Romantic Personality Profile

Sun in Libra

A true romantic

You are all about partnerships, and a love affair is your favorite kind! You love to be safely in a union, and you're a romantic through and through. Hearts and flowers get you every time; throw in a little candlelight, soft music and murmured words of devotion, and you're a goner. You have refined tastes, however, so if your lover can get creative -- and maybe just a little bit expensive! -- they'll reel you in that much more thoroughly. You have a truly soft heart, so much so that you can't stand conflict. In fact, you would rather just let them make most of the decisions in the relationship than take a firm stance on anything that might cause discord in the relationship. Though this means your own wants and needs get trampled from time to time, it does make you a very cooperative and agreeable lover. You're definitely built for commitment -- so much so that you might move from one to the next, if the relationship doesn't work out. It's not that you have grass-is-greener syndrome; you love harmony and will do what you can to maintain it. But you're most comfortable in a relationship, and will move on to a new one if the current one isn't happening.

Sun conjunct Pluto

Lighten up

Since your primary drive in life is to understand and transform yourself again and again, your love affairs are often intense and even life-changing. You seek to know yourself through all that you do, and that includes your experience of love. You may be incapable of having a simple, casual affair; you get deeply and intensely involved with your lovers, and can even grow obsessed with them. On the positive side, this makes you an incredibly compelling lover. Your admirers feel drawn to you as a moth is drawn to flame -- inexorably, with a definite element of danger thrown into the mix! Your sexual connection with your lover can be earthshakingly powerful for you, and so for them as well; this is just one of the many strong bonds you can develop in love. But on the more negative side, your tendency toward obsession with a lover can also verge into obsession with an idea, or suspicion. If you suspect that your sweetie isn't being honest with you, you won't be able to let the idea go. Trust is one of your major issues in relationships, so it's a good thing that you're so interested in self-transformation. Focus on learning to trust and love freely.

Mercury in Scorpio

An emotional communicator

You're an intuitive thinker and communicator, often relying much more on your instincts than on any surface impressions -- such as what's actually being said out loud -- to determine what's going on in any given situation. You can also be quite secretive, which sometimes creates an imbalance in your love relationships. You want your sweetie to divulge all their secrets, to lay their soul bare to you, to let you plunder the depths of their feelings and their psyche, their distant past, their fondest hopes and greatest fears...and at the same time, you want to guard your own feelings, hopes, fears and motivations. This can get frustrating for your partner; why should they always bare their soul when you're so rarely willing to do the same? Furthermore, you have a variety of defenses set up for whenever your sweetie tries to get past your protective walls. You do have a temper, and if you feel threatened you're not afraid to lash out with anger, sarcasm or derision to throw your honey off the trail of the truth. The truth, of course, is that you're just like everyone else -- vulnerable, in need of an emotional connection that you can count on.

Mercury conjunct Uranus

That sharp, unusual mind of yours

You're a unique thinker, and in love, you have to find a partner who appreciates that about you. You tend to let your mind wander as it will, riffing off on whatever wild, wonderful idea has currently taken hold. It takes a similar mind to follow yours along its more unusual paths! Conservative, cautious thinkers don't hold much appeal for you. If you're out with someone new and you bring up one of your strange ideas, and your date looks at you as if you've just sprouted another head, you probably won't bother calling them back for a second go-round. You're attracted to people who aren't scared of odd ideas and unexpected twists in the conversation; you appreciate a dinner companion who can throw a few monkey wrenches of their own into the mix! For this reason, your relationships may be a bit unstable, purely because you're attracted to oddball types who are unpredictable at best. But that's what you find exciting! And that's what you serve up as well. A great date for you will include lots and lots of conversation, laughter, even debate. A freeform mental connection with a potential sweetie is, for you, a sign of even better things to come.

