The Romance and Passion Meters read the placement of planets on the day of your birth and reveal the levels of romance and passion you have been gifted with in this lifetime. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing or an uphill battle when it comes to matters of the heart.
Before you jump in... there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff with the Romance meter, but what you really want is balance.
Just imagine... with ONLY good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And TOO much passion can also ruin a relationship.
Without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you'd tire your lover out fast! A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then.
One more word of caution before you get started…
Remember, no relationship or person is perfect. Even with what seems like the ideal balance of romance and passion, an affair could turn out to be a total flop. It all truly boils down to our free will.
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
You're quite a sensual beast, and an affectionate and generous one with the people that you love and trust. After all, you're not indiscriminately generous, but when you know someone truly needs or deserves it, you can be incredibly indulgent. In love, you go all-out to make sure that your sweetie feels pampered and adored. You love to cook for your honey and give them foot rubs, back massages, tasty little sweet treats -- anything to indulge their senses. They're attracted to you for this mile-wide sensual streak; you're a lot of fun both in the kitchen and in the bedroom! And you're rather set in your ways, so you're made for commitment. Once you fall in love, you're in it for the long haul, and you're both strong and practical enough to realize that every relationship will hit some bumps along the road. You're fine with that; so fine, in fact, that you might end up staying in a relationship past its expiration date, purely because you really don't like change -- even good, beneficial change. You're better at perseverance than initiative, so you'll work best with a partner who can provide the energetic boost to the relationship, but lean on you for comfort and support.
You've been a bundle of energy all your life, a motivated person who goes after what they want with drive and intensity. Those qualities can be really useful when it comes to winning a game or getting ahead in your career, but in love, a softer touch is needed. Even though you want to make a solid love connection with someone, your dates might tend to find you rather selfish, aggressive or argumentative -- qualities that can turn someone off before they take the time to get to know you better and learn about your more attractive traits. The problem is, without even realizing it, you tend to have a me-first attitude; put together with a rather thin skin, that can spell dating disaster. You tend to take things personally, and your natural response is to lash out -- a common response to having your feelings hurt, but not the most constructive one possible. It's frustrating to feel like someone or something is standing in the way of getting what you want, but a 'when in doubt, shove' approach to love just doesn't work. Don't try to force a connection; instead, try to be patient and see what develops naturally with that special someone.
You need a lot of freedom, especially in a romantic relationship. You may have a string of short-lived affairs behind you, because as soon as things get too cozy and routine, you find an excuse to bolt. That's okay when you're just dating around and trying out different types of relationships, but what about when you get serious about the dating game? Stability is almost a dirty word to you, and yet, on some level, you crave it. You're actually afraid of commitment, because deep down, you fear that it will inhibit your ability to be fully and truly yourself. In looking for love, that fear is going to make your task harder, that's for sure; but the rewards will be all the sweeter when you find that special someone who can give you the space you need to be yourself, and more importantly, when you grow enough within your own soul to recognize that intimacy doesn't have to equal restriction. In fact, intimacy with another soul should be an expansive experience; a freeing one. But in the meantime, your dates may find you aloof or unreliable, and you'll have to struggle to reach the balance between independence and reaching out to someone else.
All your life you've had a sense, however vague or pronounced it may be, that everyone else is living on Easy Street while you have to struggle and toil for every small gain. It may be true that parts of your life are a struggle, but you may be making them more so than they need to be. Believing that we are missing out on something is almost the same as actually missing out; the feeling that results is the same, anyway. But regarding your love life, this can be a cyclical problem -- a self-fulfilling prophesy. You feel pessimistic about finding a love that will satisfy you, and so you don't try to reach out in a warm and loving way. Instead, you hold back, even when you're on a date with someone new and the possibilities still lie endlessly before you. Your reserved manner doesn't go over very well, and your potential sweetie goes home at the end of the evening with the feeling that things aren't going to go far...or, maybe they don't, but you convince yourself that they do! And that's that. You'll find much greater success in love if you can convince yourself to trust in the universe just a bit more, to bring you the love, nurturing and support that you need.
