Romantic Personality Profile

Sun in Sagittarius

A carefree, expansive lover

For you, intimate relationships are all about having a good time and a great adventure with someone as exciting as you are. Grass doesn't tend to grow beneath your feet; you have a bit of wanderlust within you -- and what's wrong with that? Absolutely nothing, as long as you take care not to lead your sweetie on or make any promises that you can't keep. But you're not one to lead others on; you're nothing if not fair-minded. You have high standards in love as well as in life, and you can't stand mistreating or hurting other people. On the other hand, you can be a bit tactless, and might stick your foot in your mouth without realizing it -- and then feel baffled when your sweetie's feelings are suddenly hurt for some reason that's completely off your radar screen. You're more into independence and adventure than you are togetherness, mutual dependency or relationship stability, and for this reason, you may take quite a long time before you settle down with one special person. You like to have your options open, and you need to make sure that your chosen partner will give you all the freedom and independence that you need before you're willing to commit.

Sun opposite Mars

Always on the defense

All of your relationships -- with friends, family, coworkers -- are marked to some extent by conflict, and that includes your romantic relationships. You may think this is just the way it is, or that this combative energy comes from everyone else, but it really originates within you. Through the course of your life, you've developed the perception that the world is against you, and your only course of action is to be on the defense. While you may have grown up in a household that was full of conflict and blame, those conditions no longer have to be a part of your life if you don't want them to be. It is possible to lay down your arms, so to speak; to become a calmer, more forgiving participant in the world and seek out friends and lovers with whom you don't have to be on the defensive. That's your challenge in life and in love: to learn not to jump to the defense every time you feel threatened, and over time, to learn to feel less threatened by others in the first place. In the meantime, you'll have to tone down that temper if you want to make a connection with that special someone! Your short fuse and confrontational tendencies may turn off a potential sweetie.

Mercury in Capricorn

Logic doesn't apply

You're a careful, methodical thinker, which serves you well at school or in your job but may get in the way of comfortable and effective communication with your sweetie. After all, when you're having an emotional conversation with them about feelings and other abstractions, they probably don't want to hear your careful, dry, analytical view of what's really going on! And not everything can be reduced to logic and reason. Some things are purely emotional, a concept that can mystify you. You really don't have much patience for emotional displays, as a matter of fact -- but if you roll your eyes at your lover when they're getting all worked up, what do you think is going to happen? That's right -- they'll get even more worked up, until they're like one big emotional volcano that's ready to explode! And the truth is, they're not wrong. Emotional perception and communication are just as important and valid as the more analytical, logical kind, even if you're far more comfortable with the latter. In fact, you would do well to try to be more comfortable with the feeling side of life. Learn to be more open about your own, and try to take your honey's seriously.

Mercury sextile Uranus

On your own terms

The routine of dating -- first date, getting to know each other over cocktails and chitchat; second and third dates, taking the conversation a bit deeper, and sharing the first kiss, or more -- and the traditional progression from dating to commitment to marriage to children to a mortgage and debt and children and 401(k)s and commuting to work and... The point is, if you got fidgety during that sentence, it's because routine and tradition in romance aren't for you! You don't want to do things the tried-and-true way, the way your parents, friends and the common wisdom dictate that you should. You're a much more original thinker than that, and you like to follow your own path in love as well as in life. If you do end up going the dating-marriage-2.3 kids route, you can be sure that it'll happen not by default, but because you want it to; on your own terms and your own timeline. You're attracted to lovers who can step outside the bounds of what's 'normal' with you, instead of fearing the unknown and the potentially unacceptable. For this reason, you're the master of your own love life. However love happens for you, it will be a personal, unique and satisfying experience.

Mercury square Pluto

Overly suspicious

The way your mind works can sometimes be a bit much for other people to handle, especially for people who don't know you well. You have a way of probing into others' feelings and motivations, deeply and relentlessly, that can make them very uncomfortable. And when you're doing this to someone you don't know well -- such as on the first date with someone new and special -- it can come across as overwhelming, or even inappropriate. Sometimes people want to hold their cards close to their chest; they have their own, valid reasons for keeping some things private, and it's not always the best idea to push and push at them until they open up, especially if you're not willing to reveal your own. Though you want to know what makes other people tick, you're rarely willing to reveal your own motivations; you want to maintain an air of mystery while exposing others' mysteries to the light. In a romantic relationship, your urge to get to the bottom of things can sometimes verge into the territory of outright and often unfounded suspicion. Sometimes, it really is best to take things at face value, such as your lover's word.

