The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Love Life Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Sun in Aries
Your relationship history is not unlike your house: It's littered with things you've started but not properly finished. Your little black book is full of names and numbers of people you've dated only once, because by the time they call you for a second date, you've moved on to the latest attractive 'thang.' It's only all the negative feedback you've received over time that prevents you from hurling yourself headlong toward anyone you find at all appealing. When you walk toward a group of people gathered together, they scatter like a school of fish evading a shark. You make the short leap to 'There's got to be a better way.'There is, Aries. In small quantities, many of your qualities are delightful. You're spontaneous, energetic, and can be counted on to be straightforward. Crank it up a notch and all of a sudden you're erratic, over-the-top and brutally honest. So, stop while you're ahead. Difficult as it is, keep an eyeball on the faces of those around you, for hints that you're going overboard. Moderate yourself. OK, OK -- it's true that you can't change your fundamental nature, but at least you can direct it toward sweat-inducing exercise instead of damaging current and potential hookups.
Mercury in Aries
As everyone knows, communication is a key element to any successful relationship. Good communication entails two functions: speaking and listening. No doubt it's difficult for you to see this, but both of these areas have contributed to problems in your past relationships. For one thing, you interrupt people. It's not that you're trying to be rude; it's just that your mind works so fast, and you don't want to lose any of the million ideas flooding your brain, so the words come tumbling out of your mouth whether or not you're holding the microphone. Not that anyone can keep up with your machine-gun style of speech, but at least they give it a try.Not so when others try to speak. You see, in order to listen to someone else, you have to shut up. And that's not easy for you. Let's say someone does manage to get a word in edgewise. What do you do? Leap to conclusions before they've even finished speaking! No wonder they throw their hands up in despair and walk away muttering about finding someone else who understands them. Your formula for more successful relationships? Simple. You've got two ears and one mouth. Use them in that proportion.
Venus in Gemini
You're flirtatious, fickle and funny, and you've probably left a long string of unclaimed lovers in your wake. Even on the rare occasions when you settle down long enough to form an actual relationship with someone, you're out the door as soon as the idea of commitment or longevity comes up. That's just not your style! No one satisfies you for long, because the wind changes direction frequently in the climate of your romantic fascinations. Your head turns here, your eyes turn there. Be careful that you don't wind up with disjointed vertebrae!You chat up anyone who will sit still. You love to share ideas and you welcome new people and intellectual input into your life. You seduce lovers with your wit and charm. Sooner than later, you'll meet your match: someone as intelligent as you, who can match you joke for joke. They'll come fully equipped with their own set of friends and will expect you to get along with them, too. How does it feel to have a taste of your own medicine? Suddenly commitment doesn't seem like such a bad idea.
Mars in Gemini
What did your past lovers have a problem with? Well, for starters, you couldn't sit still for more than five minutes. That made dinner-and-a-movie dates quite a challenge. Then there was your short little span of attention, the one that made it impossible for you to really listen and hear when they were pouring their hearts out to you. Finally, they got annoyed with the way you'd just blurt anything out, anytime, anywhere. It got so they couldn't take you out into public for fear of what you'd say.Is there hope for you? Certainly there is. Not that we're blaming your previous partners, but can't you find someone a little more lighthearted, someone who can bring out your playful side and focus on the fast-thinking, quick-talking person instead of on your deficits? Doing any type of physical activity together is good, so keep the jogging shoes or bike close at hand. Intellectual pursuits work, too, since they keep your mind busy. Your key to more successful relationships is to bring the lighter side to the fore.
Jupiter in Capricorn
In your drive for material security and wealth you have no doubt left some crying hearts out in the cold. By dint of your hard work and effort, you are very likely to achieve your worldly ambitions. But with whom will you share the proceeds of your success? The whole subject of relationships puts you in quite a pickle. Hook up with someone early on and they'll complain that you're an absentee lover. Hook up after your achieve success, and you'll always wonder if they just want you for your money.What to do?If there is one thing you lack in your life, it is balance. You can counteract the negative effects of too much time at the office with a warm and cuddly relationship at home; but to maintain that relationship, you'll have to work a little less and -- gasp -- take the occasional day (or week) off in order to make time for your honey. It's not all about money, fortune and fame. Think seriously about your priorities and you'll realize: Loved ones come first. When you're old and gray and sitting in your rocker, you won't be remembering all those hours spent at the office. Instead, you'll think back on the love you've had -- and let's hope not the love you lost to workaholism.
