The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Love Life Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Sun in Sagittarius
You know the old saying: When the going gets tough, the Sadge gets going. Gee, maybe that's why you've got a whole string of former relationships on your resume; the minute any problems cropped up, you bailed, often running off with your latest foreign flame or to some far-flung country. Your intense need for freedom has severe commitment-phobic ramifications, and there's nothing like a little disagreement or misunderstanding to bring them to the fore. Even when you stick around for the argument, you say such shocking things that your partner bails on you. 'There,' you say to yourself, 'it's on them now.'Don't shoot your arrow just yet. You've got yourself convinced that you can't have both a lover and the freedom you crave, but you're not seeing all the possibilities. You're not the only one who needs room to move, you know. The key for you is to find someone not unlike yourself. Your ideal partner will have similar freedom needs, and together, you'll be able to weave a relationship that provides both love and companionship, and the liberty to come and go at will.
Mercury in Sagittarius
There's a conveyer belt between your brain and your mouth, and unfortunately it lacks a filter. Consequently, any thought that enters your mind immediately ushers forth from your lips, much to the shock and dismay of those around you. You certainly didn't mean to offend anyone; you were simply stating the obvious truth -- well, obvious to you, anyway. While it's true that honesty is the best policy, it's not necessary to blow others out of the water with it. And thus spoke many of your past lovers, no?There's so much hope for you. You're awfully curious and eager to explore all sorts of subjects, which makes you a delight to talk to. You're well-informed on so many subjects and make weird and wonderful connections between them. This is not the area where your relational communications problems lie. You're so used to checking out the big picture that little details often escape you, and you don't always listen very well, either. Your ideal partner will command your attention, and you'll learn to preview your comments to see in advance how they might go over. This little step will provide big rewards in your love life.
Venus in Libra
You have the hardest time saying 'no,' don't you? You're so careful not to hurt anyone's feelings, or to make them think that you don't like them (even when you really don't!). And it's not as if you're lying, because you really do believe things in the moment you say them. But like a chameleon, you may change the very next minute, the better to blend in with your environment. Can you wonder why everyone complains about how inconstant you are? How changeable? How indecisive?Previous lovers have been captivated by your artistry, your good taste, your refinement. Your pleasant nature and romantic leanings make you a wonderful date. Why didn't you tell them that you're dating three other people, too? Much better to be honest about it than to be embarrassed out on a date with one of your other amours, only to bump into the person you were supposed to be committed to. Avoid those little white lies you tell in order to protect your lover, or yourself. It's too much to keep track of!
Mars in Gemini
What did your past lovers have a problem with? Well, for starters, you couldn't sit still for more than five minutes. That made dinner-and-a-movie dates quite a challenge. Then there was your short little span of attention, the one that made it impossible for you to really listen and hear when they were pouring their hearts out to you. Finally, they got annoyed with the way you'd just blurt anything out, anytime, anywhere. It got so they couldn't take you out into public for fear of what you'd say.Is there hope for you? Certainly there is. Not that we're blaming your previous partners, but can't you find someone a little more lighthearted, someone who can bring out your playful side and focus on the fast-thinking, quick-talking person instead of on your deficits? Doing any type of physical activity together is good, so keep the jogging shoes or bike close at hand. Intellectual pursuits work, too, since they keep your mind busy. Your key to more successful relationships is to bring the lighter side to the fore.
Jupiter in Aries
You're not afraid to go where others fear to tread. You're a pioneer, a groundbreaker, a trendsetter. You're happiest when you're the center of attention. The trouble with your pesky past relationships is that you've had to share the limelight, which doesn't come easily for you. Oh, you've tried to work with it. You tried to choose someone who needed an equal amount of attention, but you got resentful. You tried someone else who disappeared into the background, and you got bored. This presents quite the dilemma for you, does it not?Pride prevents you from giving up, and why should you, anyway? You've got a lot to offer your ideal partner. You've got the self-confidence to attract someone wonderful, as long as that confidence does not develop into hubris, which would prevent you from recognizing a potential Perfect Partner to begin with. You know what you want, and you recognize it when you see it; you're not willing to compromise on the qualities you're looking for in a lover. You're most likely to meet this lover in your day-to-day activities and business affairs, so the search isn't limited to evenings and weekends. Keep your eyes peeled for that special someone. You'll have the initiative and gumption to get things going.
Saturn in Leo
Your difficulties in love come not from without, but from within yourself. Instead of feeling confident in yourself, building a strong ego or developing your obvious capacity for leadership, you flog yourself constantly for not being good enough. When others compliment you, you don't believe them. When someone indicates interest in you, you may not even notice it. Oddly enough, you may act as though you are quite superior to others, thus appearing stuck up and aloof. This mask of superiority is merely a defense mechanism, designed to throw others off the track. You're sure that they'll discover at any moment that you're a fraud.But you're not! Stop being so hard on yourself. Relax those elevated expectations and give yourself a break. In fact, you have an amazing amount to offer your ideal partner. If you will but open your heart a little for someone to love you, you'll immediately feel better. Bit by bit, love will flow stronger and stronger. You have an amazing capacity for love, commitment and loyalty. All you have to do is believe that it's possible.