Mercury sextile Venus

Naturally balanced

You're a natural at diplomacy, and in a romantic relationship, that's a real gift. You probably shy away from relationships with overly aggressive types; brash displays of temper offend you, as do qualities like selfishness and irrationality. You prefer things to be in balance -- which isn't always possible. People are imperfect beings; we lose our tempers, we flail around, trying to impress and intimidate with our loud, reckless displays. But if anyone comes close to being in balance most of the time, it's you. And you're attracted to people who are similar to you; who appreciate art and beauty and refinement as much as you do. A great date for you might be visiting an art gallery or a museum, or going for a walk around the river on a gorgeous day in spring. Anything that's beautiful and that sparks conversation or the free flow of creative thought compels you, and the same goes for romantic partners. You want someone both sweet and inspiring; someone sophisticated and eloquent. You want to be wooed with poetry and flowers. And in return, you'll bring your own romantic nature to the relationship, and your gift at creative negotiation when times get tough.

Venus in Virgo

A discriminating lover

In love, you've got very high standards. You know just what you want, even if you're not exactly sure how to get it; and to be sure, your road toward true love could be something of a long one. You need to be courted slowly and carefully, because you don't respond well to the fast, wham-bam approach. After all, you strive for perfection in yourself as a partner, and you want the same from your lover. When you're committed to someone, you give them your all, and you want that in return. But not everyone is like you. If they're a little less discriminating, it doesn't mean that their love is any less true. But for you, loving someone is all about being in their service -- which can include a healthy dose of criticism and nagging! You consider it your job to worry about the people you love, and to help them lead the best, most refined and high-quality life that they can lead. So, sure, that means you'll nag them a little, if you find them being sloppy around the house or in their pursuit of their career or academic goals. You only do it because you love them, and you want them to be the best person and partner that they can be -- the very same expectations that you put upon yourself.

Venus square Neptune

Commit to reality

Your idealism about love leads to disillusionment every time, and your bruised, disappointed feelings may push you to build walls around your heart. You have a hard time getting close with people because you're afraid of being hurt -- or maybe you just know that the reality of the affair will pale in comparison to your fantasy. You prefer to daydream about love instead of actually pursuing it in any real or effective way, because in your dreams, you can create your very own, personal Dream Lover -- someone you'll never meet in real life. When it comes to real love, you may mislead not only yourself, but your sweetie. You might pretend to feel ways that you don't, or tell them you love them while holding a part of yourself separate, to avoid being hurt later on down the line. You're vulnerable to lovers who want to deceive you -- lying to you about their feelings or their intentions, or telling you you're the only one even while they're telling some other lover the very same thing. This kind of heartbreak can only serve to push you further into your fantasies, unless you make a conscious decision to accept reality as it is, and seek a lover with whom you can be honest and real.

Mars in Sagittarius

A fast-burning flame

You love strong, fast and hard, but you have a restless nature and your love sometimes can burn out before a relationship really has a chance to get stable. As for sex, you're more into the adventure of it than the emotional closeness, and as such, your lovemaking tends to be fun, playful and athletic, but maybe not all that romantic. And again, your passions can burn out just as quickly as they flared up in the first place. Similarly, you don't need any romantic frills to spark up your relationship; what really gets you going runs more along the line of thrills. You may even be a bit of an exhibitionist -- all in good fun, of course! Sex in the great outdoors might be a longtime fantasy of yours, if not already a reality in your adventurous love life. If your lover wants to grab and hold your attention, they'll focus on new ways for the two of you to get it on -- new places and positions, new techniques...because the same old, same old, day after day really loses your attention fast. That's a lot of pressure on your partner, especially in a long-term affair, so it's up to you to take most of the burden for making sure that your sex life stays active and interesting.

Mars conjunct Uranus

Always the iconoclast

Anyone who goes out on a date with you is in for a surprise; the only question is, what kind! You're nothing if not unexpected, in your behavior, your opinions, your tastes and so on. In fact, sometimes you take the opposing viewpoint just to be different. On dates with someone new, this can make the wrong impression if you accidentally come across as argumentative. You're going for iconoclastic, but you like playing the devil's advocate, and sometimes you can push things too far and really get under other people's skin. Some people will be turned off by this tendency of yours, but others will find it very exciting. You just have an electric air of energy around you, as if anything could happen. And with you, it often does. Your relationships may not last long; you insist on freedom, and that put together with your tendency to provoke your sweetie can bring things to a premature end. If you do want to find a stable, lasting love, it will have to be with someone who can handle everything you dish out -- and who can keep things interesting by serving it back up to you; someone who gives you the independence you need to feel comfortable.

