Romantic Personality Profile

Sun in Scorpio

A seductive lover

Your sense of your own power is strong, and you definitely know how to use it! You're incredibly charismatic, and you draw lots of admirers into your orbit just by being your intense self. You can be quite seductive when you want to, but you're not just about the physical release of sex; you want your physical connection with your lover to be mind-blowing -- to reach down into the depths of your soul and somehow transform you. You can be very emotionally intense as well, sometimes verging toward the jealous or even vindictive side of things, because when your feelings get hurt, it's strong, and your first thought is strike back. As you get older, you'll learn to keep this impulse in check more and more, but you'll always be strongly emotionally driven, and your primary concern in relationships will always be to make that heart-to-heart connection. A funny thing about you: You want nothing more than to be understood by your sweetie, but you tend to be secretive, preventing them from knowing the real you. Your task, then, is to learn to open up with your intimate partner. Set those secrets free and then bask in the glory of being thoroughly known by your lover.

Sun conjunct Mercury

Wheels constantly turning

Your intelligence is one of the things your friends love most about you; you're a real thinker, and constantly trying to make sense of your perceptions. That quality makes you a scintillating dinner date, especially when you're comfortable with your companion. But what happens when you're out with someone new, and neither one of you is particularly comfortable? They've got spinach in their teeth, they aren't upholding their fair share of the conversation and the wheels in your mind are turning faster than the wheels of a car. Once you decide they're dull or awkward or not mentally up to par, that's that; you're not likely to give them a second chance. But what if they were just nervous, tongue-tied and not at their best? Overanalyzing your romantic relationships can stop them in their tracks before they even get off the ground. It's possible for you to misread someone (hard to believe, but true!), and to judge them prematurely. Try to give that special someone a second chance, even if their emails or their conversational skills fall short of wowing you. Once you get to know them better, you could find them to be as sharp-witted and amazing as you'd hoped.

Mercury in Scorpio

An emotional communicator

You're an intuitive thinker and communicator, often relying much more on your instincts than on any surface impressions -- such as what's actually being said out loud -- to determine what's going on in any given situation. You can also be quite secretive, which sometimes creates an imbalance in your love relationships. You want your sweetie to divulge all their secrets, to lay their soul bare to you, to let you plunder the depths of their feelings and their psyche, their distant past, their fondest hopes and greatest fears...and at the same time, you want to guard your own feelings, hopes, fears and motivations. This can get frustrating for your partner; why should they always bare their soul when you're so rarely willing to do the same? Furthermore, you have a variety of defenses set up for whenever your sweetie tries to get past your protective walls. You do have a temper, and if you feel threatened you're not afraid to lash out with anger, sarcasm or derision to throw your honey off the trail of the truth. The truth, of course, is that you're just like everyone else -- vulnerable, in need of an emotional connection that you can count on.

Venus in Libra

In love with being in love

You're at your happiest and most blissful in a loving, harmonious relationship, and you're one of the world's sappiest romantics. You shower your sweetie with affection, gifts, flowers, chocolates, poems that you wrote with them in mind -- whatever they love, whatever makes them feel cherished and adored, you want to give it to them. You can actually go a bit overboard on this front, but find the right person who loves being treated like royalty, and they'll revel in your tender, thrilling care. Sometimes you may go overboard in a financial sense, because you so love treating your sweetie in the manner you believe they deserve; so it's a good thing you're all about balance and harmony, and you understand the ins and outs of credit card debt! You have a gentle manner of loving and your artistic tastes are quite refined. You can introduce your sweetie to the finer things in life, if they aren't already accustomed to them. You have a very charming, agreeable and affectionate way about you, so you'll rarely be without a lover or at least a crush. Good thing, too, because you greatly prefer being romantically involved to being alone.

Venus conjunct Pluto

Seeking that universal truth

You experience the heights and the depths of love and passion, and as intense as it gets -- which can include intensely uncomfortable or even heartbreaking -- you love it all. For you, love is a transformative experience. Through connecting with another soul, your own soul is changed; love brings you closer to that universal truth that you've been striving to grasp for as long as you can remember. Sex is also an incredible rush for you; you have a hard time being cavalier about physical intimacy, because it's too important to you to treat it casually. Even your flings take on significance in your life, because everything you experience in love contains a lesson for you, or opens up some new, previously undiscovered realm of human experience. Because you take love and sex so seriously and experience them so intensely, you make both the physical and the emotional experience equally intense and compelling for your sweetie. They find you as compelling as you find them. Obsession, in fact, can be a problem for you; you tend to fixate on the object of your desires, and it's hard for you to give them the space that they might require.