Your mind often moves faster than your mouth, and in romance, it's important that you find a lover who is at least similar to you in this way. After all, you need someone who can keep up with you -- who can challenge you verbally and mentally on levels that you didn't anticipate! Otherwise, you'll quickly grow bored with the conversation, and you're not much for second chances in the game of love. You tend to be very direct in your thoughts and opinions, which can lead to arguments with your lover -- though you might like to think of them more as fiery debates! There's nothing that gets you going more than a good, heady argument, which is all the more reason to find a lover who can keep up with you intellectually. You're also quite direct about your thoughts when sex and attraction are on your mind. Your blunt approach might not work with everyone -- some people like to be finessed a bit more than you're generally willing to to do -- but you'll often find that your methods work well, if for no other reason than the fact that you're great at taking your honey by surprise! Catching someone off-guard is definitely one of your strengths, and can be used to your advantage in love.
You're a natural problem solver, and that is a gift you bring to your romantic relationships. Your mind is clear and sharp, and you're able to focus in on the details of a situation. You're not one to speak out aggressively or impulsively, sticking your foot in your mouth during a conversation or sparking an argument. Normally, you're very considered in what you say. You think of what's about to come out of your mouth before you say it, and you try to imagine how it will be heard by your sweetie. That's a great gift in love, because it means you have a special ability that a lot of people don't have -- one that can really prolong a relationship. Lots of times, people break up after a spat that could have been avoided in the first place, but you're not as likely to let that happen -- the spat or the breakup. Instead, you'll listen to your honey, and really try to figure out what they're saying and why. You'll respond to the problem in the best way you know how. Just make sure that your heart plays a role in problem-solving as well as your mind. Your sweetie could feel as if you're too logical during an argument, which should be all about passion -- and passion, of course, is irrational.
You're an idealist, but not to the point that you can't see a lover for the person that they truly are. In fact, you're more naturally skilled than most at seeing through a lover's facade to the real person inside. You have an innate grasp of psychology -- an instinctive understanding of what makes your sweetie tick. You can read their subtlest signals and interpret them accurately, and that's a real gift in love. Put together with your strong sense of intuition, you're uniquely situated to make good choices for yourself in terms of partners, because you can figure out early on who is worth your time and who isn't. This is not to say that you won't make mistakes and choose the wrong person from time to time; everyone does that. But if you pay attention, you have all the answers and information within yourself that you need to make the right choices in love and attain the affection and connection that you seek. Your sweetie will appreciate your compassion, your sensitivity and your ability to understand them, because that truly is love: seeing someone for who they are, accepting them and encouraging them to be their real, wonderful self.
For you, variety is the spice of love. Though other people might wilt under the strain of such romantic entanglements, you might well be happiest when you've got more than one crush to dream about! You're flirtatious and witty around the object of your desires, and you're not above using fun little tricks to reel them in, like dancing with someone else just to make your real crush jealous. But what if you start feeling attracted to the other person -- the one you're dancing with? It's possible, because your tastes in love are wide and varied. Of course, someone who clams up isn't your style; you might spend a few minutes trying to draw them out of their shell, but if it doesn't work fast, you'll lose interest and move on to someone new. Now, all this isn't to say that you're shallow in the game of love (though you can be), or that you can't commit (though often, you don't want to). It's more that in order to commit to someone special and let the relationship deepen into true intimacy, you've got to have a really good reason. For you, that reason will include a strong intellectual connection and a good dose of adventure. Someone who keeps you guessing can claim your heart.
Your love affairs, past and future, are integrally related to the person you are today and the person you'll become. Love is full of lessons that you'll learn at a bone-deep level. You have a hard time with casual affairs, because love and sex are both such powerful experiences for you. In love, you'll do anything for your honey -- and anything for the experience that you crave, that will overwhelm you and hold you irrevocably in its sway. You're so intense in love, in fact, that you can almost scare your sweetie sometimes! But this very intensity is one of your most compelling qualities to your admirers. They know almost instinctively upon meeting you that, if they get involved with you, they're in for the ride of their lives! And you rarely fail to deliver. You're an incredibly exciting, sexy lover, one who won't let your sweetie play games with you or be anything less than completely raw, honest and intense. You have incredible powers of perception, which is another gift that you bring to your relationships -- and another that may make your lover uncomfortable, even as they appreciate being understood in a deeper way than they've ever experienced before.