Uranus in Scorpio
Have you noticed that it's all the rage now to be bisexual? The world has you and your generation to thank for that; you are opening doors on new ways of being, particularly in the sexual arena. Experiences and orientations that have been taboo since forever are coming up for review. You and your peers open these areas confidently, seeking to find out what's going on behind the closed doors. You let the full light fall on subjects that were previously off-limits. In fact, you accept no limits on your sexuality; it's obvious to you that everyone should be free to love whom they want, when they want and how they want. This new way of viewing sexuality is only part of what your generation is called upon to open up; the human psyche is no less a target for your revolutionary ways. Your job is to shine the light on all areas that have been taboo up until now. The effects of the changes started by you and your peers will be long-lasting, indeed.
Neptune in Sagittarius
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely different culture. You appreciate the exposure to habits and beliefs that diverge from your own, because in this way you learn deeply about people from different places on earth. In your eyes, there is no better way to expand your consciousness than to do it through another person's eyes. Relationships are roads to learning for you; and there are many roads to learning, are there not?
Pluto in Libra
You and your peers will revolutionize the arena of relationships and romances. As a child, you watched partnerships crumble all around you, if not your own parents', then the relationships of your friends' parents; and you decided early on that you wouldn't repeat the same pattern. You take relationships very, very seriously, and for this reason may wait to start dating or getting serious about anyone. You're not in any hurry, which provides you with enough time to understand yourself and your relationship needs. Don't delay too long, though! Fear of relationship can be just as harmful as hooking up too early. Your challenge will be in finding the right balance of independence and partnership, and in knowing how much of your personal energy to expend toward each.
Saturn square Uranus
You grabbed some real live wires when you hooked up with your past lovers, and you're still reeling from the effects -- electrified, yet stunned. Let's be honest: Your fidelity issues were on full display, yet you wouldn't commit. You worried that you couldn't trust your freewheeling sweetie. You wondered what they were up to when you weren't there to watch. You may even have caught yourself doing a little more snooping than you actually felt comfortable with. The problem, of course, was in the time you spent together, not the time you were apart. If things had been really great between you, there'd have been no need to worry, right? So...what was the problem? Did your jealousy and insecurity tear you apart? Did you demand to hear 'I love you' when your mate wasn't in the mood to say it? Did you take off and try something on the side, fulfilling your own suspicions about your mate?Buckle yourself in and get ready to enjoy the ride. You're likely to choose lovers who will always like to shake things up. You may never get the calm security or steady commitment that you think you want. But another name for security is boredom, and you won't have any of that, either. Your ideal lover won't settle for anything less than passion and zing, and if you choose to stick around, that's just what you'll get.
Venus opposite Jupiter
You're a person who likes to have a lot of fun with their partner. In the past, you've chosen lovers who were as intelligent, expansive and cheerful as you, and you liked people who had interests in common with yours. And that's a good thing. You've been part of some warm, dynamic duos that other people wanted to be around, just so they could bask on your glow. However, what outsiders didn't see was the somewhat hollow middle beneath the gleaming exterior of your relationships. You were so busy having fun together, so immersed in enjoying yourselves, that you never bothered to dig deep. Did you even discuss what each of you wanted from the relationship? What direction you hoped to go in, and when? You're fun and attractive so you have no problem meeting people. You are well-placed to move ahead into a fulfilling and lasting relationship. But in order to get there, you're going to have to do some work. Talk about what you want, and listen to what your lover is looking for. Do not ignore what you hear in order to gloss over any potential conflicts; instead, seek compromises. The longevity you seek can be yours provided you are willing to bend just a little.
Jupiter opposite Pluto
Your past love relationships were not always a comfy place to be. Both you and your sweeties seemed more interested in manipulating each other than in being in love. You raged and pouted. They slammed doors and withheld affection and reassurance. You finally felt so frustrated that you chucked everything into the garbage. Too bad you were so quick to discard everything you'd built so far. Your lovers were challenging mates, to be sure. But that's exactly what kept you on your toes and coming back for more. Splitting when the going got rough only ensured that you'd repeat the same patterns in your next relationship.What you need is a dispassionate tallying up of the status of your past hookups. What worked in your relationships? What didn't? And the next time you get together with someone who's worth your while, put your newfound skills to the test. The ability to calmly take your connection's temperature is the first step toward solving your problems. Find some issues that need a little work, and then get going! Talk about what you both want. Make agreements on how you're going to move from here to there. It's not fun, all this negotiating, but it's the only way to break you out of your rut.
No Quincunxes
You've never been much for compromise, have you? In past relationships, when issues came up between you and your lover, you used whatever tools you had -- sweetly cajoling, arguing, turning a cold shoulder -- to get your own way. But why was having your own way so important? After all, other people have feelings, needs and agendas, too, just like yours. Who decides which person's need is the most important one in any given moment? That's a perennial question for all relationships, and except in the one between an infant and its caretaker, the answer isn't as simple as 'I decide, and my needs always come first.' Relationships, after all, should be about give and take. Sometimes you get your way; sometimes your lover does. Insisting on always getting your way not only makes you look uncomfortably similar to that aforementioned infant, it could actually lead to loneliness. After all, if it's a choice between getting your way or bailing out of the relationship, well, you'll end up either with a partner who's a pushover or sleeping alone. If you want a well-functioning, long-term relationship, you'll have to learn to choose your battles. The art of compromise is the perfect place to start your lessons, because if you give your lover a little, they'll probably want to give back a lot. You'll feel a lot better once you learn to step back and let someone else take reins from time to time.
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