Wondering how the two of you match up as friends? Now you can find out, at a glance! Our two-way bar graph reveals the connection between you and your BFF -- how you affect them, and how they affect you -- giving you a quick view of the strength of your connection in six important categories.
And what are those categories? Just the ones that can make or break a friendship -- like how your core personalities mesh, how the two of you communicate and the levels of similarities you have for each other. In short, have you got what it takes to become BFF’s? The Astrologer knows! Just remember, even if you both rate high in all six categories, the friendship still might not work out...and even if you rate low, your bond can still grow solid.
What's best is when a graph shows that two people are about equal in their connection to each other. That way, no one feels left out! The bar graphs can only give you a quick peek at the chemistry of your friendship -- the rest is up to you.
Your Soul Connection with your friend is based on how your Sun connects with their personality, including their values, their outlook and what matters to them, and how their Sun connects with you. Just as the Sun is the center of the orbit of all the planets in our solar system, it's also the center of you -- your inner fire, the vital energy that will run through you your whole life. It represents your basic, core personality, separate from all the other influences that... Read more
In this bar graph, your Communicative Bond is based on how your Mercury connects with your best friend’s world view, their attitude toward friendship and how they express themselves, and on how their Mercury connects with you. Often called the planet of communication, Mercury rules your thought processes, your sense of logic, your intellectual ideas and the way you get those ideas across to the world. If the lines of the graph – yours is the top one while your BFF’s is the bottom one are very different in length, then one of you will feel mentally turned on and tuned in, but the other just won't feel the connection. If the lines are similar in length... Read more
In this bar graph, your social link with your best friend is based on how Venus, your harmony planet, connects with them at a heart level, and on how their Venus connects with you. Venus -- the sweet and affectionate planet of love, harmony and socializing -- is all about pleasure, bringing people together and uniting them in harmony, so this planet rules not just love and dating but also friendships, partnerships and any social gathering. If the lines of the graph – yours are... Read more
The excitement you have with your BFF is based on how your Mars connects with their sense of who they are, what they go after and how they express themselves, and on how their Mars connects with you in the same way. Mars rules action, your propensity for irritation, your urge to compete and succeed -- all of these fall within this powerful planet's realm. Mars affects your attitude toward friendship, and it also determines how you could argue with your bestie. If the lines of the graph – yours are on the top and theirs on the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to feel very driven by the relationship, but the other just won't feel... Read more
In this bar graph, your Beliefs and Shared Values are based on how your Jupiter connects with your best friend’s sense of what life is all about, and how their Jupiter connects with you in the same way. Jupiter is referred to as the planet of luck because it brings opportunities and advantages into your life that can seem like a stroke of luck, but are really life lessons meant to test and teach you about your own value system. This planet is also about learning... Read more
Your Long-Term Potential to become friends for life is based on how your Saturn connects with their needs, their nature and their sense of duty in life, and on how their Saturn connects with you in the same way. Saturn's influence in your chart is like that of your conscience. This planet keeps you in check, reminding you of your responsibilities -- including your commitment to your friends and family. If the lines of the graph – yours are the top one’s and theirs the bottom-- are very different in length, then one of you is going to bond fast, while the other just won't share that sense of camaraderie -- not right away, and maybe not ever.... Read more
The Harmony and Challenge Meters read the compatibility chart between you and your best friend, and reveals the levels of harmony and challenges in your friendship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between the two!
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of harmony and very little challenges, but what you really want is a mix between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn). And too many challenges can also ruin a friendship; without a little breathing room between fights and disagreements you'd tire each other out, fast!
Something in the middle is just the ticket. Sometimes a good argument every now and then to clear the air, and a sense of trust and understanding means you will always have each other’s back. One more word of caution before you get started... Read more
9-10: BFF's forever
7-8: You tend to finish each other's sentences
4-6: There's an easy flow between you
0-3: Sometimes it's better to agree to disagree
9-10: Frenemies?
7-8: You've been through thick and thin together
4-6: Small disagreements here and there
0-3: Hardly ever had a disagreement!
Sun trine Sun
You have great potential for a deep, long-term friendship because you're in balance with one another. You're not too similar, but you will understand each other well. That means that when one of you needs support, the other will be right there, ready and willing to give it. When one of you needs to take some alone time, the other will understand and respect that as well. This friendship will give you plenty of room to follow your muse, whether that happens on a personal, emotional level or a more public or professional one. You'll instinctively know how to allow each other room to pursue your ambitions. The only potential problem here is a minor one: You might be so relaxed and comfortable with each other that the friendship grows a little bit dull or stagnant as a result. But as long as you're careful to check in with each other about what's going on in your lives, your connection should stay warm and vital.
