The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Love Life Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Sun in Aries
Your relationship history is not unlike your house: It's littered with things you've started but not properly finished. Your little black book is full of names and numbers of people you've dated only once, because by the time they call you for a second date, you've moved on to the latest attractive 'thang.' It's only all the negative feedback you've received over time that prevents you from hurling yourself headlong toward anyone you find at all appealing. When you walk toward a group of people gathered together, they scatter like a school of fish evading a shark. You make the short leap to 'There's got to be a better way.'There is, Aries. In small quantities, many of your qualities are delightful. You're spontaneous, energetic, and can be counted on to be straightforward. Crank it up a notch and all of a sudden you're erratic, over-the-top and brutally honest. So, stop while you're ahead. Difficult as it is, keep an eyeball on the faces of those around you, for hints that you're going overboard. Moderate yourself. OK, OK -- it's true that you can't change your fundamental nature, but at least you can direct it toward sweat-inducing exercise instead of damaging current and potential hookups.
Mercury in Taurus
No one can accuse you of speaking before you think. In fact, you ponder so long and hard about things that your response can be delayed for days. You're the type who thinks of twenty smartass replies, but not until the morning after! Witty repartee is certainly not your strong point, but on the other hand, when you say something, you really mean it. For a very long time. It's easier to turn around the Queen Mary than it is for you to change your mind on something, once it's made up. Your plodding thought processes have no doubt caused some frustration for your previous romantic partners, whose mental synapses were a lot more snappy. They just couldn't sustain interest in your molasses-in-winter conversational style.This is simply how you're wired, and you can no more speed up your thought processes than a whale can fly. Your ideal partner will recognize the value in your practical, methodical thinking and your cautious communications; you mean what you say and that's worth a lot! If any advice can help you, it's to be a little less rigid and inflexible in your thinking. The sky won't fall if you change your mind about something!
Venus in Pisces
No one needed to teach you that the best escape from real life was love. Or what you call love, anyway: the intense fantasies, the constant daydreaming, the spinning mental wheel of romantic illusions. Your faraway gaze could only leave others guessing. And when you had an actual lover, it was even worse! Oh, the endless hours spent cuddling, gazing into your beloved's eyes, or walking slowly, hand-in-hand, along the beach. How disappointed you were when real life intruded! But you've learned somewhere along the line that often, the fantasy of love is better than the reality. Other people can disappoint you when they don't live up to your starry-eyed ideals. They jilt you for work. They just can't see all the wonderful possibilities that every relationship entails. Realists! You'd be most pleased with a lover rather like yourself: someone sensual, peace-loving and sentimental. You long for a tender, intuitive connection. Go on, indulge your fantasies a little more. Real life will be waiting for you when you wake up.
Mars in Capricorn
You may seem cool on the outside, but if only they could see how you're smoldering on the inside! Trouble is, you're so devoted to your material ambitions and efforts to get ahead that you don't pay as much attention to your libido as you could, much to the regret of your former partners. You keep your passion well under wraps, for then it can't distract you, or so you think. Are you forgetting how strong the drive toward the continuation of the species truly is? It refuses to stay at bay for long.Where does this leave you in the field of romance? Well, for one thing, you might get involved with someone simply to find a release for all those sexual energies you've been stuffing down. Is this the best possible scenario for you? By no means! A far better bet for you is to look for someone who shares your serious side, and yet is not so involved with their work and ambitions that they have no time left for romance. Success in love will require that you strike a balance between the demands of career and the desires of your relationship. Your whole life will go better once you've found this balance.