Venus sextile Saturn

Capable of tremendous devotion

You're capable of intense and long-lasting devotion to a lover, but you're not one to stick around when it becomes clear that a relationship just isn't going anywhere. You're serious about love, but you also know how to have fun with it -- how to let your hair down with someone cute and exciting, how to be affectionate, how to have a good time even while you're looking for the person who will be your partner through all of life's ups and downs. You're not terribly romantic about love, which is a good thing in the long run. You don't have many illusions about it; you have a firm idea of what's possible in love and what's unrealistic. As a result, to some, you may seem a little formal or reserved, especially when you're out with someone new. And you do tend to hold back a bit, at least until you get to know someone better. Trust is definitely a prerequisite for you when it comes to love and vulnerability. But once you get to know and trust someone, you'll give them your heart. You have a creative soul; make sure that, when you do settle down with someone for the long term, they appreciate and respect your creativity, and don't try to stifle it.

Venus sextile Neptune

Adjusting to their needs

You make a really sweet, accepting and forgiving partner in love. You tend to look for the good in people instead of focusing on their flaws. Sometimes you can mislead yourself as to the reality of a love affair, but in general, your emphasis on the positive is a benefit to your life and your relationships. You make your honey feel comfortable and relaxed; you really let them know that they don't have to pretend to be perfect. They know you'll still love them even if they're flawed -- which they are, of course, since everyone is. You're very sympathetic to their insecurities and other issues, and your compassion puts them at ease. You're also very creative, and you have a wonderful way of incorporating fantasy and romance into your love life. Candles and flowers enhance the romantic mood for you, as do murmured sweet nothings and soft caresses shared with your sweetie. There is a word of caution in order, however: Make sure that your honey deserves the TLC you heap all over them. You have no problem with adjusting to make room for someone else in your life, so just be sure that you're not letting yourself get walked all over.

Venus square Mars

Innate passion

You put a huge amount of energy into your love life. You're focused on romance; it fuels your creativity and is a driving force in your life. Your relationships aren't all smooth, either; you may go through some intense ups and downs before finding that special person who can satisfy you on a romantic level. You have an intensely passionate nature, which makes it really hard to feel satisfied for long in a love affair. You're impulsive in love; you jump in heart-first, and though you're completely head-over-heels one minute, you might be intensely angry the next. But the tension you experience in your love life can actually keep your blood moving and your creativity constantly thriving. After all, if you're constantly seeking, never quite satisfied, you'll also never grow complacent. It's rare that you'll let a relationship stagnate; if things start to grow dull, you'll think of some sort of monkey wrench to throw into the mix, just to stir things up! Your admirers find you difficult, sexy, exciting and sometimes a little too much to handle. Some balance would be nice, if only to give yourself and your lover a break from time to time; but at least you know how to keep things interesting.

Venus opposite Jupiter

Learn to be discriminating

Your love life may be full, but that doesn't always mean it's satisfying. Even a team of admirers knocking on your door (or filling up your email Inbox) may not satisfy the romantic craving inside you. For one thing, you're not very discriminating about who you date. You have a hard time saying no -- to anyone or anything -- so you'll often go out with whoever propositions you, regardless of whether or not you feel a real connection with them. You're used to people approaching you, so when you find someone that you're genuinely attracted to, you may not know how to let them know how you feel, or that you hope to get to know them better. You're attracted to people who can teach you something about life and love, but if you don't learn to be more discriminating in who you date, you might end up with people who are no smarter or more experienced than you are! If you want to find someone special to love, you'll have to learn how to treat them as if they truly are special; but you also have to realize how special you are. You don't need someone else to teach you things or make you feel worthy; you already have everything you need, inside.

Mars in Cancer

Driven by emotion

Emotions drive you, including your actions and your physical self. You need to feel an emotional connection with someone if sex is going to enter the picture; otherwise, the experience is just too empty to make it worthwhile. When you're in a stable, committed love affair, lovemaking takes on a powerful, tender and emotional flavor. It becomes a way for you to really connect with your sweetie at a deep, intuitive level. In fact, connecting intuitively is one of your strengths. You intuit your honey's needs and desires and respond as well as you can -- sometimes, to your own detriment. There's such a thing as being a little too selfless in love, and there's also such a thing as self-martyrdom. Make sure that your protective, nurturing urges aren't just a play for someone's sympathy or dependency. But generally, this isn't your aim. You truly want to help the people you love, and as long as they're loyal in return, you'll do just about anything for them. Your sex drive may fluctuate according to your emotions, since you're so unable to separate the two; when your relationship takes a dip in this department, just trust that your passion will return as soon as your positive feelings do.