Sun trine Uranus
Together you'll focus on being yourselves, fully and completely. You'll encourage each other to become who each of you truly is inside -- a dynamic, independent person. This friendship will be a creative one, and a lot of fun; there will be a sense of discovery and excitement that will push you to reach further into your own minds than ever before. Individuality is highlighted here, in the best way. You'll have plenty in common, but you'll also recognize and appreciate the differences between you. Your life will be creatively enhanced by this friendship, whether on a personal or a professional level. It may be through networking -- you two will probably be very social together -- or it could just be through brainstorming your ideas together. Either way, expect to be enlightened.
Sun square Mercury
Your communication could be tricky at best from the very start. You'll both come to the friendship with the best of intentions, but you'll probably start to irritate each other early on. You're each highly attached to your own, individual character and world view; when you communicate, you'll find that your experiences are at odds with your friend's, and one or both of you may feel threatened by these differences. The problem is that you, especially, attach your ego directly to your opinions, which makes it difficult to step outside your own point of view to see the other person's take on things. Of course, if you're both hardy, adventurous people, you could look at this as a personal challenge: You'll both stand to learn a lot from each other, as you'll be required to let go of your own egos and strive to put yourselves in the other's shoes. But you'll need to make a concerted effort to expand your mental horizons for this friendship to succeed.
Mercury trine Mercury
You two think about things in similar ways, which is a great basis on which to develop a friendship. Even if you have different opinions, you'll have a great time debating the sides of the issue. You'll enjoy picking each other's brains from the very beginning, and you'll come to depend on your friend's perspective. Even when your thinking is different, you'll complement one another well. You'll both feel as if you're on the same intellectual plane, or at least complementary ones. You won't worry about your pal's ability to understand something that you want to discuss, or that they're smarter than you. You'll both know that you're both intelligent individuals with your own mental strengths, and you'll like the way your minds work together. So don't stay on the superficial level. Go ahead and bring up controversial subjects; dig deeply into each other's minds, because that's a major connection between you.
Mercury trine Saturn
Your friend will inspire you to express yourself more clearly and honestly. Whatever high-flying, abstract or generally not-well-founded ideas you may have, your pal will find a way to give those ideas expression and function. They'll have a sobering effect on you, helping you to stabilize your thought processes. If you normally have trouble being decisive or mapping out a path for yourself, this friendship could be just the thing you need to get serious and find direction in your life. Your communication will be strong and beneficial to you both. You'll be able to talk honestly about any problems or issues that might come up between you. And more than that, you'll make a great working team. They'll help you concentrate and separate your better ideas from your not-so-solid ones.
Mercury sextile Mars
Lively communications will be the highlight of your friendship with this person. You'll have a mental connection and enjoy all types of discussion, comment, and debate. Things could get quite heated -- in a friendly way, of course -- especially if either of you has strong opinions about any specific subject. You will also enjoy physical activity together, especially if you can converse as well as move together. Bike rides, hikes, or any activity that permits you to engage mentally as well as physically will help you build your companionship and connection. You'll enjoy games of all types together, as there is a very playful aspect to your friendship that you'll both find enjoyable.
Mercury square Venus
Small misunderstandings between you will be common, and though they usually won't be a huge deal in themselves, their cumulative effect could add up to a certain level of tension in your friendship. You just won't read each other right; you'll misread the cues that come your way and you could end up feeling unappreciated. Somehow, a pattern will be established in the beginning of your friendship that will cause you to hear each other wrong. What to do? You won't find much common ground to stand on, and whenever one of you makes a move to bridge the gap between you, the other will misinterpret the move...and the sentiment will be lost. Any overall positive bond might just have to rely on other more beneficial aspects that exist between you.
Mercury square Neptune
Though you might get along really well for a time, you'll realize after a while that there's some sort of disconnect in your communication. At some level, your friend won't be entirely honest with you. This could be a major pattern of willful dishonesty, but it's more likely to be as minor and intangible as them holding a part of themselves back out of insecurity or because of past experiences -- and then you'll follow suit when you pick up on this strange vibe. Confused communications will be the norm between you. The lesson of this aspect is to be yourself and communicate as honestly as you can, even when being honest makes you both uncomfortable.
Venus trine Venus
This aspect has a good chance of leading to a long term friendship, because you two will feel in sync with each other's rhythms. You'll have a great connection and a wonderful bond as friends, as two people who just really, really like each other. The more you learn about each other, the better you'll get along. The empathy you'll feel for each other will be strong and natural and will help smooth out any problems that might arise between you. You'll give each other a lot of support and affection. You'll just want to get along, to treat each other well and make your amigo feel as cared for and supported as they make you feel. Remember to appreciate this bond and don't take it for granted! Even the best of friendships needs tender nurturing.
