An astrological report prepared for

Person 1, born November 18, 1975 and person 2, Born November 10, 1979:

When Love Hurts

How to Uncover Roadblocks in Your Relationship

SOMETIMES LOVE THRILLS THE BODY AND FILLS THE SOUL; IT CAN PUT A BOUNCE IN YOUR STEP AND A SMILE ON YOUR FACE NO MATTER THE WEATHER. OTHER TIMES, LOVE JUST STINKS.
That's where When Love Hurts report comes in. If you've been together for a while and things aren't looking quite so rosy anymore, When Love Hurts can help. 

After all, facing your problems is half the battle, but sometimes that's the hardest part. Not because you don't want to face them -- you do -- but because they mystify you. You try to get along with your honey, and you know they have good intentions too. Yet somehow, things just don't go as well as you'd like.
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Friction, Differences, and Karma Meters

The Friction, Differences and Karma Meters: every couple faces a certain set of challenges, and the number and type of challenges determine whether your relationship will be merely interesting or out-and-out difficult. At The Astrologer, we've broken down these challenges into three sections: sources of friction, the major differences between you, and the karmic ties from past lives that draw you together today.

On the first two meters, Friction and Differences, a score somewhere in the middle is probably best. Friction can be a good thing -- after all, the same energy that makes you lust after each other also makes you fight. And we all know that a good argument, like good sex, clears the air and lets you know your passion is alive! The same goes for differences between you in the ways that you think and view the world: These contrasts keep the relationship dynamic.

Karma, on the other hand, isn't such a great thing, even if your past-life bonds were positive ones. This lifetime is... Read more

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Friction
= 4

7-10: Open warfare

4-6: The occasional dispute

0-3: Whatever you have to say dear

Differences
= 1

7-10: Who the $#@% are you, again?

4-6: Some interesting contrasts

0-3: Two Peas in a pod

Karma
= 2

7-10: New love, same old story

4-6: Total deja-vu

0-3: No past life ties (whew!)

Person 1, here is your When Love Hurts report

Sun

illustrates your basic commonalities
tells your basic differences
indicates how well you get along with one another
shows what each of you brings to the relationship

Mercury

shows how you communicate with each other
reveals who is the thinker & who is the feeler
helps you understand each other’s communication style

Venus

reveals your connection to each other
indicates how each other prefers to receive love
highlights how both of you express love

Mars

represents the physical bond you share
reveals each other’s desires and impulses
shows how each person expresses frustration

Jupiter

highlights the non-negotiable values held by each of you
shows what is important to each person
indicates whether the relationship will grow

Saturn

challenges the relationship
unveils each other's shortcomings
demonstrates where extra effort is needed in the relationship

Uranus

uncovers each other’s rebellious side
points out the unique qualities each person brings to the relationship
shows how the two of you have fun

Neptune

rules the psychic connection you have to each other
reveals how you help each other grow
indicates if a relationship is a spiritual one

Pluto

reveals each person’s greatest fears
indicates opportunities for change
demonstrates the self-transformation the relationship brings to both of you
Read below to find out where each planet was on November 18, 1975, and how your birth chart has shaped your personality and guided your decisions so far…

From Friction To Fulfillment

Sun square Mars

Titanic Twosome

Of course your relationship has issues! The meeting of two such powerful personalities is bound to strike sparks. Your lover likely excites you like no other. This force of nature tends to be impulsive and fearless, lusty and straightforward, with a confidence that rivals your own. Together and apart you stride through your lives with a daring that others can only wonder at. When you are united you live a life writ large -- but unfortunately, your conflicts rival your passion. Titanic arguments, friction, a link that always seems to be teetering on self-destruction -- you never heard love was easy, but does it have to be this hard? One of you has to learn to give. You can't struggle over everything or you'll waste your prodigious energies just treading water rather than moving forward. And since you're the more gentle-natured, it's probably going to be you who has to accept what you cannot change. Stop hounding your lover over issues that are mere annoyances instead of true deal-breakers. If you can manage to quell your troublesome quibbling, you and your lover could really have something special.

Mercury square Mars

Couple of Hotheads

You and your sweetie have a problem: You're both hotheaded. Easy to insult and quick to criticize, you fight over the silliest things, and pursue each battle to the death. Have you been turning the cold shoulder to your partner? These problems are at the very root of your pairing. Though your connection is passionate and intense, it's also inclined to tumult, since both of you tend to view a difference of opinion as a threat to your egos. In addition, you may find yourself cursed with a curious compulsion to blurt out the most inappropriate things -- or a habit of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. You're going to have to work at it if you want this one to be a go. You'll never meld together smoothly if you don't put some time in. Schedule regular time to sit down calmly and work on your issues. If the urge strikes to have a rager, resolve to table the issue until your next meeting instead. If you can get a little distance and gain a little perspective, you both can learn to appreciate what the other has to give.