Mars sextile Juno

Passionate in love

When you see what you want, you go for it, and that goes for love and attraction as well as your career or whatever other venue where you set goals and then work to achieve them. In love, you know just how to turn on the charm and use your natural charisma to get the object of your desires to look your way. A strong and vital sexual connection is important to you with someone you love; without it, you won't be able to sustain your interest in the relationship for long, because you associate a strong physical bond with equally strong emotional ties. When it comes to settling down for the long haul with someone very special, it's going to take a partner who is as passionate and energetic as you are. A pushover wouldn't claim your heart, but neither would someone whose passion verges too quickly into hotheadedness and temper tantrums. You need to find someone with a definite backbone, but also plenty of kindness; someone who's passionate, but not so controlling that they can't let you express your passion as well. Independence is important to you in a love affair, so look for a partner who pursues their own ambitions as they encourage and allow you to pursue yours.

Mars sextile Jupiter

Seeking a mind-body connection

Your natural self-confidence is one of your greatest assets in the game of love. You have the feeling that whatever you desire, you can make it happen; and most of the time, you're exactly right. You're appealing to your admirers because of your energy, your good humor and your exuberance. You're compelling to them, like a bright light is to a moth; they want to go bask in your glow! You'll make the best love connection with someone whom you're both physically and intellectually attracted to. If both of those components aren't in place, the relationship will probably fizzle fast, because you have both a strong sex drive and perhaps an even stronger mind. You need to exercise both regularly, and the best way to do that is to let your mind lead your body. In other words, don't get physically involved until you know you've got something to talk about when your pulse rate slows down again! If you can find this kind of partner and settle in for the long haul, you'll find that your love affair is an incredible growth experience. Any life experience that requires you to learn, to expand your mind, to stretch your boundaries, will be a positive one for you.

Mars sextile Saturn

In it for the long haul

When you're in a relationship, you're capable of incredible commitment. And when you're looking for love, you'll keep looking until you find what you seek. You have the gift of determination, and when you put your mind to a task, in work, at home or in love, you generally find a way to make it happen. In relationships, you have a serious and responsible side. You're not one to show up late for a date; if you like someone, you want to show them respect as well as affection, and you do so through your actions -- focusing on your honey when they talk, putting up with them when they're cranky, and so on. You're very practical when you're setting goals in love, which is a real asset to your relationships. You don't expect some sort of idealized, fantasy-perfect relationship; you just want a real connection with someone special, and you're definitely willing to put in the time and energy to make that happen. When you do settle down for the long haul with a lover, you'll be the rock of the relationship -- the one who quietly, steadily keeps things going through tough times, and who's always there with a strong shoulder for your sweetie to lean on.

Jupiter in Virgo

A natural caretaker

You're responsible and dependable, and in your intimate relationship, you may take on the role of caretaker, always responding immediately to any crisis. You're capable and practical, after all, and you know what to do and how to handle most problems that arise. And you love to help out and be of service, especially to the people that you love. But try not to take on too much of this role in your romantic relationship. Things will probably always be a bit weighted toward you in this respect in your life, but relationships are supposed to be about equals. Plus, you're likely to have a caretaker role in your job or career, so to have to do that at home as well would just be too much. On the other hand, relationships are all about two individuals coming together and blending their strengths to make a stronger whole, and your strengths certainly include handling details, fixing problems and generally taking care of everyone around you. Just try not to get involved with anyone who would take advantage of this side of you. Otherwise, you might wear yourself out putting everything you've got into the relationship, and not getting nearly as much out of it.

Jupiter conjunct Juno

Expansion through partnership

In love, you look for a teacher -- someone who can help you along the paths in life that you're most interested in. You're philosophical yourself, and you love sharing your knowledge and insights with other people. For you, love and partnership are inextricably linked with learning and the expansion of your soul. You're attracted to people who have traveled to exotic places; who have held interesting, demanding jobs; who have gotten an education, either a formal one or one that they pursued and directed themselves. You're hungry for information, for experience, for enlightenment, and you're attracted to those qualities in others. You're also attracted to optimism in a lover; to a wide-open heart that looks forward into the future with excitement and enthusiasm. You do well in long-term relationships that allow you to expand your boundaries and your experiences; you wouldn't be happy in an affair that limited you, with someone whose interest in conversation and philosophy wasn't as strong as yours. If you can find that bright-eyed partner you're looking for, the commitment you'll make will broaden your whole world.

