The Inner War Zone, Projections and Relationship Karma Meters:
You want the nitty-gritty, right?
You're ready to know the real deal when it comes to your own true nature and psychological issues... the ones that prevent you from finding and holding on to that ideal love you dream of.
Reading your Love Life Remedy report will give you that in-depth picture, but these three meters show an at-a-glance view of the lessons you have yet to learn.
Remember, whether your scores on the meters are high or low, you're in good company: We ALL have plenty of emotional baggage that comes from past relationships, our childhoods, and even past lives.
And we ALL have a lot of room for improvement when it comes to changing our lives for the better and improving our relationships, including our love connections.
7-10 Repressed anger, defensiveness and a seriously short fuse can turn your love affairs into an all-out war.
4-6 You've got some issues and inner conflicts to work through, but who doesn't?
0-3 You're so laid back in your relationships it could actually be a problem.
7-10 Seeing all sides of every issue is actually a detriment. You don't know what to believe!
4-6 You know your own mind, but you can see their point too. That's a good thing.
0-3 You see your sweetie as they really are...but do you understand them?
7-10 It's beyond time to work through your baggage from past relationships, or even past lives. Try moving forward!
4-6 Some of your relationship issues have been around for a while. It's time to sort them out now.
0-3 Good news: It's not just a new affair with the same old story. But can you compromise?
Your relationship history is not unlike your house: It's littered with things you've started but not properly finished. Your little black book is full of names and numbers of people you've dated only once, because by the time they call you for a second date, you've moved on to the latest a...
No one can accuse you of speaking before you think. In fact, you ponder so long and hard about things that your response can be delayed for days. You're the type who thinks of twenty smartass replies, but not until the morning after! Witty repartee is certainly not your strong point, but o...
Everyone has their price, or so it's said. Yours comes not only in the form of money, but also good meals, fine wines, rich chocolate, red roses, sparkling jewels...you get the idea. You're a most sensual soul, enjoying earthly delights to the best of your ability. And you see nothing wron...
Once you get going, you're fine. But getting yourself out of bed in the morning? That's a different story! It can sometimes be a Herculean task. Unless, of course, your lover is making a nice breakfast for you. That makes it a lot easier! Nothing gets you moving faster than the idea of som...
Are you sitting down? Don't be shocked, but the emotional intimacy you crave can't come from sex alone. Oh, a wild night might give you a brief glimpse of that intensity of closeness that you seek, but truly profound relationships require an alignment of more than just body parts. If you'r...
You are so sure that there won't be enough (love, money, fill in the blank with anything you value) that you cling tenaciously to what little you do have and refuse to let it go. Funny thing is, both love and money like to flow, so when you've got a death grip on them, instead of flowering...
You and your generation are upsetting the apple cart when it comes to relationships: You're forging a whole new way of engaging with others on a romantic level. You've grown up to witness a huge surge in the divorce rate, and you resolved early on to do things differently from your parents...
You and your generation idealize freedom and adventure more than the stability of a single long-term relationship. You are much more likely to enjoy a series of relationships, often with people who are radically different from you -- perhaps people from another country or a completely diff...
You and your generation were born just before, spent your formative years in or came around just after the revolutionary 1960s, and in many ways, you carry forward this revolutionary energy into the future. You expect a lot from life and from your romantic partners; perfection would suit y...
You've always much preferred the easy route, haven't you? And while that gives you a laid-back personality and helps you get along with lots of different types of people, you're not much for standing up for yourself or your needs, and you may have stayed in relationships long past their ex...
Yakkity-yak-yak. That's you, a big ol' gas-bag full of opinions and thoughts and plans and musings, but very little in the way of real understanding of other people. No wonder you've got a string of relationship failures. Discussions about personal issues would soon turn into exchanges of ...
You're a person who likes to have a lot of fun with their partner. In the past, you've chosen lovers who were as intelligent, expansive and cheerful as you, and you liked people who had interests in common with yours. And that's a good thing. You've been part of some warm, dynamic duos tha...
Pity your past lovers, because you've been awfully hard to live with. You were constantly annoyed with them, viewing their dreamy, drifting nature as lazy and unmotivated. You demanded changes, but what you asked for was both unreasonable and unkind. You chose lovers who couldn't match you...
When you got together with your previous partners, you were seriously attracted to the seriousness you intuited in them. They were your match on an intellectual level, and you felt they could go the long haul with you. And you chose well; indeed, your sweeties were stable and trustworthy. ...
Are you willing to pay the price for love? Because the best love relationships are neither free nor easy. Let's start by sweating the small stuff, shall we? You've felt in the past that you and your lovers didn't speak the same language. You've had difficulty understanding each other's iss...
If your love life were a dining table, it'd be one of those long mahogany jobbies you see in the movies about awkward rich people. You'd be at one end, your lover at the other, and stretching between you would be a vast, unnavigable distance. You've had problems melding with past partners....
You're one who likes to handle your affairs with a light, sure touch. Others may swoon or weep in your wake, but you're the one on top, confident, smiling. That is, when you're not with a lover who flips your switch but good. Much as you hate to admit it, you keep getting lovers who do not...
Sometimes you feel like throwing in the towel on relationships. They are just too much work. The tensions you've had with past lovers were thick enough to cut with a knife, painful enough to make you scream. The problems you've experienced can be laid handily at the doors of the very diffe...