Venus in Scorpio

Magnetically seductive

Your passions run strong and deep in love. You're the type who can love your sweetie down to the depths of your soul, but if they hurt you or break your heart, you'll hate them just as passionately as you adored them. You rarely do things halfway in love affairs, and you always lead with your heart. This can get you into trouble, for example, when your sweetie inadvertently steps on your toes and you lash out at them, wanting only to hurt them back -- in that moment. But a moment later, when you've calmed down enough to see that they didn't mean whatever it was that so got under your skin in the first place, you have to soothe their now-hurt feelings and make things better again. Good thing you're so magnetic! A relationship with you can be a bit like an emotional roller coaster ride -- up, down, always intense -- but you live for those addictive highs and lows. A strong emotional connection is extremely important to you, as is an equally strong sexual one. In fact, you tend to use your sexuality to both form and test that emotional connection. When it comes to arguments with your sweetie, you really like the part where you get to kiss and make up.

Venus conjunct Uranus

Restless attractions

You're impulsive in love -- you may have a string of short-lived but intense affairs behind you, because you jump into relationships without thinking of the consequences! For you, consequences just don't mean much. You're more interested in the immediate experience of passion than you are in what might happen later. You aren't afraid of having your heart broken, either -- maybe because it doesn't happen very often. Since you're always moving on without notice to someone newer and more exciting, you rarely get your heart involved in your love affairs. That makes for more fun and less mess in your life, but at some point, you're going to have to give a relationship a chance to deepen if you ever want real love and intimacy. And when you do commit to one person long-term, it's going to be someone very unusual. Your tastes run to the weird, interesting and even kinky in love, and you grow bored fast with routine. You might fall for someone who refuses to commit to you, or who's incredibly moody; either of those scenarios would certainly keep you on your toes! Your love life might not be terribly romantic or satisfying, but it does hold your interest.

Venus sextile Juno

Devoted to love

Active expression of your love for your partner is very important to you. Regardless of whatever other influences to the contrary that you may live under, it is important to you to have an open flow of love, communication and attraction with your sweetie, because for you, love is one of the ultimate experiences of life. You are capable of incredible devotion to your sweetie, and even more than that, you know how to keep the love alive. It's not enough for you just to make a commitment and then settle back into a lifelong, comfortable affair; you're attuned to attraction and desire as well, and you'll work hard to keep those influences fresh and satisfying for you and your honey. You also aren't one to 'let yourself go' once you get into a comfortable, loving relationship; if anything, being in love makes you pay even more attention to your health and appearance, because you want to make a great impression on your sweetie every time they see you. You're one of those people who will be leaving little surprise love notes under your honey's pillow when you're both old and gray! You'll always make that effort, so make sure you commit yourself to someone who's just as devoted.

Mars in Gemini

Creative fun in the bedroom

Your energy comes and goes, and that includes your sex drive. In the game of love, if you set your sights on someone special, you'll pursue them in a big way -- at least, until your interests suddenly wane, or shift over to someone new. It's not exactly that you can't make up your mind; it's that you don't have a great deal of persistence, and you're attracted to so many different types of people that if it doesn't happen with one person, you'd just as soon move on to someone else. When you're in a long-term relationship, it might be up to your partner to keep your sex life grounded and steady. If it were left up to you, you'd make lots of love for a week or two, but then forget all about it for a while as you diverted your energies elsewhere. On the other hand, a creative and innovative lover can definitely hold your attention long-term. You like a good dose of playful fun in the bedroom, including kinky little games -- especially ones that involve talking dirty! The same old thing over and over again tends to lose interest for you, and you're not much for slow, sensuous, emotional lovemaking. You prefer it when it's fast, fun and on the surprising side.

Mars retrograde

Unpredictable sexual energies

Your sexual energies are erratic at best; you find it very difficult to keep up your drive and interest when your urges are so here, there, high, low and basically unpredictable. This can be a problem in love affairs, because your sweetie never quite knows what to expect when it comes to you and sex. Your best match will be with someone who can stand a little sexual moodiness, if you will; someone who's okay with the fact that your energies fluctuate. And it can be as difficult for you to deal with as it is for your honey. Some days you just feel stifled, as if you need some kind of release or you'll go crazy! But even on these days, a nice, sweaty session in the bedroom still won't clear your soul or rejuvenate your energies; in fact, lots of times it will deplete you even further. On other days, you'll just feel tired and remote, and like you can't stand to be touched. A gentle, sensitive and caring partner will be able to roll with these changes, which is just what you need -- because someone who's overly demanding or accusatory will only make you feel worse. You can also have trouble leading the way in lovemaking, and may need that gentle lover to guide you in a tender way.