Mars retrograde

Unpredictable sexual energies

Your sexual energies are erratic at best; you find it very difficult to keep up your drive and interest when your urges are so here, there, high, low and basically unpredictable. This can be a problem in love affairs, because your sweetie never quite knows what to expect when it comes to you and sex. Your best match will be with someone who can stand a little sexual moodiness, if you will; someone who's okay with the fact that your energies fluctuate. And it can be as difficult for you to deal with as it is for your honey. Some days you just feel stifled, as if you need some kind of release or you'll go crazy! But even on these days, a nice, sweaty session in the bedroom still won't clear your soul or rejuvenate your energies; in fact, lots of times it will deplete you even further. On other days, you'll just feel tired and remote, and like you can't stand to be touched. A gentle, sensitive and caring partner will be able to roll with these changes, which is just what you need -- because someone who's overly demanding or accusatory will only make you feel worse. You can also have trouble leading the way in lovemaking, and may need that gentle lover to guide you in a tender way.

Mars trine Uranus

Uncharted territory

You're a very exciting lover. Your innovative mind is always dreaming up new places to go and things to do on dates, new ways to turn your sweetie on and make them feel all the thrills and shivers your own passionate soul craves. You're a true adventurer, and the more you can bring that maverick spirit into your love life, so much the better. You can't stand routine, so a relationship that falls into a steady rhythm -- dinner, movie, chitchat, cuddling, etc., etc., night after night after night -- will really get your rebellious streak going. You need things to feel new and spontaneous, and just a little bit dangerous! You might not stick with relationships for long, as many stable affairs tend to slip into a bit of a routine; and that's one of your challenges in love: to learn to ride out moments of dullness to the next bright patch of daring enthusiasm. After all, sooner or later, someone is going to be worth slogging through the mundane reality of day-to-day life to get to those high points of the relationship. And while it's great that you're so adventurous and spontaneous, at some point you may want to strike out into another type of uncharted territory -- a steady relationship.

Jupiter in Aries

Overflowing with energy

You talk about your opinions as freely and impulsively as you give out gifts and favors -- and these qualities both endear you to your honey and, on occasion, annoy them. For one thing, you often dominate the conversation. On a date, even with someone brand-new, you talk a mile a minute and might not notice that your potential sweetie is sitting there, growing annoyed with the fact that they can't get a word in edgewise. Furthermore, you're pretty darn sure of yourself and your opinions, aren't you? Often you stick to your ideas like glue, even if you have no concrete evidence to found them upon. On the more positive side, you're incredibly generous with people. No sooner does the idea of a gift or treat for someone you love come into your head than you're already showering them with it. You're really indulgent, and can sometimes smother the one you love. But this impulsive effusiveness is just part of who you are, and when you find your true match in love, they'll put up with the downside and appreciate the upside. And you will find your match, because you're nothing if not great at recognizing opportunities in the game of love and jumping on them!

Jupiter trine Neptune

Just follow your heart

Follow your intuition in love -- because your instincts won't steer you wrong. In fact, your best opportunities in relationships will come up when you're following your heart, or your 'gut,' instead of trying to do what you think you 'should' do. What's right for you may not be what someone else would do; you're on your own path when it comes to romance and intimacy, and that's as it should be. And what path can be followed without mistakes and obstacles cropping up from time to time? You'll encounter these too, but you're optimistic and bright-eyed enough to take them in stride, as learning experiences. You bring a lot of sweetness, idealism and compassion to your love affairs, so if you're hooked up with the right person -- someone who won't take advantage of your kindness -- you'll have a really nice time in love. Your best relationships will be the ones that teach you something about what it is to be human. You have a deeper understanding of human nature than most people, and this understanding is yet another gift you bring to your love affairs. You're able to look deeply into your lover's soul and know intuitively who they are, and what they need in love.

