The Romance and Passion Meters: love can be complex, but I can break it down for you! Our special Romance and Passion Meters reads the composite chart between you and your sweetie, and reveal the levels of romance and passion in your relationship. Now you'll know at a glance whether things will be smooth sailing, an uphill battle -- or a roller coaster ride between you both.
Before you jump in, there's a trick to reading the meters. You might think you want a lot of sweet stuff and very little spice, but what you really want is a balance between the two. Just imagine: With all good feelings, pleasant times and nothing to break up the monotony, things would get pretty dull (yawn).
And too much passion can also ruin a relationship; without a little breathing room between fights and lusty encounters, you’d tire each other out, fast! Something in the middle is just the ticket.
A healthy dose of passion means strong physical attraction plus a good argument every now and then to... Read more
7-10 Over-the-top: diamonds and heartfelt declarations
4-6 Indulgent: flowers, chocolates, back rubs
0-3 Thrify: the occasional rose
7-10: Revved and ready, morning and night.
4-6: Up for it almost anytime
0-3: A bit shy and reserved
Sun: Your Heart and Soul in Love
Sun conjunct Venus
Love isn't just a possibility between you; it's very likely, especially if other aspects of your relationship agree on a positive, affectionate connection. From the start, there will be a sense of sweetness and tender devotion between you. You'll truly like each other, and if other conditi...
Sun conjunct Neptune
The image you project as a couple may have little to do with the reality behind that image. While you may appear on the surface to be the 'ideal couple,' that appearance may be far from the truth. And one or both of you could be very concerned about continuing to appear as this idealized, ...
Sun sextile Pluto
This relationship will be nothing if not emotionally intense. In fact, it will have a profound transformative effect on both of you. If you stay together for any length of time, it's almost impossible that you'll remain unchanged. You'll teach each other everything you know about life and ...
Sun square Jupiter
There will be a lot of restless, overblown energy between you, which you'll have to channel carefully if you want to avoid the more challenging potential of this influence. This aspect can produce a lot of instability in your relationship if you aren't careful. You'll focus a lot on develo...
Mercury: Wear Your Heart on Your SleeveMercury conjunct Venus
Talking about your feelings will be easy for you two. There will be a lot of affection between you, and expressing it in words will feel natural and right. Even when you're upset with each other, you'll both find ways to talk out your issues in a kind, sensitive way that won't disturb your...
Mercury conjunct Neptune
There are a couple of different ways this influence can go. In one case, you may find that your communication takes on a dreamy, unclear quality. You could have a lot of trouble being honest with each other. Even when you are direct, your partner may have trouble understanding what they're...
Mercury opposite Mars
Even if you're both ordinarily easygoing people, you'll get under each other's skin and become a lot more irritable through the course of this relationship. Perhaps in the beginning you'll start out arguing only about the important issues that come up between you, but the way you'll argue ...
Venus: The Key to Your HeartVenus conjunct Neptune
You'll put each other on a pedestal and idealize the love you find together. But will the ideal ultimately live up to the reality of your connection? In the beginning, this relationship will feel incredibly romantic to both of you. You'll go all gooey and weak in the knees whenever you get...
Venus sextile Pluto
Becoming involved in this relationship will mean a great deal of personal change for both of you -- but fortunately, it should be an easy process of personal evolution. You may not even notice the changes you're going through; you may only be conscious of the fact that your emotional conne...
Venus opposite Mars
You'll feel magnetically drawn to each other and you'll find it very hard to resist the pull. At an unconscious level, you may feel so mutually attracted because you'll each recognize that your lover has something you want and need in your own life; but at the conscious level, you'll just ...
Venus square Jupiter
Together you'll focus on beauty and pleasure, and you'll do what it takes to fill your shared life with these things. You'll love going out together for an expensive, lavish meal, or visiting an art gallery to find pieces you want to take home with you. You could easily spend a lot of mone...
Mars: What Turns You OnMars opposite Neptune
You'll both need to make a real effort to be completely honest and aboveboard with each other, and not to engage in power struggles or petty ego games. There will be too much tendency in this relationship to threaten, weaken and confuse each other at a deep, murky, emotional level; even 'l...
Jupiter: Confidence and Charisma
Jupiter trine Juno
Your mutual partnership needs will match up well with your shared interest in philosophy, learning, travel and other forms of expanding your minds. You'll both feel as if, on that level of intellectual and philosophical interests, you've found the type of partnership you're looking for, an...
Jupiter trine Saturn
This influence will bring two seemingly opposed energies at work within your relationship -- expansion and restriction -- into harmony with one another. Instead of being pitted against each other, these energies will work together to balance each other out. They can serve to keep each othe...
Jupiter square Neptune
You could find it difficult to stay grounded in this relationship, even if you're both ordinarily very practical. Something will happen when you're together that stimulates your idealistic sides, or perhaps your escapist tendencies, and you'll both find it hard to get back to reality. Toge...
Saturn: Hook, Line or Sinker?Saturn trine Juno
Your mutual needs for partnership and security within the relationship will be very well matched, which will make it easier for you both to build the kind of connection and commitment you're looking for. There will be constraints that come along with this, of course; you might both feel ob...
Uranus: Your Wild SideUranus conjunct Juno
It will be important for you two, as a couple, to determine how your relationship will be structured, completely apart from anyone else's expectations or 'rules.' The good news is, all you'll need to do is focus on your natural, innate partnership needs for a clue to making your relationsh...
Neptune: Rose Colored GlassesNeptune sextile PlutoYour intuitive, psychic awareness of each other will deepen over time. There will be plenty of times when you can tune in to each other's feelings without any need for words; you'll know just what your partner is thinking and feeling, simply by being ultra-aware of them at a spiritual or p...
Pluto: Primal Urges
Pluto unaspected
There is an intensity about you as a couple, and a certain mystery and charisma, accompanied by an aura of quiet power. This pairing has an internal force, a hidden treasure, and untapped depths. These are important qualities, but with nothing else to restrain or contain them, so they coul...
