An astrological report prepared for

Person 1, born July 1, 1974 and person 2, Born June 21, 1983:

When Love Hurts

How to Uncover Roadblocks in Your Relationship

SOMETIMES LOVE THRILLS THE BODY AND FILLS THE SOUL; IT CAN PUT A BOUNCE IN YOUR STEP AND A SMILE ON YOUR FACE NO MATTER THE WEATHER. OTHER TIMES, LOVE JUST STINKS.
That's where When Love Hurts report comes in. If you've been together for a while and things aren't looking quite so rosy anymore, When Love Hurts can help. 

After all, facing your problems is half the battle, but sometimes that's the hardest part. Not because you don't want to face them -- you do -- but because they mystify you. You try to get along with your honey, and you know they have good intentions too. Yet somehow, things just don't go as well as you'd like.
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Friction, Differences, and Karma Meters

The Friction, Differences and Karma Meters: every couple faces a certain set of challenges, and the number and type of challenges determine whether your relationship will be merely interesting or out-and-out difficult. At The Astrologer, we've broken down these challenges into three sections: sources of friction, the major differences between you, and the karmic ties from past lives that draw you together today.

On the first two meters, Friction and Differences, a score somewhere in the middle is probably best. Friction can be a good thing -- after all, the same energy that makes you lust after each other also makes you fight. And we all know that a good argument, like good sex, clears the air and lets you know your passion is alive! The same goes for differences between you in the ways that you think and view the world: These contrasts keep the relationship dynamic.

Karma, on the other hand, isn't such a great thing, even if your past-life bonds were positive ones. This lifetime is... Read more

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Friction
= 4

7-10: Open warfare

4-6: The occasional dispute

0-3: Whatever you have to say dear

Differences
= 3

7-10: Who the $#@% are you, again?

4-6: Some interesting contrasts

0-3: Two Peas in a pod

Karma
= 5

7-10: New love, same old story

4-6: Total deja-vu

0-3: No past life ties (whew!)

Person 1, here is your When Love Hurts report

Sun

illustrates your basic commonalities
tells your basic differences
indicates how well you get along with one another
shows what each of you brings to the relationship

Mercury

shows how you communicate with each other
reveals who is the thinker & who is the feeler
helps you understand each other’s communication style

Venus

reveals your connection to each other
indicates how each other prefers to receive love
highlights how both of you express love

Mars

represents the physical bond you share
reveals each other’s desires and impulses
shows how each person expresses frustration

Jupiter

highlights the non-negotiable values held by each of you
shows what is important to each person
indicates whether the relationship will grow

Saturn

challenges the relationship
unveils each other's shortcomings
demonstrates where extra effort is needed in the relationship

Uranus

uncovers each other’s rebellious side
points out the unique qualities each person brings to the relationship
shows how the two of you have fun

Neptune

rules the psychic connection you have to each other
reveals how you help each other grow
indicates if a relationship is a spiritual one

Pluto

reveals each person’s greatest fears
indicates opportunities for change
demonstrates the self-transformation the relationship brings to both of you
Read below to find out where each planet was on July 1, 1974, and how your birth chart has shaped your personality and guided your decisions so far…

From Friction To Fulfillment

Jupiter square Mars

Bad Encouragement

You and your lover egg each other on, and not in a good way. Apart you are able to focus your energies on a goal and reach it. Together you are apt to indulge yourself in all sorts of unhealthy ways. You may have run up large credit card bills, or be in some other sort of debt. You act too quickly, you move without thinking, you leap before you look. Other people may have been coming to you to express concern -- your life isn't moving in a positive direction, and though the fault isn't exactly all your lover's, your relationship certainly hasn't been bringing out the best in you. The answer lies in setting up ground rules. Sit down and talk about where you are and where you want to go. What are your career goals? Where do you see yourselves in five years? In ten? Articulate your dreams, and make concrete plans that will bring them to fruition. Discipline and restraint isn't easy, it's true, but this is the only way to combat your drift. If you let things go on as they are, you'll ultimately regret ignoring your moment of clarity.

Jupiter square Mercury

Parent and Child

Nag, nag, nag. You can hardly blame your lover for turning off -- your needle's stuck in a groove, and you're running over the same script once again. Was it by design that you fell into being the bad-guy parent, the scolding teacher? Or did it just somehow happen, with you viewing your restless, hard-to-pin-down lover as a great big blank canvas for you to paint on? You bagged yourself a remarkable sweetie, and a good match for you. You enjoy the crackling energy between you -- you spar with words and never get tired of being in each other's company.Yet your desire to mold your lover into someone else causes friction. And when your lover is challenged, there is a tendency to blurt out the wrong thing at the wrong moment. Then you are wounded and hold a grudge. Can't you see that the whole cycle starts with you? If you'd relax a bit, live and let live, things would cool down. Your lover wouldn't need to rebel if you weren't always putting on the screws. Channel the generous, kind side of your nature and give your lover a break, willya?

