The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Love Life Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Sun in Aquarius
Don't you love that old saying about Aquarians? 'They love humanity, it's people they can't stand!' You're awfully smart and have little patience for anyone not up to your intellectual standards. You dismiss them with a wave of your hand and a cutting but very funny insult. They creep away to lick their wounds while you enjoy your own humor and new sense of freedom. That is, until you've worked your way through all your friends, acquaintances and blind dates. It's not much fun when there's no one left to make fun of.If you want lovers to stick around, you're going to have to get over this notion that you're better because you're smarter. Intelligence isn't everything, Aquarius. The new buzzword is not IQ but EQ -- Emotional Quotient. Driving away partner after partner doesn't earn you a very high score on this scale. Improving the nature of your relationships and attracting your ideal partner will require a little more tolerance on your part, and you'll have to rein in that desire to mock them. Turn that humor on yourself, and everyone will feel a lot better.
Mercury in Capricorn
Corporate structure? Chains of command? You grasp these concepts all too well. Trouble is, you've tried to import them into your relationships, and as you now realize, it hasn't been a very successful strategy. As a matter of fact, it's been a disaster! Past lovers have tried to complain about your need to always be right, and you stared at them blankly, uncomprehending. Or worse yet, when they tried to explain their feelings, you rolled your eyes at their emotional display. And when they huffed off, you were left holding the empty bag of your relationship. Hmm, who's in charge now?There's a better way. Buried under your hardworking intellect is a warm heart to which you give precious little expression. From time to time it's a good idea to lock the analytical mind off into a closet somewhere and hide the key. Give your softer side a chance to come out. Take a stab at telling someone close how you feel. It will seem like a foreign language at first, but one that your partner readily understands, and delights in.
Venus in Sagittarius
The thing that makes you feel bad about your previous relationships is how many broken hearts you've left in your wake as your feet hit the road once again. You truly felt sorry to leave, but you just can't stay in one place for too long before you need to move on. The siren song of freedom and adventure is irresistible. The prospect of who's ahead down your road is much more exciting than the idea of sticking around with the one you've got in the bag. That would be boring, and you don't do boring.If only everyone else could rise above this whole silly notion of commitment and fidelity, life would be so much less complicated! For you, anyway. But until the rest of the world catches up with you, you're going to have to make do with the concepts of monogamy and faithfulness. Choosing a partner who's as adventurous and freedom-loving as you are would be a good start. That way, you can both come and go as you please and no one will get jealous! That sounds like heaven on earth for you, doesn't it? And it's not that far out of reach. So keep your ears perked for a partner who fits the bill.
Mars in Sagittarius
You're the type who prefers to date more than one person at a time. Despite the logistical difficulties this presents, it protects you from having to make a commitment to just one person, which is something you dread. You know your own nature and how easily you get bored: The idea of being with just one person for the rest of your life can be truly terrifying. You avoid this by keeping a good-sized stable of potential dates available at all times; your black book is bulging with numbers. Your sex life is lively, but little more than a series of casual romps in the hay; you don't quite understand it when other people talk about transformational sex.Life is an adventure and love is a part thereof. This is your life philosophy and not much can change it. What impact will this have on your future love life? Well, what you need is someone who's as fun loving and adventurous as you are. Someone who's not afraid to try new positions -- or new locations -- every time, and in this way, spice up your love life so you're each interested in no other. An impossible task, you claim? Absolutely not! After all, you're not the only freedom-loving fish in the sea.
Jupiter in Sagittarius
Don't you think you're just a bit over the top? If your answer is 'no,' why don't you ask your coworkers and anyone else who often shares your space? They may have a different answer! The next step is to ask yourself, 'How might this have affected my relationships?' The truthful answer (and you, of all people, love getting down to the truth) is that your past lovers got tired of you telling the same jokes in that loud voice of yours at every party you ever went to. They grew weary of your jovial habit of talking to everyone, everywhere. They didn't see the point of taking the 'scenic route' even when you were very late for an appointment (and even now you're probably exclaiming, 'Me? Late? Surely you jest!').Clearly you need a partner who is tolerant of your little foibles, someone who is just as unorthodox as you are and who truly enjoys your humor and sense of adventure. Perhaps they will come from a different country, or from an entirely different background. If you give each other enough freedom, you'll both feel happy, and they can simply excuse themselves from the room when you start telling that joke again.
Saturn in Taurus
You are so sure that there won't be enough (love, money, fill in the blank with anything you value) that you cling tenaciously to what little you do have and refuse to let it go. Funny thing is, both love and money like to flow, so when you've got a death grip on them, instead of flowering for you, they wither, and eventually the very thing you valued so much has evaporated from your life. And you ask yourself wonderingly, 'How on earth did that happen?'Your relationships? Well, since you're so anxious about losing the love you have, however imperfect, you tend to stay in relationships long after they're over, simply out of habit, fear of moving on and a misplaced sense of loyalty. Besides that, if you got out of your current relationship, you'd need to get off your butt and find another one, and you don't particularly care for new things. You prefer the tried and true, the known and familiar, the comfort of established routine. New relationships mean compromise, adaptation, establishing new patterns, and you're not so good at that. So you carry on carrying on, ad nauseum. The solution? Loosen your death grip, and resources of all types will move through your life again, with little effort on your part.