Jupiter conjunct Saturn

Soul-expansion through hard work

You're serious about how you organize and lead your life, and that includes love. Sometimes it may feel like you don't have enough time for anything so frivolous as a relationship, because you're such a hard worker. But when it's time for you to bring love into your life, you'll work just as hard at that, and find just as satisfying results. You're quite knowledgeable, a natural leader, and you prize learning and the expansion of both your mind and your soul. You work best in a relationship with someone as serious and as hungry as you are; someone who will appreciate your stores of knowledge and your talents, and who can add their own good ideas to the table. You have a lot of responsibilities -- work, family and so on -- that are important to you, so it's essential, when you're looking for long-term love, that you find a partner who respects your time and your duties. But then, you know yourself pretty well by now, and you know what you want in life. You probably wouldn't get involved with someone whose frivolous outlook didn't match up with your more serious one; and if you did, you're pragmatic enough to leave a relationship when it isn't working anymore.

Jupiter sextile Uranus

A seeker in love

You're a seeker, in love and in life. In relationships, you make an optimistic partner; you're always willing to go that extra mile for your sweetie. When you reach a roadblock in your communication or some other area of your relationship, instead of throwing up your hands in defeat, you look for a new way to solve the problem. You're always learning, and you're a natural teacher; you love to find new ways of doing things that work, and then enthusiastically pass on your newfound knowledge. Your honey will find real inspiration in you and will look up to you for your good humor, your wide-open eyes and heart, and your constant search for truth and experience. You're probably the better communicator in your relationships; you're constantly reaching out to others, and it's important to you to understand your sweetie and to be understood by them. If you get involved with someone who's less communicative than you are, this is a gift you can bring to the relationship to help teach them to open up and reach out with their heart and their mind. On your own path in love, make sure that you not only search, but find the answers and truths you're looking for.

Jupiter square Neptune

Head in the clouds

In a love affair, you're vulnerable to deceit -- your own just as much as your lover's. You might get involved with someone who spins stories about their feelings or their commitment that turn out to be a pack of lies. But even if you're with someone honest and true, you might still mislead yourself in your vision of what the relationship is and what it could be. You're an idealist in love, but you're also a pessimist at the very same time -- contradictory conditions that go hand in hand when your ideals disappoint you time and again. You jump into affairs with your whole heart, telling yourself and anyone else who will listen that this is it -- this is the one you've been waiting for, the love that will inspire sonnets and love songs for centuries to come. But while you're getting so wrapped up in your little fantasy, reality is playing out before you, and usually it's pretty different from what you've been convincing yourself it is. The comedown from such an illusion can be hard indeed, but your fantasies do come from a good place -- an idealistic streak within you that strives for perfection in love. Just try to remember that perfection isn't possible; work instead toward real, and good.

Saturn in Libra

Working harmoniously

Love and commitment are important to you in romance, and cooperation is a central theme of your life and your relationships -- whether that's in a good way or a not-so-good way. Ideally, you'll work hard to keep the peace with your sweetie. Working side-by-side on projects at the office or at home as a harmonious team would be your ideal setup in love, because partnership and dedication are so central to your happiness in a relationship. You love it when you're involved with someone who can understand you well enough to help you bounce ideas around and find direction in your pursuits. But it's possible that you keep getting involved with people who don't understand you well, or at least, you feel like they don't. It may be more accurate to say that you find it hard to cooperate, which brings us to the not-so-good possibilities for this placement. Compromise and patience are skills to be learned and implemented in any relationship, not just romantic ones, and while you're naturally quite tactful, you can have trouble with loosening up. You tend to be a bit competitive, and with your sweetie, you just don't need to be.