Saturn in Gemini
Think back on your most recent relationships. How often did you utter the words 'I love you'? If you can count the number of times on the fingers of one hand, you have a big clue as to a major part of your relationship problems. You don't like to express emotions. Your thought processes are geared toward evidence, logic and what can be tangibly perceived with the senses. Feelings frustrate you, because they cannot be measured, calculated or based in historical fact. They are ephemeral, inconstant and by their very nature, impossible to confirm by facts or figures.Not everyone is in the same mental boat as you. Most people like to have the liberty to express their feelings at any given time. After you've required them to quantify their emotions, they don't stick around to tell you how they feel anymore; they move on to greener pastures. You're smarter than you realize; give yourself some credit, and stop expecting all forms of communication to be factual or cerebral. Create a pathway from your heart to your mind and articulate your feelings. You, and your partner, will be glad you did.
Uranus in Libra
You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents. You may decline to participate in long-term relationships altogether, or you may completely rewrite the rules of marriage, factoring in the need for freedom within a relationship. Open marriages, having multiple partners at a time or having different partners for different personal needs are all ways of revolutionizing the world of partnership and romance. Your own relationship history will reflect the changes in the world around you. You and those born around the same time as you will leave a mark on the world that will last for many decades.
Neptune in Sagittarius
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
Pluto in Virgo
You and your generation were born just before, spent your formative years in or came around just after the revolutionary 1960s, and in many ways, you carry forward this revolutionary energy into the future. You expect a lot from life and from your romantic partners; perfection would suit you just fine! Unfortunately, Real Life rarely delivers perfection, so you may spend your life in fruitless pursuit of it. Yet while you may never find the perfection you seek, you'll make the world a much better place in the meantime. Your relationships should fulfill a practical need as well as romantic ones; your best partnerships will have goals above and beyond your romantic liaison.
Mercury square Jupiter
Despite your eternal optimism, you've got a troubled relationship history. Your previous matchups have had a way of turning into mismatches -- with your expansive, confident partners running roughshod over playful little you. It's possible that your lovers were significantly older than you, or in some way more worldly -- better educated? more advanced career-wise? Certainly you felt at a disadvantage next to them, more like a student listening to a teacher's discourse or a kid being lectured by a parent than a true partner. That, coupled with your tendency to blurt out anything that crosses your mind, has left you feeling like a child on a leash.Don't give up on relationships, though, because there's a lot your ideal partner can teach you if you're able to walk the fine line between willing acolyte and bullied wretch. Demand respect from others. Determine within yourself that a polite tone of voice is a must, and snide remarks won't be tolerated. Once you begin standing up for yourself, the balance of power in your relationships will shift, and you can start enjoying the pleasant buzz of a stimulating love relationship.
Jupiter square UranusWhat was the old Chinese proverb? 'May you live in exciting times,' or something like that? Ah, the tales you can tell of exciting times, what with those great, frantic, rebellious sweeties you've grabbed hold of! The passion was something else, yes, oh yes, but the side-effects were brutal. You couldn't find your footing, and you were too well aware of your lovers' propensity for sudden upheaval. Life-changing decisions were made in an instant, and you were just along for the ride, for good or for bad. It has all left you feeling pretty insecure -- and perhaps even fearful that your lover may have had eyes for another. Maybe you've had a history of fidelity issues, and promises to do better next time didn't help you when your lovers were so darn unpredictable.You're in for some wild rides in your love life, but they're not without their pleasures. You'll never be bored; rather, you'll always be wide awake and ever-present for whatever your lover hands you. Trust in one thing: Your lovers don't go anywhere merely for duty's sake. If you get plenty of attention from someone, there's a reason why. Don't question. Don't worry. Just lay back and enjoy the goodies; take it while you can get it.
Mercury opposite Pluto
There have been times in your past relations when you felt like a lab rat. Was it your imagination, or did your partners kinda enjoy pushing your buttons? Your limits were tested, your reactions gravely noted. And when you finally fell into a towering rage, they turned off, cutting off the interaction as swiftly as a knife blow. It's all left you feeling confused and tender. But don't try seeking soft comfort in the arms of a lover who'll despise you for what they view as your weaknesses. It's time to stand up for yourself.If it's any comfort, the problems you experienced in your past couplings weren't your imagination. Your lovers really did have a rather cruel and secretive side, controlling and withholding. The thing you have to accept is that there's a huge -- if unrealized -- part of you that digs the semi-abuse. You like the challenge of trying to tame a powerful lover. You like having a partner who won't let you walk all over them. And the very fact that affection is doled out in such small doses makes it so heady that you get addicted. Don't fight it. Submit. Go along, get along. Speak for yourself and you'll find that your ideal partner treats you more like the intelligent human that you are instead of a science experiment.
