Love Life Remedy

Sun in Scorpio

A Double-Edged Sword

Your past relationships fall into two categories, Scorpio: the quick, passionate, short-term hookups, and the deep, intense, passionate, you're-mine-forever relationships. Romantic partnerships are a double-edged sword, are they not? On the one hand, you deeply crave that ultimate, intimate connection, the one where you recognize each other immediately and crash into love before a word is spoken. On the other hand, such a partnership requires you to reveal yourself, to be vulnerable, to admit that someone else has something over on you. The dilemma wrecks you.The temptation, once you've thrown out yet another lover with yesterday's trash, is to fold -- to throw in the towel on this whole concept of relationship. You're not the first Scorpio to toy with the idea of hermit-hood. It would be a lot easier, you admit to yourself. But, the things you'd miss! The flutter deep inside when you look into your lover's eyes; the rising passion, the exquisite release. For this, you're willing to put up with a lot. And when you find that ideal love, the one who can meet you halfway, who proves trustworthy with your innermost secrets, whose passion matches yours -- this love is beyond compare, and well worth the wait.

Mercury in Sagittarius

Curbing the Blurting

There's a conveyer belt between your brain and your mouth, and unfortunately it lacks a filter. Consequently, any thought that enters your mind immediately ushers forth from your lips, much to the shock and dismay of those around you. You certainly didn't mean to offend anyone; you were simply stating the obvious truth -- well, obvious to you, anyway. While it's true that honesty is the best policy, it's not necessary to blow others out of the water with it. And thus spoke many of your past lovers, no?There's so much hope for you. You're awfully curious and eager to explore all sorts of subjects, which makes you a delight to talk to. You're well-informed on so many subjects and make weird and wonderful connections between them. This is not the area where your relational communications problems lie. You're so used to checking out the big picture that little details often escape you, and you don't always listen very well, either. Your ideal partner will command your attention, and you'll learn to preview your comments to see in advance how they might go over. This little step will provide big rewards in your love life.

Venus in Scorpio

Many are Called, Few are Chosen

It's not hard to see why you've had problems in past relationships. Many have felt the pull of your charisma and animal attraction. Some lovers, you scare away with your intense gaze and fervent passion. Some are alarmed by your focused attention on them. Others like the intensity and passion, but can't handle your possessiveness or complex emotions. Only the bravest are willing to commit forever to you, though that's what you truly want in your heart of hearts. Will you get it? There's no reason why not. All you need is to find someone who can match your intensity, and who is willing to meet you halfway in the realms of commitment and desire. Won't they be the lucky one! For it is in these profound, we're-in-this-for-the-long-haul connections that your deepest passion truly blossoms. Together, you'll be determined to make it last, and will ignite the most potent thrills that either of you has ever known. This will be well worth the wait.

Mars in Sagittarius

Room to Move

You're the type who prefers to date more than one person at a time. Despite the logistical difficulties this presents, it protects you from having to make a commitment to just one person, which is something you dread. You know your own nature and how easily you get bored: The idea of being with just one person for the rest of your life can be truly terrifying. You avoid this by keeping a good-sized stable of potential dates available at all times; your black book is bulging with numbers. Your sex life is lively, but little more than a series of casual romps in the hay; you don't quite understand it when other people talk about transformational sex.Life is an adventure and love is a part thereof. This is your life philosophy and not much can change it. What impact will this have on your future love life? Well, what you need is someone who's as fun loving and adventurous as you are. Someone who's not afraid to try new positions -- or new locations -- every time, and in this way, spice up your love life so you're each interested in no other. An impossible task, you claim? Absolutely not! After all, you're not the only freedom-loving fish in the sea.

Jupiter in Leo

Getting Respect

Alert and perceptive partners in your past soon figured out that the louder you boast, the smaller you feel. Ironic, isn't it? That you, with so much to offer, can feel so puny inside? Where does that come from? Like the old song, you can spell it out in one word: R-E-S-P-E-C-T. The more you give of yourself and the more you demand from others, the less you have to boast, because your work and ideas will stand up for themselves. The better your relationships will go, too, not surprisingly. The whole respect concept is the key to success in your professional and romantic lives.You have plenty of reason to feel confident. You're a natural leader and maintain a sunny, even disposition even when everything is not running as smoothly as you'd like. Your irrepressible optimism inspires others. You stand out in a crowd and receive approval from others almost without doing anything, simply by the strength of your natural personality. When you shine your gifts on a lover, they feel like a million dollars. And that's a priceless gift.