Saturn conjunct Juno

Attracted to stability

When it comes to relationships, you're interested in stability. Short-term flings may be fun in the meantime, but when you're looking for the real deal -- that love affair that's going to last for years, deepening into something you can lean on for strength and support -- you're attracted to a certain sober quality. You might fall for someone older than you, or more experienced -- someone who's been around enough to know how serious relationships are, and who knows how to treat you and the bond between you with the proper respect. You probably won't try to make things last long-term with someone who demonstrates too much instability. Someone who isn't careful with their money, for example, or whose idea of fun includes going out and painting the town all shades of red every night might be fun in the moment, but would probably be too much for you to handle in the long run. You're willing to trade in a little excitement for some good, solid dependability. Someone who calls when they say they'll call, who pays their bills in full on time, who has a serious and realistic view of life and love -- now, that's someone you could really fall in love with.

Uranus in Scorpio

Intensely sexual

As odd or counterintuitive as it may sound, your intense sexuality could be the undoing of your relationship. But you have deep, strong desires, and you're not one to repress them. When they take hold of you, you want to act on them -- even if you have to do so in a secretive way. And sometimes, acting on your desires, especially secretively, may not be in the best interest of your blossoming or committed love affair. On the other hand, you're very sexually compelling to your lover. You have an innovative mind about new positions to try and new feelings to explore; you like nothing more than to get down and dirty with another person, and find out what it truly is to be human! But this urge to explore 'the dark side' and plumb the depths of your psyche via sexual encounters that lay your soul bare...well, it can get a little too intense at times, for your sweetheart and even for you. On the other hand, intensity, even the disturbing kind, is what you live for, and your strong will can get you through even the darkest moments. And you'll almost certainly come out on the other side with greater self-knowledge of your own truth.

Neptune in Sagittarius

Strong intuitions

You have a strongly intuitive side, but you often misread your inner compass, and if you act according to your instincts, you might find yourself moving in the entirely wrong direction. When it comes to your instincts, you tend to miss the trees in favor of the forest. That means your 'inner eye' isn't attuned to the important little details, or the subtle variations of whatever feeling you're getting. In a romance, for example, you could get a strong sense that things are off with your partner -- but you'll ignore the specifics about your feeling and end up drawing the totally wrong conclusion about what's going on with your sweetie and why. You're seeking the truth, though, and that's the very reason why you so often misread your own signals -- because the truth is such a broadly varied and changeable concept. And it's wonderful that you shoot for the stars in your quest for the truth. But you should always incorporate all your senses, not just your sixth one. Rely on the combination of your inner feelings plus the facts as you can see and understand them, and you'll steer yourself along a straighter track.

Neptune sextile Pluto

The transcendent experience of love

While you may get involved in a few flings, you're more able than some to transcend your bodily needs for a higher ideal. Sex just for its own sake may not hold a lot of appeal for you unless other aspects indicate it; you'd much rather connect on a physical level with someone with whom you're emotionally bonded with, because that way, the experience is so much more transcendent and important. Sex without love is basically empty, but sex can be an important growth experience when paired up with true intimacy and emotional attachment. You've always understood that, so you tend to look for relationships that really mean something to you rather than pursuing someone who just appeals to you on a physical level. Love, also, is a spiritual experience for you, one that helps you grow hugely as a human being. If you look back over your life, you'll find that your romantic affairs corresponded with periods of intense personal growth and transformation, and it will always be this way for you. So when you're getting involved with someone new, use this truth about yourself as a barometer for whether the relationship is worth pursuing. If there's more there than simple attraction, it probably is.

Pluto in Libra

Personal growth through relationship

Love affairs have always been intense for you, because that is one arena that really lets you progress and transform yourself as a person. While other people might do their best internal work on their own, you're all about relationships and the lessons you can glean through being intimately involved with someone. Of course, 'relationship' can also mean the one you share with your therapist; that would be another wonderful way for you to connect more deeply with yourself and grow to understand and nurture yourself. But love affairs for you tend to be intense and symbiotic, and you rarely come out of them unchanged. A harmonious balance between you and your sweetie is one of your highest ideals, and you're willing to go to great lengths to bring that ideal into reality. You'll work hard on a relationship that's important to you, and you can be very introspective in your quest to make the bond the best that it can be. Just remember not to be too hard on yourself -- you're allowed at least a few flaws and idiosyncrasies! -- and not to subvert your own needs and desires in favor of maintaining harmony. With some effort, you should be able to have both.

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