct 23

This three-week transit has two different possibilities, one of them more difficult than the other. Your energies are aroused at this time, and if you don't handle that well, you could get irritable and argumentative as a result. If that's the case, it's not a good time to go on a date or initiate contact with someone new, because you're just going to get into arguments with this person that you don't even know. However, that's not the only way you could be influenced by the energies of this transit. The more positive possibility is if you've already started a flirtation with someone special, or even a brand-new relationship, and this transit marks a really amazing, exciting climax in the relationship! Yes, it could be that kind of climax...or it could be a declaration of your mutual affection, or a talk with your potential sweetie that leads you both to agree not to date anyone else. The possibilities of this transit are completely open and depend almost entirely on you -- on your natural energy, and on what you've been doing in your dating life for the past few weeks or months. Is there someone special on the horizon? Do you tend to be argumentative? Wait and see...

Mars opposite Mars

Overly assertive

Before 10/14/2024 to Oct 29 | Exact: Oct 15, 2024

You're feeling assertive, more than willing to go after the object of your desires -- and though confidence can be very sexy, you might push it too far at this time. You're not in tune with your potential sweetie's signals, or their boundaries; during this three-week transit, the most important thing to you is what you want and how you're going to get it. If you go after that special someone, you might not even realize it if they're resisting your advances every step of the way, until they make you notice with an outright statement of their total lack of interest. And no one likes to be faced with a big, loud NO WAY! So don't push it that far. Part of the problem at this time is that you might not even be acting from a place of your own desires and needs; maybe you're more motivated by a sense that you should be getting something going in your love life because it's been a long time, or because all your friends are starting up romances, or because your parents have been after you about settling down. But none of those are good reasons to force a relationship where one's not happening naturally. Waiting for the right person to come along is the right thing to do, no matter how hard it might be.

Mercury square Jupiter

Bragging and boasting

From Oct 14 to Oct 17 | Exact: Oct 17, 2024

This transit will offer you plenty of opportunities to get into trouble, so you might want to pare down your activities until smoother times arrive. On the other hand, that's more easily suggested than achieved, because the very problem of this transit is that it makes you overconfident in your abilities. You might ask someone out on a date, and your confident, forward approach will yield good results -- they'll say yes, and you'll feel like you're a step closer to finding your mate. But then when you go out, you may spend the whole time bragging about yourself and your abilities, and you'll end up undoing all the good feeling and hard work you put into making that connection. No one likes an arrogant braggart, after all. If you're bragging out of nervousness, so much the worse, because your tension will show, and your attempt at covering it up will seem all the more annoying. The best thing you could do during this transit, which lasts less than two weeks, is either to take some time off from the dating scene, or make a sincere and conscious effort not to brag or boast -- even if that means wearing duct tape over your mouth on your date!

Jupiter opposite Neptune

A very appealing dream

From Oct 19 to Nov 13 | Exact: Nov 10, 2024

You're very gullible during this four-month transit, and you could be taken in if you go out with people who aren't good for you. People who try to take advantage of your good intentions will likely get their way during this period, because you'll buy any story hook, line and sinker, as long as it fits in with your fantasy of the love you're looking for. You probably won't experience this transit as anything less than a fun period full of hopeful signs and opportunities; you might meet someone you're really into, and you'll have all kinds of fantasies about where the relationship is going to go. But you've got a blind spot to trouble, emotional issues and even just people whose intentions don't match up with yours. You could go out on a good first date and think that a second date is naturally going to follow -- but at the end of the night, your date says a friendly goodbye, making it clear they won't be calling you. And you could still hope for the best with this person! That's just the kind of head space you're in now -- you are basically avoiding reality, because the dream you've come up with is so much more appealing.

Sun square Jupiter

A little too self-confident

From Oct 23 to Oct 29 | Exact: Oct 28, 2024

You might want to wait a week or two before making contact with someone new or going out on a date, because you run the risk of coming across as overly confident or even arrogant during this time. Thank goodness this transit only comes around twice a year! If you do go out with someone new, watch for telltale signs that you're boring or even annoying them. If they keep giving you one-word answers and looking around the room at everyone but you, it could mean that they're actually offended by your attitude, because the usual filter that helps you be socially graceful just isn't in place at this time. You'll think you're just being opinionated, but you may come across as a self-righteous know-it-all. And it will be entirely unintentional on your part. You'll just have the urge to let everyone know your opinion on the matter, and you won't know when enough is enough -- when it's time to be quiet and let the other person talk and assert their opinions. It would definitely be best during this period to hang out with people who already know you well, because they'll know you're just going through a phase that will pass soon.

Venus square Saturn

Pushing love away

From Oct 25 to Oct 29 | Exact: Oct 28, 2024

Your anxieties and doubts about your love life could cause you to pull away from that special someone that you've been getting to know or wanting to make contact with. You're not feeling warm and loving during this transit, that's for sure. You'll probably have a hard time relating to potential mates, and flirting just won't be your forte. If you go out to a party, you might end up standing in the corner by yourself, because you're putting out a strong don't-mess-with-me vibe. And why are you doing that? You might feel pessimistic about love and your ability to give or receive it. Or you might really, really want to reach out to someone, but you just can't seem to come across as calm and confident and warm as you'd like. You're just not feeling it inside; instead, you're feeling like someone or something is hanging over your shoulder, telling you you're doing it all wrong, and bad things are going to result! That's not true, of course; it's all internal. But since you're so hard to satisfy at this time, you might want to stay away from any potential lovers until you're feeling more warmhearted and accessible.

Uranus opposite Uranus

Asking the tough questions

From Oct 26 to Nov 13

This period could be upsetting for you in certain ways, because it's all about making changes in your life -- usually big ones. This transit marks the classic mid-life crisis. In the end, you'll look back and realize this was an important and necessary period of adjustment. In terms of love, you may feel discouraged at this time. Restlessness and irritability pervade your body and soul. Perhaps you've been through the ending of a major relationship, and now you're thinking about getting back into the game again... Or maybe you've been back in the game, with little lasting success so far. Don't lose hope. You're being challenged to ask yourself some tough questions, but the answers will tell you where you need to go next. If you've been through a series of short, dissatisfying affairs, you're not choosing the right kind of person to get involved with. You need to seek more sweetness and stability in your love life, even if those seem boring to you. If an old, significant relationship went bad, hold on to the lessons you learned from that experience, even if it's painful to recall what went wrong. After all, you were responsible for half the relationship's collapse, so now you're in a better position to do things in a new way.

Mercury square Saturn

Love, an abstract science

From Nov 9 to Nov 13 | Exact: Nov 13, 2024

Any fears or insecurities you may have about relationships or whether you'll ever find true love will be exacerbated during this period to a high degree. You won't feel confident about your ability to give and receive love, and you'll respond with cynicism. If you go out on a date at this time, you won't make the impression you'll want to make, because your negative attitude will come across to that special someone, which will turn them off -- and that, in turn, will confirm your worst fears, that you're unlovable. But you're very lovable! You're just going through a crisis of confidence, and you're thinking way too hard about love, a subject that's abstract at best. You may want to take a week or so off from dating during this transit, and do things that will restore your hope and faith in love: rent some romantic comedies that will make you laugh and cry and reconnect with your loving side; talk to friends who've found their perfect match; take a walk outside and reconnect with the magic of nature and the universe. Love is out there for you; you just have to be in the right frame of mind to receive it. Unfortunately, this transit is probably not that time.

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