Jupiter opposite Pluto

Trying too hard

You've always marched to the beat of your own drummer, but while originality is a good thing, you may have noticed that your friends and lovers are sometimes turned off by your more out-there ideas, not to mention your stubborn my-way-or-the-highway attitude. It's more important to you to stand alone than to get along with others -- including your sweetie. You spend a lot of time either alone or in conflict with other people. You like shoving against the crowd instead of running with it, and unless you can find a lover who has the exact same idiosyncratic view of life that you do, this can really present problems when you're trying to be intimate with someone special. Your urge for originality is actually a kind of wall that you've put up around you; for example, you'll argue hotheadedly with anyone about just about anything, just to show that you're different and freethinking. But why does thinking freely have to go hand in hand with antagonism? And an ironic twist on this whole picture is that you're pretty sensitive to being challenged. If you want to develop a close relationship with someone sweet, you'll have to learn to listen to others and look for the wisdom in their ideas.

Saturn in Leo

Serious about romance

When you're involved in a long-term, romantic affair, you take your duties seriously. You offer your lover loyalty, respect and a healthy dose of romance, and you demand the same in return. You're very happy in a committed love affair as long as you're getting the admiration and appreciation that you want -- but when your lover isn't forthcoming with plenty of props and affection, you can grow quite grumpy. Don't they know what you're putting into the relationship? Don't they realize the lengths that you go to in order to honor your relationship and put it up on a pedestal? They may know, and they may not -- but it also may be true that you're setting a bit too high of a standard. Not everyone has the energy that you do when it comes to romance. Not everyone needs the same reassurances that you do, either, so it's possible that you're putting everything into a relationship when really, that much effort is unnecessary. Seek a lover who understands you, who can read your signals and respond when you're starting to feel underappreciated. A lover who indulges you in this way will help to maintain the balance of your warm and vital bond.

Saturn trine Neptune

Balancing compassion with realism

You bring to your partners a strong, compassionate shoulder to lean on. You have a healthy balance between fantasy and reality, sympathy and self-sufficiency, and that's a real benefit to your relationships. You'll offer your sweetheart both commiseration and advice when times get rough, and you're able to hold a romantic ideal in mind and work hard toward achieving it, while not going overboard -- such as thinking that perfection is actually attainable in love, or that it would even be preferable to the wonderful ups and downs that reality brings. Similarly, you won't be taken in by someone feeding you a line; you can sniff out insincerity a mile away. But when it's the real deal -- when you've found the person you've been looking for all this time, and you've worked hard to create the kind of love you can be proud of -- then you'll let yourself indulge in all the gooey sweetness of romance! It's good to work toward achieving an ideal, as long as you realize that it won't be attainable except in moments; and you do. You recognize the need for hard work and commitment in love, and you'll find a partner who's worth your time and efforts.

Saturn square Uranus

Upsetting that apple cart

Your love affairs go in fits and starts, because you're waging an internal battle between respecting the status quo and following the inner urge to upset the apple cart -- just for the sake of, well, upsetting the apple cart! You tend to lack long-lasting discipline in your relationships. You might go along for a while, toeing the line -- and then, all of a sudden, you'll do something to disturb the stability of the affair, because as much as you want a solid love that you can depend on, you also crave freedom. You might start a silly, unnecessary fight, knowing that it will lead to a breakup, or you might suddenly freeze your lover out with disinterest. You might even get involved with someone new, simply to break free of the chafing bonds of commitment. As a result, you may have a series of affairs behind you that ended badly, and no real sense of how to change this pattern in the future. This is, however, something that you can control. You must recognize this urge for freedom, and force yourself to make measured moves, not impulsive ones -- no matter how much you want to shove that apple cart until it falls on its side, apples tumbling everywhere!

Uranus in Scorpio

Intensely sexual

As odd or counterintuitive as it may sound, your intense sexuality could be the undoing of your relationship. But you have deep, strong desires, and you're not one to repress them. When they take hold of you, you want to act on them -- even if you have to do so in a secretive way. And sometimes, acting on your desires, especially secretively, may not be in the best interest of your blossoming or committed love affair. On the other hand, you're very sexually compelling to your lover. You have an innovative mind about new positions to try and new feelings to explore; you like nothing more than to get down and dirty with another person, and find out what it truly is to be human! But this urge to explore 'the dark side' and plumb the depths of your psyche via sexual encounters that lay your soul bare...well, it can get a little too intense at times, for your sweetheart and even for you. On the other hand, intensity, even the disturbing kind, is what you live for, and your strong will can get you through even the darkest moments. And you'll almost certainly come out on the other side with greater self-knowledge of your own truth.