Uranus in Libra
You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents. You may decline to participate in long-term relationships altogether, or you may completely rewrite the rules of marriage, factoring in the need for freedom within a relationship. Open marriages, having multiple partners at a time or having different partners for different personal needs are all ways of revolutionizing the world of partnership and romance. Your own relationship history will reflect the changes in the world around you. You and those born around the same time as you will leave a mark on the world that will last for many decades.
Neptune in Sagittarius
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
Pluto in Virgo
You and your generation were born just before, spent your formative years in or came around just after the revolutionary 1960s, and in many ways, you carry forward this revolutionary energy into the future. You expect a lot from life and from your romantic partners; perfection would suit you just fine! Unfortunately, Real Life rarely delivers perfection, so you may spend your life in fruitless pursuit of it. Yet while you may never find the perfection you seek, you'll make the world a much better place in the meantime. Your relationships should fulfill a practical need as well as romantic ones; your best partnerships will have goals above and beyond your romantic liaison.
Sun square Saturn
Your incessant self-flagellation creates problems in your partnerships and other areas, too. One part of you is directed, goal-oriented, a little impetuous, a lot dramatic. The other side is solid, ever-so-practical and, let's be honest, a little stodgy. If only these two sides could work together instead of at constant cross purposes. Your grandiose dreams are soon deflated when Side B -- often in the form of your previous lovers -- stomps on them by pointing out all their flaws and letting in all that bothersome reality. You feel so inadequate and inferior, you can't believe that anyone could actually love you. So, you see neither your good qualities nor a potential love affair, even when it's dangling in your face. No wonder you've experienced friction over the course of your relationships, and frustrations both small and large.But look more deeply at the problems you've been having. Are your lovers trying to bring you down, or give you a hand by helping ensure you turn big ideas into actual plans? You've gotten so wound up with what you view as criticisms that you've stopped listening to the sense behind what your lovers say. Are you playing the part of a rebellious adolescent, agitating against Mommy and Daddy? Act your age, sweetie, and try listening, and acting, like an adult instead. Your partners have much to teach you when you're willing to let go and learn.
Venus square Pluto
Oooh, you like 'em hot. Your friends are all jealous of you. How do you keep bagging such magnetic, sexy specimens? You're in awe yourself. You get so attracted that you can barely think -- and there's the rub. You wish you could wrap your lovers around your little finger with your sultry and seductive power, but most times you've found a sweetie who won't let you have the upper hand. They've got you waiting around for phone calls. You've let your lover decide where you were going, and when, and how. You've even kept silent rather than expressing any negative feelings, for fear your lover might run in the other direction. Ouch! Doesn't it feel awful to be so squelched?Here's a little secret -- as much as your lovers seem to want to control you, giving all your power away will soon make them view you with contempt, not adoration. It doesn't have to be this way. You're plenty powerful enough to get what you need from another. Marshall your confidence and fight back. Ask for what you want. Demand equal time and equal power. Winning a few battles is the only way you can ultimately win the war.
No Oppositions
You're pretty secure in your own viewpoint. You're not the wishy-washy type, and if you are, you're absolutely dedicated to each particular opinion -- even if you completely change your mind five minutes later. In short, you've got the courage of conviction, but in your past relationships, this often looked to your partners like smugness, or even emotional neglect. Even when you felt certain that you understood them and their feelings, they were still upset that you just didn't get where they were coming from. If they were the patient, communicative type, they might have kept trying for a while before giving up on you. If they were the short-fused type, they probably left in a huff the first time you gave them that blank look that meant, 'What's the problem, babe?' Sympathy and empathy are essential to a functional intimate relationship. You and your lover are two completely different people, and while you'll each experience life from your own unique perspective, you still need to be able to translate your experiences to each other, and you both need to feel respected and understood. In future relationships, you'll have to work on listening to your partner when they describe their feelings or how they view a particular situation. Even if what they describe sounds utterly foreign -- and therefore negligible -- to you, take them seriously anyway. You may even need to remind yourself on a regular basis that their feelings and perspective are every bit as valid as your own.
Saturn quincunx Uranus
Sometimes you feel like throwing in the towel on relationships. They are just too much work. The tensions you've had with past lovers were thick enough to cut with a knife, painful enough to make you scream. The problems you've experienced can be laid handily at the doors of the very different natures you and your partners possessed. You wanted structure and stability; you wanted to know where the relationship was going, and if you could count on a date for the movies and quiet dinners at home. But the lovers you've chosen were not the stay-by-the-fire type. Instead, they wanted to socialize eight days a week. You lacked substantive time alone to enjoy your pairing, being either dragged off to events you didn't want to patronize or left at home, wondering what was going on without you there to supervise.The answer is to let go a little. What was that old saying about if you love something, set it free? Love is not a puppy you can squeeze or a document you can pore over. Instead it is unpredictable and fierce, by turns sweet and biting. Savor both sides of your love relationships. Do not ask for more than your lover can give, and ironically, you may find you get a lot more.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.
That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.
Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.
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