Venus opposite Neptune
What secrets were behind your lovers' dreamy, far-off gaze? You had no idea, really, and the mystery drove you mad. In one way it seemed so romantic to be attached to such compelling, enigmatic sweeties, but you could never figure out all their secrets. Instead, you filled the information void with your fantasies. And therein was your problem. You were not involved in something solid and real at all; instead you were locked in on a shifting miasma. Darned sexy, and lots of fun, but it's like mist, or fog; when you tried to hold on to your lover, they slipped through your hands and refused to be captured. Will you ever gain a more solid hold on your relationships? You've simply got to, because what you've had in the past has drifted away and left you empty. You've been too busy enjoying your fantasy life to try to inject any reality into your relationships. Here's your wake-up call: Start examining what you're doing with a more critical eye. There's much love yet to come for you and it's time to start facing it like an adult.
Mars opposite Neptune
Pity your past lovers, because you've been awfully hard to live with. You were constantly annoyed with them, viewing their dreamy, drifting nature as lazy and unmotivated. You demanded changes, but what you asked for was both unreasonable and unkind. You chose lovers who couldn't match you intellectually or physically. They weren't the mover and shaker type like you. Instead, you chose yourself sweet, well-meaning, lovable folks who just happened to be a little spacey and emotional. The shame was that you chose with your eyes open, and then you demanded something different.Papering over the problems you've created would be a lot easier if you accepted reality and stopped wishing for something else. Your lovers will always be a little out-there -- and that's part of their charm, is it not? They give you permission to slow down a little. So why don't you? Just relax and allow yourself an idyll. Your ideal lover has much to teach you if you could stop blustering and demanding what you think you want. Embrace the calm. Wallow in the dreaminess. Just let go; there's a sweet release awaiting you in your perfect relationship.
Saturn opposite Neptune
Misunderstandings cropped up frequently between you and past lovers, didn't they? It seemed as if you always ended up bewildered, apologizing for something when you didn't even know what you did wrong. Meanwhile, your lover pouted and sulked, wrapped in suspicion. Much of the problem was in the fact that you didn't communicate very well. You were distanced from your emotions, burying yourself in work and your goals instead. And your lover imagined the worst of you, making up scenarios and then treating you as if you had erred somehow, or as if you'd made promises that you wouldn't keep.You are simply going to have to learn how to see eye-to-eye with someone else, and you won't do it by ignoring your problems. Gather your courage and start talking. Reveal your feelings. It's uncomfortable for you, but you must begin, since your partners tend to invent information to fill the gaps you leave. Though you don't know it, your ideal partner's feelings and desires are much the same as yours and a comfortable familiarity will fill your lives once you break through your block. Go for it -- warmth is a lot more fun than ice.
Sun quincunx Pluto
Your romance history isn't pretty. You've had a series of delicious attachments that have all collapsed. What happened? Did you forgot the old maxim about the need to let the things you love roam free? Insecurity lead to jealousy, jealousy into attempts to control your partners, who had no intention of being controlled by you. Intense arguments flared, marked by middle-of-the-night discussions, slammed doors, raised voices. The good times faded to a distant memory. But take heart; all is not lost. What you need is a little balance and flexibility. You don't choose lovers you can wrap up in a tidy little box. No, you want your future partner to be passionate and powerful, someone you can admire but who probably won't be so easy to live with. So don't expect every aspect of your relationship to go just exactly as you'd like all the time. When your lover surprises you, it can be disconcerting, but with the right mindset it's also exhilarating. You'll never be bored, and that counts for a lot. Look for an intense connection, because without it your life will be a lot less interesting.
Jupiter quincunx Saturn
You stumbled into the family den of relationships: Your previous partners were solid, dependable, salt-of-the-earth types, and probably not a whole lot of fun. The problem was in your mismatched aims. Though you're ambitious in your own way, driven to travel, study and communicate with others, you didn't have the same 9-to-5 mentality that your sweeties did. You bagged yourself some hard workers, and while that's great for mundane stuff like paying the bills, it didn't leave a whole lot of room to throw everything up in the air and trot off to Paris for the weekend. You craved more excitement. You wanted more fun. You complained to your friends that your lovers were so sweet, but such a drag.But there were sides to the situation you forgot to consider. What you had was stable and real, something that could have lasted -- and you can find this again. You want the type of relationship that can be a wonderful foundation to build a family upon. Whoever said one person should meet all of your needs? Keep your fun friends and look for another serious sweetie; there are many facets to you, and your ideal lover will help you polish one of the most important ones.
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