Uranus sextile Juno

Your very own drummer

You're all about freedom in your relationships, including your intimate, long-term love affairs -- in a wonderful way. You're not the type that suffers from grass-is-greener syndrome, jumping up and running off anytime a relationship starts to seem stable and committed. That's basic commitment-phobia, and probably isn't one of your issues. Quite to the contrary, you're able to make that commitment, but you make it on your own terms instead of according to what you think you 'should' do. You're not scared of falling for someone who's unusual, or of forming a unique kind of bond or living a unique lifestyle with your honey. In fact, you prefer it! When it comes to love and partnership, you're a real original. If you end up getting married, having kids and 'settling down,' it will definitely be because you want to, and not because your parents, your culture or anything or anyone else pushes you into it. For this reason, your long-term love affairs will be one-of-a-kind, and you'll be drawn your whole life to interesting and unusual types that dance to the beat of their own drummer -- just the way that you do.

Neptune in Sagittarius

Strong intuitions

You have a strongly intuitive side, but you often misread your inner compass, and if you act according to your instincts, you might find yourself moving in the entirely wrong direction. When it comes to your instincts, you tend to miss the trees in favor of the forest. That means your 'inner eye' isn't attuned to the important little details, or the subtle variations of whatever feeling you're getting. In a romance, for example, you could get a strong sense that things are off with your partner -- but you'll ignore the specifics about your feeling and end up drawing the totally wrong conclusion about what's going on with your sweetie and why. You're seeking the truth, though, and that's the very reason why you so often misread your own signals -- because the truth is such a broadly varied and changeable concept. And it's wonderful that you shoot for the stars in your quest for the truth. But you should always incorporate all your senses, not just your sixth one. Rely on the combination of your inner feelings plus the facts as you can see and understand them, and you'll steer yourself along a straighter track.

Neptune sextile Pluto

The transcendent experience of love

While you may get involved in a few flings, you're more able than some to transcend your bodily needs for a higher ideal. Sex just for its own sake may not hold a lot of appeal for you unless other aspects indicate it; you'd much rather connect on a physical level with someone with whom you're emotionally bonded with, because that way, the experience is so much more transcendent and important. Sex without love is basically empty, but sex can be an important growth experience when paired up with true intimacy and emotional attachment. You've always understood that, so you tend to look for relationships that really mean something to you rather than pursuing someone who just appeals to you on a physical level. Love, also, is a spiritual experience for you, one that helps you grow hugely as a human being. If you look back over your life, you'll find that your romantic affairs corresponded with periods of intense personal growth and transformation, and it will always be this way for you. So when you're getting involved with someone new, use this truth about yourself as a barometer for whether the relationship is worth pursuing. If there's more there than simple attraction, it probably is.

Neptune square Juno

Time to wake up

You're a spiritual and compassionate person, but you may take those qualities a bit too far in your romantic attachments. For you, simple compassion or empathy can turn into a savior fantasy; you might enmesh your life with that of someone who doesn't deserve your time and energy, but you'll throw yourself into trying to save them anyway, convincing yourself that it's worth it -- all the pain and emotional starvation you go through are worth it in the end. This is a form of self-martyrdom, you know. Is that really what you want -- to be a martyr in love? It's wonderful to be selfless, but you should give that gift only to people who deserve it. A good rule of thumb is to put into a relationship only what you get out of it, and no more. If your sweetie can't be as selfless and nurturing for you as you are for them, then perhaps they're not the right partner for you. After all, your tender and loving soul deserves some compassion, too. They're not the only one that needs saving; we all do from time to time. It's time to stop deluding yourself about the state of your love life, and start seeking a partner who can give back as much as they get out of being intimate with you.

Pluto in Libra

Personal growth through relationship

Love affairs have always been intense for you, because that is one arena that really lets you progress and transform yourself as a person. While other people might do their best internal work on their own, you're all about relationships and the lessons you can glean through being intimately involved with someone. Of course, 'relationship' can also mean the one you share with your therapist; that would be another wonderful way for you to connect more deeply with yourself and grow to understand and nurture yourself. But love affairs for you tend to be intense and symbiotic, and you rarely come out of them unchanged. A harmonious balance between you and your sweetie is one of your highest ideals, and you're willing to go to great lengths to bring that ideal into reality. You'll work hard on a relationship that's important to you, and you can be very introspective in your quest to make the bond the best that it can be. Just remember not to be too hard on yourself -- you're allowed at least a few flaws and idiosyncrasies! -- and not to subvert your own needs and desires in favor of maintaining harmony. With some effort, you should be able to have both.

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