Venus trine Neptune
You'll feel a strong sense of kinship and affection toward each other. A true friendship will grow between you, especially if other aspects help bring you close. You'll have a lot of sympathy and understanding for each other, and your naturally caring inclination could easily grow into a strong companionship. You'll enjoy being together, whether you meet face to face or not. Your imaginations will be stimulated when you're in contact, as will a sense of warmth and affection. Your ideals regarding what a friendship should be will find expression in this connection. You'll support each other and encourage one another to be selfless and compassionate. This aspect will help you to stay in tune with each other and to really learn what it means to be pals. This will be a devoted friendship. Music, art, films, poetry and literature will be a wonderful way for you to explore and build your connection.
Venus sextile Jupiter
You'll learn a lot from this friend and will look up to them as a mentor who can teach you about the kind of person you want to become. You'll be able to talk openly with them about things that come up, and they'll understand you well. Through this openness, you'll grow to understand yourself better, which will aid in your career, your personal relationships and all other areas of your life. Socially, you'll encourage your friend to make the most of their contacts. You'll have fun together and you'll also point it out when there's an opportunity that could develop into something more. You'll make each other feel strong, motivated and lucky. This aspect will foster warmth and kinship between you.
Venus opposite Pluto
Jealousy, emotional manipulation, possessiveness and control could become major components of this friendship if you're not both careful. Although dominating you will never bring them real satisfaction, your friend will try it anyway, because their connection with you will feel so important to them. Similarly, your own need for true friendship could keep you locked into this pattern for quite some time, unless you can find a way to examine your feelings and needs and figure out why you've made the choices you have. You two could be projecting your overwhelming needs for companionship onto each other, which will lead you into this controlling, emotionally complex situation. You'll both have to examine your emotional needs and your expectations of each other if you're going to maintain the positive parts of your friendship.
Venus square Saturn
This aspect will make things somewhat difficult when it comes to relating naturally as friends. Somehow your friend will look down on your relationships, your looks or your values. They can actually make you feel quite insecure in these areas, and as a result you'll be prone to feeling very self-conscious around them; in fact, you'll both be pretty uncomfortable. This person will attempt to control you in a way that will make it hard to get along; they'll try to restrain your natural way of being loving and affectionate. In order to have a fun and loving relationship, you'll both have to learn to love and respect each other despite your differences.
Mars trine Mars
You two will be able to combine your energies for the greater good. Fortunately, this energy isn't likely to fade over time. You'll feel energized when you're around each other -- as if the world is full of limitless possibilities. You'll work together toward your goals, whether they're related to your jobs, your personal lives or any other area. You'll be great at brainstorming together; so don't let this opportunity pass you by. You'll have a chance at operating as a true team, so use that positive energy to move your lives forward. You'll be able to take on any competition that might come up if you meet it together. For this reason, you'll work together well on business enterprises or other projects. Physical activity will be highlighted between you; joining a softball team together or going rowing or hiking could be a really fun way to spend time together while blowing off steam.
Mars sextile Mercury
As you begin getting to know each other, you'll both feel excited and energized due to the dynamic nature of your communication. Your conversations will exhilarate you. You'll be able to talk about anything and everything; you'll assert your opinions and get to know yourselves better even as you learn more about each other. Your friend will feed off your energy, and you'll learn a lot from the way their mind works. You'll push them to think in livelier, more adventurous ways. They'll encourage you to define your ideas and base them in sound logic. Under your influence, your friend will become more assertive and animated about expressing themselves. This dynamic is likely to be a lot of fun for both of you, even if your debates take a frustrating turn!
Mars square Venus
There will be a certain amount of tension between you that makes your friendship frustrating for both of you. You'll feel attracted to your friend, but they'll also get under your skin in a big way. They're likely to think you're more than a little annoying. They may see the way you express yourself as tactless; your behavior in social situations could get on their nerves or even offend or embarrass them, even though you're simply being yourself. Part of what they're perceiving may be the simple fact that they care more than you do about what other people think. You may be less concerned with social grace than they are, and there's nothing wrong with that; but it does speak to the fact that certain basic personality differences between you will figure large in how you get along together.
Mars sextile Saturn
It's not that you two will find yourselves so similar; in fact, it's your very differences that will be the strength of this friendship. In a very real and measurable way, you'll help each other achieve your goals by bringing unique gifts to the mix. You have the drive, energy and original approach needed to get projects off the ground, and your buddy has the practicality and determination needed to see things through to the end. This will work well for your friendship in general, as well as in terms of creative projects if you decide to take some on together. Just make sure that the lines of communication stay open if you want to make the most of this potential. This aspect will lend a certain durability to your friendship. You'll depend on each other for the qualities that you lack on your own.