Friend or Foe?

Venus opposite Jupiter

Sweet and Harmonious

You and your partner have a lot of fun together. Both intelligent, expansive, cheerful, you have many interests in common, and that's a good thing. Together you are a warm, dynamic couple that other people want to be around, just so they can bask on your glow. However, what outsiders don't see is the somewhat hollow middle beneath your gleaming exterior. You're so busy having fun together, so immersed in enjoying yourselves, that you haven't bothered to dig deep. Have you even discussed what each of you wants from this relationship? What direction you hope to go in, and when? Have you thought about potential conflicts in the way you deal with money, family, faith?You and your sweetie are well placed to move ahead into a fulfilling and lasting relationship. But in order to get there, you're going to have to do some work. Talk about what you want, and listen to what your lover is looking for. Do not ignore what you hear in order to gloss over any potential conflicts; instead, seek compromises. The longevity you seek can be yours provided you are willing to bend just a little.

Venus opposite Uranus

You're Hooked

La la la, don't you just love to be in love? Yes, indeed you do, sweet one, but this time you sure picked yourself a corker. Impulsive, demanding, emotional, entrancing -- your lover hooked you but good right from the start. You're like a love junkie looking for a fix, and trembling and aching when you can't make the connection. Unfortunately, a continued supply of the love you crave is far from assured. In fact, the more you cling the more your lover seems to slip clean away, like tomato seeds on a cutting board. You can't get the commitment you crave. And worst of all, you fear you're not the only number in your lover's little black book. Buck up. A love this hot wasn't built to last. Only time will tell whether you've got what it takes to go the distance. All you can do is resist the temptation to cling and complain. Marshall some of that expansive confidence and glitter a little. Catching this particular fly with the honey of your self-assured attractiveness is the surest route to a lasting love that glows instead of burning out.

Why Are We Involved, Again?

Jupiter quincunx Venus

Uncomfy Love

Everybody likes your lover. Your parents. Your friends. Your coworkers. Everything seems so right: You always have a great time whenever you're together. In fact, things go so smoothly between you that you've been able to ignore the gaps thus far. But you're waking up. The fact is that on the surface you're congenial and gracious, but underneath there are some serious disparities in your goals and values. You're more attuned to the intellectual side of things, politics and ideas and art, while your lover's the more sensual hedonist type. Think about it. Don't you make conversation more often than your lover, talking about humdrum matters to mask the realization that you don't have an awful lot in common?Developing common interests is key to the survival of your relationship. Take up a hobby together. Dance lessons? A foreign language? A sport? Whatever it is, make sure it's something that'll consume you both. With a little attention, you can get things moving in the right direction again. This is one love relationship that needs a little nudging to run smoothly.

Mercury quincunx Jupiter

Three's Company

You've been feeling very lonely, haven't you? You're surrounded by people and noise, your hand held by another, yet inside, in the places that really matter, you feel utterly alone. One problem is that the people who surround you aren't those of your choosing. Your lover has a habit of picking up strays and making new friends easily, and in theory you find it charming. How sweet that your sweetie is warm to so many. But you'd prefer not to be constantly crowded. You'd like more quiet evenings at home, more dinners spent talking over the news and working out your problems, not endless rounds of small talk with folks you don't plan to befriend.So how do you address your issues with your true love? Because address them you must; this won't work out on its own. Find a quiet, calm place to sit down and just talk. Ask for what you want. Be specific. Do you want to spend two nights together a week, or four? Don't be afraid to open the lines of communication; you are deeply cared for and your lover will work to find a way to your heart. Just be willing to accept a compromise when you are offered one.

Sun quincunx Uranus

Potential for Sparks

Gotta give you credit: You do mean well. It's just that you generally manage to make a mess out of what you've got. You're never satisfied with what's on your plate; instead you're busy envying others for what they've got. Not only is your cup half-empty, it's spotted and chipped, too. That being said, your attitude may not be ideal, but your choice of partners is: you've gone and found yourself someone who's just as dedicated to delicious havoc as you are. You and your lover share a strong and sexy connection. One thing you can say about your relationship is that it's never boring.Nonetheless, you'd like to be a bit comfier. You can't always rely on your sweetie to be there when needed, you can't ever relax and speak and act without thinking. But take it on the chin, darling -- you got what you wanted, a relationship that's always in flux and always exciting, even if it's a bit dangerous emotionally. Go with it. Indulge your need for drama and variety, and enjoy the fact that it's your very lack of comfort with your lover that keeps hard-to-please you always interested.