Mars square Juno

You think it's easier to be alone

Independence is of extreme importance to you, and you might even pride yourself on your ability to be alone. You may prefer not to be in steady relationships, because you think of them as restrictive, more trouble than they're worth, and you need your freedom. You might think that you can get everything you need out of a love affair with no strings attached -- a passionate sexual connection, occasional companionship and excitement; the rest, you believe you can provide for yourself. But if you think this way, there's a whole world that you're missing out on. Love and stability don't have to be restrictive, but it's difficult for you to experience them as comfortable, much less freeing. You might be attracted to strength, but you tend to get involved either with rigid, controlling types who react badly to your own controlling behavior, or with pushover types who let you bully them. Perhaps you've been bullied in the past, and you refuse to let that ever happen again; but whatever the reason, when you're involved with someone in a stable relationship, you start to feel itchy and react by lashing out, provoking arguments and so on. Love is rarely a smooth, comfortable experience for you.

Jupiter in Aries

Overflowing with energy

You talk about your opinions as freely and impulsively as you give out gifts and favors -- and these qualities both endear you to your honey and, on occasion, annoy them. For one thing, you often dominate the conversation. On a date, even with someone brand-new, you talk a mile a minute and might not notice that your potential sweetie is sitting there, growing annoyed with the fact that they can't get a word in edgewise. Furthermore, you're pretty darn sure of yourself and your opinions, aren't you? Often you stick to your ideas like glue, even if you have no concrete evidence to found them upon. On the more positive side, you're incredibly generous with people. No sooner does the idea of a gift or treat for someone you love come into your head than you're already showering them with it. You're really indulgent, and can sometimes smother the one you love. But this impulsive effusiveness is just part of who you are, and when you find your true match in love, they'll put up with the downside and appreciate the upside. And you will find your match, because you're nothing if not great at recognizing opportunities in the game of love and jumping on them!

Jupiter trine Neptune

Just follow your heart

Follow your intuition in love -- because your instincts won't steer you wrong. In fact, your best opportunities in relationships will come up when you're following your heart, or your 'gut,' instead of trying to do what you think you 'should' do. What's right for you may not be what someone else would do; you're on your own path when it comes to romance and intimacy, and that's as it should be. And what path can be followed without mistakes and obstacles cropping up from time to time? You'll encounter these too, but you're optimistic and bright-eyed enough to take them in stride, as learning experiences. You bring a lot of sweetness, idealism and compassion to your love affairs, so if you're hooked up with the right person -- someone who won't take advantage of your kindness -- you'll have a really nice time in love. Your best relationships will be the ones that teach you something about what it is to be human. You have a deeper understanding of human nature than most people, and this understanding is yet another gift you bring to your love affairs. You're able to look deeply into your lover's soul and know intuitively who they are, and what they need in love.

Jupiter opposite Pluto

Trying too hard

You've always marched to the beat of your own drummer, but while originality is a good thing, you may have noticed that your friends and lovers are sometimes turned off by your more out-there ideas, not to mention your stubborn my-way-or-the-highway attitude. It's more important to you to stand alone than to get along with others -- including your sweetie. You spend a lot of time either alone or in conflict with other people. You like shoving against the crowd instead of running with it, and unless you can find a lover who has the exact same idiosyncratic view of life that you do, this can really present problems when you're trying to be intimate with someone special. Your urge for originality is actually a kind of wall that you've put up around you; for example, you'll argue hotheadedly with anyone about just about anything, just to show that you're different and freethinking. But why does thinking freely have to go hand in hand with antagonism? And an ironic twist on this whole picture is that you're pretty sensitive to being challenged. If you want to develop a close relationship with someone sweet, you'll have to learn to listen to others and look for the wisdom in their ideas.

Saturn in Leo

Serious about romance

When you're involved in a long-term, romantic affair, you take your duties seriously. You offer your lover loyalty, respect and a healthy dose of romance, and you demand the same in return. You're very happy in a committed love affair as long as you're getting the admiration and appreciation that you want -- but when your lover isn't forthcoming with plenty of props and affection, you can grow quite grumpy. Don't they know what you're putting into the relationship? Don't they realize the lengths that you go to in order to honor your relationship and put it up on a pedestal? They may know, and they may not -- but it also may be true that you're setting a bit too high of a standard. Not everyone has the energy that you do when it comes to romance. Not everyone needs the same reassurances that you do, either, so it's possible that you're putting everything into a relationship when really, that much effort is unnecessary. Seek a lover who understands you, who can read your signals and respond when you're starting to feel underappreciated. A lover who indulges you in this way will help to maintain the balance of your warm and vital bond.

Saturn square Uranus

Upsetting that apple cart

Your love affairs go in fits and starts, because you're waging an internal battle between respecting the status quo and following the inner urge to upset the apple cart -- just for the sake of, well, upsetting the apple cart! You tend to lack long-lasting discipline in your relationships. You might go along for a while, toeing the line -- and then, all of a sudden, you'll do something to disturb the stability of the affair, because as much as you want a solid love that you can depend on, you also crave freedom. You might start a silly, unnecessary fight, knowing that it will lead to a breakup, or you might suddenly freeze your lover out with disinterest. You might even get involved with someone new, simply to break free of the chafing bonds of commitment. As a result, you may have a series of affairs behind you that ended badly, and no real sense of how to change this pattern in the future. This is, however, something that you can control. You must recognize this urge for freedom, and force yourself to make measured moves, not impulsive ones -- no matter how much you want to shove that apple cart until it falls on its side, apples tumbling everywhere!