When you're looking for love, you look for the whole package -- an intellectual connection as well as a warm, affectionate heart; a shared sense of humor, similar values and so on. These are all the traits that you have to offer, and the ones you look for in someone else. Though you have an incredibly warm and loving disposition, you're not one to jump impulsively into a love affair. You can wait until the right person comes along, and then you'll give them everything you have to offer. You're capable of enormous devotion and passion, but you won't often let it overtake your good judgment. If a relationship isn't going well and it's clear that it won't improve, you'll regretfully cut your losses. After all, you know there are plenty more fish in the sea. For someone like you, relationships come easily; you have a good sense of yourself and your own gifts, and of what you're looking for in a lover. And you're warm and friendly, sociable and expressive -- all the qualities that draw love into your life. You know how to charm someone and how to put them at ease. And in a relationship, you know how to deal with your lover that keeps them feeling comfortable and well-loved.
You've gone through the same setbacks in love as other people -- lies, even little ones, that broke down your trust; disappointments that made you build walls around your heart. But while other people might maintain their optimism and try to learn lessons from their past experiences, you've taken things a bit harder and more personally. You now have a lasting feeling of distrust in love. You're suspicious of people even before you know them well, and sometimes you create bad situations almost out of thin air. Suspicion is no fun for anyone, and putting out that vibe to someone new and special may hurt their feelings, or put them on the defense. Why should they work to gain your trust when you distrust them from the very start, before even giving them a chance to prove themselves? Your standards are a little too high; because of negative past experiences, you've developed a fantasy of what you're looking for in love that just isn't realistic. Having ideals in love that you work to attain is one thing, but trying to make reality live up to a fantasy you've created in your mind and heart is just a recipe for disappointment.
You're a dramatic and passionate lover. You like to set the tone in the bedroom, and that tone is always hot, hot, hot! You're something of a dominant lover, but you're also incredibly generous and demonstrative. You'll cherish your sweetie for hours, as long as they give you your well-deserved props. You work really well with a somewhat naive or submissive lover, because you just adore taking the lead and showing them how it should be done. And boy, do you know how it should be done! You're passionate and yet gentle; you're ardent and yet you take your time, lingering over each sweet moment. You're very much into setting and sensual pleasures, and you like to take the time to make sure everything is in its place: the sheets are clean and sweet-smelling, the candles are lit, the music is softly playing... You're into pampering your sweetheart, and you won't say no to a little pampering yourself. Your sensuality is vital and warm, and you make a wonderful partner in the bedroom. Even a shy or insecure lover feels safe and adored under your ministrations. And when they sigh in satisfaction, this makes you feel fulfilled!
Your friends come to you for advice and sympathy on a regular basis, because you're a wonderful listener who intuits what your loved ones need to hear in order to feel better and live a better life. And your lovers are no different: They appreciate you for your kindness, your compassion, your willingness to jump in and lend them a hand with whatever problem they might be experiencing. And this isn't posturing on your part; you truly do have the inside line into human experience, because of your deep powers of understanding. You understand your own deeper urges, and you know how to control them. In relationships, you're able to be temperate about your anger as well as your sexual passions, and you have an innate sense of both timing and tact when it comes to any type of strong feeling or desire. You enjoy putting your energy to use in helping other people who might not have the optimism and stamina that you have, or the opportunities; just make sure that you channel this interest into a positive arena. Getting involved with someone who has too many emotional problems and trying to 'fix' them with your love wouldn't be a good use of your energy.
Even if long-term love is something you really, really want in your life, your other ambitions always seem to get in the way. Maybe you're the type who puts career ahead of your personal life, rarely making time to get to know someone special because you're always busy working. Or maybe it's less straightforward than that. Deep down, your difficult experiences with love affairs have more to do with an actual fear of commitment than with simple 'bad luck' or unfortunate circumstance. Most of your romantic relationships have been intense power struggles in which you were constantly pushing for dominance. They might have been up-and-down roller coaster rides, swinging back and forth between intense passion and intense arguments. You have a hard time letting your sweetie be who they are and lead their life as they see fit, which is ironic because your fear of commitment is based on your worry that getting intimately involved with someone will mean giving up your own independence, your own goals, even your own true personality. Instead of trying to control your honey, you should try to find a lover who lets you be yourself -- and then return the favor.
In an argument with your sweetie, you have a distinct advantage: You know how to read them and their motivations in a deeply perceptive way, but you also know how to keep your head. You're not one to fly off the handle; you do have some intense passions, but you know how to control them. You're very interested in what makes people tick, especially your loved ones. In a relationship, you can use your powers of perception to break down barriers between you and your sweetie. And your sexual energy runs strong, so when those walls come tumbling down, you can really wow yourself and your honey! You might be attracted to lovers with inhibitions, because secrets appeal to you, and you love to set an example as the directed, ambitious and self-transforming person that you are. You can be a real inspiration to someone who needs to take steps toward greater self-understanding, because you set the bar high by being constantly in pursuit of greater understanding of yourself. Similarly, you're not one to sit idly by in a relationship that's stagnating or going badly; you'll put your back into changing it for the better.