Saturn in Virgo

Chicken Little

When your past lovers inquired if you'd been tested for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, that should have been a red flag for you. OK, maybe you're not obsessive-compulsive, or even a neat freak. But there's a perfectionist streak inside you that's a mile wide, and even the tidiest or hardest-working person might feel oppressed by your efforts to perform up to your own impossible standards. Fastidiousness, after all, is not a virtue unless you're in a hospital or science lab, and no one but you expects you to ace that test every single time. The standards you hold for yourself are in the stratosphere, yet you struggle incessantly to fulfill them -- and if you can't, you throw a temper tantrum and then give up completely. The people who know you best can only sit back and shake their heads at you.You're not given to flights of fancy, that's for sure, but you could still lighten up a little. Stop worrying that people will think you're not good enough, or productive enough, or diligent enough. You trump everyone in those departments. Have a little faith in yourself! Once this happens, it will be easier to see the admiring glances that are cast your way. You've many fine qualities to offer if you could just learn to let things go a little bit. The sky won't fall, Chicken Little.

Uranus in Scorpio

Exposing Taboos

Have you noticed that it's all the rage now to be bisexual? The world has you and your generation to thank for that; you are opening doors on new ways of being, particularly in the sexual arena. Experiences and orientations that have been taboo since forever are coming up for review. You and your peers open these areas confidently, seeking to find out what's going on behind the closed doors. You let the full light fall on subjects that were previously off-limits. In fact, you accept no limits on your sexuality; it's obvious to you that everyone should be free to love whom they want, when they want and how they want. This new way of viewing sexuality is only part of what your generation is called upon to open up; the human psyche is no less a target for your revolutionary ways. Your job is to shine the light on all areas that have been taboo up until now. The effects of the changes started by you and your peers will be long-lasting, indeed.

Neptune in Sagittarius

The Road to Learning

You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?

Pluto in Libra

Serious Relationships

You and your peers will revolutionize the arena of relationships and romances. As a child, you watched partnerships crumble all around you, if not your own parents', then the relationships of your friends' parents; and you decided early on that you wouldn't repeat the same pattern. You take relationships very, very seriously, and for this reason may wait to start dating or getting serious about anyone. You're not in any hurry, which provides you with enough time to understand yourself and your relationship needs. Don't delay too long, though! Fear of relationship can be just as harmful as hooking up too early. Your challenge will be in finding the right balance of independence and partnership, and in knowing how much of your personal energy to expend toward each.

Sun square Jupiter

Bigger than Life

It's lucky for you that you can laugh at yourself. That's a handy quality to have when you find yourself in those inevitable relational difficulties, which often take you completely by surprise. After all, you're generous to a fault, stately, wise and larger than life. It's hard to believe such a wonderful person could ever have problems with partners! You can't see that you appear just a bit egotistic, or that there seems to be an ulterior motive as you charm your way into getting what you want. At other times, you work at cross purposes with yourself. Fate throws obstacles in your way, and you make choices that create chaos and friction. Your exuberance overcomes good sense and commandeers everyone's attention. You get annoyed too easily, impatient with anyone who doesn't see it your way. You can be self-centered, overconfident and so driven to meet the goals you've set that you lose sight of the big picture. And you know what? That big picture is important, because it helps you keep your perspective clear and your priorities straight. Experiences teach you to enjoy others as much as you enjoy yourself.

Mercury square Saturn

School of Hard Knocks

Let's face it, you like to do things the hard way. You're a paragon of focus and concentration, and frankly, the furrow in your brow isn't all that attractive. Your love life's been going downhill for some time, and there's a reason: You keep choosing lovers who can meet you eye-to-eye intellectually, but who are a bit chilly. You interpret their standoffish behavior as a judgment on you, but this says more about you than it does about them. You're far too vulnerable to criticism and negative thinking, taking things personally that aren't meant that way.It doesn't have to be like this. You actually enjoy being challenged, and your ideal lover will provide you with plenty of stimulation on every level. Much will be demanded of you, and you'll have to work hard to deliver. This will polish you, like a rock eroded by a powerful river. No one ever said growth was fun! And grow you will, though you'll remain ever insecure about where your relationship is going. Try to relax a bit, and just enjoy the ride. You're well-placed for the future if you can engage in meaningful communication.