Mars square Neptune
You'll have to force yourselves to be completely honest and clear with each other; otherwise, your friendship will become entirely too muddied. That means no telling lies or fibs to each other, even 'harmless' little white lies. Passive-aggressiveness could become a problem between you, especially on your friend's side; they might purposely mislead you when they're not aware of their feelings, or even leave out information just to watch you struggle without it. Falseness in the opposite direction could occur as well: You might fake concern for their problems, but you'll have an ulterior motive. For best results, you must be careful from the start never to mislead each other or cover anything up. If you don't understand where your pal's coming from, just say so and go on from there.
Jupiter trine Mars
Together, you two will make things happen. You'll have an expansive effect on your friend's ambitions and drive; whatever they want, you'll help them go for it. You might serve as a mentor for them, if you've accomplished goals they're working toward themselves, or you could be their biggest cheerleader. Teamwork and mutual support will be a positive focus of your friendship. You'll work well together and your interactions will be lively. Your friend's drive and energy will inspire you, and your expansive ideas will push them to be bigger and better than they already are. You'll enjoy an active lifestyle, frequently exercising together or attending social events to network with all your friends and acquaintances. If you ever go into business together or simply tackle a project, you'll make a great working team, one with complementary strengths.
Jupiter square Venus
Though you'll share a mutual feeling of warmth, support and togetherness, there is a basic disagreement between your beliefs and your friend's values that will be problematic from time to time. It's likely that you'll both try to ignore these differences in the name of preserving the friendship; after all, there is a genuine fondness between you that you'll both want to maintain. You'll both want harmony, and you'll work together to attain it. But that may mean having to ignore differences that are there, just beneath the surface of your connection. At times, you'll find it hard to support each other's dreams because your beliefs and values are clashing. The best route here will be to find ways to appreciate and understand each other without trying to change each other at these deep levels.
Jupiter sextile Saturn
This influence is a nice one for a friendship, because it highlights two people's ability to work together toward a common goal. As buddies, your problem-solving strengths will be as useful in resolving an argument as they will in taking on a huge project together. You could even end up launching a major project together, such as a business. But whatever you decide to do, you'll have a natural gift for it. You'll combine your creative ideas with your pal's practical knowledge, and their ability to work long and hard with your intellectual ideas and vision of the future, and together, you'll make that hard work mean something. You'll come to each other for great advice and support. This aspect will support a deep and abiding feeling of friendship and trust between you that will help you work together well and communicate at a deep level.
Jupiter square Neptune
This friend will encourage the most idealistic parts of your nature, which sounds nice -- except that they could encourage you to step off the edge of the mundane world and into the stratosphere with them. While this will be fun and pleasurable and will make you feel a close kinship, it does present some problems. You'll be so idealistic when you're in contact with this person that you won't get much done in the way of tedious, day-to-day responsibilities. You tend to be indulgent and enthusiastic, while your pal is rather gullible and impressionable, and that can be a risky combination. You'll talk each other up, and it could be hard to come down again and face reality when it intrudes, which it will have a nasty habit of doing. This confusing effect will have to be faced and dealt with; otherwise you'll just mislead each other without even meaning to.
Saturn conjunct Pluto
This aspect might not be the easiest one to deal with, but it could strengthen your friendship. Just be aware that under the influence of this aspect, your friendship will be tested. Hard times could arise in your lives, forcing you to depend on each other in big ways -- much more than you might have anticipated. External circumstances will both test your bond and strengthen it. You'll end up surprising yourselves with how well you'll unite as a team and work together to come through the adversity in one piece. But this aspect could also take a different form; it could be that difficulties will come up within the friendship itself, and you'll each have to work hard on your own to meet the challenge. As a team, you've got lots of strength and grit.
Saturn trine Jupiter
You'll make a great friends, as your practical side blends nicely with your buddy's expansive nature. When you're feeling pessimistic about the future or overwhelmed by all the steps between you and a particular goal, your friend will lift you up with a dose of their natural optimism. When they're flying high, getting lost in the broad view or otherwise losing sight of reality, you'll be able to pull them back down to earth and ground them in what's tangible. Their vision will be matched by your life experience and practical knowledge of how the world works. What a team! Needless to say, this smooth combination of very different types of wisdom will work well in any project or problem-solving setting. Sometimes you might be overly mired in practicality, but you have a lot to learn from your friend's open-mindedness and their willingness to theorize and try new approaches.
I hope you have enjoyed the valuable insight, wisdom and guidance of this astrology report. You might be a little curious about astrology and perhaps wondering how an astrologer can know so much about you!
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