The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Love Life Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Sun in Virgo
If there's one skill you have carefully honed, it's this: how to eliminate imperfections in your life. By now you've built up a fairly respectable heap of them, and no doubt there are a few ex-lovers stranded in there. They all had the same fatal flaw: They were human, and therefore imperfect. Not only that, but your interactions with them showed your own flaws and defects, and that's something you'd far prefer not to look at. You're doing the best you can. Why doesn't anyone understand you?Chin up, Virgo. You've got lots of good to offer that special person who is able to measure up to your lengthy wish list. You're sincere, devoted and willing to serve. You'll stay humbly backstage while your partner gets all the glory. You quietly and efficiently handle all the mundane, practical details of your relationship, taking good care of your partner all the while. Perhaps if you turn a blind eye to their minor imperfections and focus on their positive qualities, just as you want them to focus on yours, you'll build a more successful and satisfying connection.
Mercury in Libra
Like the best diplomats, you've had plenty of training in how to say difficult things so nicely that the other guy doesn't even know he's getting bad news. You turn on the charm and spin your tale so eloquently that you've got everyone around the table nodding and smiling, and at the end of the meal, they even pick up the check. It's only later, when they're scratching their heads over the things you said, that they realize they've been duped. If your previous lovers feel this way en masse, then you lose your Get Out of Jail Free card. You've got some 'splainin to do!Of course, you don't really mean those little white lies, and you really do forget the fine-print details when you're trying to win someone over to your side. And yes, it truly would be next to impossible for you to present a clear, bare-bones, direct and accurate description of your viewpoint. But for the sake of everyone who isn't inside your head or heart, would you please give it a try?
Venus in Libra
You have the hardest time saying 'no,' don't you? You're so careful not to hurt anyone's feelings, or to make them think that you don't like them (even when you really don't!). And it's not as if you're lying, because you really do believe things in the moment you say them. But like a chameleon, you may change the very next minute, the better to blend in with your environment. Can you wonder why everyone complains about how inconstant you are? How changeable? How indecisive?Previous lovers have been captivated by your artistry, your good taste, your refinement. Your pleasant nature and romantic leanings make you a wonderful date. Why didn't you tell them that you're dating three other people, too? Much better to be honest about it than to be embarrassed out on a date with one of your other amours, only to bump into the person you were supposed to be committed to. Avoid those little white lies you tell in order to protect your lover, or yourself. It's too much to keep track of!
Mars in Libra
Not deciding is deciding not to. While you dilly-dally, gathering facts and weighing all the options, the choice passes you by, going to someone more decisive and direct. How many suitable partners have you passed up this way? Who got tired of waiting around while you worked up the gumption to let them know how you felt? And who has accused you of being dishonest because you hesitate to express your anger, preferring instead to pretend everything's fine when clearly it's not?You've got yourself in a bind. Although your indecision doesn't seem so earth-shattering from moment to moment, the cost is higher than you'd like to admit. And since you avoid confrontation like the plague, you always stick to cooperation and compromise; this, too, has its problems. What to do? Well, some assertiveness training might help. Even just taking the risk of speaking your mind clearly, without considering how anyone else might feel about it, would be a beneficial and revealing first step. Imagine that! They didn't go belly-up when you disagreed with them! These steps will be a good beginning to sorting out your relational difficulties.
Jupiter in Gemini
Remember when you were in grade school, how you used to love to play not-very-nice jokes on that fussy, sensitive little girl in your class, and she would run out of the room, crying? And how you would laugh and make everyone else laugh, too? The question is, have you outgrown this questionable practice yet? In the past year or two, have you embarrassed your lover at a party or in a public place? And when they complained, did you shrug your shoulders and say, 'Hey, lighten up, it was only a joke!'? If so, here's a hint for you: Grownups don't behave that way.Here's your problem: You live in your head. You're so busy analyzing (or, more likely, overanalyzing) everything that you forget your own feelings, much less other people's emotions. And romantic relationships cannot go far without some sense of mutual feeling and attraction, and a hint of similar heart vibrations. When your mind is full of grandiose ideas and overarching principles, it's difficult to make room in your heart for the many emotions that relationships can bring up. Don't treat your lover like a dummy, either; explaining everything to them as if they were a child is sure to offend them, and doesn't give them the credit they're due. They can teach you a thing or two as well, mostly about understanding and appreciating your underdeveloped emotional nature.
Saturn in Leo
Your difficulties in love come not from without, but from within yourself. Instead of feeling confident in yourself, building a strong ego or developing your obvious capacity for leadership, you flog yourself constantly for not being good enough. When others compliment you, you don't believe them. When someone indicates interest in you, you may not even notice it. Oddly enough, you may act as though you are quite superior to others, thus appearing stuck up and aloof. This mask of superiority is merely a defense mechanism, designed to throw others off the track. You're sure that they'll discover at any moment that you're a fraud.But you're not! Stop being so hard on yourself. Relax those elevated expectations and give yourself a break. In fact, you have an amazing amount to offer your ideal partner. If you will but open your heart a little for someone to love you, you'll immediately feel better. Bit by bit, love will flow stronger and stronger. You have an amazing capacity for love, commitment and loyalty. All you have to do is believe that it's possible.
