The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Love Life Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Sun in Libra
You're nice, Libra. Probably too nice. You just hate the idea of hurting anyone's feelings, so you go out of your way not to, even when it means lying through your teeth. Well, to be fair, in the moment when you said those things, you actually believed them, so technically it wasn't lying, even if you came to your senses five minutes later. But by then it was too late, and you couldn't bear to make them cry, so you kept mum and went along even though deep inside you, something was screaming. Days, or weeks, or months or years later, the truth finally came out, and generally not in a pleasant way. And thus ended another relationship. Oh, by the way, that's not even mentioning the ones that got away because you couldn't decide yea or nay on them.You are what you are, and there's little point in telling you to just make up your mind; that's next to impossible for you. But you can get over this silly need to protect others from your truth (what do you think will happen to them, anyway, if you speak honestly?). Put your needs before theirs, for once, and you'll be surprised by the improvement in your relationships.
Mercury in Scorpio
You're a true mystery. No matter how close anyone tries to get to you, there's always something you hold back. Past partners could see it in your eyes and feel it in the way you held yourself when you talked, but they could never get it out of you. It's all part of the control you seek in relationships, the withholding of certain parts of yourself, even in the most intimate of situations. And you can't blame your exes for trying to draw you out, and then eventually giving up. After all, it's a brave and noble person who would keep trying to force emotional intimacy, even when you've made it clear that your thoughts and emotions are your own.The bitter truth is that if you truly want to gain the intimate relationship you seek, you're going to have to pony up with those deep, dark secrets. You might be surprised to find that the reaction isn't as shocked as you were sure it was going to be...which could be a bit of a disappointment. Gasp -- what if you find that you're just like everyone else? You think you're the only one holding such dreadful thoughts, but you're not. So don't get offended when the partner of your dreams responds with, 'Oh, is that all?' Learn to appreciate the fact that you're not alone. You don't always have to be such a mystery.
Venus in Virgo
It was the little things that drove your previous lovers batty. The way you continually picked lint off their sweater, or disinfected their refrigerator every Saturday, or obsessively arranged their newspapers and magazines. You like things just so, and are ever so quick to pick out any imperfection that your lover may present -- actually, your soon-to-be-former lover, if you're not careful. People can take only so much nitpicking, you know, before they begin to wonder if something is seriously wrong with you. Usually, they don't stick around to find out that you're perfectly benign. Just a perfectionist.Stop wringing your hands about everything. Take your analytical energy and focus it somewhere, anywhere, besides your romantic partner. Doing this will create room for a more relaxed you to appear -- the you who loves nature, who stops to smell the flowers, who enjoys a good home-cooked meal (all organic, of course). You're sensuous when you're totally relaxed, and this will delight your lover. Feel free to demonstrate your passion, and let them know that this is an expression of your true feelings. You'll go deeper than you thought possible.
Mars in Scorpio
You're kind of scary sometimes. That look in your eye, your drive, your intensity and your determination have all frightened away more than one lover in your past. They found you a little too much to handle. Come to think of it, your anger issues might have played a part, too. Not that you're easy to anger; not at all. It takes a lot to piss you off, but once you're there, your rages are towering! It's hugely important that you express that anger, because keeping it all inside will make you sick in the long run. Besides, your posture suffers when you've got such a big chip on your shoulder. So, what about your love life? Your sex drive is so strong that you're usually not between relationships for long. In fact, you've probably found sex to be the perfect vehicle for your control issues; you withhold it when you're upset and insist on it when you're not. You offer extreme fidelity and insist on it in your partner. If you can overcome those control issues and come to view your relationship as a safe haven, it will provide a wonderful place to escape from the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune. And that's something we all need.
Jupiter in Virgo
With your eyes always on the straight and narrow path, you may have been oblivious to many opportunities that have passed you by, not least in the arena of love. Successful relationships often require that first leap of faith, the ability to step out of your normal day-to-day routine in order to make contact, establish a connection and develop the romance. In the past, this has ruffled your feathers more than you were able to tolerate. The result of your devotion to the tried-and-true has been a noticeable dearth of romance, and you're ready to move beyond that now. You've idealized your partner so many times that it's really not necessary to create any type of list of the qualities of your ideal lover. The list is already there. In fact, if anything, you should drag it out and make some realistic adjustments to it. It's important that you hook up with someone you respect, but also someone who looks up to you as well, and who will support you when you want to indulge yourself a little bit. Self-indulgence always makes you feel a little guilty, but it's something we all need from time to time!
Saturn in Libra
Remember that old Rolling Stones song, 'Respectable'? It could have been written about you! Never a hair out of place, or a step out of line; that's you, all right. You know the rules, and you stick to 'em. You make your schedule and stick to that too, and you do NOT miss appointments! Your tact, excellent social awareness, familiarity with protocol and ability to achieve consensus and cooperation are all exemplary. You sound so perfect; how can you possibly have any problems in your relationships? Well, Goody Two Shoes, here's how it is. Remember that old joke about what would happen if two perfect people got together? They'd soon murder each other! Can you blame your past partners for feeling besmirched and imperfect with you around? For wanting to muss up your flawless hair, or scramble some of your appointments? C'mon, lighten up! Throw convention to the wind for a little while and enjoy life more. You thrive in relationships, and when you commit, it's for life. Be wise in selecting a partner who will encourage you to step back and laugh at yourself from time to time. It will be a big relief.