Mercury quincunx Uranus

Exacts a Toll

Are you willing to pay the price for this one? Because this is one love relationship that's neither free nor easy. Let's start by sweating the small stuff, shall we? It feels like you and your lover don't speak the same language. You have difficulty understanding each other's issues and respecting each other's limits. Worse, both of you allow your love of variety and novelty to get the better of you. The relationship feels fleeting and unstable, as if either of you could choose to flit off with another at almost any given moment. Which one of you has your foot out the door this time? Not very restful on either side, is it?If you're going to stay where you are, you're going to have to make some concessions and compromises. First of all, tame your rampaging libido. Flirting with others isn't going to get you what you want from your current amour, even if it is fun to tweak your lover's insecurities. Second, you're going to have to figure out a way to live with the occasional instability. This relationship may never settle into contentment. But you were never one for calm anyway. Accept the relationship with flaws intact and you're well-placed for the future.

Saturn quincunx Uranus

Sweet and Sour

The tension between you and your lover can be thick enough to cut with a knife, painful enough to make you want to scream. The problems you're experiencing can be laid handily at the doors of your very different natures. You want structure and stability -- you want to know where your relationship is going, you want to know you can count on a date for the movies and quiet dinners at home. But the mate you've chosen is anything but the stay-by-the-fire type. Instead, your sweetie wants to socialize eight days a week. You lack substantive time alone enjoying your pairing, and are either dragged along to events you'd rather not patronize or left at home, wondering what's going on when you're not around to supervise.The answer is to let go a little. What was that old saying about if you love something, set it free? Love is not a puppy you can squeeze or a document you can pore over. It is unpredictable and fierce, by turns sweet and biting. Savor both sides of your love relationship. Do not ask for more than your lover can give, and ironically, you'll find you get a lot more.

The Ties That Bind

No conjunctions

Enjoying Togetherness and Apartness

There's glue, and then there's glue. Elmer's versus epoxy, Velcro versus nails. Fortunately, with no difficult conjunctions between you, your relationship is bound by the easy-to-separate type of togetherness, not the wild-horses-couldn't-drag-us-apart variety. Now, don't misunderstand: This is not to say that there's not a strong connection between you. But it's nice, isn't it, to be able to take the occasional separate vacation; to enjoy your own interests without your partner feeling threatened; to be two distinct individuals who choose to hang out together. Compare this to the joined-at-the-hip, can't-bear-to-be-apart couple. Don't you always wonder about them? What do they think will happen if they're not together for an entire evening, much less a day or even a week?Separation is not a problem for you two; in fact, you may do it by choice on a regular basis. After all, absence makes the heart grow fonder, and this is surely true of you and your partner. You take great joy in sharing your individual experiences, as well as in spending time together. If anything, you might have to make it a point to schedule in time to be together! You may each be so wrapped up in your own orbit that you suddenly realize that days or even weeks have gone by without you two sharing a full day together.Don't let that happen. Use the previous sections of this report to discover the challenges of your relationship, which so often turn out to be opportunities for growth and development. You two have chosen to be together, and likewise, you can choose to grow together.

Next Steps

I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!

Astrology is a mathematical system. It's all about applying meaning to numbers, or more specifically, finding meaning in the movements of the planets around the Sun, as viewed from our perspective here on earth. These planetary movements are easily captured and recorded with measurements, calculations, angles and so on.

That's why astrology works so well with computers, whose programs are also based on numbers and formulas. In 'the old days' -- thousands of years ago, when astrology was first recorded -- those early astrologers had to painstakingly observe the heavens and catalog their observations for the next generation of astrologers to build upon. Thank goodness for the computer age! Now we can simply use computers to make those calculations quickly and pull just the applicable pieces of information. Now, astrology is instant, based upon thousands of years of observations obtained through careful methodology.

Interpretations of planetary positions are based in part on ancient Greek and Roman mythology, but your astrological report is unique, describing you and you only. Even in the case of twin siblings, their birth charts differ from each other's in at least a few ways. And besides, no one amounts to just a simple interpretation of their birth chart; everyone's personality is complex. Your astrological report leaves plenty of room for variations based on your free will, personal growth and transformation over a lifetime.

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