Jupiter in Sagittarius
Don't you think you're just a bit over the top? If your answer is 'no,' why don't you ask your coworkers and anyone else who often shares your space? They may have a different answer! The next step is to ask yourself, 'How might this have affected my relationships?' The truthful answer (and you, of all people, love getting down to the truth) is that your past lovers got tired of you telling the same jokes in that loud voice of yours at every party you ever went to. They grew weary of your jovial habit of talking to everyone, everywhere. They didn't see the point of taking the 'scenic route' even when you were very late for an appointment (and even now you're probably exclaiming, 'Me? Late? Surely you jest!').Clearly you need a partner who is tolerant of your little foibles, someone who is just as unorthodox as you are and who truly enjoys your humor and sense of adventure. Perhaps they will come from a different country, or from an entirely different background. If you give each other enough freedom, you'll both feel happy, and they can simply excuse themselves from the room when you start telling that joke again.
Saturn in Taurus
You are so sure that there won't be enough (love, money, fill in the blank with anything you value) that you cling tenaciously to what little you do have and refuse to let it go. Funny thing is, both love and money like to flow, so when you've got a death grip on them, instead of flowering for you, they wither, and eventually the very thing you valued so much has evaporated from your life. And you ask yourself wonderingly, 'How on earth did that happen?'Your relationships? Well, since you're so anxious about losing the love you have, however imperfect, you tend to stay in relationships long after they're over, simply out of habit, fear of moving on and a misplaced sense of loyalty. Besides that, if you got out of your current relationship, you'd need to get off your butt and find another one, and you don't particularly care for new things. You prefer the tried and true, the known and familiar, the comfort of established routine. New relationships mean compromise, adaptation, establishing new patterns, and you're not so good at that. So you carry on carrying on, ad nauseum. The solution? Loosen your death grip, and resources of all types will move through your life again, with little effort on your part.
Uranus in Libra
You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents. You may decline to participate in long-term relationships altogether, or you may completely rewrite the rules of marriage, factoring in the need for freedom within a relationship. Open marriages, having multiple partners at a time or having different partners for different personal needs are all ways of revolutionizing the world of partnership and romance. Your own relationship history will reflect the changes in the world around you. You and those born around the same time as you will leave a mark on the world that will last for many decades.
Neptune in Sagittarius
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
Pluto in Virgo
You and your generation were born just before, spent your formative years in or came around just after the revolutionary 1960s, and in many ways, you carry forward this revolutionary energy into the future. You expect a lot from life and from your romantic partners; perfection would suit you just fine! Unfortunately, Real Life rarely delivers perfection, so you may spend your life in fruitless pursuit of it. Yet while you may never find the perfection you seek, you'll make the world a much better place in the meantime. Your relationships should fulfill a practical need as well as romantic ones; your best partnerships will have goals above and beyond your romantic liaison.
Sun square Mars
Of course you have relationship issues! You're attracted to powerful personalities and when you get together with this type of person, you're bound to strike sparks. You are a force of nature yourself and you tend to be impulsive and fearless, lusty and straightforward, with a confidence that rivals the best of 'em. You stride through life with a daring that others only wonder at. When you're in a relationship, your libido shoots off the charts -- but unfortunately, your conflicts with your honey often rival your passion. Titanic arguments, friction, a link that always seems to be teetering on self-destruction -- you never heard love was easy, but does it have to be this hard? You've got to learn to give. You can't struggle over everything or you'll waste your prodigious energies just treading water rather than moving forward. You must learn to accept what you can't change. Stop hounding your lovers over issues that are mere annoyances instead of true deal-breakers. If you manage to quell your troublesome quibbling, you can look forward to some special relationships.
Venus opposite Pluto
Acid burning in your stomach, your thoughts racing, your heart nearly beating its way out of your chest -- does this sound all too familiar? Your taste in the past has been for hot, steamy, simmering lovers -- lovers who then kept you entertaining a certain green-eyed monster. It was awfully unsexy. No wonder they didn't stick around: Would you want to come home to a lover who demands that you account for your time? Hardly. But as much as you wanted to play it cool, your possessive attachment to your partners seemed to make it impossible. You viewed everyone near them with suspicion -- and you even made some embarrassing scenes in front of others. So what's the key to smoothing this path? First, own your issues. Have you strayed from past lovers? Could this be the root of your worry that others won't stay true to you? Take an honest look in the mirror without projecting all your fidelity issues onto your ideal partner. You'll then be free to attract an ideal lover who is both powerful and faithful. Once you do this, you can start to formulate a plan for taking on your problems. Don't be afraid to start. Time to try something new, break out of your patterns, and create a passionate and equal future.