Uranus in Scorpio
Have you noticed that it's all the rage now to be bisexual? The world has you and your generation to thank for that; you are opening doors on new ways of being, particularly in the sexual arena. Experiences and orientations that have been taboo since forever are coming up for review. You and your peers open these areas confidently, seeking to find out what's going on behind the closed doors. You let the full light fall on subjects that were previously off-limits. In fact, you accept no limits on your sexuality; it's obvious to you that everyone should be free to love whom they want, when they want and how they want. This new way of viewing sexuality is only part of what your generation is called upon to open up; the human psyche is no less a target for your revolutionary ways. Your job is to shine the light on all areas that have been taboo up until now. The effects of the changes started by you and your peers will be long-lasting, indeed.
Neptune in Sagittarius
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
Pluto in Libra
You and your peers will revolutionize the arena of relationships and romances. As a child, you watched partnerships crumble all around you, if not your own parents', then the relationships of your friends' parents; and you decided early on that you wouldn't repeat the same pattern. You take relationships very, very seriously, and for this reason may wait to start dating or getting serious about anyone. You're not in any hurry, which provides you with enough time to understand yourself and your relationship needs. Don't delay too long, though! Fear of relationship can be just as harmful as hooking up too early. Your challenge will be in finding the right balance of independence and partnership, and in knowing how much of your personal energy to expend toward each.
Venus square Mars
Mmm, everyone wants some of what you've had with your lovers: sweaty, sticky, lovely lust. Your connections have tended to get physical fast, simply because when you're really feelin' it, you can't keep your hands to yourself. Internally, you've got the receptive female energy meeting the masculine force with explosive and heady results. Lust tends to intervene in your relationships before love can develop, resulting in a series of hookups based on sex when there could have been true partnerships based on something deeper. It could be that one of you was using the other merely to slake a physical urge -- not a problem if both of you were on the same page, but nasty and painful if one of you was looking for love and the other just lust.The solution lies in extending your search for compatibility beyond the bedroom. Look for someone whose heart and mind appeal to you as much as their body. Talk about your values, your hopes, your dreams. Being close on the physical level does not an emotional connection make; you need to spend more time bonding and less time smooching. When you approach your relationships this way, good sex gets even better.
Jupiter square Neptune
Let's be honest: You chose your past lovers because you were attracted to the sweet adaptability you found. You wanted lovers who would let you steer the ship, who permitted you to decide where you went and with whom. Partners who would listen to your stories, sympathize with your troubles, support your dreams. You loved all that, but somehow it was never enough. Your partners were loving and sympathetic enough, but awfully insubstantial. You felt like you couldn't trust them to always be there for you. Oh, they meant well enough, but they always found it difficult to conform to plans, keep agreements, maintain boundaries. You began to feel like you needed something more solid and stable in a partner.It is true you will face many challenges in your relationships, but your love is strong and you can conquer your difficulties. You must tackle your issues squarely. Learn the art of compromise. Select a lover who can bend to meet you halfway; then bend likewise. Decide how you will keep your patterns from repeating. It will take discipline on your part, but with some time and practice these new patterns will come more naturally.
No Oppositions
You're pretty secure in your own viewpoint. You're not the wishy-washy type, and if you are, you're absolutely dedicated to each particular opinion -- even if you completely change your mind five minutes later. In short, you've got the courage of conviction, but in your past relationships, this often looked to your partners like smugness, or even emotional neglect. Even when you felt certain that you understood them and their feelings, they were still upset that you just didn't get where they were coming from. If they were the patient, communicative type, they might have kept trying for a while before giving up on you. If they were the short-fused type, they probably left in a huff the first time you gave them that blank look that meant, 'What's the problem, babe?' Sympathy and empathy are essential to a functional intimate relationship. You and your lover are two completely different people, and while you'll each experience life from your own unique perspective, you still need to be able to translate your experiences to each other, and you both need to feel respected and understood. In future relationships, you'll have to work on listening to your partner when they describe their feelings or how they view a particular situation. Even if what they describe sounds utterly foreign -- and therefore negligible -- to you, take them seriously anyway. You may even need to remind yourself on a regular basis that their feelings and perspective are every bit as valid as your own.
No Quincunxes
You've never been much for compromise, have you? In past relationships, when issues came up between you and your lover, you used whatever tools you had -- sweetly cajoling, arguing, turning a cold shoulder -- to get your own way. But why was having your own way so important? After all, other people have feelings, needs and agendas, too, just like yours. Who decides which person's need is the most important one in any given moment? That's a perennial question for all relationships, and except in the one between an infant and its caretaker, the answer isn't as simple as 'I decide, and my needs always come first.' Relationships, after all, should be about give and take. Sometimes you get your way; sometimes your lover does. Insisting on always getting your way not only makes you look uncomfortably similar to that aforementioned infant, it could actually lead to loneliness. After all, if it's a choice between getting your way or bailing out of the relationship, well, you'll end up either with a partner who's a pushover or sleeping alone. If you want a well-functioning, long-term relationship, you'll have to learn to choose your battles. The art of compromise is the perfect place to start your lessons, because if you give your lover a little, they'll probably want to give back a lot. You'll feel a lot better once you learn to step back and let someone else take reins from time to time.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
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