Uranus in Scorpio
Have you noticed that it's all the rage now to be bisexual? The world has you and your generation to thank for that; you are opening doors on new ways of being, particularly in the sexual arena. Experiences and orientations that have been taboo since forever are coming up for review. You and your peers open these areas confidently, seeking to find out what's going on behind the closed doors. You let the full light fall on subjects that were previously off-limits. In fact, you accept no limits on your sexuality; it's obvious to you that everyone should be free to love whom they want, when they want and how they want. This new way of viewing sexuality is only part of what your generation is called upon to open up; the human psyche is no less a target for your revolutionary ways. Your job is to shine the light on all areas that have been taboo up until now. The effects of the changes started by you and your peers will be long-lasting, indeed.
Neptune in Sagittarius
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
Pluto in Libra
You and your peers will revolutionize the arena of relationships and romances. As a child, you watched partnerships crumble all around you, if not your own parents', then the relationships of your friends' parents; and you decided early on that you wouldn't repeat the same pattern. You take relationships very, very seriously, and for this reason may wait to start dating or getting serious about anyone. You're not in any hurry, which provides you with enough time to understand yourself and your relationship needs. Don't delay too long, though! Fear of relationship can be just as harmful as hooking up too early. Your challenge will be in finding the right balance of independence and partnership, and in knowing how much of your personal energy to expend toward each.
Sun square Neptune
You find love difficult to grab onto, do you not? There have been lovers you managed to wrap around your little finger, blessed as you are with a magnetism and the spooky capacity to see directly into their hearts. But this is not ultimately satisfying. You see them but they don't see you. You can't seem to understand your partners; it's like you don't speak the same language. They find you hard to pin down and soon they simply evaporate. Your phone stops ringing and you find yourself spending more time at home alone, waiting for something to happen. These are sure signals that another relationship has bitten the dust.It's time to take a good hard look at your illusions of love. You choose lovers who are creative and sweet, tender and dreamy, and then expect them to have a fiery drive to match your own. You blithely ignore the red flags waving wildly in your head: Your brain may be trying to tell you something that your heart is not willing to hear. You can avoid further slaps upside the head by getting a lot more clear about what you want and sticking to the plan. Set the alarm and wake up from the dreamland you've been inhabiting.
Saturn square Uranus
You grabbed some real live wires when you hooked up with your past lovers, and you're still reeling from the effects -- electrified, yet stunned. Let's be honest: Your fidelity issues were on full display, yet you wouldn't commit. You worried that you couldn't trust your freewheeling sweetie. You wondered what they were up to when you weren't there to watch. You may even have caught yourself doing a little more snooping than you actually felt comfortable with. The problem, of course, was in the time you spent together, not the time you were apart. If things had been really great between you, there'd have been no need to worry, right? So...what was the problem? Did your jealousy and insecurity tear you apart? Did you demand to hear 'I love you' when your mate wasn't in the mood to say it? Did you take off and try something on the side, fulfilling your own suspicions about your mate?Buckle yourself in and get ready to enjoy the ride. You're likely to choose lovers who will always like to shake things up. You may never get the calm security or steady commitment that you think you want. But another name for security is boredom, and you won't have any of that, either. Your ideal lover won't settle for anything less than passion and zing, and if you choose to stick around, that's just what you'll get.
No Oppositions
You're pretty secure in your own viewpoint. You're not the wishy-washy type, and if you are, you're absolutely dedicated to each particular opinion -- even if you completely change your mind five minutes later. In short, you've got the courage of conviction, but in your past relationships, this often looked to your partners like smugness, or even emotional neglect. Even when you felt certain that you understood them and their feelings, they were still upset that you just didn't get where they were coming from. If they were the patient, communicative type, they might have kept trying for a while before giving up on you. If they were the short-fused type, they probably left in a huff the first time you gave them that blank look that meant, 'What's the problem, babe?' Sympathy and empathy are essential to a functional intimate relationship. You and your lover are two completely different people, and while you'll each experience life from your own unique perspective, you still need to be able to translate your experiences to each other, and you both need to feel respected and understood. In future relationships, you'll have to work on listening to your partner when they describe their feelings or how they view a particular situation. Even if what they describe sounds utterly foreign -- and therefore negligible -- to you, take them seriously anyway. You may even need to remind yourself on a regular basis that their feelings and perspective are every bit as valid as your own.
Jupiter quincunx UranusAs a fun exercise, create a list of your past lovers. Hmmm, it's a list full of strange people, all right. Your lovers have been sexy for sure; compelling and exciting and quite attractive. Whenever you introduced your friends, they always raved about the hotties you managed to bag. Yet there was always something unstable. Something restless. Your lovers couldn't seem to settle down and just be into you; there was always the sense that they had a roving eye -- and that it may even have landed on a friend or two of yours, or so you feared. You couldn't get comfortable. You couldn't relax. You felt like you had to be on guard to be in control.But there's no controlling your ideal lover, and that's the fun of it. It's kind of cool to be on your toes, to be forced into being your best self rather than relaxing into your typical self-indulgent laziness. Keep looking until you find just what you want -- someone exciting, someone who brings out your competitive side. Get to the chase, which quickens your blood. Go with it. Don't expect to wrestle your love to the ground and pin them for a count of three. Instead, hang on and dig the tumult; this is the kind of love that songs are written about.
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