Uranus in Scorpio

Intensely sexual

As odd or counterintuitive as it may sound, your intense sexuality could be the undoing of your relationship. But you have deep, strong desires, and you're not one to repress them. When they take hold of you, you want to act on them -- even if you have to do so in a secretive way. And sometimes, acting on your desires, especially secretively, may not be in the best interest of your blossoming or committed love affair. On the other hand, you're very sexually compelling to your lover. You have an innovative mind about new positions to try and new feelings to explore; you like nothing more than to get down and dirty with another person, and find out what it truly is to be human! But this urge to explore 'the dark side' and plumb the depths of your psyche via sexual encounters that lay your soul bare...well, it can get a little too intense at times, for your sweetheart and even for you. On the other hand, intensity, even the disturbing kind, is what you live for, and your strong will can get you through even the darkest moments. And you'll almost certainly come out on the other side with greater self-knowledge of your own truth.

Neptune in Sagittarius

Strong intuitions

You have a strongly intuitive side, but you often misread your inner compass, and if you act according to your instincts, you might find yourself moving in the entirely wrong direction. When it comes to your instincts, you tend to miss the trees in favor of the forest. That means your 'inner eye' isn't attuned to the important little details, or the subtle variations of whatever feeling you're getting. In a romance, for example, you could get a strong sense that things are off with your partner -- but you'll ignore the specifics about your feeling and end up drawing the totally wrong conclusion about what's going on with your sweetie and why. You're seeking the truth, though, and that's the very reason why you so often misread your own signals -- because the truth is such a broadly varied and changeable concept. And it's wonderful that you shoot for the stars in your quest for the truth. But you should always incorporate all your senses, not just your sixth one. Rely on the combination of your inner feelings plus the facts as you can see and understand them, and you'll steer yourself along a straighter track.

Neptune sextile Pluto

The transcendent experience of love

While you may get involved in a few flings, you're more able than some to transcend your bodily needs for a higher ideal. Sex just for its own sake may not hold a lot of appeal for you unless other aspects indicate it; you'd much rather connect on a physical level with someone with whom you're emotionally bonded with, because that way, the experience is so much more transcendent and important. Sex without love is basically empty, but sex can be an important growth experience when paired up with true intimacy and emotional attachment. You've always understood that, so you tend to look for relationships that really mean something to you rather than pursuing someone who just appeals to you on a physical level. Love, also, is a spiritual experience for you, one that helps you grow hugely as a human being. If you look back over your life, you'll find that your romantic affairs corresponded with periods of intense personal growth and transformation, and it will always be this way for you. So when you're getting involved with someone new, use this truth about yourself as a barometer for whether the relationship is worth pursuing. If there's more there than simple attraction, it probably is.

Neptune square Juno

Time to wake up

You're a spiritual and compassionate person, but you may take those qualities a bit too far in your romantic attachments. For you, simple compassion or empathy can turn into a savior fantasy; you might enmesh your life with that of someone who doesn't deserve your time and energy, but you'll throw yourself into trying to save them anyway, convincing yourself that it's worth it -- all the pain and emotional starvation you go through are worth it in the end. This is a form of self-martyrdom, you know. Is that really what you want -- to be a martyr in love? It's wonderful to be selfless, but you should give that gift only to people who deserve it. A good rule of thumb is to put into a relationship only what you get out of it, and no more. If your sweetie can't be as selfless and nurturing for you as you are for them, then perhaps they're not the right partner for you. After all, your tender and loving soul deserves some compassion, too. They're not the only one that needs saving; we all do from time to time. It's time to stop deluding yourself about the state of your love life, and start seeking a partner who can give back as much as they get out of being intimate with you.

Pluto in Libra

Personal growth through relationship

Love affairs have always been intense for you, because that is one arena that really lets you progress and transform yourself as a person. While other people might do their best internal work on their own, you're all about relationships and the lessons you can glean through being intimately involved with someone. Of course, 'relationship' can also mean the one you share with your therapist; that would be another wonderful way for you to connect more deeply with yourself and grow to understand and nurture yourself. But love affairs for you tend to be intense and symbiotic, and you rarely come out of them unchanged. A harmonious balance between you and your sweetie is one of your highest ideals, and you're willing to go to great lengths to bring that ideal into reality. You'll work hard on a relationship that's important to you, and you can be very introspective in your quest to make the bond the best that it can be. Just remember not to be too hard on yourself -- you're allowed at least a few flaws and idiosyncrasies! -- and not to subvert your own needs and desires in favor of maintaining harmony. With some effort, you should be able to have both.

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