Mars square Saturn

Stingy With Amour

First things first. Who's holding out in the love department? Signs point to your partner, who's stingy with affection in the best of times. But certain developments have practically shut the store down, and you're starving for physical contact. It's almost pathetic how far you'll go to try to woo your stubborn sweetie. But it's to no avail. Your partner's better than you at playing mind games. You're outmatched. And though you'd like this one to be The One, you're going to have to iron out your problems if you'd like to move along. One thing you should know: Much of the reason why you're off your game is that you're enacting old dramas from your past. Just who can you think of who withheld love from you in your childhood? And how did you behave, given your high hopes of evening the score? Now do you recognize why you've become what you are? You've got to start unloading your baggage, one piece at a time, before you can unwind the Gordian knot of your woes. If you change your behavior your partner will change as well. But first you have some deep thinking to do.

Friend or Foe?

Jupiter opposite Pluto

Much Manipulation

Your love relationship's not always a comfy place to be. Both you and your sweetie seem more interested in manipulating each other than in being in love. You rage and pout. Your partner slams doors and withholds affection and reassurance. And both of you are driven absolutely crazy. You're feeling so frustrated that you're about to chuck everything in the garbage -- but don't be so quick to discard everything you've built so far. Your lover's a challenging mate, to be sure. But that's exactly what keeps you on your toes, and keeps you coming back for more. Splitting when the going gets rough will only ensure that you repeat the same patterns in your next relationship.What's needed is a dispassionate tallying up of the status of your relationship. What's working in your relationship? What's not? The ability to calmly take your connection's temperature is the first step to solving your problems. Found some issues that need a little work? Great! Get going! Talk about what you both want. Make agreements on how you're going to move from here to there. It's not fun, all this negotiating, but it's the only way to break you out of your rut.

Why Are We Involved, Again?

Mars quincunx Mercury

Lively If Lazy

Your relationship is bright and lively -- maybe a little too much so. You are the aggressive mover and shaker, driven to achieve, to do. Your partner is the quicksilver chameleon, apt to change ideas, opinions, even a long-held lifestyle on a dime. All that restless energy is apt to make you a little nervous. You'd prefer to see your sweetie settled down on a particular task, going in one direction. It's distracting and annoying to you to waste your own energies catering to your sweetie; you'd much prefer your home life to be seamless and easy so you can concentrate your prodigious strength on your lofty goals. But that's a small quibble, really, in a overall pleasing picture. What's needed on your part is some flexibility. You won't be able to do everything you'd like in life -- with such big dreams, who could? Consider a smaller, sweeter ambition: What good does it do you to be rich and famous if you're not also happily, sweetly in love? Don't criticize your sweetie, don't expect big changes. Just learn to be happy with what you've got -- heaven knows you should be.

Jupiter quincunx Sun

Awkward But Fixable

On paper, you and your love have so much in common -- why can't you seem to make it work? Both of you are big-hearted and loving, willing to give as well as to take. You have a mutual interest in high living; a love of the best in food and furnishings and fashion. Your friends get along, and even your family members have pulled you aside to compliment you on your significant other. So why can't you find a comfortable place? Conversation doesn't flow easily between you. There is awkwardness. Neither one of you is sure of the other and you can't let go and trust.The answer lies in your ability to remain flexible. Yes, there's a certain way you want things to go, but if you're not able to bend your love relationship will surely shatter. Ask your lover for a wish-list and share your own; allow your whole soul to be viewed. Don't hold back. If there are things you want from your lover ask for them, and be willing to give what is asked in return. These conversations are never easy, but you must break through the obstacles between you if you two are to progress.

The Ties That Bind

No conjunctions

Enjoying Togetherness and Apartness

There's glue, and then there's glue. Elmer's versus epoxy, Velcro versus nails. Fortunately, with no difficult conjunctions between you, your relationship is bound by the easy-to-separate type of togetherness, not the wild-horses-couldn't-drag-us-apart variety. Now, don't misunderstand: This is not to say that there's not a strong connection between you. But it's nice, isn't it, to be able to take the occasional separate vacation; to enjoy your own interests without your partner feeling threatened; to be two distinct individuals who choose to hang out together. Compare this to the joined-at-the-hip, can't-bear-to-be-apart couple. Don't you always wonder about them? What do they think will happen if they're not together for an entire evening, much less a day or even a week?Separation is not a problem for you two; in fact, you may do it by choice on a regular basis. After all, absence makes the heart grow fonder, and this is surely true of you and your partner. You take great joy in sharing your individual experiences, as well as in spending time together. If anything, you might have to make it a point to schedule in time to be together! You may each be so wrapped up in your own orbit that you suddenly realize that days or even weeks have gone by without you two sharing a full day together.Don't let that happen. Use the previous sections of this report to discover the challenges of your relationship, which so often turn out to be opportunities for growth and development. You two have chosen to be together, and likewise, you can choose to grow together.

Next Steps

I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!

Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.

That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.

Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.

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