Venus square Jupiter

Learning from Excess

You're a social butterfly, a gleeful hedonist, an appreciator of the finer things in life. In past relationships, you've chosen partners who have egged you on in your hedonistic ways. Limits were ignored and sensibilities offended. Your big heart was opened to far too many. Your freewheeling, easy lifestyle helped you blissfully ignore the morning after. But excess has its downside: squandered resources, and that doesn't just mean money.Your ideal sweetie is more attuned to the intellectual, as well as tangible signposts of financial success. At first they may seem rather stodgy and too wrapped up in matters of the mind. They could find you to be impractical and self-indulgent. Who'll be right? Both of you! But however it may seem on the surface, any mismatch in values and interests you have with your ideal love won't be as difficult to bridge as it seems. You will each temper the other. You'll help your lover to lighten up and enjoy life, while your lover will teach you how to set goals and reach them. Though you must plow through some friction to meet in the middle it will be well worth the effort. By learning from each other you will both become better people.

Mars square Saturn

Holding Out on Love

First things first: Who's been holding out in the love department? Signs point to your past partners, who've been stingy with affection at the best of times. But certain developments have practically shut the store down, and whether you're with a partner or not, you're starving for physical contact. You'll go far trying woo any sweetie within reaching distance, but it's to no avail: They're better than you at playing mind games. You're outmatched. You're going to have to iron out your problems if you'd like to move along through this field of broken dreams. One thing you should know: Much of the reason why you're off your game is that you're enacting old dramas from your past. Just who can you think of who withheld love from you in your childhood? And how did you behave, given your high hopes of evening the score? Now do you recognize why you've become what you are? You've got to start unloading your baggage, one piece a time, before you can unwind the Gordian knot of your woes. If you change your behavior, you'll change your relationships, too. But first you have some deep thinking to do.

Saturn square Neptune

Seeing What You Want to See

Romantic success seemed tantalizingly close so many times, yet always eluded you. Were you looking at things as they really were, or as you wished they were? There was something insubstantial in your pairings, something secret or unexpressed lurking right beneath the surface. Did you or your partner have issues from the past that were never admitted to or worked through? Was one of you up to something secretive and unhealthy? Whatever the issues, they caused problems between you, problems you can't understand without owning up to exactly what went wrong. You thought you knew your partner, but you were wrong.Moving forward, take the time to get to know the next person you date. Talk about your feelings. What are each of you looking for in your relationship? What is it you need that you're not getting? And, most painfully, what parts of you do you fear are unlovable? It could turn out that your fears and anxieties are not grounded in reality. And in any case, you must let the real you be known if you are to be loved and accepted. Let your true self be seen. Do not fear that when you open up you'll be rejected. You have much love to give, and your ideal lover will have tender regard for you; letting that love in to your private, bruised parts will start a glorious healing process.

No Oppositions

No Sympathy

You're pretty secure in your own viewpoint. You're not the wishy-washy type, and if you are, you're absolutely dedicated to each particular opinion -- even if you completely change your mind five minutes later. In short, you've got the courage of conviction, but in your past relationships, this often looked to your partners like smugness, or even emotional neglect. Even when you felt certain that you understood them and their feelings, they were still upset that you just didn't get where they were coming from. If they were the patient, communicative type, they might have kept trying for a while before giving up on you. If they were the short-fused type, they probably left in a huff the first time you gave them that blank look that meant, 'What's the problem, babe?' Sympathy and empathy are essential to a functional intimate relationship. You and your lover are two completely different people, and while you'll each experience life from your own unique perspective, you still need to be able to translate your experiences to each other, and you both need to feel respected and understood. In future relationships, you'll have to work on listening to your partner when they describe their feelings or how they view a particular situation. Even if what they describe sounds utterly foreign -- and therefore negligible -- to you, take them seriously anyway. You may even need to remind yourself on a regular basis that their feelings and perspective are every bit as valid as your own.

No Quincunxes

My Way or the Highway

You've never been much for compromise, have you? In past relationships, when issues came up between you and your lover, you used whatever tools you had -- sweetly cajoling, arguing, turning a cold shoulder -- to get your own way. But why was having your own way so important? After all, other people have feelings, needs and agendas, too, just like yours. Who decides which person's need is the most important one in any given moment? That's a perennial question for all relationships, and except in the one between an infant and its caretaker, the answer isn't as simple as 'I decide, and my needs always come first.' Relationships, after all, should be about give and take. Sometimes you get your way; sometimes your lover does. Insisting on always getting your way not only makes you look uncomfortably similar to that aforementioned infant, it could actually lead to loneliness. After all, if it's a choice between getting your way or bailing out of the relationship, well, you'll end up either with a partner who's a pushover or sleeping alone. If you want a well-functioning, long-term relationship, you'll have to learn to choose your battles. The art of compromise is the perfect place to start your lessons, because if you give your lover a little, they'll probably want to give back a lot. You'll feel a lot better once you learn to step back and let someone else take reins from time to time.

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