Sun quincunx Pluto
Your romance history isn't pretty. You've had a series of delicious attachments that have all collapsed. What happened? Did you forgot the old maxim about the need to let the things you love roam free? Insecurity lead to jealousy, jealousy into attempts to control your partners, who had no intention of being controlled by you. Intense arguments flared, marked by middle-of-the-night discussions, slammed doors, raised voices. The good times faded to a distant memory. But take heart; all is not lost. What you need is a little balance and flexibility. You don't choose lovers you can wrap up in a tidy little box. No, you want your future partner to be passionate and powerful, someone you can admire but who probably won't be so easy to live with. So don't expect every aspect of your relationship to go just exactly as you'd like all the time. When your lover surprises you, it can be disconcerting, but with the right mindset it's also exhilarating. You'll never be bored, and that counts for a lot. Look for an intense connection, because without it your life will be a lot less interesting.
Mercury quincunx Jupiter
Have communication problems plagued your previous partnerships? Has one lover after another informed you curtly that you just don't listen? That you only hear what you want you hear? If you're perfectly honest with yourself, you know it's true. Think of the innumerable times when you've come to your senses only to find that your lover's lips were moving while your mind was a million miles away. You quickly fill in the blanks of their conversation, often incorrectly. You're so sure you know what they're going to say that you don't listen to what they actually do say. And how long do you expect someone to put up with that?It's not that you feel good about this bad habit of yours, and that's a start. You're going to have to get up to speed on your communication skills -- actually, make that 'listening skills.' Mental focus and discipline is not your natural forte, but that doesn't mean it can't be improved. Close relationships are the perfect place to start. Next time you cozy up to someone attractive, make it a point to listen twice as much as you talk. After all, you've got two ears and only one mouth.
Mercury quincunx Neptune
If your love life were a dining table, it'd be one of those long mahogany jobbies you see in the movies about awkward rich people. You'd be at one end, your lover at the other, and stretching between you would be a vast, unnavigable distance. You've had problems melding with past partners. Conversations suffered, and miscommunications abounded. You clearly didn't understand each other, and in the end it was difficult to see why you bothered with each other at all. Finally, one of you walked -- despite the great, overwhelming attraction you felt at first. What a charmer they were!Sad truth is, you may always have problems completely understanding another. So why bother agitating over the differences between you and your current or future partner? Yes, yes, you'll lack commonality in many areas, but who said that one person had to be everything to their lover? Seek out simpatico pals for the activities your lover would rather skip. Keep up a busy social life, but be sure to spend plenty of time alone, just experiencing your love as it comes instead of thinking that you have to dissect it to understand it.
Mercury quincunx Pluto
Whoa, Nelly. Serious jealousy issues plagued your previous relationships. Your powerful, intense lovers turned you on, all right, so much so that you couldn't help wondering who else had hot pants for your One. Where did they go when they were away from you? What were all those numbers programmed into their cell phone, anyway? Who else had their greedy little eyeballs on your special someone? Thus spoke your paranoia, and your secretive lovers didn't give you a whole lot of reassurance, either. When you had the temerity to ask a question, you were made to feel ridiculous. Or worse, your lover split, vowing to return only when you came to your senses. But how could you act rationally in the face of your overwhelming jealousy? This is a tough nut to crack, because your insecurities melded with your tendency to choose secretive lovers who withheld both information and affection. And your own attempts to talk things out didn't work. Instead, try marshaling your independent streak. Play a few head games. Act like you're calm and collected, and soon not only will you feel that way, you'll attract lovers who will behave better, too. It's called faking it till you make it, and you can do it.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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