You're not matched by many in your passion for life and love. You're a real go-getter, and when you see something -- or someone -- that you want, you go after it with a single-minded intensity. And you get mad when you don't get what you want, whether it's a winning score, a promotion at work or that hottie you've been eyeing. Your love life is probably a string of major ups and downs, because you don't know the meaning of moderation. When you're in love, you're overflowing with it. When you're sexually attracted to someone, you don't hold back in letting them know all about it. And when your sweetie makes you angry, you don't hold back there either. If you want a relationship to last long-term and develop some stability, you'll have to teach yourself to calm down a bit, because your high energy and hotheadedness can burn out an affair prematurely. When you're out with someone new and special, rather than playing devil's advocate on every possible point and pushing your own personality on them, try listening to them calmly to get to know them for who they are. That would be a good place to start, and a good, solid foundation to build on.
Whether overtly or subtly, you're pushing toward a long-term, committed relationship -- because you recognize that that's the forum in which you'll do your greatest work. In this case, 'work' means reaching out to other people, nurturing and protecting them. Those are your strengths, and they're perfectly expressed at home, in a family environment. Until you start a family of your own, you'll express this part of yourself through your closest friends or the family you were born to. Once you fall in love with someone and make a commitment, you'll shift this over to your new family, and you'll do just about anything to protect them. You tend to believe deeply in the things you learned from your parents, growing up, and passing on these philosophies to your own children is important to you. For this reason, it's important that you find a lover who shares at least similar life philosophies to yours. How terrible it would be to fall for someone who had vastly different ideas about child rearing or how to create a comfortable home! The relationship probably wouldn't last. One forged with someone who has values similar to yours stands a much greater chance of lasting long-term.
When you're involved in a long-term, romantic affair, you take your duties seriously. You offer your lover loyalty, respect and a healthy dose of romance, and you demand the same in return. You're very happy in a committed love affair as long as you're getting the admiration and appreciation that you want -- but when your lover isn't forthcoming with plenty of props and affection, you can grow quite grumpy. Don't they know what you're putting into the relationship? Don't they realize the lengths that you go to in order to honor your relationship and put it up on a pedestal? They may know, and they may not -- but it also may be true that you're setting a bit too high of a standard. Not everyone has the energy that you do when it comes to romance. Not everyone needs the same reassurances that you do, either, so it's possible that you're putting everything into a relationship when really, that much effort is unnecessary. Seek a lover who understands you, who can read your signals and respond when you're starting to feel underappreciated. A lover who indulges you in this way will help to maintain the balance of your warm and vital bond.
You bring to your partners a strong, compassionate shoulder to lean on. You have a healthy balance between fantasy and reality, sympathy and self-sufficiency, and that's a real benefit to your relationships. You'll offer your sweetheart both commiseration and advice when times get rough, and you're able to hold a romantic ideal in mind and work hard toward achieving it, while not going overboard -- such as thinking that perfection is actually attainable in love, or that it would even be preferable to the wonderful ups and downs that reality brings. Similarly, you won't be taken in by someone feeding you a line; you can sniff out insincerity a mile away. But when it's the real deal -- when you've found the person you've been looking for all this time, and you've worked hard to create the kind of love you can be proud of -- then you'll let yourself indulge in all the gooey sweetness of romance! It's good to work toward achieving an ideal, as long as you realize that it won't be attainable except in moments; and you do. You recognize the need for hard work and commitment in love, and you'll find a partner who's worth your time and efforts.
As odd or counterintuitive as it may sound, your intense sexuality could be the undoing of your relationship. But you have deep, strong desires, and you're not one to repress them. When they take hold of you, you want to act on them -- even if you have to do so in a secretive way. And sometimes, acting on your desires, especially secretively, may not be in the best interest of your blossoming or committed love affair. On the other hand, you're very sexually compelling to your lover. You have an innovative mind about new positions to try and new feelings to explore; you like nothing more than to get down and dirty with another person, and find out what it truly is to be human! But this urge to explore 'the dark side' and plumb the depths of your psyche via sexual encounters that lay your soul bare...well, it can get a little too intense at times, for your sweetheart and even for you. On the other hand, intensity, even the disturbing kind, is what you live for, and your strong will can get you through even the darkest moments. And you'll almost certainly come out on the other side with greater self-knowledge of your own truth.
Freedom or intimacy? A traditional relationship -- the marriage, the house, the kids -- or a unique bond that flies in the face of convention? These are the kinds of questions that plague you whether you're in love or single. You have a hard time choosing one path or the other, because they both hold appeal -- and at the same time, they both scare you. So, you end up stuck somewhere in the middle, either single and wishing you had love in your life or in a relationship but never completely comfortable with your commitment. You might get into struggles with your lover over how close your relationship should be; you also might hold yourself aloof while they try to get close, or even leave the relationship as soon as things start looking like they're moving toward commitment and the long term. But once you're alone again, you might regret your hasty decision to leave...and so the cycle begins again. Or not! Instead of resisting commitment, you can face the fact that you're afraid of it and start doing the difficult work of figuring out why, and how you can balance love, independence and stability in your life all at once, and on a long-term basis.
You have a strongly intuitive side, but you often misread your inner compass, and if you act according to your instincts, you might find yourself moving in the entirely wrong direction. When it comes to your instincts, you tend to miss the trees in favor of the forest. That means your 'inner eye' isn't attuned to the important little details, or the subtle variations of whatever feeling you're getting. In a romance, for example, you could get a strong sense that things are off with your partner -- but you'll ignore the specifics about your feeling and end up drawing the totally wrong conclusion about what's going on with your sweetie and why. You're seeking the truth, though, and that's the very reason why you so often misread your own signals -- because the truth is such a broadly varied and changeable concept. And it's wonderful that you shoot for the stars in your quest for the truth. But you should always incorporate all your senses, not just your sixth one. Rely on the combination of your inner feelings plus the facts as you can see and understand them, and you'll steer yourself along a straighter track.
While you may get involved in a few flings, you're more able than some to transcend your bodily needs for a higher ideal. Sex just for its own sake may not hold a lot of appeal for you unless other aspects indicate it; you'd much rather connect on a physical level with someone with whom you're emotionally bonded with, because that way, the experience is so much more transcendent and important. Sex without love is basically empty, but sex can be an important growth experience when paired up with true intimacy and emotional attachment. You've always understood that, so you tend to look for relationships that really mean something to you rather than pursuing someone who just appeals to you on a physical level. Love, also, is a spiritual experience for you, one that helps you grow hugely as a human being. If you look back over your life, you'll find that your romantic affairs corresponded with periods of intense personal growth and transformation, and it will always be this way for you. So when you're getting involved with someone new, use this truth about yourself as a barometer for whether the relationship is worth pursuing. If there's more there than simple attraction, it probably is.
Love affairs have always been intense for you, because that is one arena that really lets you progress and transform yourself as a person. While other people might do their best internal work on their own, you're all about relationships and the lessons you can glean through being intimately involved with someone. Of course, 'relationship' can also mean the one you share with your therapist; that would be another wonderful way for you to connect more deeply with yourself and grow to understand and nurture yourself. But love affairs for you tend to be intense and symbiotic, and you rarely come out of them unchanged. A harmonious balance between you and your sweetie is one of your highest ideals, and you're willing to go to great lengths to bring that ideal into reality. You'll work hard on a relationship that's important to you, and you can be very introspective in your quest to make the bond the best that it can be. Just remember not to be too hard on yourself -- you're allowed at least a few flaws and idiosyncrasies! -- and not to subvert your own needs and desires in favor of maintaining harmony. With some effort, you should be able to have both.
Love and intimacy are opportunities for tremendous growth for you. The experience of loving someone deeply, of committing to them and to the relationship for the long haul, is an experience that you crave, because it's one that transforms your very soul. You're even more able than most to gain personal lessons and positive change through the venue of a romantic relationship, and that becomes truer the longer you're involved with someone, and the more you develop a true partnership with them. You're a strong, self-aware person, and you're deeply attracted to people with the same qualities. You yearn to know yourself, and you're drawn to people who offer you the promise of further self-knowledge. Lovers who mirror you -- who encourage you to become even more authentically yourself, who love you and tell you exactly what they love about you -- will be the most instrumental in your growth, because they will help to show you who you are as well as to unlock your personal potential. A wonderful side benefit of all this is that you'll always be able to keep the passionate intensity alive in your love affairs, even the one that lasts for the very long haul.
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